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peta-gaye 01-14-2008 03:51 PM

30+ YO INTERESTED IN PLEDGING UNDERGRAD--IS THAT ABSURD?
 
Hello :)
I have recently returned back to school to complete my undergrad degree. I am interested in participating in a sorority. Please advise how do the sorors treat older (I am 32 years old) undergrad students that are interested. Should I just wait and go for the graduate chapter?

Oh yeah by the way if you do not have anything nice or positive to say how about you keep it to yourself. That is not a sign of sisterhood no matter what sorority one may belong to. :(

PG

Unregistered- 01-14-2008 04:02 PM

If you read the important announcements in the individual NPHC sorority forums, you'll see that questions regarding membership are NOT answered online.

Having such a snippy attitude won't win you brownie points either. :rolleyes:

DSTCHAOS 01-14-2008 04:09 PM

Quote:

Originally Posted by peta-gaye (Post 1580673)
how about you keep it to yourself.

Likewise.

DSTCHAOS 01-14-2008 04:10 PM

Quote:

Originally Posted by OTW (Post 1580680)
If you read the important announcements in the individual NPHC sorority forums, you'll see that questions regarding membership are NOT answered online.

We could've and perhaps would've answered her very basic question. That's if she had used her 30+ yo brain and left that last paragraph out.

DSTRen13 01-14-2008 04:50 PM

Quote:

Originally Posted by peta-gaye (Post 1580673)
Hello :)
I have recently returned back to school to complete my undergrad degree. I am interested in participating in a sorority. Please advise how do the sorors treat older (I am 32 years old) undergrad students that are interested. Should I just wait and go for the graduate chapter?

Oh yeah by the way if you do not have anything nice or positive to say how about you keep it to yourself. That is not a sign of sisterhood no matter what sorority one may belong to. :(

PG

And what do you know about signs of sisterhood? You aren't in a sorority (and you do not have any sorors).

Oops, that may not have been positive :rolleyes:

1908Revelations 01-14-2008 05:06 PM

Quote:

Originally Posted by DSTCHAOS (Post 1580688)
We could've and perhaps would've answered her very basic question. That's if she had used her 30+ yo brain and left that last paragraph out.

Exactly! So not only do people want us to answer thier questions, but we HAVE to give them the responses they want.

Senusret I 01-14-2008 05:33 PM

Quote:

Originally Posted by peta-gaye (Post 1580673)
Hello :)


Please advise how do the sorors treat older (I am 32 years old) undergrad students that are interested.


Hi! :D

My question is this.... you're interested....you're older....why don't you tell us how you're treated?

DSTCHAOS 01-14-2008 05:44 PM

Quote:

Originally Posted by Senusret I (Post 1580740)
Hi! :D

My question is this.... you're interested....you're older....why don't you tell us how you're treated?

shhh...she's one of those people who waits until usernames tell her what to do. Then she becomes a big girl and goes out into the real world.

Tom Earp 01-14-2008 06:32 PM

Dang, she asked a simple question and gets this type of welome?:mad:

Thank you one and all!:rolleyes:

Welcome to G C!:o

cuteASAbug 01-14-2008 06:37 PM

Tom, there are stickies in each of the NPHC sorority forums saying that they do not wish to discuss membership questions online. While you may or may not agree with it, this is how they and their national organizations feel is the best way to conduct business for them. Please show them the same respect that you would want them to show to Lambda Chi Alpha.

Senusret I 01-14-2008 06:41 PM

Quote:

Originally Posted by DSTCHAOS (Post 1580688)
We could've and perhaps would've answered her very basic question.

Just wanted to reiterate that it *could* have been answered by anyone who chose to do so because it was general, basic, and non-specific.

The members of the orgs know the rules and limitations on what they can and cannot discuss.

ETA: She was still wrong for framing her question with an attitude.

DSTCHAOS 01-14-2008 06:56 PM

Quote:

Originally Posted by Senusret I (Post 1580793)
Just wanted to reiterate that it *could* have been answered by anyone who chose to do so because it was general, basic, and non-specific.

The members of the orgs know the rules and limitations on what they can and cannot discuss.

ETA: She was still wrong for framing her question with an attitude.

Yep. I was getting ready to answer her question until I read the end of her post.

