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Originally Posted by courtmarie87 (Post 1924661)

Here is my story,
I go to Michigan State and I rushed in the fall and ended up doing a suicide on accident... I had no idea what I was doing rushing in the fall as a freshman. Needless to say I was heartbroken when I didn't get a bid... But I decided to not let it get to me and rush again in the spring. Well In the spring I went back to the house that I wanted a bid from but then decided I wanted a different house instead. I ended up getting a bid from the new house I liked and accepted it and went to the bid party and the first chapter meeting. However, after talking to my parents about it and my friends they all were not as excited about it as I was and my parents basically told me I had to pay for it all...mind you I'm a freshman working a minimum wage job... Being in a sorority was something I always wanted and after all that I felt like maybe I should just give up especially since I couldn't afford it even though I still wanted it. Also, at this new house that I accepted a bid from I didn't feel quite right there, I didnt feel like I fit in with the rest of my bid class and the older members. I thought it was just because it was all new so I took my friends advice who was in a frat to stick it out for a week or so, and did and still it didn't quite feel right. So after taking all this in the money aspect and the uncomfortable feeling I de=pleged. I really want to rush again not the same house and hopefully end up in the right one. I now can afford it since I have moved up on the job scale and have had time to save. My question is, is becuase I de-pledged are my chances hurt to get into another house? can I rush in the fall or do I have to wait till spring becuase I have heard that I can rush fall even though I got a bid but I have also heard that I cant. and last A house that I am interested in offered me a bid but I declined it for the house i de-pledged at... I think I may want that house instead but would they offer me another bid or not becuase I declined them once.

Any answers are appreciated.

If you depledged THIS spring (as in Spring 2010), you ARE NOT eligible for fall recruitment 2010.

You are not allowed to accept a bid until Spring 2011.

/Ladies - I promise to go back to my lane in a moment/

How do you "accidently suicide"? From what I have read on GC, recruitment counselors try very hard to talk pnms out of suiciding 1 chapter, so I am a bit dumbfounded.

No one told me that it would hurt my chances by only putting 2 houses instead of three down, so I only put 2 only later to find out that it does hurt your chances by doing os

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Originally Posted by courtmarie87 (Post 1924694)

No one told me that it would hurt my chances by only putting 2 houses instead of three down, so I only put 2 only later to find out that it does hurt your chances by doing os

The term "suiciding" refers to putting down one choice only.

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Originally Posted by courtmarie87 (Post 1924661)

can I rush in the fall or do I have to wait till spring becuase I have heard that I can rush fall even though I got a bid but I have also heard that I cant.

You can't.

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Originally Posted by courtmarie87 (Post 1924694)

No one told me that it would hurt my chances by only putting 2 houses instead of three down, so I only put 2 only later to find out that it does hurt your chances by doing os

Sorry, but...duh. That just seems like common sense to me that you have less of a chance of getting a bid if you limit your options.

So you gave it a week and dropped?

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Originally Posted by volleyball29 (Post 1936626)

Can I call BS? Why would you want to rerush if you didn't get a bid, then got one, and quit. You now want to do it again? If your bottom choice is out of 3 how do you expect other houses to even give you a chance if they didn't the first two?

If you are not a random troll, you are a freshman who has yet to go through recruitment yet.

You need to back away from the keyboard because you have no clue what on Earth of what you are talking about.

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Originally Posted by volleyball29 (Post 1936626)

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Originally Posted by volleyball29 (Post 1936631)

I have the random knowledge to know if you go through 3 times you suck to put it in a nice way. I can see a second time but why did you accept a bid if you are just gonna quit after a week?? You can't know them after only a week and if you don't fit in that early then how many houses are you going to pledge before you find the one you fit in at?

You suck and I'm not trying to put it the nice way.

Um, she's not stalking your posts.

They are in this thread. lol.

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Originally Posted by volleyball29 (Post 1936646)

Stop stalking every post I make creeper.

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Originally Posted by volleyball29 (Post 1936650)

Every post I make she comments on. There are lots of other people posting that she can remark on and not mine.

Yer dumb kid. It's called quoting for posterity. Also, yer dumb.

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Originally Posted by KSUViolet06 (Post 1936647)

Um, she's not stalking your posts.

They are in this thread. lol.

Yeah I had to stalk really far. I had to hit the new posts button and EVERYTHING.

I'm just waiting for the ban now.

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Originally Posted by volleyball29 (Post 1936626)

Shut your putrid flapping pie hole, you brain damaged pig. No one believes anything you say. You are a complete fail at being a troll, no matter what name or persona you use. Go crawl back to that cold lonely life you live underneath that bridge.

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Originally Posted by volleyball29 (Post 1936626)

Can I call BS?

Hmmm. Two threads on Michigan State you've weighed in on now.

Can I call BS on you? :rolleyes:

What is Regina.George supposed to be?