The Game skillz of White men...
 

Gentlemen... What's up with y'alls skillz with the ladies? I just visited a club that "y'all" go to, and all I see is men drinking beer?

Personally, I have no issue with that. But my issue is, when I go to the club where all the bruhs at, I see way too many scantily clad women--some with silicon parts--jockin' upon a brotha... And the brotha is getting major digits... WTF is that all about? I just wanna know...

Ain't you got no game??? :confused: http://www.greekchat.com/forums/ubb/smile.gif http://www.greekchat.com/forums/ubb/wink.gif http://www.greekchat.com/forums/ubb/tongue.gif http://www.greekchat.com/forums/ubb/rolleyes.gif

What are your pimp skillz?

Okay, okay... In your language:http://www.greekchat.com/forums/ubb/smile.gif

How do you get a woman calling, paging and crying to you when she thinks you are cheating? Or maybe you are not cheating--but your woman does? Or it is not about having a girl calling you all the time and begging for your dcki--it is more about--what?

Just asking...

Because some of the ladies out there are saying you all ain't got no kinna game... http://www.greekchat.com/forums/ubb/frown.gif http://www.greekchat.com/forums/ubb/wink.gif

Just trying to dispel myths...

girl please tell me you are joking.
As women I think we should all respect ourselves a little bit more. Nothing is more troubling than going to a club and seeing a hoe monkey girl. It is about time that women stop selling their bodies and instead show off their minds. I have no respect for women that do get all up in a mans face with pieces hanging out. It is like saying please have sex with me and then cheat on me. Just an observation
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To kdgirlie: Point well taken, but could you please refrain from using "hoe monkey?" You could have used more discreet language.

yes I have to agree with Steeltrap next time KD, try using another phrase, second off, I don't believe AKA_monte is saying that she does that at the club, she says she "SEES" and who doesn't see that, when I go the club, I always see those kinda chicks doing they thang and hey if it works for them more power to them.
As for the true question at hand, I think the gamestyle is just different, and the approach is different, and I don't think it's different cause of race , I think it's just the guys personal style. Some kick major game, and some are on the sneak attack tip, but it's all different,least thats how I see. As a female I know we all take major pride in our brains and our smarts, cause I know I do, but when I go to a club, I am not thinking about my brain , it's all about fun, dancing, hanging with my sisters/friends, and dancing with a too smooth guy.
So the then the GAME begins, be cool and shake it fast http://cwm.ragesofsanity.com/otn/other/1blushudder.gif

I'm a girl, if you didn't know, but I want to give MY observations.

I went to a small school, about 3600 students. There was ONE bar in the town. I bartended there for a while (which was a blast, but that's beside the point) and got to watch all the 'action' from nutral ground.

From my observations, I have to agree with DGPhoney. I think it's a personality thing and that means different approches. Certain men know what works best for them.

I've been out dancing on the dance floor with my girlfriends or sisters and noticed a guy across the room standing at the bar just watching. Sometimes, depending on the man, they pull it off really well and that would be the best approch for him because I'll notice him and be drawn to his gaze--later we'd bump into each other 'accidently' and exchange conversation/numbers. On the other hand, I've been on the dance floor with a sexy guy and he dances really well and that is a total turn on.

I think perhaps your question stems from the fact that you'll probably see more white men standing by the bar drinking because they (sorry for the stereotype here, but it IS an observation of mine) just don't dance very well. Some white men are great dancers, but I'd have to say that I've seen very few GREAT ones. It doesn't mean they 'don't have game', I'd just say it limits their approch. (my Fiance is included in the 'white men can't dance' theory--I probably turned 40 shades of red when he tried to 'break it down' at his 10 year reunion--I think I was traumatized by that experience).

Ok gotta step up for KD here. Hoemonkey was fine, I liked it. Cant believe yall are gonna bash her for hoemonkey and not say anything to monet. That post lacked any single thread of class.

I have a problem with this. I dont speak slang but I am going to try to wing it here. Are you saying that White men dont have the "game" that other races do? And if that is what you are saying, then we need to know what the predominant race of people in the club is. If it is predominantly one race, and then there are a handful of another race there, then yes, I would say that the odds are greatly stacked against the minority in the club.

If it is game that you seek, then I cordially invite you to my hometown, where you will be greeted by 70 "game" spitting "homies" of my own, who will score the "digits".

