Originally Posted by SweetGirl20 (Post 2014918)

So i’m currently a interest for a latin sorority. Not going to mention which because don't want to give up to much info but I have found out certain things that have pushed me away from wanting to pledge, like that they haze and make the girls do certain things which i’m not with. I really want to be part of the sorority though but i feel like how can you possibly call girls that hit you in your face and haze you "sisters". I wish that the old way of pledging was still around. These are things I know have happened by the way.

I still want to do it, but i feel like i’m very undeceive at this point. I have a lot of negative and positive things about the sorority. but i feel that when being an interest one shouldn’t get treated as interest but as proper human beings. In my case i get treated as an interest. I know I'm supposed to get treated like one, but how do I come about knowing if I really want to be a part of this if they aren't treating me with respect?

I just wanted advice because i want to make the right choice. and although i really want to be part of this i’m afraid of making the wrong decision.

I’m also upset because my friend was an interest with me and she stopped being an interest because of the way the girls were treating her. I really wanted her to do it with me if i end up pledging, but i guess i cant count with her. I really understand her reason and feel like maybe i should stop too?

my other reason for not wanting to stop is that i feel like i have been an interest for a while, and seeing the other girls get put on line would upset me. I’ll probably feel like damn i could have been on that line too. Truth is i can see myself part of the sorority, but i feel hesitant in going through the process and being treated like crap. help someone?