If she's so concerned, she will read sources and contact local members and figure it out.

Perhaps she imagined that she was our elder or that we are all undergraduates. Even if she was and we were, the instructional tone she took with us needs to be checked before she approaches those undergraduates pretending like she's someone's momma.

Benzgirl 01-14-2008 07:26 PM

Tom, I wouldn't have answered her either based on her "attitude"

peta-gaye 01-14-2008 08:42 PM

LMAO....you ladies are absolute AH. You know why you took with an attitude oppose to someone who don't have time for juvenile little girls because this is what you always do. I read alot of the posts of other individuals (who were your peers) who wanted to real help and you laughed them to the next town.
Amazing....

Senusret I 01-14-2008 08:45 PM

Quote:

Originally Posted by peta-gaye (Post 1580871)
LMAO....you ladies are absolute AH. You know why you took with an attitude oppose to someone who don't have time for juvenile little girls because this is what you always do. I read alot of the posts of other individuals (who were your peers) who wanted to real help and you laughed them to the next town.
Amazing....

You don't need to pledge a sorority, you need to pledge the library!

OOhsoflyDELTA#9 01-14-2008 08:52 PM

Quote:

Originally Posted by peta-gaye (Post 1580871)
LMAO....you ladies are absolute AH. You know why you took with an attitude oppose to someone who don't have time for juvenile little girls because this is what you always do. I read alot of the posts of other individuals (who were your peers) who wanted to real help and you laughed them to the next town.
Amazing....

is this english?????:eek:

oh yeah calm down, we got ours boo boo...you trying to get there...:cool:

peta-gaye 01-14-2008 09:02 PM

LMAO - LAUGHING MY A** OFF
AH - A** HOLE

DSTCHAOS 01-14-2008 09:05 PM

Trust that you care more than we do. Good luck with figuring it all out.

If you really are what your original post claimed you are, that is.

Little32 01-14-2008 09:06 PM

Quote:

Originally Posted by Senusret I (Post 1580876)
You don't need to pledge a sorority, you need to pledge the library!

LOL!

<--resident instigator

DSTRen13 01-14-2008 09:07 PM

Well, why don't you go on and express your interest to the younger undergrads? If you don't like their attitude toward you either, call them a$$holes. Please come back here and let us know what happens!

icelandelf 01-14-2008 09:08 PM

Quote:

Originally Posted by peta-gaye (Post 1580892)
LMAO - LAUGHING MY A** OFF
AH - A** HOLE

^^^ yes you are indeed that. :)

nittanyalum 01-14-2008 09:10 PM

Take a close look at the user name, I think it's the sad, bored, getting ignored-too-much resident troll trying to both be clever and make a political statement. Don't feed it and it should die...

DSTCHAOS 01-14-2008 09:12 PM

Quote:

Originally Posted by nittanyalum (Post 1580901)
Take a close look at the user name, I think it's the sad, bored, getting ignored-too-much resident troll trying to both be clever and make a political statement. Don't feed it and it should die...

BOOOOOO...why can't we ever get real aspirants. :(

1908Revelations 01-14-2008 09:19 PM

Quote:

Originally Posted by Senusret I (Post 1580876)
You don't need to pledge a sorority, you need to pledge the library!

Touche!!
Quote:

Originally Posted by OOhsoflyDELTA#9 (Post 1580884)
we got ours boo boo

Thank you!!:cool:

PrettyBoy 01-14-2008 09:29 PM

Quote:

Originally Posted by peta-gaye (Post 1580673)
Hello :)
I have recently returned back to school to complete my undergrad degree. I am interested in participating in a sorority. Please advise how do the sorors treat older (I am 32 years old) undergrad students that are interested. Should I just wait and go for the graduate chapter?

Oh yeah by the way if you do not have anything nice or positive to say how about you keep it to yourself. That is not a sign of sisterhood no matter what sorority one may belong to. :(

PG

Aw hell. Looks like we have another one.:rolleyes:

PrettyInPink777 01-14-2008 10:34 PM

Quote:

Originally Posted by Senusret I (Post 1580876)
You don't need to pledge a sorority, you need to pledge the library!

sooooo witty!!! lol

AKA_Monet 01-14-2008 10:40 PM

I am wondering how she can call folks who are much older than her "soror"? She is not my soror otherwise she would provide deference and explanation.

