Why are good men so hard to find?
 

Can anybody tell me where all the good men are? They are definitely not here in the Midwest, specifically Kansas. Are there any specific greek men that greek women out there prefer: A Nupe, Sigma, Alpha, Q, or an Iota?

Re: Why are good men so hard to find?
 

What's wrong with a Phi Tau, I know I am good man, don't count out the non BGLO, there are plenty of good man who are greek. Keep that in mind :)


Phi Tau fo life,
D

why are good men so hard to find
 

their probably hard to find because their all with their high school sweethearts:) you'll find a good man you just have to find him in a good place.

Re: Why are good men so hard to find?
 

That depends on your definition of good. What qualities are you looking for?

As for preference, my husband isn't greek. He isn't even American, so I looked high and low for someone who complimented me. :D But as far as friends are concerned, of my male friends who were greek, most were Sigmas and Alphas.

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After looking at these photos from your chapter I'd have to second your emotion, D! ;)

I'm amazed (and pleased) to see so much diversity in one chapter.

There is a deficit of good men on the Missouri side too. They're always married, :rolleyes: or have a gang of kids, :rolleyes: or they just have too many issues. :rolleyes:

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Well thank you very much. I can only imagine how hard it is to be a finner woman :) I know a lot of Zeta Phi Beta's here at Long Beach, they crossed last semester. They are always representing, and livin true to finer womenhood. Take care and God Bless

Fraternally,
Ricky

Living in SoCal, below Los Angeles, there definitely is a dearth of quality men. My definition of quality man is good human being, educated (whether degree or self) and with a respectable job. And NO BABY MOMMA ISSUES. I practice self-control and I expect a man to do the same.

I hear you :) it's like that with the woman as well.. There all cute and pretty on the outside but the inside they are a bunch of stuck up spoiled brats. I can be just ranting though... :)

:( True Soror! They are either all gay, or with a woman outside their race. I'm tired of being lonely. I am a Bluitul woman with a lot going for me. Guys are a bit intimidated. I'm not the best looking person, but I get a lot of compliments daily. I'm not arrogant, but very humble. What is the problem? <img src=http://members.blackplanet.com/michlala14/redmich.jpg>

If it's any constilation, If you were in Cali, I would hook it up, you sound like you know what's goin down. Keep it up sista, somebodies smart enough to realize a good person when they see one

Fraternally,
Ricky

They are out there

This is SO not true, Soror. I'm sorry. What gets me is that women will say things like this about men and then turn around and wonder where all the "good" men are.


I'm not picking on you, so please don't take it that way. Not all good men are gay. My husband isn't. My husband is with someone of another race - namely me. But I decided a long time ago not to limit myself in terms of finding a suitable partner.

I'm sorry to hear you're lonely. I've been there - trust me. But I never, never fell prey to looking outside for answers/people to blame. Good men, honest and honorable men ARE available. It'll take a shift in our attitudes not to scare them off.

I couldn't have said that better myself. I recently decided not to limit myself and I too still believe that Good, Honest men are still available.

My question is why are you looking when he is to search for you??

A virtuous woman need not to worry about what he looks like or what credentials he's accomplish - but how he complements your life and the same vice-versa!!