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DrEaM gUys...
describe your ideal dream guy! i love seeing how peoples opinions vary! include their personality, gotta add the car, and the style of clothes..
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1) HAS GOT TO BE TALL! I am 6', so I need a guy who is 6' or over
2) GREAT SMILE 3) A great laugh to go with that smile 4) Dark hair (Blonde highlights acceptable) 5) Eyes that look at you like "I need to have you RIGHT NOW"! Color is not important, just intensity! 6) Car is not important, BUT I WILL NOT DATE A MAN WITH A SPORTSCAR! 7) Clothes: I like preppie. My fave outfit ona guy is a black sweater and black courdoroys (sp?). Sort of that RIcky Martin style, but NOT AS GAY!!LOL 8) He has to be ok with TALKING, holding a conversation! 9) I am ok with shy guys, but not with arrogant, snotty ones. There is a difference! 10) Must like to eat and go out to eat!! 11) But also has to be ok with staying in and eating popcorn, making jokes at movies! 12) Must be a nice guy to my friends 13) Occupation is not important 14) Having goals and dreams are! ONE MORE THING, PROBABLY THE MOST IMPORTANT: MUST HAVE HAIR THAT I CAN RUN MY FINGERS THRU!!! I hate short hair cuts!! [This message has been edited by sigmagrrl (edited April 10, 2001).] |
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Hey Newbie.. this is sooo weird! o'kay.. my ex bf from december through about february.. not long b/c he was the typical asshole, but he had a lopsided smile! i know exactly what u mean! my brother has that smile too!
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Bebechick--those lopsided smiles drive me crazy!! LOL http://www.greekchat.com/forums/ubb/biggrin.gif. Then your brother is lucky then http://www.greekchat.com/forums/ubb/wink.gif.
Kevin--don't worry! You're the perfect height for many girls!! http://www.greekchat.com/forums/ubb/biggrin.gif (especially for petite girls like me! I can't really reach a guy over 6'2!) |
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How tall are you? I'm only 5'2" so 6'2 is one foot taller than me! damn i'm good! yeppies, i know im short! how much do u weigh newbie b/c u said u were pretty petite! that'd be crazy if we were like the same since everything else is the same. i weigh 102 lbs |
I'm 5'3 and I weigh 112. http://www.greekchat.com/forums/ubb/smile.gif. I'm trying to gain weight though--but my metabolism is just really fast. Gosh bebe--we're really alike...that's so strange! LOL!
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my dream guy would be very handsome and charming
He would also have a wonderful personality and always know the right thing to say and do in any situation. He would make me laugh when I want to cry. and he would be faithful and madly in love with me. |
DREAM GUY WHICH I CAN NOT HAVE:
*wears his hat up on his head not covering his eyes *brown hair/eyes *full lips (i could never find a better kisser than him..) *rugged *drives a truck *smart *diligent worker *not persistant *doesnt talk shit and want to fight all the time *can keep a job *calls back when he says he'll call back *notices when you get a new outfit, new earrings, purse, haircut.. O'kay yeah.. you get the point.. i'll quit! |
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What do you mean you can't have him? Hi, I'm Billy. |
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Also, there is an attitude these guys have that usually turns me off. It's years of experience talking here!!LOL Guess it's my NYC upbringing as well! IROC's were THE car for guys to own when I was in HS. IROC: Inbred retards out cruisin'!!! IT's NOT A STEREOTYPE, just a JOKE PEOPLE!! Nothing as cute as a guy who owns a Taurus for the practicality and doesn't care it's not the coolest car out there!! |
This is such an awesome topic http://www.greekchat.com/forums/ubb/smile.gif Ok here's my list:
*Fun Personality (though I like it when guys are kind of aloof, it makes him a challenge) *Good Looks/Nice body (but its no big deal if he's not drop-dead gorgeous) *Chivalry/Manners (a guy MUST be polite and do gentlemanly things like opening doors and offering his coat or he has NO chance! this is a major priority for me) *Money (ok it sounds shallow but this is an imaginary wish list so what the heck. I love to be spoiled by a guy; but I would never reject a guy for not having the $$$) *Car- not too important but I am partial to nice trucks or SUVs) *Nice eyes - I especially like gray eyes; they're kind of rare *Friendly (to everyone but esp. me) *Optimistic *Someone I can have have good conversations with (smart, good listener, communicative, etc.) *Loves me and isn't afraid to show it I know I'm forgetting about a zillion things but I just can't think of them! |
Haha sigmagrrl http://www.greekchat.com/forums/ubb/biggrin.gif
BEbe--I have dark hair, dk brown eyes--I'm Asian. http://www.greekchat.com/forums/ubb/smile.gif |
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You could try something novel like calling him again . . . after all he isn't a mind reader.
