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Benzgirl 09-14-2007 03:50 PM

Twins
 
Do we have any twins on GC?

If so, please tell us your recruitment story. Did you and your sister pledge the same sorority, different sororities or one was in a sorority and one non-Greek?

AlphaFrog 09-14-2007 03:54 PM

I posted this in another thread, but I'm a proud sorority-aunt, so I'll post again.

We had a twin go through rush and pledge ASA. Her twin sister COBed the next week. The twin that went through rush just had a little baby legacy last week. :D They were honestly two of my favorite sisters, and the ones I keep in contact with the most to this day.

ETA: Also, AlwaysSAI and AlwaysAlphaGam are twins...and you can guess how that turned out by their usernames.

Unregistered- 09-14-2007 03:56 PM

Oh dear sister, you might enjoy this thread, even if it was a work of pure fiction. ;)

AlwaysSAI 09-14-2007 03:57 PM

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Originally Posted by AlphaFrog (Post 1519471)
ETA: Also, AlwaysSAI and AlwaysAlphaGam are twins...and you can guess how that turned out by their usernames.

Excuse me, how did you know??? :rolleyes: She's not even that active on the boards!

12dn94dst 09-14-2007 04:02 PM

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Originally Posted by AlwaysSAI (Post 1519476)
Excuse me, how did you know??? :rolleyes: She's not even that active on the boards!

you had it in your siggy at one point. :p

Unregistered- 09-14-2007 04:04 PM

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Originally Posted by AlwaysSAI (Post 1519476)
Excuse me, how did you know??? :rolleyes: She's not even that active on the boards!

You did a recruitment story too, right?

AlwaysSAI 09-14-2007 04:09 PM

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Originally Posted by OTW (Post 1519487)
You did a recruitment story too, right?

That I did. hahaha. I'm so exhausted.

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Originally Posted by 12dn94dst (Post 1519485)
you had it in your siggy at one point. :p

Now that you mention it, I recall that. I think she still has it in her sig.

Sorry guys, it's friday and I'm worn out.

ISUKappa 09-14-2007 04:15 PM

We had in-house legacy twins go through one year. One girl pledged her legacy chapter, the other pledged a different NPC organization. They were both respectful of their decisions and very happy where they ended up.

kdonline 09-14-2007 04:17 PM

What a coincidence! I just received KD's quarterly magazine & there was an article about alumnae twins (one set had rushed @ UF when I was a collegian). It discussed their attitudes going through rush/recruitment and if they decided to pledge together or not.

It was an interesting story... so I'd enjoy reading others. Just not a whole rush thread.. ;)

AlwaysSAI 09-14-2007 04:19 PM

This reminds me-

We had a set of idenitical twins pledge Phi Sig last semester. They are like really nice girls.....but I think their lives are too intertwined. They are pursuing the same degree, live together, have every class together and joined the same org!

Seriously, there is something wrong with that!

AOII Angel 09-14-2007 04:40 PM

I know I said this on another thread, but when I pledged AOII, there were three sets of indentical twins in our chapter. Two were seniors and dressed exactly alike every single day! They got married a few years ago and one moved to Georgia. They had lived together their entire lives. The other two sets were in my pledge class. Both sets pledged as sophomores so they had been around for a year and knew where they wanted to pledge. I actually lived with one set when I was in med school, but separately. One lived with me for two years and the other for two years. They were amazingly different...though many people never could tell them apart!

Benzgirl 09-14-2007 06:07 PM

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Originally Posted by OTW (Post 1519475)
Oh dear sister, you might enjoy this thread, even if it was a work of pure fiction. ;)

WOW
That was unreal. Well, then I guess it was.

Helicopter1 09-14-2007 06:47 PM

was all of that written in Little Orphan Annie Lemon Juice? And then it turned purple??

I couldn't finish it. My brain just rejected itself again.

thetaprincess 09-14-2007 06:50 PM

Wow. I remember when i was a senior a set of identical twins pledged our house. They were different I suppose but I never really got to know them.

KSUViolet06 09-15-2007 03:21 PM

In my three recruitments as an active, I've only seen twins join the same chapter once. Every other set joined 2 different chapters.

The most recent set from last year, I distinctly remember that they were very adamant about not being viewed as a "matching set." Rush groups are assigned alphabetically by last name, so they would've been in the same one, but they insisted on being separated. They even went to 2 different high schools. They didn't room together on campus either.

Throughout rush, they would get mad if anyone happened to mention that they had a twin. I think they were just really focused on not being treated like a "package deal" which I can understand because I think people tend to treat identical twins that way sometimes.

They both preffed and joined different chapters and were very happy with that. I had one of them in class at the time, and I congratulated her on her bid, and she responded "OMG thanks, I'm just glad I ddn't end up in the same one as my sister or I would've gone nuts."


adpiucf 09-15-2007 05:37 PM

When I was in school-- We had a pair of twins join our chapter. There were also a pair of twins at KD. Another pair of twins split-- one joined KD and the other was an Alpha Xi.

