exactly what is skating?
 

i'm new to greek life - researching on the frats on campus and most likely pledging for one... i've heard the term skating and although i have kind of an idea of what it is, it's not so clear on my head. what's skating?
thanks!

Oh dear. :(

The search button is your friend. If GreekChat doesn't work, there's always Google.

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FWIW, in my experience here on GreekChat, the use of that word is frowned upon and I've seen many people get sensitive about it here.

Judging from your post, I'm going to assume that you're interested in an NPHC fraternity. That said, if I were you, I'd refrain from asking any questions on intake and membership online and follow the guidelines set forth by the fraternity you're interested in.

thanks for clarifying that - i didn't know it was such a sensitive subject... but i'm glad i know now...

Speak only on your own org. Delta's legal process is hardly skating in. And as someone who pledged when hazing was not illegal and there were no time limits, I know the difference. Strip away all of the nonsense (hazing) and you have a REAL process that is strictly about business.

Skating is reaping the benefits of something without actually having to work for those benefits (i.e. "earn" them). I see this behavior demonstrated by my boss on a daily basis.

Apply this concept how you will to Greek Life.

Exactly.

LOL at your boss.:D

The first time I heard the term skating was while I was in the service....and it's exactly as you described - folks who don't do crap, but yet they get a paycheck, and when advancement cycles come around, if they pass the test and advance to the next paygrade, they get more money to skate. It made for alot of resentful sailors who DID bust their @$$ to do a good job, only to be on the same pay level as a skater. Too bad that performance doesnt equal pay in the military.

You have now given me a new nickname for my boss. Thank you! :)

thats how confusion it may be. someone can be considered a skater in the undergraduate world, but don't the graduate chapter do the same thing. In the graduate chapter, you pay your money and BAM!! you are apart. so why is it ok in the graduate chapter, but looked disgusted in the undergrad world??

I thought skating was what you did on ice......

**snicker**

Yes, "skating" (as in expecting an outcome without the hardwork) is a term that exists outside of Greekdom. I'm glad people pointed that out.

Hi, Ladygreek. :D

PrettyBoy, I understood what you meant. So now as a grown man away from a college campus, you know to edit that definition to include Greeks who wear letters and brag about how hard they were HAZED but who don't contribute financially or service-wise. :) They're still reaping the benefits without the hard work. And whether they worked hard to get the letters in the first place is ALWAYS a matter of opinion and perspective.

Maybe in your graduate chapter.

word!!! i know i worked for mine...and i came in thru grad chapter...

Whatever "worked for mine" means.

I'm so glad you know how every grad chapter of every organization works. I'm so enlightened now. :rolleyes:

Quoted because it would be impossible to improve on this as a response to the OP.

With a nod to Avril Lavigne, you can call him "Sk8R Boi".

http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=YOqeYWKB0wY :D

Exactly! *sigh*

Most of this response is...extra information. What you claim to have gone through to become a Krappa was and always will be YOUR business. I'm not impressed either way but that's that.

What matters now is that you were duly initiated and are currently financial. Consider keeping the rest to yourself because it seems like you're protesting too much.

Thank you for resurrecting my favorite word of 2005. :) I don't know how I came to stop using it.

so wrong man...LOL

You were probably being friendly. You know better than to do that!!! :mad:

behave...;-)

Nodding to DST Chaos and the elder Delta on the board...
These kinda threads always tickle me...

Co-sign.

I have to agree with DSTChaos :eek:. Much of this sounds like you are just walking down memory lane.

I came in during the time of the 'old' way - when above ground hazing was very much accepted, and expected. For me, all the way through until initiation night!!!:eek::eek:

What I never understood about the 'old' way then and to this day - does it make you more of a brother / sister just because you got your @$$ beaten for 16 weeks? (Not saying that you did, but I know of those who did.) Honestly, if someone beat me for that long, the last thing I would want to do is call him / her family. Unless, it is a dysfunctional family. :(

ditto...i just envisioned a Maury-like type of episode where members aired out their grievances to each other, and the audience going "booo" and being shocked, and hating.