O.K. AKA_Monet, You know you are my Spelman sister and all that, but for real, girlfriend, what was the purpose of that post???? You have been around GC enough to know that these kinds of threads usually invoke some type of divisive racially motivated retoric. I read the post 3 times and I am amazed that folks could make heads or tails of it enough to try to answer!

EDITED TO CORRECT TYPOS

[This message has been edited by Eclipse (edited May 14, 2001).]

[This message has been edited by Eclipse (edited May 15, 2001).]

sorry guys if my word offended you. But I really do find behavor of some women very degrading and it definately sets our sex back. As for certain races having "game" over others, that is lacking in arguement. If you watch movies then these sterotypes are very real to you. But in the real world guys of all races are players, and some lack serious game. It is a personality thing

Agreed 100%, Eclipse!

Sheeet, som of dom white boyz ha mo game dan dome blike boyz, it juz dependz on da boy!!!

I answered the question because:

1. AKA_Monet has been here for quite a while, I doubt seriously that she wanted to start anything like WWIII.

2. I took the question more as an observation in the different approches that White men have vs other races, in the dating 'game'. I really didn't feel there were any ill intentions.

ok, I definately see your point. I probably did not use the best phrasing, I was just trying to go with the slang thing. Just so you know I have been hanging out with High Schoolers ( no offense) alot because my blood little sister moved in with me to finish her senoir year. anywho I am sure Monet didn't mean to start anything, everyone should to quote my grandmother " get your panty's out of a wad"

I agree Mikki, I don't think AKA_Monet was trying to start a race war on here, but I do think it is important to think about the implications of your actions before hand. What if, for instance, a non-regular, looking to start something had come on here saying something like "Black men have better 'game' because they have gotten a lot of practice from multiple baby-mamas"? How do you think folks would have reacted. I just personally think the question, if legitamately looking for insite, could have been phrased a bit better. Maybe it's just me. It's certainly not the first time I haven't understood one of AKA_Monet's posts, and it probably won't be the last. LOL

I agree!

I was kind of interested in what the guys of other races do/did when it comes to their "game". Is "the game" universal, or is it not?

What's wrong with answering the question?

I think more WOMEN have answered than MEN!

I dont know if the "game" is universal, but I think playahs are universal. As stevie sang so eloquently about...

"Thunder only happens when it's raning,"
"Players only love you when they're playing."

ok Kabillymac, i am not personally bashing KD, I am suggesting she use a better word, although this thread is a bit offensive to some, but everyone else who posted came correct, or I'll break it down better was more polite about the subject. So it's your choice that you like the term"hoemonnkey" but some might take that phrase out of content, or think of it as something else!!!! Like I said in my first post, when I personally go to the club, I am all about me, and me having fun, if you put too mcuh thought into what other people are doing, how they are doing it, and thinking about your school , then why did u go to the club, stay home!
Lastly some people have game, and some don't, some guys are shy some aren't . It all depends on the guy, and his style!

I wasnt jumping on you for jumping on her. I just dont think that we get to use quality terms such as "hoemonkey" often enough around here.

This thread seriously pisses me off and I am trying to stay away from it. This is one of those "stickyourfootinyourmouthorpaytheconsequences" things that suck because its out here for the world to see, so what I really want to say wont get said.

From the white-boy perspective:

Ok - some of us white boys got game. It might be dorky-cute game, brainy game, "look how big a dick i can be" game, backwards/upside-down visor game, or whatever else can exist under the sun, but white guys can rock it hard - although i think someone earlier was right about the white guys not dancing as much bit. Anyway, guys that run game run it regardless of race, location, crowd, etc - they just run it. Which is cool.

Like Goldfinger said, "It's not the kill - it's the thrill of the chase . . . "

phew , finally a guys perspective on this!!!!
it's all about the flow, the style and duh of course the GAME. Totally agree with ya Ksigrc
A playa is a playa no matter the race, and he'll still play ya like a deck of cards
Nothing but luv
DGPhoney~

Everyone's different...the stroke black kid that comes to a party with a bag of lay's chips in his hand, showing everyone his id saying he's really 23, walking to every girl saying "baby I love you" hasn't got an ounce of game in him on our campus. However one of my friends (black) works the humor bit and "all the scantily clad women be jockin' up on this brotha".

And don't talk to people in their language...because you might just get offended when I start pulling lines from a spike lee joint and talking down to you.

In the meantime I'll work my magic, get my girls (mind you not the nasty ones where my brothers will make jokes about me having to double bag it before I make the moves), and be content with that. And if I ever actually get involved with a girl, I don't cheat on her. I'm sorry if it's different for you because it's definitely a great experience (while it lasts anyway).

