Originally Posted by QuandraJ (Post 2088354)

First let me preface this by saying I am not greek affiliated in anyway other than one of my best friends is an Omega and im good friends with a few Deltas. I do support alot of the events that the Omegas as well as the Deltas sponsor.

I was reading an Omega thread earlier about Coleman Love. It was basically a debate about who calls who bruhs and how Omegas show love. The Deltas stood firm in saying they are the (my words) First ladies in the Omegas life. Here's my question. If you have a Omega, lets say been an Omega for a couple years, but he's married to an AKA for a few years longer than he's been an Omega, where does his loyalty lie. As an outsider, i would say his wife but after reading the thread, i havent a clue.
What say you...

Originally Posted by QuandraJ (Post 2088354)

First let me preface this by saying I am not greek affiliated in anyway other than one of my best friends is an Omega and im good friends with a few Deltas. I do support alot of the events that the Omegas as well as the Deltas sponsor.

I was reading an Omega thread earlier about Coleman Love. It was basically a debate about who calls who bruhs and how Omegas show love. The Deltas stood firm in saying they are the (my words) First ladies in the Omegas life. Here's my question. If you have a Omega, lets say been an Omega for a couple years, but he's married to an AKA for a few years longer than he's been an Omega, where does his loyalty lie. As an outsider, i would say his wife but after reading the thread, i havent a clue.
What say you...

Originally Posted by QuandraJ (Post 2088362)

LOL...joke right?

Originally Posted by BluPhire (Post 2088365)

Your question or my answer?

Originally Posted by QuandraJ (Post 2088367)

My question was legit. So of course you must mean your answer. Moving on....

Originally Posted by QuandraJ (Post 2088380)

Oh wow...really? Then he must not be totally committed to either because I dont think he'd give up his wife. But you have to wonder why if he knew that before he pledged, why he would do it. Its not like he's a younger guy fresh in or out of college.

Originally Posted by BluPhire (Post 2088384)

He may not have known. I didn't know about the marriage clause until afterwards.

Kinda hurts.

You should be able to marry who you love.

Originally Posted by BluPhire (Post 2088375)

My answer is legit.

I don't know why you are moving on. Coleman Love is strong, tell your friend he must divorce his wife. Delta will always be his first love, so it doesn't matter if he's been married to his AKA wife longer than he has been a Que, once he made that oath, it changed everything.

It's like Sigma and Zeta, they are CONSTITUTIONALLY Bound, which means any marriage with a non-Sigma or Zeta is not recognized as an official marriage.

Originally Posted by QuandraJ (Post 2088393)

Well i did what i should have did before posting and asked him. He asked if i was crazy lol Said something like he has his brand over his heart but his wife is up under the skin. I guess his wife meant it when she said, "The Deltas love da bruhs but da bruhs love da AKAs".

Originally Posted by QuandraJ (Post 2088401)

Damn, now he mad cuz i was having a little fun on here....