i really really want to be in a sorority!!
 

hey so like one of my friends told me tht you guys on this website will answer all of my greek relaed qustions, so here goes:::

i go to Alabama and im a freshman and i reallly wanted to rush but i got waaaaay too intinidated bc all of the sorority girls there are really beautiful and i always thought of myself as gorgeous, thats what everybody in highschool said, and well i pretty much got scared and didnt go thru rush. now 1 of my best friends in high school joined a sorority and i feel like were not firneds anymore and if i join a different house than her ill make her feel bad. so i really want to be in a top house. i mean im prettier than her so it shouldnt be too hard right? and i make semigood grades and ive always been able to get guys so that should help too right?? anyway i guess my question is should i rush in the spring or the fall?? what do u guys recommend as far as when i should rush and which top house i should aim for??

thanks in advance,
aimee

*prays this is a troll*

um idk what that is...

This is retarded.

QFP.

I strongly suggest that you stop worrying about what top house to aim for and instead (1) focus on your education so that you can write coherently and (2) grow up.

ETA: I, too, pray that this is a troll and not for real.

i <3 myself...(this is just my opinion)...i think you should not worry so much about what your friend is doing. It's not about what a sorority can do for you but what can you bring to their values. You should find out what the divine nine is really about before you jump into it. Find out who you are first, then think what do you have to offer. I sound like you have the wrong mind set about sororities. They are more than just letters, sounds, colors, and pretty faces. A sorority stand for something and if you can't contribute to what they stand for I think you should rethink joining. Again, that's just my opinion.

me thinks I <3 myself loves herself so much she recreated herself as missdynamic.

and re: OP... seriously?

Given that she refers to "rush" and "houses," I think she's talking about NPC sororities, not Divine 9 sororities.

tld221<-------don't do me boo....i'm only one person although I have many haters and people who want to be like me, there is only one me. If you have something to say to me or about me you can talk to me but don't declare me as being a duplicate.

That original post might be the best one I've read on GC in a longggg time.

MysicCat<-----I am not in a sorority therefore, I only gave my opinion. I think the girl have the wrong outlook. That's how I was brought up. And I refered to the divine nine because all of sororities/fraturnities have their own traditions, values, etc. I was telling her to research.

MysticCat<-------you right she probably was refering to that. my apologies

I agree. I really needed a good laugh.

...so you should let those who are tackle this. Thanks.

kight shadow----Last time I checked this was a free website and I have freedom of speech. If it was that much of a problem the site should have been restricted. But I will continue to speak my mind, Thank you for your advice tho.