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Dionysus 12-09-2007 09:17 PM

I can't help but to notice....
 
that women in interracial relationships (or have been in the past, or interested doing so in the future) tend to be littttttle bit more freakier than women who stick to their own kind.

Have you noticed such a thing?

I know I will probably get flamed, but this is something that has recently caught my attention big time.

f8nacn 12-09-2007 09:33 PM

What?? Where is the research to prove this? Some women are just plain out freaky while others are not...doesn't really matter who they date (within or out of their race).

Suffice it say that I've never heard of such a thing.

Senusret I 12-09-2007 09:36 PM

Can you define "freakier?"

Are we talking fisting?

f8nacn 12-09-2007 09:38 PM

Lol....I guess a definition/terms would definitely help w/ the answers..

knight_shadow 12-09-2007 09:48 PM

Quote:

Originally Posted by Senusret I (Post 1560529)
Can you define "freakier?"

Are we talking fisting?

Wow. Just had an interesting visual LOL

Dionysus 12-09-2007 09:51 PM

Quote:

Originally Posted by f8nacn (Post 1560526)
What?? Where is the research to prove this? Some women are just plain out freaky while others are not...doesn't really matter who they date (within or out of their race).

Suffice it say that I've never heard of such a thing.

There is no research to prove this, and I doubt anyone would be bold enough to literally do so.

If you never heard of such a thing, pay attention to family members, friends, co-workers, or whatever who are open to interracial relationships.

Does your token white friend who love black men have a collection of dildos, vibrators, and anal plugs sitting on her bedroom window seal?

Does your new black friend who has jungle fever, have the fantasy of a white man biting her toes during forplay, and painting them after sex?

Does your latina housekeeper, who's really into black women, like to have her ass fiddled with?

Are there rumors going around about your Asian co-worker, who likes white men, that she's into watersports?

f8nacn 12-09-2007 10:44 PM

OMG you definitely are in to way too much for my tender eyes and mind. lol...

kathykd2005 12-09-2007 10:46 PM

Quote:

Originally Posted by Senusret I (Post 1560529)
Can you define "freakier?"

Are we talking fisting?

I can't believe you wrote that. I really can't. :eek:

AlethiaSi 12-09-2007 11:04 PM

I guess I never thought about it, some friends of mine are freakier than others, that's just the way they are... I GUESS the ones that are freakier are open to people from other races, genders, etc.
I know that I'm pretty open to most things, and I have dated black and hispanic guys but Idk if those two things are necessarily correlated.

I suppose that the willingness to cross "taboo's" or social mores allows people to cross other boundaries as well...?

DaemonSeid 12-09-2007 11:10 PM

Quote:

Originally Posted by Dionysus (Post 1560519)
that women in interracial relationships (or have been in the past, or interested doing so in the future) tend to be littttttle bit more freakier than women who stick to their own kind.

Have you noticed such a thing?

I know I will probably get flamed, but this is something that has recently caught my attention big time.

awwwwww Dionysus...please tell me you don't believe that myth.....

BabyPiNK_FL 12-10-2007 01:33 AM

Let me testify. My boyfriend is outside my race and he refers to me as "Mary Mormon". I simply don't do freaky. PERIOD. I think it has more to do with a persons personality, rather than who is on their arm. If someone were to make that ASSumption of me based on who is on my arm at any particular moment, well let's say they'd be very surprised.

When Doves Cry 12-10-2007 01:45 PM

Well I've never dated inside my race because.. i'm just not attracted to them
(I'm not gonna tell you what I am cuz I dont want people offended. haha)
And I don't think I'm freaky at all. lol . Neither is my bf

scbelle 12-10-2007 02:09 PM

Quote:

Originally Posted by AlethiaSi (Post 1560567)
I guess I never thought about it, some friends of mine are freakier than others, that's just the way they are... I GUESS the ones that are freakier are open to people from other races, genders, etc.
I know that I'm pretty open to most things, and I have dated black and hispanic guys but Idk if those two things are necessarily correlated.

I suppose that the willingness to cross "taboo's" or social mores allows people to cross other boundaries as well...?

If I were to accept the OP's original premise, then this explanation would actually make some sense to me. But maybe, it could be that the people who are OPEN to crossing so-called racial boundaries are the ones who are just more OPEN about their sexual preferences. That doesn't mean that those who don't cross the racial divide aren't freaky... maybe they're just more discreet.

AlphaFrog 12-10-2007 02:16 PM

Quote:

Originally Posted by BabyPiNK_FL (Post 1560666)
I simply don't do freaky.

That's where I am. It's just not me - but I've always had a thing for the Latin men.:D

BTW - "their own kind" makes it seem like interracial relationships are like horses mating with sheep.:rolleyes::p

scbelle 12-10-2007 02:19 PM

Quote:

Originally Posted by AlphaFrog (Post 1560845)

BTW - "their own kind" makes it seem like interracial relationships are like horses mating with sheep.:rolleyes::p

Thanks for the visual, AF. :rolleyes: I'm sure the freaky people will enjoy it.

AlphaFrog 12-10-2007 02:23 PM

Quote:

Originally Posted by scbelle (Post 1560849)
Thanks for the visual, AF. :rolleyes: I'm sure the freaky people will enjoy it.


http://www.cats-world.de/galeriewitz.../Horse_Cat.jpg

No THAT'S a visual.:p

nikki1920 12-10-2007 02:39 PM

awwwwwwwwww.......

Freaks come in all colors, last time I checked. I think freaks tend to find/seek other freaks.

IDK, I am not a freak, so I really shouldn't be speaking on this. *shrug*

Dionysus 12-10-2007 05:08 PM

Quote:

Originally Posted by kathykd2005 (Post 1560556)
I can't believe you wrote that. I really can't. :eek:

Fisting is crazy, but there are worse things out there...

Quote:

Originally Posted by AlethiaSi (Post 1560567)
I guess I never thought about it, some friends of mine are freakier than others, that's just the way they are... I GUESS the ones that are freakier are open to people from other races, genders, etc.
I know that I'm pretty open to most things, and I have dated black and hispanic guys but Idk if those two things are necessarily correlated.

I suppose that the willingness to cross "taboo's" or social mores allows people to cross other boundaries as well...?

Quote:

Originally Posted by scbelle (Post 1560838)
If I were to accept the OP's original premise, then this explanation would actually make some sense to me. But maybe, it could be that the people who are OPEN to crossing so-called racial boundaries are the ones who are just more OPEN about their sexual preferences. That doesn't mean that those who don't cross the racial divide aren't freaky... maybe they're just more discreet.

I think it goes like that. I didn't mean that being attracted to other races automatically makes you a freak, or freaks seek out interracial relationships. More of a correlation than a causation. Could just be coincidence. I think many women who are open to messing with people outside their race are just "open" in general. Open can include being more sexually liberal, and broadcasting that. Same with women who are open to other "taboo" kinds of relationships, but I won't to go there.

Quote:

Originally Posted by AlphaFrog (Post 1560845)
That's where I am. It's just not me - but I've always had a thing for the Latin men.:D

BTW - "their own kind" makes it seem like interracial relationships are like horses mating with sheep.:rolleyes::p

I said that tongue in cheek, because many people who say things like that, DO believe that dating outside your race is as unnatural as horses mating with sheep.

nikki1920 12-10-2007 05:11 PM

Arent we all the same color in the dark anyway? :P

AlethiaSi 12-10-2007 05:17 PM

Quote:

Originally Posted by nikki1920 (Post 1560966)
Arent we all the same color in the dark anyway? :P

touché

tpa_92190 12-16-2007 08:04 PM

I certainly would not go as far as to say that all women are in interracial relationships are any "freakier". Depending on your area, it takes a lot of courage and strength to date someone of a different race. Despite what people like to believe, there is still a lot of racism in this country (especially in the south) and too many people in interracial relationships face a lot of criticism and blatant hatred from family and friends.
Perhaps the women who are strong enough to follow their heart and date who they desire, also are more open to different sexual experiences. Both take a lot of courage and you must have confidence in yourself.

That being said, I certainly would not make as bold of a statement such as "all women" in interracial relationships are any "freakier" then people in same race relationships.

In the end, as long as you are in a loving and mutual relationship, who really cares? Live life to the fullest and do whatever makes you happy.

BobbyTheDon 12-28-2007 04:10 AM

yet another bizarre, lame, yet comical thread by you.

RACK EM!

Glitter650 12-28-2007 02:47 PM

[QUOTE=tpa_92190;1564343]I certainly would not go as far as to say that all women are in interracial relationships are any "freakier". Depending on your area, it takes a lot of courage and strength to date someone of a different race. Despite what people like to believe, there is still a lot of racism in this country (especially in the south) and too many people in interracial relationships face a lot of criticism and blatant hatred from family and friends.

THANK Goodness I don't live in such an area... because I am the product of an interracial relationship, and am in one myself... and I really haven't had ANY problems with either... so I guess I should count my blessings.


and no I'm not freaky ;)

Dionysus 12-28-2007 04:04 PM

You all act like being a little freaky is a bad thing, lol.

As for me, I've never been in an interracial relationship, but I am open to them. I wouldn't describe my sexual tastes as freaky nor conventional...I'm somewhere in between.

fyrnymph 12-28-2007 05:25 PM

Short of running into someone at your local B&D superstore, how would you know they were "freaky"??

DSTCHAOS 12-28-2007 05:28 PM

Why do you all humor Dionysus? :)

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