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jennamarie91 02-19-2009 08:58 PM

ok. so i get that you cant join 2 NPCs or NPHCs. but....
 
???

knight_shadow 02-19-2009 09:05 PM

http://www.greekchat.com/gcforums/sh...al+memberships

The rules are going to vary from group to group. Some may take you, while others will stay away since you'd have a history of jumping ship.

Unregistered- 02-19-2009 09:09 PM

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Originally Posted by jennamarie91 (Post 1781927)
what about if you joined a local...and you made the wrong decision...can you join another sorority(other than another local AT YOUR SCHOOL), not an NPC or NPHC?...like a multicultural or sorority from another greek council? i know i asked something kind of like this, but not exactly this question before...but im just so confused because, they are from completely different greek councils. and it sucks that i made a mistake; and that mistake might really ruin my chances of joining the right sorority, or even the rest of my years at my school. :( but i really dont feel like its my fault that my sorority just cares about numbers than about sisterhood! thats all i wanted, and now im unhappy, and i just wish i could get another chance.

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Originally Posted by knight_shadow (Post 1781933)
http://www.greekchat.com/gcforums/sh...al+memberships

The rules are going to vary from group to group. Some may take you, while others will stay away since you'd have a history of jumping ship.

There was a lot of good advice given to you in your first thread as well.

http://greekchat.com/gcforums/showthread.php?p=1780744

knight_shadow 02-19-2009 09:13 PM

Ditto what OTW said.


What's up with all the "I made a bad decision" threads recently?

DrPhil 02-19-2009 09:16 PM

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Originally Posted by knight_shadow (Post 1781938)
Ditto what OTW said.


What's up with all the "I made a bad decision" threads recently?

"It's Spring, again. Everybody knows it's Spring again...."

Unregistered- 02-19-2009 09:17 PM

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Originally Posted by knight_shadow (Post 1781938)
Ditto what OTW said.


What's up with all the "I made a bad decision" threads recently?

"I made a bad decision" threads usually pop up right around now. It's over a month into the semester and rush ended not too long ago or just ended. It happens right around September/October as well. :)

knight_shadow 02-19-2009 09:18 PM

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Originally Posted by jennamarie91 (Post 1781940)
YES, THERE WAS. BUT IM JUST ASKING ABOUT LIKE IN GENERAL...D
do you guys know of any people that have left local sororities, and joined other ones?

It doesn't matter if we know anyone. IT DEPENDS ON THE GROUP YOU'RE TRYING TO JOIN.

(see, I can type in caps, too)

DrPhil 02-19-2009 09:21 PM

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Originally Posted by jennamarie91 (Post 1781940)
YES, THERE WAS. BUT IM JUST ASKING ABOUT LIKE IN GENERAL...D
do you guys know of any people that have left local sororities, and joined other ones?

Yes.

Now go talk to some real life people to see if the particular NPC or NPHC chapters of interest are receptive to that. :)

Unregistered- 02-19-2009 09:21 PM

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Originally Posted by jennamarie91 (Post 1781940)
YES, THERE WAS. BUT IM JUST ASKING ABOUT LIKE IN GENERAL...D
do you guys know of any people that have left local sororities, and joined other ones?

You don't have to scream.

I left my local and joined my NPC. However, I was not initiated into the local.

It doesn't matter if we know people who left local sororities and joined other ones. What you can't seem to understand is that people's experiences are DIFFERENT. Membership policies VARY from one organization to another. We don't know the rules of your current organization. We don't know the rules of the other groups on campus you're considering.

Get out of your self pity already. Now that you know you've made a mistake, what are you going to do about it? Cry "poor me" online? What good will that do for you?

knight_shadow 02-19-2009 09:34 PM

CAPS = SCREAMING

just for future reference

Good luck.

DrPhil 02-19-2009 09:39 PM

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Originally Posted by jennamarie91 (Post 1781948)
I WASNT SCREAMING. IM SURE OF THAT.
ANYWAYS THANKS.
NO NEED TO BE RUDE. I WAS JUST ASKING FOR ADVICE.
SO, IM A FRESHMAN WHO MADE A STUPID DECISION,
BUT IM SURE IM NOT THE FIRST, THATS WHY I WAS ASKING.
&& I HAVE BEGUN TO DO MY RESEARCH AND ASK "REAL PEOPLE".
I WAS SIMPLY ASKING BECAUSE ALL I KEEP SEEING IS THIS NO
DUAL MEMBERSHIP STUFF, SO I WONDERED IF THAT APPLIED
FOR LOCALS ALSO. BUT OK.

LOL

Unregistered- 02-19-2009 09:42 PM

Quote:

Originally Posted by jennamarie91 (Post 1781948)
I WASNT SCREAMING. IM SURE OF THAT.
ANYWAYS THANKS.
NO NEED TO BE RUDE. I WAS JUST ASKING FOR ADVICE.
SO, IM A FRESHMAN WHO MADE A STUPID DECISION,
BUT IM SURE IM NOT THE FIRST, THATS WHY I WAS ASKING.
&& I HAVE BEGUN TO DO MY RESEARCH AND ASK "REAL PEOPLE".
I WAS SIMPLY ASKING BECAUSE ALL I KEEP SEEING IS THIS NO
DUAL MEMBERSHIP STUFF, SO I WONDERED IF THAT APPLIED
FOR LOCALS ALSO. BUT OK.

SMH.

CAPS LOCK = screaming on the internet.

And if you think my earlier post was rude, then I feel sorry for you.

jennamarie91 02-19-2009 09:47 PM

ok. im over this asking for help on here...since its obviously not getting me anywhere. thanks every one. i will let you know when i leave the sorority. bye

jennamarie91 02-19-2009 09:48 PM

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Originally Posted by DrPhil (Post 1781943)
Yes.

Now go talk to some real life people to see if the particular NPC or NPHC chapters of interest are receptive to that. :)

wait....i didnt say i was interested in an NPC or NPHC?

knight_shadow 02-19-2009 09:49 PM

Quote:

Originally Posted by jennamarie91 (Post 1781955)
ok. im over this asking for help on here...since its obviously not getting me anywhere. thanks every one. i will let you know when i leave the sorority. bye

You need a thicker skin. Quit crying.

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Originally Posted by jennamarie91 (Post 1781956)
wait....i didnt say i was interested in an NPC or NPHC?

Fine. Go talk to some multicultural groups in real life.


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