LOL!

First, my Spelman sister seems to go to the wrong places, and was bored to boot. The question, were it phrased more subtly, might have sparked some real dialogue for such a light topic. I am with my other Spelmanite, Eclipse, on that.

Second, I never heard that phrase hoe monkey bad, I am http://www.greekchat.com/forums/ubb/biggrin.gif over that.

Third, as others have pointed out, there are several types of lines, and I must admit, humor works better with me than sad mack lines or staring. But that's because I'm shy, and you staring at me and not coming over does nothing. I don't approach men. Just a shy thing, not an entitlement thing.

Fourth, Monet, why didn't you head up to some of the dance clubs in Buckhead, where men of all races have game? Everytime I go back, my friends want to go up there, so SOMETHING must be happening!

hmmm, spike lee, and his last movie was when.. hmmm
so much for language

Okay people--WWIII--NOT!!! Ask a simple question! Dayum!!!

Secondly, I'm in SoCal, not LA--'cuz in LA, there are many beautiful brothas-- like pick of the litter--but you do have to be careful selecting thugs from the wessss-ide connexion... (Sorry guys, I cannot help the ethnicity...:rolleyes: http://www.greekchat.com/forums/ubb/smile.gif

Oh. And gentlemen, if some of you really had game, why would you be pissed off because some woman in California says you do not? Why would you care?

What I am trying to understand is what would possess a man (not Black) who lives in nonLA-SoCal to say that there are no women out here??? And they call my city, "White Boy Heaven"--I think it's because all the women here are blonde haired and blue eyed...

Ladies, some of you do raise an interesting point. It is a different kind of game plan. But is it the mackin'score kind like Kobe and Shaquille??? Really?

And SH80 --tru dat, tru dat, homey http://www.greekchat.com/forums/ubb/biggrin.gif But whaddup wit the silicon babes and "want to be in bars to hangout wit the stars"??? Y'all ain't gon' get cho womens??? http://www.greekchat.com/forums/ubb/tongue.gif

I can't get a straight answer from a man. I get straight answers from the brothas all the time. But hey, dudes, what's up with your pimpin' skillz??? 'Cuz I know you got 'em, you just ain't flossin' 'em owt...

bump, controversial thread.

All I have to say is LOL.

This thread is freaking hilarious.

:D

I'd be about the first to say that my 'game' skills are pathetic. Then again I've been going out with the same lady for 2 years now. Even when I landed her though.. pathetic would be the word. I'll admit it.

But to speak for others of my race would be going over the line. I would definitely agree though that I find the media portrays black men as 'players' whereas we white men are clueless as to how that works. I would say it's untrue both ways. The original poster has been to 1 or just a few bars and observed us in our natural habitat and drawn the conclusion that we are all similar or the same. That just can't be said.

It probably would have been just as hilarious as this one. But then again, you probably would have to add one of your asinine, racist, bass ackwards comments to it and it would all go to hell.:rolleyes:

So why don't you post a thread and find out? Couldn't be any worse than PREJUDISM, could it?

*waiting for the thread...*

Yes, I'm waiting too!

http://www.plauder-smilies.de/nosmile/claps.gif

Using those big words again... :p

I completely concur w/Bamboozled on this one and share her opinion. My suggestion to the individual who decided to "make trouble" is to go away and concentrate on real life, including trying to open that very closed mind.

Well considering I don’t vie for a girl’s attention that would even respond to the player approach; I am not too concerned about what they have to say about my lack of game.

Cockroach
 

What is Monet talking about? Has she NOT seen the Cosby Show? Theo would call girls burgers and had to fight for what little he could get. And his buddy cockroach...who was he kidding?

-Rudey
--And don't get me started on Eddy and Urkel from Family Matters.

So question, knowing what you know about how some people are on GC, why did YOU bump this thread back to the top? :confused: :rolleyes: :confused:

You yourself called it controversial. :confused: :eek:

Okay. We clearly need babelfish for you PM Mama. Reversism? wtf?? I guess PM Mama-ish (courtesy CT4) is back in full effect.

Would you kindly define reversism?

Now as far as the topic goes, of course it is not that serious. But if you are going to be racist, by God, you might as well be even more shameless about it and start your own topic. It's not like no one on here knows about it. :rolleyes:

First, prejudism and now, reversism. :eek: :eek: