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GreenEyedCutie 12-17-2009 09:39 AM

Is it Worth It?
 
I am a freshman and would love to join a sorority in the Spring semester. Unfortunately, I feel like my dream will never become reality. I am an African American and all my values match that of a NPC sorority. One African American has already gotten into a NPC sorority on campus, but she is very outgoing. She has something special to offer, while I don't. I have been told that I am one of the shiest that anyone will ever meet. Even though my GPA is great and have done quite a bit of community service, I still feel like rushing would be totally pointless for someone like me. With those two things against me, should I even bother with trying to join?

Ch2tf 12-17-2009 09:48 AM

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Originally Posted by GreenEyedCutie (Post 1875936)
I am a freshman and would love to join a sorority in the Spring semester. Unfortunately, I feel like my dream will never become reality. I am an African American and all my values match that of a NPC sorority. One African American has already gotten into a NPC sorority on campus, but she is very outgoing. She has something special to offer, while I don't. I have been told that I am one of the shiest that anyone will ever meet. Even though my GPA is great and have done quite a bit of community service, I still feel like rushing would be totally pointless for someone like me. With those two things against me, should I even bother with trying to join?

Well, I mean, if your campus quota is only one black NPCer at a time, then yes, I think you're wasting your time.:rolleyes:

And if you feel like you have nothing special to offer, then the least of your worries is whether or not you'll get a bid.

Senusret I 12-17-2009 10:03 AM

Don't listen to that meanie Ch2tf. She's a hater.

I'm sure one of the NPC sororities would love to take another black. You'll never be allowed to live-in, though, and you'd have to enter the house through the rear.

agzg 12-17-2009 11:59 AM

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Originally Posted by Senusret I (Post 1875944)
I'm sure one of the NPC sororities would love to take another black. You'll never be allowed to live-in, though, and you'd have to enter the house through the rear.

:eek:

I suppose it's better than entering a hose in your rear (which is what I saw at first glance).

KSUViolet06 12-17-2009 12:04 PM

Wow. I am really glad that I graduate in 2 days and as such, am free to witness GC threads like this one.

Some serious advice though: If you spend your time wondering about whether it's "worth it," you FOR SURE aren't going to get a bid (that requires actually trying, you know).


WVU alpha phi 12-17-2009 12:04 PM

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Originally Posted by Senusret I (Post 1875944)
Don't listen to that meanie Ch2tf. She's a hater.

I'm sure one of the NPC sororities would love to take another black. You'll never be allowed to live-in, though, and you'd have to enter the house through the rear.

Is it really inappropriate that I laughed when I read this?

33girl 12-17-2009 12:06 PM

As long as you keep putting yourself down and hanging around jerks who say things like you are the shyest person they ever met - you won't get a bid from ANY sorority, no matter if you're black or white.

Senusret I 12-17-2009 12:08 PM

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Originally Posted by WVU alpha phi (Post 1875977)
Is it really inappropriate that I laughed when I read this?


Satire: We laugh at the absurdity of the racism, not the racism itself. ;)

agzg 12-17-2009 12:09 PM

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Originally Posted by 33girl (Post 1875979)
As long as you keep putting yourself down and hanging around jerks who say things like you are the shyest person they ever met - you won't get a bid from ANY sorority, no matter if you're black or white.

I know this was a somewhat serious response, but for whatever reason I read this in a "as long as you're my baby it don't matter if you're black or white" tune.

Senusret I 12-17-2009 12:11 PM

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Originally Posted by agzg (Post 1875974)
:eek:

I suppose it's better than entering a hose in your rear (which is what I saw at first glance).

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Originally Posted by agzg (Post 1875983)
I know this was a somewhat serious response, but for whatever reason I read this in a "as long as you're my baby it don't matter if you're black or white" tune.

You are straight trippin today! LOL

33girl 12-17-2009 12:12 PM

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Originally Posted by agzg (Post 1875983)
I know this was a somewhat serious response, but for whatever reason I read this in a "as long as you're my baby it don't matter if you're black or white" tune.

I was going back & forth between that and "Vogue." However, in rush it does matter if you're a boy or a girl.

agzg 12-17-2009 12:13 PM

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Originally Posted by Senusret I (Post 1875984)
You are straight trippin today! LOL

You're right - I'm a little giggly - I think it's because live-in and I had a spat before bed last night so I slept in the guest room and didn't sleep that well. :(

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I was going back & forth between that and "Vogue." However, in rush it does matter if you're a boy or a girl.
Well, if you don't end up rushing it might not matter if you're a boy or girl. I'm not sure where I was going with that thought.

Ch2tf 12-17-2009 11:52 PM

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Originally Posted by agzg (Post 1875983)
I know this was a somewhat serious response, but for whatever reason I read this in a "as long as you're my baby it don't matter if you're black or white" tune.

Me too. As soon as I read the words, the song popped into my head!

tld221 12-18-2009 02:21 PM

GreenEyedCutie, you know, they may not even realize you're black. just throwing that out there. if they dont bring it up, you shouldnt either.




im so looking forward to the potential of this thread.

AXiDMeesh 12-18-2009 02:31 PM

GreenEyedCutie,
I think you should go for it. You never know what's gonna happen until you try! There are lots of black girls in NPC sororities (that I know of anyway). Also what TLD221 said. I hope that if you do decide to go through recruitment you'll find your home :)


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