Prop 8 Nov. 15 Protest
 

Ok, so today there will be protests across the nation... I am a news junkie, and I have heard a lot of issues regarding reactions to this proposition... anywho, I am curious how this protest will go in other towns...

I will be there here in San Francisco taking lots of pictures.

I support gay marriage... but this is getting a bit crazy... there is a blacklist in California of all the people that donated towards the ban... this one dude lost his job because of his donation... that is a little extreme, then again, so were the commercials for the ban...

I tried to go. i mean I did. I got there just after they finished. I guess I have trouble noticing the correct time of events :o. It was sad. I made such a pretty poster. It said "Str8 against H8" with the 8s in rainbow patterns.

It was so funny because when we went to get a henna tatoo down on South Beach before going home we were telling the guy how we missed our protest and he's like "Oh, I'm so sorry you and you girlfriend missed it." And my little sister was like, "No, she's my sorority big sis! Neither of us are gay!" :p

well, I heard that there were 40,000 in SanFran... which is a hell of a lot me thinks...

They should have put these resources into lobbying and campaigning instead of protesting after the fact

I think it's going to be some time before the majority of the people are willing to consider the idea of gay marriage in most localities. In 2004, Michigan voters passed the amendment to define marriage as "between one man and one woman" and we're a very blue state too.

I think we need to get rid of the term marriage altogether, except as a religious ceremony. Make the license for EVERYBODY say "Civil Union License" and make the rights the same as they are for marriage currently. This would be your legal version of marriage. The religious version would be up to the churches entirely, just like Baptism or other ceremonies are. The only thing is, I don't like the term civil union itself because I'm not sure what you would say "We're getting unionized" doesn't seem like a logical term to me. "We're getting civilized" doesn't work either. "We're being civil unionized"? "We're being partnered" ??? I just don't know what to really call it so that it makes sense. Take the religion completely out of the legal aspect of the whole thing. Then the government is allowing the same thing for any consenting adult and the churches can do what they want. The more I think about this, the more I think this is the way to go. It seems ridiculous to have to spend the kind of money it would take to do this when there is already a legal institution in place, but the term "marriage" has too many religious connotations to too many people at this point. This would better solidify a separation of church and state.

agree with you totally. what if another church want to marry gay couple? isn't it their right to follow their own doctrine as a religion. one church do not want to marry gay couple, it's also their right to follow their own doctrine.

government and religion should not be in one camp, government should only recognized civil union for administrative purposes.

The Roman Catholic Church refuses to marry people for all sorts of reasons. I understand that one of the big issues people had was that they were worried that churches would be forced to marry gay couples or face law suits. If the RCC can deny people getting married because they are divorced, pregnant, not members of the church, etc, then they can deny it for people who are gay.

I keep hearing people say that civil unions do not carry the same rights as marriage but where do civil unions even exist to make that statement? I've heard of states that are allowing gay marriage. I've heard of states that do not. I've not heard of any states that have civil unions. Perhaps it's my own lack of research/awareness. It just seems like the most logical thing to me, to have the government recognize civil union for legal/administrative/tax purposes and have marriage remain solely in the church.

There was one in my city yesterday that some of my friends attended. It was a protest for my state's similar amendment, but it would work for 8 as well. I was unable to attend because I was conducting a program at work that got a lot of people.

SECOND!!

Hear, hear!

Why can't we have a "civil union" between members of opposite sexes? (In fact, that's what my "marriage" is - we were married by a Judge in Colorado, in a "civil service").

No religious organization that I know of will perform "marriage" ceremonies without a civil license.

Look how many companies will allow an individual to provide "same sex domestic partner" benefits, yet my office mate cannot cover her long-time live-in boyfriend, because he's not same-sex and they're not married.

Recognizing marriages/unions for what they are -- contracts -- would go a long way.

Yep. But I ask, what interest does the state have in civil unions either, especially ones without kids?

Why not do away with it all from a civil perspective and offer government benefits of union only to those with children currently living at home?

My company does the same thing. I don't have a problem with it because if my state recognized gay marriage or even civil unions (which we don't - our ban prohibits both actual marriage and "a legal status identical or substantially similar to that of marriage"), my company would require that same-sex couples be married or in a civil union in order to have the partner receive benefits. As it is now, they have to have been in a committed relationship for >1 year and sign an affidavit stating more or less, "We'd be married if we could." Our HR folks were talking about rewriting the policy if our ban failed and gay marriage or civil unions were legalized. Alas, even my blue state is full of bigots.

I second the motion for the government to get out of the marriage business entirely.