If/When to accept a bid during open recruitment...
 

Long story short...I went through formal recruitment and wasn't placed. (The first part of my story is even on here under a different name, but I had to change my ID for discretion's sake.) So, I put my application in for Open Recruitment. Greek Affairs said that 7-8 sororites participate in open recruitment, but they all do it on their own time frame.

Out of over a dozen sororities on campus, only one doesn't have house. They are also the only one that doesn't do formal recruitment, instead they do their own recruitment the week school starts.

This house-less sorority invited me to a recruitment event and I went.
I was the only PNM there! :eek: I am a bit worried about the fact that there isn't a house because I think it would cause me to really miss out on a lot that sorority life has to offer. But, my biggest concern was that they had a representative there from their national organization that did most of the talking. Is the lack of pmn's and presence of a national rep a red flag that the chapter is at risk of being removed by nationals (or something to that effect)? I got the impression that they would offer me a bid later on, but I am not too fond of joining a chapter that seems to be only a possibility on my campus in years to come. If it matters, they were alredy closed once on my campus and had to be re-chartered.

So, do I accept this *possible* bid now or decline in hopes that one of the other 6-7 (stronger?) sororities will invite me to recruitment events in the future?

I would appreciate any advice given!

Did you actually meet any of the collegiate members?
Do you like them?
Do you feel comfortable asking them what their status is?
I think that with their situation, they should expect that PNMs may have questions regarding the likelihood that their chapter will be there in one- four years.
If you are having these kinds of reservations, do some research, ask some questions before signing up. What's the worst that can happen? They don't give you a bid? Of course, be polite about it.

I agree with the above.

Honestly, maybe you should go back and talk to some more people. It seems a little weird to have someone from national doing most of the talking, but , the only concern I have with that is how the heck are you going to know if you like the girls in the sorority?

I would check it out a little more, maybe you could even ask if they are getting a house. Who knows, maybe they are in between right now, they could be getting a house bought or built for them that would be beautiful! Chapters go through transitions some years, and its really hard on them, its good to have an open mind.

We send HQ reps to every single chapter in the country at some point during the year. Many of them end up at a chapter during a COB event without that being pre-planned. I don't see that as a red flag.

I do think you're putting the cart before the horse. IF they offer you a bid, then worry about it. They will probably want to meet you more than once before offering you a bid anyway. So, you will also get more time to get to know them and make up your mind.

Relax!