AOII Angel 09-17-2007 08:11 PM

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Originally Posted by KSUViolet06 (Post 1519930)
In my three recruitments as an active, I've only seen twins join the same chapter once. Every other set joined 2 different chapters.

The most recent set from last year, I distinctly remember that they were very adamant about not being viewed as a "matching set." Rush groups are assigned alphabetically by last name, so they would've been in the same one, but they insisted on being separated. They even went to 2 different high schools. They didn't room together on campus either.

Throughout rush, they would get mad if anyone happened to mention that they had a twin. I think they were just really focused on not being treated like a "package deal" which I can understand because I think people tend to treat identical twins that way sometimes.

They both preffed and joined different chapters and were very happy with that. I had one of them in class at the time, and I congratulated her on her bid, ndshe responded "OMG thanks, I'm just glad I ddn't end up in the same one as my sister or I would've gone nuts."

That's the funny thing about twins...or siblings in general. Some are super close and wouldn't think twice of not joining the same group. I think these twins are content with being associated with one another. Other twins have nothing in common other than blood. My little brother and sister are obviously not identical twins, but as fraternal twins you'd never be able to tell they grew up together. They never talk and aren't any closer to each other than they are to me and our older sister. The twins that don't want to be lumped together, I'm sure, do have to implicitely state their intentions. The general public would see them as a package deal because most people think that twins are just the same person like clones!

GeekyPenguin 09-17-2007 11:13 PM

There are twins in my law school class that went to the same undergrad and both pledged DG - I'm pretty sure they still live together too.

SmartBlondeGPhB 09-18-2007 12:55 PM

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Originally Posted by AlwaysSAI (Post 1519498)
This reminds me-

We had a set of idenitical twins pledge Phi Sig last semester. They are like really nice girls.....but I think their lives are too intertwined. They are pursuing the same degree, live together, have every class together and joined the same org!

Seriously, there is something wrong with that!

There was a set of identical triplets when I was in college (I transferred in as a Junior and they were my year) that seemed to be the same way. I think they were TriDelts.

SigKapCoug 09-18-2007 04:51 PM

Quote:

Originally Posted by AlwaysSAI (Post 1519498)
This reminds me-

We had a set of idenitical twins pledge Phi Sig last semester. They are like really nice girls.....but I think their lives are too intertwined. They are pursuing the same degree, live together, have every class together and joined the same org!

Seriously, there is something wrong with that!

When i was a freshmen, we had a set of senior twins like that - same room, same major, same classes, same bunk bed on the porch (one on top, one on bottom, obviously!). To this day I don't know which is which.

FSUZeta 09-18-2007 04:52 PM

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Originally Posted by SmartBlondeGPhB (Post 1521594)
There was a set of identical triplets when I was in college (I transferred in as a Junior and they were my year) that seemed to be the same way. I think they were TriDelts.

did they each wear one delta? (sorry, i couldn't resist)

Benzgirl 09-18-2007 05:23 PM

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Originally Posted by FSUZeta (Post 1521812)
did they each wear one delta? (sorry, i couldn't resist)

Hehehehehe

BabyPiNK_FL 09-18-2007 05:27 PM

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Originally Posted by FSUZeta (Post 1521812)
did they each wear one delta? (sorry, i couldn't resist)

My thoughts exactly...

violetpretty 09-19-2007 12:53 PM

I had a set of twins last semester in my Rho Gamma group. One was a little more outgoing than the other so she had more of her preferred chapters come preference night. Shy decided to drop out after preference (she didn't see herself in her remaining options, and frankly, neither did I) and Outgoing suicided a chapter that was not on Shy's list. Outgoing ended up not receiving a bid, but I think it was for the best, because they are the type of twins that does everything together.

AlethiaSi 09-19-2007 03:06 PM

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Originally Posted by OTW (Post 1519475)
Oh dear sister, you might enjoy this thread, even if it was a work of pure fiction. ;)

OMG. i Just spent the last hour reading that at work, I couldn't stop, ate my lunch at my desk. i am so ........ MAD!!! :mad::mad::mad::eek:

I tried to stay away from the recruitment threads, I guess because I never went through it, and went to a much smaller school with 5 orgs and it was much less competitive (I didn't even know anything about rec's until i started posting here) so, maybe i should stay away anyway lol

speedsters 09-19-2007 03:08 PM

we have a set of twins go through recruitment almost every year at my small school with three sororities and for the last few years, they've always joined the same sorority.

Ivygirl8985 09-22-2007 03:10 PM

Over the years we've had several sets of twins join our chapter. This past FR we got two fabulous twin sisters. They are not identical but still very close. They said that they refused to talk about recruitment to each other because they wanted to make their own decisions, and on bid day they were both very excited to find that they went the same chapter! Although these girls are very close, they are both very determined to lead their own lives, make their own decisions, etc. I think this is a special case, though, because other twins we've had have always been inseperable and didn't want to do anything without the other.

ufpiphi 09-22-2007 11:04 PM

At UF this year, there were several sets of twins who went through recruitment. Of these sets, 3 of them requested to be in the same chapter. And I do mean requested. Panhellenic actually instructed the chapters to either invite back both or neither girls from a set of twins who desired to be in the same chapter.

cuteASAbug 09-22-2007 11:06 PM

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Originally Posted by ufpiphi (Post 1525682)
At UF this year, there were several sets of twins who went through recruitment. Of these sets, 3 of them requested to be in the same chapter. And I do mean requested. Panhellenic actually instructed the chapters to either invite back both or neither girls from a set of twins who desired to be in the same chapter.

Wow. Can panhellenic really do that? What ended up happening to those girls?

honeychile 09-23-2007 12:02 AM

Quote:

Originally Posted by ufpiphi (Post 1525682)
At UF this year, there were several sets of twins who went through recruitment. Of these sets, 3 of them requested to be in the same chapter. And I do mean requested. Panhellenic actually instructed the chapters to either invite back both or neither girls from a set of twins who desired to be in the same chapter.

I know that others will disagree with me, but if that's what they truly wanted, I see nothing wrong with this.

fantASTic 09-23-2007 12:38 AM

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Originally Posted by honeychile (Post 1525729)
I know that others will disagree with me, but if that's what they truly wanted, I see nothing wrong with this.

Agreed. They know they're limiting their options, so they get to accept the consequences of that decision.

violetpretty 09-23-2007 01:37 AM

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Originally Posted by fantASTic (Post 1525745)
Agreed. They know they're limiting their options, so they get to accept the consequences of that decision.

They don't know they're limiting their options, but they will get to accept the consequences.

KSUViolet06 09-23-2007 02:20 AM

Quote:

Originally Posted by ufpiphi (Post 1525682)
At UF this year, there were several sets of twins who went through recruitment. Of these sets, 3 of them requested to be in the same chapter. And I do mean requested. Panhellenic actually instructed the chapters to either invite back both or neither girls from a set of twins who desired to be in the same chapter.

Wow. I mean it IS their perogative, but this is just weird to me. It also goes somewhat against the concept of mutual selection. I mean, how would this work with prefs and bid matching? They can't be ranked together as ONE person on sororities' bid lists, so one would theoretically have to end up above or below the other. What would happen if one of them received a bid to their #1 choice and the other to #2?

fyrnymph 09-23-2007 08:50 AM

I think it is better for the GLOs to know that they want to pledge as a duo - no sense wasting an invitation to one if she won't accept without her sister receiving one.

Leslie Anne 09-23-2007 11:24 AM

I agree. As long as the twins were willing to accept the consequences, I don't see a problem with it.


My chapter had several twins. If anyone read my retro story, the girl who said "hi lady" was an identical twin. I would have asked her if she remembered but I didn't know which one she was. Our chapter president my senior year also had pledged with her twin but the twin ended up transferring. Finally, we had a whole group of 5 sisters in my chapter; one set of twins (not identical) and their 3 sisters. They were amazing girls. I just loved them.

MellySK 09-23-2007 04:01 PM

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Originally Posted by AlethiaSi (Post 1522653)
OMG. i Just spent the last hour reading that at work, I couldn't stop, ate my lunch at my desk. i am so ........ MAD!!! :mad::mad::mad::eek:

I tried to stay away from the recruitment threads, I guess because I never went through it, and went to a much smaller school with 5 orgs and it was much less competitive (I didn't even know anything about rec's until i started posting here) so, maybe i should stay away anyway lol

I just read the whole thing and am so freaking curious! I agree that it seems fantastical, but i want an ending:(

ZTA72 10-15-2007 09:38 PM

twins
 
My girls pledged the same house. However...their # 2 choices were not the same and they would have had no problem going different ways if they had not received their # one choice.
They also cut houses independently of each other.
I personally wanted them to choose the same house, but I wanted them to make their own decisions ( of course) :).
It all worked out in the end, thank goodness.
ZTA72

SthrnZeta 10-17-2007 10:03 AM

So did they go with their legacy chapter...??? ;)

ZTA72 10-17-2007 10:45 AM

Unfortunately, no. They did both pref there however at different parties. I really tried to stay out of it, but I got my hopes up high when one girl called after the Zeta pref and told me how much she liked it and how beautiful it was, I thought she might go that way....I was just reading my Themis yesterday and thinking what if.....
They are both very happy with their choice and for that reason, so am I.
ZTA72

PiPhiERDoc 10-17-2007 10:42 PM

The chapter I advise for has twin sisters...I did a complete double take the first time I saw them - I don't know their rush story...now I want to find out the scoop!


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