Never play it so cool the other person gets away. http://www.greekchat.com/forums/ubb/cool.gif [This message has been edited by James (edited April 11, 2001).] |
Bebe..That sucks. You seem like an awesome girl, and he should see that, even if you didn't have a chance to call. YOu should try calling him or seeing him somewhere to talk. Good luck.
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Ok, my dreamguy....my husband fits most of these characteristics thank heavens!!!!
Taller than I am (I'm 5'8) but not too tall....I hate a guy to LOOM over me... Dark hair (I have only ever dated one blond guy my whole life!!!!!) Big blue eyes with thick, long black lashes Full, soft, kiss-me lips Strong bone structure, firm chin, high cheekbones, manly-looking! Bigger frame...not a big cheesy workout freak, but more like a well-fed frat boy who knows how to fight....a rugby body maybe? Conservative in dress and in thought (except in the bedroom!) I like my boys preppy...my hubby's fave store is Brooks Brothers!!! Ok, I may come under fire for this, but he's gotta be financially with it....there's no nice way to put this, I was a spoiled brat only child with a rich daddy, and I know how money issues can tear a marriage apart. Money issues helped lead to my parents' divorce and I never wanted it to be an issue for me, so I needed a man with similar wants, expectations, and potential. Car? Well, my hubby drives a Mustang GT in the summer (yuck I hate it, midlife crisis car 15 years early!!!) and a Buick Park Avenue in the winter. I would prefer that he drive a smaller sedan, like an Audi or an Acura or something. I drive an SUV because I have 2 little ones, but when they are out of carseats (or at least my older is) I'd like him to drive an SUV and me get a cute little car like a BMW 3 series or a Jetta (LOVE Jettas) or something. Personality---strong, honest, loving, mischievous, generous, humorous, intelligent, opinionated but open-minded, family-oriented but likes to party.... Gotta be athletic---my hubby is a PGA professional so obviously he is a fantastic golfer. He's also good at tennis, skiing, and softball. I like to ski so that is important to me. I like a more artistic-minded man....unfortunately this is where my hubby lacks. I love to go to art museums, see cool films, listen to cool music....I love gallery openings, the symphony, etc. I also like gourmet food and my hubby is a meat and potatoes man. He has to have a great family---I hit the jackpot on this one... |
I'm going to use this as my singles ad http://www.greekchat.com/forums/ubb/smile.gif
I bet you will not get very excited to hear about me though when I have more time - I'll write down my dream girl I'm a short 5'9" with very dark brown hair quite tanned, yet not on false pretenses If I'm outside, I get tanned, contrariwise I do not. Girls adore my blue eyes and I usually recieve things like "best smile," both, in conjunction with the general aesthetics of my face, have been used as examples on why people think I have the appearance of Tom Cruise in his Top Gun years. I also usually get best dressed I have no muscles whatsoever, and it's almost certain you can beat me up Though actually I can hold my own on the Soccer field, and I've always been on highly successful teams, but for run-of-the-mill sports, I stop at Soccer. I mountain bike, camp/hike, and free-hand climb as much as possible. My style ranges from outdoorsy like a pair of bostons and a NF fleece to car coats, wool pants, and cashmere sweaters. I love productions, I see every play that I can, every concert I can favorite band is Phish favorite writers: JD Salinger, Saul Williams short gelled hair typically read alot write alot I've been termed chapter poet for Sigma Chi I practically collecet anything soft, so gore windstopper and cashmere and two of man's greatest findings in my opinion I'm going to school for electrical and computer engineering, but plan on going to Law school after that, then take an additional 24 hours to get an MBA, and I plan on turning my families sports store into more of an outdorrsy hiking/biking store, somewhat like what abercrombie used to be like. i sound decent right? why cannot I ever seem to have "luck with the ladies?" http://www.greekchat.com/forums/ubb/wink.gif hehehe wanna hear a date I have planned for whomever comes along during the summer? e-mail me - it's pretty phat [This message has been edited by SigmaChiCard (edited April 23, 2001).] [This message has been edited by SigmaChiCard (edited April 23, 2001).] |
SigmaChiCard-
Wow! I am dying to know what your "Dream Girl" looks like! You sound really cute!! |
Thank-you for the compliment techADPi
Here’s my dream girl [maybe if we’re lucky it’s a match http://www.greekchat.com/forums/ubb/wink.gif ] My Dream Girl…. By her physical nature Needs to be approximately my height With preferably a darker shade of brown hair, and short Green eyes Quite skinny With smaller breasts And, considering this is my favorite spot on a woman’s body Needs to have a genuinely nice curve just above her hip Insinuating a firm stomach, as well as a nice back, Because she needs to have a nice back, I love backs for some odd reason. I’d want her to be reasonably tanned, But on legitimate pretenses as I said in mine earlier Concerning fashion and general outward impression I’d like her to be very fashionably sensible Without being overcome with it. I’m very much into style I guess So I’d want her to be the type of girl who If she wants a leather jacket Doesn’t buy a crappy one that will last for a small fad But is a quality one you can wear through the years Because I don’t like it when you become too caught up into today’s fashion. I’m more into some eternal fashion senses, I guess. I’d want her to be ¾ outgoing Not 100% I’m a pretty shy guy So I’m not the type of person who just goes up and chats with people Unless I have some reason to do so. I’d want her to be able to hold highly intellectual conversations Particularly about the abstract Because that’s kind-of what interests me most I’d like her to have a high vocabulary For one reason Because I always want to improve mine And also because I find a girl who knows exactly what she wants to say somewhat sexy. She’d need to be able to go camping/climbing/biking with me I would love a girl that’s better than me at soccer as well Wouldn’t have to be muscular at all Just reasonably in shape As that’s all that I am Must have very white teeth My teeth are very white And it’s one thing I’m somewhat anal about Not really But nasty teeth just disgust me Her hygiene would have to be very good as well But her apartment could be as messy, as long as it’s not Genuinely dirty, as she would want it to be. I particularly love very short hair And I love going to parks just to read or write Or just to sleep in the middle of the fields you can find there Just lying in the grass I need a girl who is, essentially, the romanticist/idealist that I consider myself to be. Also I want a girl that, when we’re at a party, and on opposite sides there-of All we’d have to do is look at each other amidst conversations with other people To know that we were in love, a reassuring glance you might say |
And for my Dream Date...
This could woo Aphrodite herself, I think, but I never can find a girl good enough to do this for, but here it is. It would have to be in the summer, but there is a stream a short distance from my home than runs at about ankle height for most of the way, further down it becomes waist height, but nevertheless I want to place a pic-nic table into the portion of the stream that runs ankle height, and take a date their for a pic-nic so that we'd take off our shoes, about a quarter mile upstream, walk to the place where the stream bed is all nonslick slate rock where the table would be, and because the slate is their, it wouldn't hurt your feet at all, and I'd want to have perhaps a buddy go upstream and drop Rose petals into the stream, such that they'd float by as we were sitting there, drinking wine, and eating whatever the food selection may be. Am I wrong, or does that not seem like it could be an ultra romantic dinner? But I know all the girls I've dated wouldn't appreciate it, I've never had one girlfriend thank me for a poem I've written and given them. They're just not appreciative of thoser sort of things - so tell me if that is a good date, or what i need to improve upon it, or if it's sketchy since other people are going to be around dsroping flower petals and stuff. all thoughts appreciated |
Here's my thing I think with backs
If they have a nice back, then it's probable that they have a nice stomach, reasonably skinny, reasonably in shape, not to mention it's just a generally sensous place. I love kissing girls on their backs and I also just love any contact with a womans shoulders too. It's werd and unexplainable, despite my best effort. |
Welcome to the no apprecsiation club buddy. Girls are weird about that stuff. They say they like it but when you try then its, all like, "settle down buddy."
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I can't wait to find the love of my life. Hopefully he will fit my Dream Guy description, but if he doesn't that's ok. http://www.greekchat.com/forums/ubb/smile.gif
Here it goes: -Taller than me, so at least 5'9". -Brown hair(I have blonde hair so I don't want to feel like I am dating my brother.) -Athletic -Good body(Doesn't have to be really muscular, just in shape) -Tan -Green or blue eyes -Nice hands -Cute Dresser -As old as me or a COUPLE of years older -Christian -Nice hair(short) -Straight white teeth -No hairy chests! -Considerate and Gentelmanly -Loves me more than anything else in the world! -Wants to have at least 2 kids, no more than 4 -Doesn't mind moving away from Texas and living in Maine or Boston. -I don't care what kind of car he drives as long as it runs. -Gets along with my family -He has to love pets -Likes to travel -Romantic -Likes my friends I don't even know if there is a guy out there like this, but one can only hope!!! |
Let's see here. I guess my dream guy is described somehow in almost everyone else's post, but oh well. In no particualr order:
*sweet, but not overly eager to do anything I ask, unless we're serious. *MUST ADORE ANIMALS, especially your run-of-the-mill everyday pets. *5'8 or taller, I'm 5'3 so.... *any color hair is alright, but preferably not the exact color of mine(sandy blonde) *intellectual and non-conforming. Especially when it comes to wierd books, religions, race and other norms. *handsome. doesn't really matter his qualities, AS LONG AS THEY'RE PLEASING TO ME!!! |
My Dream Guy
-Tall(over 6'0") -Athletic build, but doesn't have to be super muscular -Into sports -Republican and likes to talk politics -Sort of shy, but not too much that he wouldn't ask me out of course..haha -Clean cut -Dresses nice sometimes, but would rather be in a t-shirt and jeans -A good listener -Very much into goals/academics -The car thing doesn't matter too much, just has to have one that runs..haha |
My Dream Guy
-Tall(over 6'0") -Athletic build, but doesn't have to be super muscular -Into sports -Republican and likes to talk politics -Sort of shy, but not too much that he wouldn't ask me out of course..haha -Clean cut -Dresses nice sometimes, but would rather be in a t-shirt and jeans -A good listener -Very much into goals/academics -The car thing doesn't matter too much, just has to have one that runs..haha |
Whoops...I deleted mine on accident...
so here it goes again -Charisma, charisma, charisma - Conservative ( I spent a lot of my high school career working for the Republican party) - Good hygiene - Clean cut and preppy (collared shirts, Reefs or white athletic shoes) - Likes football and/or is passionate about at least one sport - Is really good at at least one sport - Will go outside at 3 am and toss around a football with me, just for the hell of it - Has a good relationship with his family - Improves my bad habits (i.e. eating healthier and making me study) - Will go to the gym with me -nice smile -short hair cut -dream car for the dream guy: Black SUV (for some reason this just makes a guy twice as attractive) - Fights adamantly for his beliefs - Driven ( goal oriented) - Balanced with a social/academic life -Loves the outdoors - has compassion for the environment, the homeless, children and mankind in general - Isn't overly emotional, wanting to "talk about the relationship" all the time - Has to let loose and be goofy and immature at times -Feels comfortable telling me anything...no matter how random or gross. He doesn't have to tell me everything, but shouldn't worry about offending me. He should talk to me as a close buddy, not always as a girlfriend. - Will always take some time out for his brothers as I would for my sisters - A plus if he was a boy/eagle scout and should be a fraternity man (not for the typical superficial reasons, but because these institutions build charachter in a man.) - Likes me to cook and bake for him - Likes road trips Can't... - be arrogant and condescending - wear Teva type strappy sandals, black athletic shoes, socks with sandals, light colored/black tight jeans - Have excess hair anywhere on his body ( No hair on chest and back) - Be a regular drug user (preferably doesn't take any illegal drugs at all) |
TechADPi,
Wow ... I fit most of your dream guy description http://www.greekchat.com/forums/ubb/smile.gif Except I don't have green/blue eyes (dammit!). I have brown eyes. I LOVE travel as I travel a lot, been in 14 countries and 34 states ... and I'm from Iowa (hey! we grow corn here! so yeah, I have tan). I am 5'11", and I love dogs. I don't know about your friends, but I'm pretty sure an ADPi would have all good friends that I will go along with (our ADPi chapter is awesome here). Cute dresser? Nice hands? Wow ... those are tricky ones. Hair chest? Hahaha .. really funny described. |
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My dream guy criteria:
1)5'9 or taller 2)kind of husky 3)Does not expect me to go hiking, camping or anything invovling me getting dirty(I'm prissy-think SEx and theCity episode where Carrie went to Aidan's cabin) 4)i want my guy to be involved in sports, I will cheer him on- i was involved in sports in high school, but am not that good- I don't want to make an idiot of myself 5) Be on time- I never make a guy wait for me. I will be ready at 7 or whenever. 6)Baby me-cuddle me-no baby talk 7)Be able to sing or write me poetry 8)Have nice parents- i want to be able to get a long with a guys parents 9)Be classy when the ocasion calls for it- please don't get plastered at my formal and yell how hot i am!(LOL) 10)Know my friends 11)Don't put me down 12)Hair color doesn't matter 13)Preferably no braces 14)Give foot massages 15)Enjoy reading- this is one of my fave hobbies. I want to be able to discuss what i am reading. I don't read cheesy romances! 16)Make me laugh 17)Please be aware of my feelings- i get embarressed easily. 18)Please keep all rats and snakes away from me 19)Understand my need for icecream 20)Staying home and watching tv is ok- i don't expect you to spend money 21)Cook bc I don't and my family doesn't even eat my food 22)Love ME!!! [This message has been edited by AlphaSigLana (edited July 27, 2001).] |
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23)Preferably republican 24)Goal-oriented 25)needs to be clean- but It's ok if not bc i am addicted to cleaning- you cook I clean-laundry, floors you name it 26)tolerant of cats 27)Car- doesn't matter : please no bullet holes(Yes I did date a guy who had a car that was shot at-it was riddled in bullet holes) 28)Opening doors is good- But I don't get mad if you forget!! I'm independant so most of the time i open the doors myself. 29)Please don't stink- cologne is nice- overkill is not 30)Hugs, Hugs, Hugs Hopefully my guy's friends will like me- not be attracted- think I am worthy of their friend. |
