Okay to ogle at skankily clad women?
 

I have a friend who dresses somewhat provacatively. Always showing cleavage and wearing tight low-rise jeans, yet she gets mad when people check her out. She says she feels violated.

I had a professor in grad school who was forty, but fine! She always wore these go-go boots (shit you not), tight skirts, and well fitting shirts that accentuated her Grade A titties. Towards the end of last semester, she confessed that she recieves unwanted attention from her male students on occasion.

I know several women who show a LOT of skin on Myspace, but get upset when men send them messages trying to pick them up.

Should women dress however they want, and have the right not to be stared at or get hit on?

I always figured the skimpy myspace pics were for attention. To hell with them wanting to be left alone. I'm not buying it.

I second. If you put yourself out there, people will expect you to put yourself out

Women (and men) should dress however they want and be man/woman enough to deal with he consequences.

You have to wonder what their moms would say 'bout such ho-like poses, too. You see girls who you know act like such good girls to mom. But, they look like $50 tramps online.

But, neither is bad as a post-college MySpace ho! :mad:

This thread is useless without pictures.

It is okay to ogle these types of women.

Has anyone ever seen the episode of the Simpsons where Apu moves in with the Simpsons after losing the Kwik E Mart? He stacks the corn on the counter, Marge questions his method, and then as he predicts, Bart and Lisa meander in and decide that corn is just what they felt like eating at that exact moment.(Yeah, I know this is kinda random).

It's just like that. You are displaying goods. You are advertising. People are going to want to look at them. If you don't want someone to see your goodies, put them away.

How else do streetwalkers find work? They go and stand on the corner with something (hopefully, but not always) enticing hanging out.

Now touching, no. Hands off unless invited. But people can look all they want, and you can't stop them.

I def. agree if you wear a revealing top you cannot get mad at anyone for making suggestive comments. If you don't want to be oogled don't reveal your goods.

I honestly know a few women that dress that way and feed off of the compliments but then act offended because they don't want people to think that they really do enjoy it

oogling is fun, i do it all the time.
 

:lightbulb: when i feel like attracting attention, i wear clothes that do such. of course im sure i could get similar attention without exposing all sorts of T&A, but nothing says hey-yo like a low-cut top and jeans that fit just right. or less.

and to take this slightly off-topic, when you put the goods out there, so to speak, people assume that its up for the taking at their leisure. and then comes that whole grey area of rape/sexual harassment and "was she asking for it?" angle.

(i know the PC answer is that rape is wrong 110% of the time, however, i seriously believe that one has to take preventative measures. you dont go out in the winter without a hat and scarf and not expect to get sick, right? and i know a cold is NOT the same as inappropriate touching or rape, but again, preventative measures. just keep the tatas in if you dont want any possibility of some freak reaching out and touching you.)

Has anyone seen "Luke's Parental Advisory" on VH1... LOL...

It's one thing when your child under 18 years old does it (if you let them), it's another when an "adult" wants to "entertain" folks...

I think it's the thrill of power one gets by that unwanted attention, but scary when that attention borders violence. And the whole thing is the person may be insecure by dressing that way in professional environments, unless the environment is "Adult XXX Entertainment" or "The Track"... LOL

For every skanky outfit, there is an equal and opposite ogle. It's just the law.

Don't advertise if you don't want customers.

A few years ago I was watching a very old rerun of Happy Days where Joanie is 'trying her wings' by dressing a bit provocatively. Things are getting a bit out of hand when the Fonz steps in and runs off the offensive creeps. He then tells her that while it is her right to dress the way she wants to she has to understand that if you send out advertisement you cannot be upset if someone answers the ad.
My sister, who is very strongly into taking responsibility for yourself in all matters commented that, yeah, she can dress which ever way she wants but she has to remember that "tacky is as tacky does".
My Dad told us that way back in the day a very attractive woman was often described as "tough" or "tough as a 50 cent steak" He and Mom were walking down the street and saw a georgeous but really provocatively dressed woman. Dad said wow, she is tough. Mom replied, Cheap meat usually is.

My thoughts on the matter are that if a woman dresses to be looked at it seems almost bad manners not to look.
My sisters comment was that if a woman cant attract a man by being attractive rather than provocative then she better turn in her membership card to the Femme Fatale club. (She is the one who thinks that 'tacky' should be a capital offense).

I def. agree with the whole " tacky is as tacky does", women cannot expect to dress provactively and not expect to get hit on that's like wearing flip flops but getting mad when everyone stares at your feet...

Don't advertise what you're not willing to sell

I say the same thing about girls who make out with other girls to attract guys' attention. If that's what it takes to get a guy to look at you, then honey, you are hurting.

But yeah, it kills me when people put freaky deaky pics on myspace then act shocked when it ends up all over the internet. Just because it's "your" space doesn't mean no one else can see it.

LMBO!!

i don't think it's "ok" to oogle women, but if you're wearing booby shirts and skirts 4-inches long, I think you should at least walk outside knowing that there is about a 99.9% chance that you're going to get oogy looks.

Do any of you get ogled? Or do you not? We need to know where the cattiness and anger comes from.

-Rudey

Dave Chapelle on scantily clad women...
 

Do moms ever look at their daughter's profile? Because some pics I have seen would shock most moms who think their girl is such a sweetie. My faves are people who put up bikini contest pics...

Bikini contests? Gross.

I love your mom and sister. Are they by any chance Gamma Phis? :)

it screams "jet beauty of the week" to me.

*scream*

No you didn't! lol

This reminds me of a girl I saw on MySpace, contestant number on her hip and all. All her profile pictures so far have been of her tits and ass falling out of her skimpy bikini. Apparently she's an XO who transferred to UGA from another school in the South. :eek:

I think I saw the same girl. Her status thing said she was going to be an aunt, and all I could think about was how her family should keep her far away from children looking like that! She's half naked in her pic. (If this is the same girl...)

Bump!

Denitra Jenkins is 26 years old from Flint, Michigan. She is an accounts receivables specialist for a neighborhood health clinic. In her spare time Denitra likes to cook, watch basketball, spend time with her family and long walks on the beach.

:insert a random black woman in a scantily clad bikini, probably cherry red or Newport orange with bright lipstick and a late 80s/early 90s hairstyle:

he lied to us through song!
 

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Thanks SWTXBelle, They do have a way with words!
Sorry, Mom is a DZ and Sis is a Pi Phi. I believe one of my Mom's closest friends is a Gamma Phi, they go way back to grade school together. I'll ask next time I drop over to freeload dinner and find out for sure.

well that goes without saying. +1 point if chick is wearing doorknocker earrings or standing in front of a sunset backdrop, real or staged.

Red Onion wet t-shirt contest to me.

Time for a bump? OK!

Funny...

Her momma must have said something because her last two profile pics have been free of tits and ass.