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lovepwrgrl 01-27-2008 12:22 AM

Informal Recruitment???
 
What is the difference between informal recruitment and formal recruitment? Is there less stress involved in informal?

KSUViolet06 01-27-2008 04:55 AM

Informal is conducted differently by every sorority and every school. It typically involves less structured events with a variety of activities. Your school's Greek Life office is the best source of info for informal events on your campus. You could also contact each sorority about informal recruitment events, if they are being publicly advertised.

It is more relaxed because the events are set up differently than formal and the structure of formal does not apply in terms of Rho Chi's, rankings, etc. There is still an element of stress though, because it's still a recruitment situation. The sororities are still looking for quality women and certain things like GPA requirements and making a good impresion still apply. Also since it takes place AFTER formal recruitment, the sororities are limited in the # of girls they can take. This is also potentialy stressful, because there could be more girls rushing than a sorority is allowed to bid.

FSUZeta 01-27-2008 10:29 AM

on many campuses, not all chapters will be able to participate in informal recruitment.

LadyLonghorn 01-27-2008 12:14 PM

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Originally Posted by lovepwrgrl (Post 1588900)
What is the difference between informal recruitment and formal recruitment? Is there less stress involved in informal?

Still stalking Phi Mu? Are you going to start talking to yourself here again?

Unregistered- 01-27-2008 03:27 PM

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Originally Posted by LadyLonghorn (Post 1588996)
Still stalking Phi Mu? Are you going to start talking to yourself here again?

I was wondering why people were still replying to the OP seriously.

KSUViolet06 01-27-2008 03:29 PM

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Originally Posted by OTW (Post 1589098)
I was wondering why people were still replying to the OP seriously.


I gave her a serious answer, then I looked at her previous posts. Oy.

AnatraAmore 01-27-2008 03:44 PM

Wow... I'm not sure where I was when all that was going on, but I missed that one. (Must have been during the Great Troll Flood of 2007)

http://www.greekchat.com/gcforums/sh...01#post1559201

catiebug 01-27-2008 03:54 PM

Ahhhhhh, yes - now I remember. University of Houston, right?

quote=AnatraAmore;1589112]Wow... I'm not sure where I was when all that was going on, but I missed that one. (Must have been during the Great Troll Flood of 2007)

http://www.greekchat.com/gcforums/sh...01#post1559201[/quote]

lovepwrgrl 01-30-2008 11:16 AM

ya, about that i was being really immature... you guys were right

lovepwrgrl 01-30-2008 11:17 AM

I really was kinda going through alot of things.... I truly have changed in more ways than one, and Im developing into a woman with good morals and a christian attitude; o sorry about the mispelling and stuff. I'm kinda in a hurry because I'm at work right now.

lovepwrgrl 01-30-2008 11:21 AM

and no... lol.... I'm not still stalking Phi mu. I didn't think I was at first lol. I just liked their values but I'm beginning to learn what being in a sorority is all about. It's not popularity, parties, or getting guys. It's about the bonds of sisterhood, developing leadership, becoming someone that God wanted you to be in the first place. I also enjoy the fact that there is alot of community service involved. I like that kind of stuff; but yeah, thanks for the wake-up call you guys. I mean even if you still think I'm psycho lol... you really gave me a wake-up call.

lovepwrgrl 01-30-2008 11:23 AM

Thanks so much for the advice... I really am thinking about joining one. I feel confident; but I'm still a little nervous.... does anyone have any ideas as to how I should go about joining.

KSUViolet06 01-30-2008 12:38 PM

You could contact the Office of Greek Life for info about informal recruitment, or be on the lookout for flyers advertising informal recruitment opportunities.