Qeequek-
So my dream guy really exists? I can live with that!!!! Where do you go to school? Are you in a Fraternity? Brown eyes are fine. They are just as nice to look into! http://www.greekchat.com/forums/ubb/smile.gif ------------------ Sisters are not like autumn leaves you find just anywhere, but sisters are like diamonds, very precious and rare! |
My Dream Girl
Shes Greek (Not the country ha ha and its got to be recognized by Panhell) 5'2-5'11. I'm 5'11 and dont want a girl to stoop over me. If she wears high heels and shes 5'11 we can work around it I guess. Age: 21-35. Realistically I dont see it happening with someone younger than 25 basically because most girls havent dated enough and mentally their not ready for a guy like me (29). I'm not looking for marriage over night but shes got to be secure in herself and be very mature. -I'm not picky on hair color. She has to take care of it and it has to look pretty. It can be either short or long. I guess it depends on the girl. -I prefer a girl to be a bit on the heavier side with her chest (36+) and if not shes got to have a downstairs like Jennifer Lopez LOL. Hey shes my dream girl. http://www.greekchat.com/forums/ubb/smile.gif -She smiles often but shes entitled to her bad days. Shes very attractive. At least to me and she feels the same way about me. -She doesnt have to like to cook or clean. I want it to be a shared relationship in that dept. because there will be loads of times where I'll cook for her. Yes, I'm not to shabby in the kitchen. http://www.greekchat.com/forums/ubb/smile.gif Def. not the frugal gormet or justin wilson LOL but I'm not bad. - She loves to cuddle and has to love hugs. -Shes Republican, but if shes a Democrat thats ok I guess. -Shes extremely Intelligent. She is very educated and she can talk intelligently about a wide range of issues. -Shes extremely confident, but not arrogant. Not to the point where she feels that her time is more important than mine. Or that I am there only to serve her. Shes also outgoing to balance out my shyness. I want a girl thats going to challenge me and balance out my qualities. Like I'm a pretty shy guy in most instances. -Distance. I'm flexible there too. Hawaii is a bit far I guess, but generally speaking if shes in the continental US I'm cool with that. She obviously has to be cool with it too. -She has very classy and mature. Shes the kind of girl I can take home to Mom and Dad. She's my best friend and she values me. Of course she'd be my best friend and she would be my world too. http://www.greekchat.com/forums/ubb/smile.gif -She has interest in fitness. She doesnt have to be an olympic gymnist or swimmer but it would be nice if she has a regular schedule of working out. Being my partner would be a plus http://www.greekchat.com/forums/ubb/smile.gif |
Tech ADPi,
I go to Iowa State (Go Cyclones!) and I am Greek all the way ... really big in Greek now, and I am the only one from Cyclone Country here in GC ... |
This is a cute topic http://www.greekchat.com/forums/ubb/smile.gif
My dream guy : 1. Has to be Tall, I am talking 6'1 and up(sorry have to be shallow on that http://www.greekchat.com/forums/ubb/frown.gif ) 2. Athletic 3. Short touchable hair 4.Nice Dresser 5. Can make me laugh 6. Any color eyes , doesn't really matter 7. Strong, but not crazy strong 8.Not too skinny 9. Very good cologne, like Cool Water or Ralph Lauren Romance * 10. Soft Skin 11. Smart 12. Have fun party type guy, but in the same day and chill and watch tv or cartoons 13. likes animals I know I probably have more, just can't think of them all, lol DGPhoney~ [This message has been edited by DGPhoney (edited July 27, 2001).] |
hey i know my girl must be into me since i'm posting so late, and i'ts my first post in soo long since she's making me do it. ok lets start off i'm 5'7 taller than my girl not by much though but its all good, when it comes to dances it works out (her's and mine). Well for me i'm 172lbs, dimbled smile (i hoped i spelled that right), and always inshape since working out is one of my vice's but in the end it's a good thing. i have pic's on the spark.com as i say this my girl is punching me for typing that but i don't care-- owww-
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