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Malky876 04-30-2008 07:29 PM

Rushing in the North
 
So, obviously rushing in the northern half of the united states, particularly the Midwest, is completely different from rushing in the Southern half. The main difference is that we rush to pledge the young men in, rather than the young men rushing to join us. It is a much, much, MUCH more difficult process.

Well my fraternity is running into a bit of a hard place currently. Our numbers are the lowest they have ever been and we can't seem to catch a break anywhere. Dorm storming is illegal on campus, and campus authorities are pretty much unresponsive to everything we do thats not illegal.

What I am writing this thread about is any assistance possible for rushing, ideas, suggestions, pretty much anything. Mainly ideas to try to dramatically change the way we think about rushing. Everything around here is very stagnant and I think there needs to be a dynamic change.

Any assistance would be very welcome.

Greg Malcolm
Guard
Kappa Sigma
Nu Zeta

violetpretty 04-30-2008 09:52 PM

Tell us a little more about your school's IFC and your chapter. How many fraternities are there? How big are they? Do any fraternities have houses? Does your chapter have a house? How is fraternity rush structured at your school? Can first-semester freshmen pledge or is rush deferred? What sorts of events/techniques have you been using? What would you say is your chapter's problem (image, lack of visibilty, etc.)? It's really hard to give advice to a struggling chapter without knowing anything else.

ETA: If Good Guys is anything like I Heart Recruitment, it has good advice on how to meet potential members and introduce them to your brotherhood, rather than having rush events and hoping that great potential members just magically appear and are dying to join your chapter.

nittanyalum 04-30-2008 09:56 PM

Based on his signature, he's at the University of Wisconsin-Oshkosh

http://www.uwosh.edu/KS/home_2.html

http://www.reeve.uwosh.edu/greek/?page=organizations

AZ-AlphaXi 04-30-2008 10:05 PM

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Originally Posted by violetpretty (Post 1643219)
ETA: If Good Guys is anything like I Heart Recruitment, it has good advice on how to meet potential members and introduce them to your brotherhood, rather than having rush events and hoping that great potential members just magically appear and are dying to join your chapter.

I've read both books and they're very similar and I think would be a great place to start with an open bidding campaign. I really like the philosophy that you make a friend before you make a brother/sister.

Elephant Walk 05-01-2008 12:06 PM

I can't help you at this broski...

perhaps try a few barbeques...

OleMissRebel 05-01-2008 05:00 PM

Have like a pig roast or something. With free beer. Free beer and free pig will attract people.

macallan25 05-01-2008 06:19 PM

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Originally Posted by OleMissRebel (Post 1643735)
Have like a pig roast or something. With free beer. Free beer and free pig will attract people.

Do they even know what this is in the North?

I'm being serious.

Elephant Walk 05-01-2008 06:24 PM

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Originally Posted by macallan25 (Post 1643796)
Do they even know what this is in the North?

I'm being serious.

Bar-b-queing to them means simply throwing on a hamburger I think.

magichat 05-01-2008 07:17 PM

bratwurst, sausages, dogs, burgers, steaks with good marinade.

otherwise have a few parties, get lots of girls to go, forget to invite the wierd brothers.

have everyone look their best all the time.

Benzgirl 05-01-2008 07:25 PM

In Wisconsin, it would be Brats and other fabulous sausages, and beer.

violetpretty 05-01-2008 07:53 PM

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Originally Posted by macallan25 (Post 1643796)
Do they even know what this is in the North?

I'm being serious.

The face is still on the pig. Hideous.

OleMissRebel 05-01-2008 10:44 PM

I thought pig roasts were common. Guess thats just another thing the north misses out on.
I was going to say a crawfish boil at first but then I realized that those are definitely not known up north.
Well, since you are in Wisconsin, brats and beer are your best bet.

macallan25 05-01-2008 11:17 PM

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Originally Posted by violetpretty (Post 1643878)
The face is still on the pig. Hideous.

And by delicious I'm sure you mean spine tingling, roasted, suckling goodness.

violetpretty 05-01-2008 11:20 PM

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Originally Posted by macallan25 (Post 1644005)
And by delicious I'm sure you mean spine tingling, roasted, suckling goodness.

More for you, mac, I'm a vegetarian.

ETA: It must be a guy thing, It feeds the male primal urges to roast a whole animal on a spit.

DSTCHAOS 05-01-2008 11:36 PM

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Originally Posted by macallan25 (Post 1643796)
Do they even know what this is in the North?

I'm being serious.

The Northerners that I know do.

If these don't, they can Google it.

jon1856 05-02-2008 12:02 AM

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Originally Posted by macallan25 (Post 1643796)
Do they even know what this is in the North?

I'm being serious.

Yes, Pig roast is known to happen just about everywhere Brother;):D
But would they dip it in cheese where the OP is from????:confused::confused::rolleyes::eek:

Perhaps, as other have posted, best to stay true to the traditions of location unless other wise known.

LucyKKG 05-02-2008 12:16 AM

Yeah, it's even known out here in California. I've been to two! :eek:

nittanyalum 05-02-2008 12:35 AM

Quote:

Originally Posted by macallan25 (Post 1643796)
Do they even know what this is in the North?

I'm being serious.