Some sororities may have a series of open events, then hand out bids to the girls they want at the end. Others might have a couple of open events, then have some invite-only events after that. It really just depends on how things are done at your school.

nittanyalum 01-30-2008 12:51 PM

http://gimparts.cuttersfinest.com/wp...7/06/troll.gif

lovepwrgrl 01-30-2008 05:46 PM

Well there is a certain sorority-I'm going to use codes,I don't want to offend anyone-

lovepwrgrl 01-30-2008 05:52 PM

Vanilla- This sorority is amazing, they stand for everthing I have ever dreamed about standing for. They are very respectful of each others feelings and the pledges as well. I attended a seminar recently where we talked about some of the tenets of their sorority. I was so nervous. They didn't make it seem like an interview, they participated with the pledges--and that is what really opened my heart to them; but I am having a problem... I am so nervous. I am being myself in all aspects, and I am definitely honest but I am afraid they really aren't into me. Well, a few of them seemed to be. I need to know what most sororities are looking for. I have so many stereotypes from former friends, and I can't erase them out of my head. I know for certain that sorority girls aren't that mean unless you give them a reason to be:); but I want to know more.

nittanyalum 01-30-2008 08:01 PM

Don't PM me.

Unregistered- 01-30-2008 08:07 PM

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Originally Posted by nittanyalum (Post 1591317)
Don't PM me.

Guess I shouldn't feel special then. She PM'ed me too:

Quote:

lovepwrgrl
Registered User

Join Date: Dec 2007
Posts: 121
Hi
Hey, I really hope you're not mad at me still. I just really need some good advice. Im sorry if I offended you in anyway, but I'm learning how to respect sororities and people in general. I hope that you can forgive me, and give me another chance to become friends and learn more. Out of respect, please don't post the private messages I send you.. I mean if your still ill-hearted towards me. Just private message me. BTW I see that your birthday is August 4th your a Leo... ME TOO... Well I have to go, I have alot of work to do.
Please. If you don't want your PM shit posted publicly, don't send me PMs.

indygphib 01-30-2008 08:32 PM

Quote:

Originally Posted by lovepwrgrl (Post 1590957)
and no... lol.... I'm not still stalking Phi mu. I didn't think I was at first lol. I just liked their values but I'm beginning to learn what being in a sorority is all about. It's not popularity, parties, or getting guys. It's about the bonds of sisterhood, developing leadership, becoming someone that God wanted you to be in the first place. I also enjoy the fact that there is alot of community service involved. I like that kind of stuff; but yeah, thanks for the wake-up call you guys. I mean even if you still think I'm psycho lol... you really gave me a wake-up call.

http://i262.photobucket.com/albums/i...r1/BATSHIT.jpg

texas*princess 01-30-2008 08:45 PM

Wow.

I don't know anyone over the age of 9 who StIlL tYpEs LiKe ThIs!

catiebug 01-30-2008 09:02 PM

You???

Offend anyone???

Whatever gave you *that* idea???
:confused::confused::confused:

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Originally Posted by lovepwrgrl (Post 1591230)
Well there is a certain sorority-I'm going to use codes,I don't want to offend anyone-


LadyLonghorn 01-30-2008 09:04 PM

Quote:

Originally Posted by lovepwrgrl (Post 1591230)
Well there is a certain sorority-I'm going to use codes,I don't want to offend anyone-

Everyone knows your name and where you go to school thanks to your Greekchat looniness and indiscretions. Your Greek system is very small, and probably the best way to not offend anyone is to get your indiscreet posterior off the internet.

lovepwrgrl 01-31-2008 12:53 AM

Ok???, and everyone is ganging up on me!!Why?

lovepwrgrl 01-31-2008 12:54 AM

It doesn't matter... I told you how I felt about the whole thing. If you guys steadily insist on being rude, then fine do your thing. I'm going to do mine. God Bless and good night:/

Unregistered- 01-31-2008 05:15 AM

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Originally Posted by lovepwrgrl (Post 1591575)
Ok???, and everyone is ganging up on me!!Why?

http://www.greekchat.com/gcforums/sh...9&postcount=96

That's why, toots.

SthrnZeta 01-31-2008 09:51 AM

And that really wasn't that long ago... eek.


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