ITS BELLA
 

Hi everyone my name is bella and Im 18 I have alot of questions and hope that someone will be able to answer them for me I have basically choosing to stay as anonymous as possible because i dont want to be black balled before even having a chance to pledge so for now my name is only bella

Welcome bella!

Just an FYI -- punctuation (including apostrophes in contractions) is very helpful, especially if you want people to understand your questions. ;)

Periods won't hurt, either.

Please. This is not texting or facebook posting. We appreciate good grammar, spelling and punctuation and if you catch some of us in a bad mood we'll get pretty snarky about words like alot (not a word) and apart (used incorrectly most of the time).

However, your desire to remain anonymous is a healthy one. Read the threads and when asking questions, you at least need to provide which type of sorority you intend to join - NPC, NPHC, multicultural, service, local, etc., and generally what type of school you're attending. Answers can vary pretty widely based on if you are attending a small liberal arts college in the Northeast, an SEC, Big 10 or PAC 10 school. Just as a for instance. There are of course a lot more college categories than these. If you can provide a region and a general size (I'm attending a large Midwestern University) it will help and still keep you anonymous. Exact rush dates can be more of a giveaway than girls think, so keep that part to yourself as well if you're worried about complete anonymity.

And if you are interested in an NPHC sorority, I will tell you to not bother asking questions on Greekchat. Use the campus resources, national and regional website resources, and other sources of information that you are smart enough to find.

Welcome and good luck :)