Quote:

Originally Posted by Elephant Walk (Post 1643805)
Bar-b-queing to them means simply throwing on a hamburger I think.

Oh, come on, guys, really. The south does NOT have the corner on bbq'ing. You should see the stuff that gets cooked and how it gets cooked up here (especially during and after hunting season ;)).

As to the OP's location, I found plenty of references to pig roasts in WI, here's an example: http://eauclairefood.blogspot.com/20...pig-roast.html

macallan25 05-02-2008 12:58 AM

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Originally Posted by nittanyalum (Post 1644076)
Oh, come on, guys, really. The south does NOT have the corner on bbq'ing. You should see the stuff that gets cooked and how it gets cooked up here (especially during and after hunting season ;)).

As to the OP's location, I found plenty of references to pig roasts in WI, here's an example: http://eauclairefood.blogspot.com/20...pig-roast.html

Haha. That's pretty funny.

LucyKKG 05-02-2008 01:14 AM

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Originally Posted by nittanyalum (Post 1644076)
Oh, come on, guys, really. The south does NOT have the corner on bbq'ing.

I think people were debating about whether pigs are roasted in other parts of the country or not. Everyone barbecues. Even Norwegians barbecue! (ok...that may be a stretch...)

sasquatch 05-02-2008 01:18 AM

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Originally Posted by Elephant Walk (Post 1643805)
Bar-b-queing to them means simply throwing on a hamburger I think.

Yes. I hate it when Northerners say "I'm bar-b-quieng" while cooking hamburgers, hot dogs, etc. No you're not. You're "grilling out", "having a cook out", etc.

wolffootball37 05-02-2008 01:25 AM

you know i dont think ive ever roasted a pig on a stick, but now im really liking the idea of it!!!

bowsandtoes 05-02-2008 03:43 AM

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Originally Posted by macallan25 (Post 1643796)
Do they even know what this is in the North?

I'm being serious.

Why don't we have more of these?

33girl 05-02-2008 10:07 AM

Our Phi Sigma Kappa chapter has a pig roast every homecoming. I would prefer a crawfish boil, I have to say, but I don't think we can get those out of the river.

Elephant Walk 05-02-2008 10:43 AM

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Originally Posted by 33girl (Post 1644221)
Our Phi Sigma Kappa chapter has a pig roast every homecoming. I would prefer a crawfish boil, I have to say, but I don't think we can get those out of the river.

We usually have a few crawfish boils a year. Great food.

SEC_Rowdiez 05-03-2008 01:34 AM

south>north

magichat 05-03-2008 02:03 AM

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Originally Posted by SEC_Rowdiez (Post 1644601)
south>north

hardly. Not saying one is better than the other, but both have their ups and downs. Having spent significant time in both, I'd rather live in the (preppy) northeast, mainly though, because I prefer fresh lobster to fresh crawfish.

then again I could be biased because I am born and bred in the north east. however nowhere beats beale street.

magichat 05-03-2008 02:05 AM

also, classifying the north as guidos, is the same as classifying the south as rednecks. In both situations they exist and get more attention than they are worth.

SoCalGirl 05-03-2008 02:06 AM

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Originally Posted by LucyKKG (Post 1644061)
Yeah, it's even known out here in California. I've been to two! :eek:

But out here they tend to be more Filipino or Hawaiian style than Southern BBQ style. Do Southerners bury the pig for a few days?

DSTCHAOS 05-03-2008 11:39 AM

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Originally Posted by magichat (Post 1644610)
also, classifying the north as guidos, is the same as classifying the south as rednecks.

I agree.

I also hate when Northerners think they are outsmarting "those slow Southerners." Even those who aren't from the "Deep South." I met this cornball the other day who tried to be a fast talking Northerner with me. He's from Jersey. I was like :rolleyes: "tell me something I don't know."

******

MTV's True Life: I'm a Southern Belle is on right now and it's the MOST ANNOYING THING. I don't know any Southern Belles but I'm guessing (or hoping?) they aren't as annoying as they are depicted on this show. :)

techzbt 05-03-2008 05:02 PM

If they are down on numbers I highly doubt they can afford a pig roast.

Many campuses I know of have dry rush and take that seriously - nixing the beer idea.

I feel their best option is to get the list of incoming men and send them all a nice mailer and then have rush events over the summer, getting a jump on the other fraternities. Show how getting involved in your currently small chapter can give them an opportunity to help build a fraternity that they can take some real pride in.

ree-Xi 05-03-2008 07:33 PM

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Originally Posted by macallan25 (Post 1643796)
Do they even know what this is in the North?

I'm being serious.

Why wouldn't we? I have been to a pig roast, and let me tell you, I will never again. Seeing that face as it spun around and around really freaked me out. I don't eat pork anyway, so it WAS burgers on the grill for me!

Benzgirl 05-03-2008 09:22 PM

Clam Bakes are huge in our area. They typically take place in the fall.

I think the whole idea is to get men interested in coming up to your house. One suggestion would be to center the theme of your event around an informal holiday.

For instance, in early May, you could do Cinco de Mayo and have a fiesta. During the World Series, do Hot Dogs, Brats, Peanuts and whatever else they serve at a Baseball game. Or, do a Sports Bar theme with several TVs going with different games, serving chicken wings and other bar food. I know of one fraternity that does Poker night, with beer and cigars.


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