Ill willed people are against all my degrees.

tld221 01-14-2008 10:41 PM

how the HAYLE do i miss these?!

IHeartUGA 01-14-2008 10:43 PM

Sweet lord...
 
Quote:

Originally Posted by peta-gaye (Post 1580871)
LMAO....you ladies are absolute AH. You know why you took with an attitude oppose to someone who don't have time for juvenile little girls because this is what you always do. I read alot of the posts of other individuals (who were your peers) who wanted to real help and you laughed them to the next town.
Amazing....

I don't know what half of that means but...

Please, do us all a favor (and by all I mean the entire western hemisphere) and pay attention to your studies in college. I'm afraid a sorority may detract from the necessary amount of time you will need to fix all of the grammatical mistakes that your English professors will point out to you in your papers.

jojapeach 01-14-2008 10:44 PM

Quote:

Originally Posted by Senusret I (Post 1580876)
You don't need to pledge a sorority, you need to pledge the library!

BWAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAHAHAHAHAAAA!!! *wipes tear*

What if some little birdie here were really mean, found an IP for chick, confirmed she really is a 30 + y/o undergrad using a school e-mail address, and advised the chapter of this 30+ y/o interest? Just what if someone were that aggravated by the attitude and lack of respect and the need to get da hayle on? Hmmm?

AKA_Monet 01-14-2008 10:44 PM

Quote:

Originally Posted by tld221 (Post 1580971)
how the HAYLE do i miss these?!

You WORK for a living... ;)

The freaks come out a night!!!

DSTCHAOS 01-14-2008 10:46 PM

Almost all of us work for a living.

She just overlooked some threads but posted in some other ones.

DSTCHAOS 01-14-2008 10:48 PM

Quote:

Originally Posted by jojapeach (Post 1580976)
BWAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAHAHAHAHAAAA!!! *wipes tear*

What if some little birdie here were really mean, found an IP for chick, confirmed she really is a 30 + y/o undergrad using a school e-mail address, and advised the chapter of this 30+ y/o interest? Just what if someone were that aggravated by the attitude and lack of respect and the need to get da hayle on? Hmmm?

That would make that person extremely lame, vindictive for no reason, and in need of a hobby. ;)

jojapeach 01-14-2008 10:53 PM

Quote:

Originally Posted by DSTCHAOS (Post 1580981)
That would make that person extremely lame, vindictive for no reason, and in need of a hobby. ;)

I have to agree with you, but you know that's how some people shamelessly operate when it comes to their orgs. Bless their hearts.

AKA_Monet 01-14-2008 10:53 PM

Quote:

Originally Posted by DSTCHAOS (Post 1580980)
Almost all of us work for a living.

She just overlooked some threads but posted in some other ones.

My husband likes your siggy... :)

DSTCHAOS 01-14-2008 10:58 PM

Quote:

Originally Posted by AKA_Monet (Post 1580986)
My husband likes your siggy... :)

Tell him to go drink some orange pop and stop looking over your shoulder. :)

ladygreek 01-14-2008 11:54 PM

I am going to be the nice one here and respond so Earp won't be angry with me.

PG, yes it would be absurd for you to pledge collegiate. Shoot, at 30+ there is now way you would be able to keep up the strenuous activities involved in pledging like 19 and 20 year olds. Do yourself a favor and wait until grad.

Hope this helps.

jitterbug13 01-14-2008 11:59 PM

Quote:

Originally Posted by Senusret I (Post 1580876)
You don't need to pledge a sorority, you need to pledge the library!

*trying not to bust out laughing at work*:D

Can I please use this on my siggy?

1908Revelations 01-15-2008 12:01 AM

Quote:

Originally Posted by ladygreek (Post 1581021)
I am going to be the nice one here and respond so Earp won't be angry with me.

PG, yes it would be absurd for you to pledge collegiate. Shoot, at 30+ there is now way you would be able to keep up the strenuous activities involved in pledging like 19 and 20 year olds. Do yourself a favor and wait until grad.

Hope this helps.

Thank you LadyGreek for being able to answer that humble (lol) old aspirant.

DSTKellie 01-15-2008 12:29 AM

OP, are you from Dallas by way of NY??

I know some one with that exact name and age.


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