I lost my son KAP Jr.
 

Fellow Nupes,

I just got word that my son, "KAPital's PHINUst Jr" passed away in childbirth and my lady almost passed away in the process. Right now she is really depressed for a multitude of reasons, and I'm trying to cheer her up, but she won't even speak to me.

I say all this to say that the fellow Nupes in my chapter have been very supportive despite my loss and I appreciate being in the Bond all the more as a result.

My prayers are to my lady and both our families during our time of grief.

Thanks for reading.

YITB,

KAPital's PHINUst

Eventhough you only addressed it to your frat, I think others on GC would like to extend thier condolences to you as well. I will keep your family in my prayers.

That's the saddest news anyone can share, and I'm so sorry you and the baby's mom (and your families) have to go through it. I wish you all peace in this very difficult time.

So truly sorry for your loss..........

Um Um Um! I didn't realize you were going to be a father. I missed that memo! It's really unfortunate to hear!

I am so sorry. My prayers are with you and your family.

I'm so sorry :( I will definately keep you and your family in my thoughts.

My heart aches for you and your family right now. Please accept my deepest sympathy. I will keep you in my prayers.

Wow, I am soo sorry this happened. I would not wish it on anyone! PLEASE help each other through this grieving process and GET COUNSELING as soon as possible afterwards. It is not something easy to deal with.

I am so sorry. I hope your lady is doing better physically this evening and my very best wishes to the both of you and your families in this difficult time.

Sorry to crash ... I am truly sorry for your loss and for the grief that you and his mommy must be feeling. I pray that you both can find peace, that your lady is able to heal with the utmost support and help, and that you have the strength to hold your little family tight.

sidenote:

Perhaps we can all light a candle for you and for all those who have lost children (this is a sheer coincidence I saw this today) ...

The Compassionate Friends Worldwide Candle Lighting (from About.com)
http://dying.about.com/od/rememberin...andlelight.htm

"...Every year since 1997 on the second Sunday in December The Compassionate Friends (TCF) hold a Worldwide Candle Lighting in memory of all children who have died too soon.

The event is held at 7:00 p.m. for one hour in every time zone to create a 24-hour wave of light that encircles the globe to honor and remember all children who have died. As candles go out in one time zone, they are lit in the next zone, to create a virtual 24-hour memorial--candles to encircle the globe.

read more here: http://dying.about.com/od/rememberin...andlelight.htm

Sorry for your loss...:(

Thoughts and prayers to you and your wife :(

NUPE,

Sorry to hear of your loss. Be strong.

Phi V

I am very sorry to hear about your loss. Lifting you and your family up in prayer...

Really sorry to hear that. Stay strong and continue to pray.

My prayers are with you, your wife and your families..

condolences to you, your family and all involved on your loss.

My condolences to you and your family. Stay strong.

Prayers for peace and comfort for both of you and your families.

I am so, so sorry. Your family is in my prayers.

Wow, Rain... Sorry for your loss... Prayers have been sent for you...

Oh man, I'm sorry to hear about your loss. My sympathies go out to you. :(:(:(

I am sorry for you and your wifes loss. You are both in my prayers.

Match Game, there are no words....this whole scenario is truly sad. I really hope it does not come back to haunt. I do have a question: who gave you the word, and I take it you were not at the hospital?

Bruh, YOu and YOurs are in my and my families prayers.

My deepest condolences to all of you! Thoughts and prayers are with you.

RM,

I am deeply sorry for your loss. May God give you both the strength to endure and we all will be praying for you and yours.

Thank you to all of you who showed me and my and her family love for our loss. Right now she is in Cincinnati living with her mother and I have NO way of getting in touch with her (we had a falling out a month ago and while I tried to reconcile matters, it made for a futile effort). Just recently I have been getting flak from her cousin who has been emailing me using her account and had the unadulterated gall to say I was the reason that the baby died. WTFuss?

I have not had any contact with her since November 2, save for an unexpected meetup at a Krogers on December 1 whereby she looked like a zombie. We exchanged pleasantries, and that was about it. I don't even know if she gave birth here or in Cinci, though I made several trips to the hospital where she was supposed to give birth, but she wasn't checked in (or so the staff said).

Anyway, I'm keeping on...

I am so very sorry for your loss. I will keep you in my prayers. :-(

You're are certainly in my prayers.

:confused:some people are brought into your life for a season...just know that God does everything for a reason, I am praying for you and yours to have the strength to push through to that which God has in store for you:( Ashe'

Sorry for your loss

I am just now seeing this! I'm so sorry to hear of your loss and I'm praying for you. :(

I hate hearing this, RM. My prayers will continue to be with you.

Oh my gosh I am so sorry for your loss. :(. You will be in my thoughts and prayers.

Oh wow. I pray the Prince of Peace gives you comfort during this time. My your girl also find rest and healing as well.

God bless....

Jason,
Please stop this madness.

Hmmm...I have my doubts about this story. :confused: