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SPRING RUSH AT ALABAMA??
Does anyone know if the University of Alabama participates in a Spring Rush? Do all of the sororities participate? Does AOII participate?
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Spring recruitment would depend on how many of the chapters were not at total after fall recruitment. Be aware that at a school like Bama, there may be chapters that are under total but choose not to do spring recruitment for whatever reason. The Bama Greek Life office would be your best source of info (even though I don't think they'd have that info until spring).
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Only chapters that are below campus total would participate in Spring Recruitment. Until the list of returning members is created in January, there's no way of knowing who, if anyone, would be holding spring COB events. I think all houses are currently at or over total right now.
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Alabama has never, to my knowledge, done a campus-wide spring rush. A few groups may be doing Continuous Open Bidding at that time, but you would have to check in the Panhellenic office for info around the middle of January.
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Alabama does a very informal spring recruitment. It's basically a meet and greet at the Ferg (student union). Spring recruitment is NOTHING like Fall. Like others said, only those chapters under house total are allowed to participate. Last year 4 or 5 chapters participated and roughly 70 girls registered. I think about 30 bids or so were distributed. The year before last only 2 chapters participated and no girls recieved bids. It just varies on how many chapters are allowed to take girls and how many girls are interested.
The big difference maker last year was the bump in house total. House total is now 180, the year before it was 140 and the year before that 125. I doubt house total will go up this year because that only hurts the chapters below total because they can't catch up. Also, with extension in the near future for UA as many chapters as possible need to be at total. I would suggest that your daughter (I'm assuming your daughter is looking at recruitment) wait until fall to participate just so she has the most options. With the possible addition of 2 (maybe) chapters and the current 15 NPC houses on campus, your daughter will surely find her place. But if she is just dying to join a house now, encourage her to attend COR events with chapters that are currently under total so that she can get a real sense of the chapter since the Spring "meet and greet" recruitment process can leave something to be desired in the way of meeting and learning about the women of a chapter. |
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Here's the thing.... I was OK with ignoring the Helicopter parents...I'm a parent myself, I can sympathize a little...but you're now helicoptering YOUR DAUGHTER'S FRIEND??? WHAT.THE.EFF.??? The questions you asked us should have been asked BY YOUR DAUGHTER to her sorority's MEMBERSHIP CHAIR...not by YOU on GREEKCHAT. By the way... you WERE a Tri Delta??? Did you turn in your pin? ETA: I realize I was harsh, and I'm sorry...but AOII BAMA MOM, have you not read ANYTHING else on here? The boards have not been favorable this year to moms who are spoon feeding their daughters and living vicariously. |
Oh, great.
First I find that I cannot change my user name. Then someone comes along and pokes a hole in my fragile little dam. Damn. |
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Thank you, Yoda.
Be flattered--that's usually reserved for my tennis pro--He's smart AND hot. |
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I was a Tri Delta at the University of Georgia and back in my day--quote] Well, she's certainly not a Tri-Delt at Georgia now. Relax. |
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I am of the opinion that anybody ought to be able to ask an innocent question around here and not find feet in their throats! |
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As for your opinion-sorry, GC is not happy ponies and rainbows land. People here are snarky (sometimes unnecessarily, I'll grant you that) and I like the sass. It keeps me interested and makes me laugh. What an innocent question is to you isn't always to other people. |
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I am of the opinion that people shouldn't ask questions of random people on TEH INTARWEBZ that they could easily find out directly from the source. If these girls are old enough to have made it into college, they are old enough to find out the answers themselves. |
There it goes......my argument, my poor little argument.....
Thanks, a lot, AOPMOM. Seriously--I realize you're probably just trying to help. I've learned three new things here: Alpha Frog is not so bad. No good deed goes unpunished. And.. Ask'em to walk a mile in your shoes, and they're a mile away--with YOUR shoes. I'd insert some smileys, but I just can't bring myself to touch them. |
I've been on this board for over a year and frankly I find some of the "snarkiness" amusing also, but this has gotten ridiculous. Whether or not you find my example relevant is immaterial. The woman asked a question. Stupider questions have been asked. My point is that if she had not been a parent she would not have elicited (sp?) the response that she did. Alpha Frog has the Gift of Snark, no doubt, but enough is enough. Helicopter parents annoy me as well, and believe me I know all about them, but to be that accusatory over an innocent question was uncalled for.
I also have a question regarding the whole rush ordeal at Bama this year....has to do with AOPi also....neither of my girls are AOPis, this is about a local girl..but I will keep my mouth shut...not fond of frog toes.:rolleyes: |
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But, In defense of the OP ( :eek: )... If her daughter is a new member, she might still be so overwhelmed with NM stuff that she doesn't know who to ask. Or, she might secretly not want her friend to be in AOII, and so she doesn't really want to ask (so she puts her mom up to it in a pseudo-anonymous kind of way). Or, maybe neither of these is right, and I'm giving the OP too much credit. We'll never know. |
SECMom, pretty please--what is your question about Bama's rush?
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SECMom, I'm with you. Ultimately, everybody here who obeys the TOS has a right to post whatever they want, even if it's snarky, but I'd be happy to see a little more patience with newbies.
It's striking to me that on this board, a mild insult to a CHAPTER merits a quick and universal smackdown, but yelling insults at a fellow poster is so common. I'm much less bothered by someone's opinion that the Mu Nus at Illinois are stuck-up than I am by being yelled at, and that would still be true even if I'd been an Illinois Mu Nu. |
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Seriously, Bama' Panhellenic has MUCH to be proud of!! |
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I would like us to be a lot kinder to new posters and not be so quick to second guess their motivation. I think it's fine to ask questions simply because you are curious about how stuff works even if there's no need to know. I think it's fine to ask even if there was a thread about the same topic in 2004. I do however think that second guessing heli-parents may be doing society a service because maybe the ones who really are hovering too much will stop and think about why they assume their children are too crippled themselves to perform basic tasks. And normal parents will have a good reason for asking, so it really shouldn't bother them. But this is a policy I'd like to see in real life too, not just Greek Chat policy. |
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Let's just all play nice......... |
Oh, I don't advocate doing it rudely.
For example, in this thread, rather than the language that AlphaFrog used, I might have just said, "AOIIMom, why doesn't your daughter just ask someone in the sorority if they will be doing an additional recruitment? Surely they will know better than we do." (ETA: after she was given the info. or quota and total, I mean, not instead of that.) And if AOII mom was a heliparent (I have no idea if she is or not), she'd maybe think about that for a minute. And if she wasn't, there'd be a good reason that she asked instead which she'd either share or not share depending on what the reason was. It's really not about rudeness or oneupmanship. It's about calling attention to the possibility that what they are doing isn't the automatically reasonable thing that they think it is. I honestly believe that leaving helicopters unquestioned is partially what perpetuates the behavior. It's not normal; and the parents who do it apparently need to be reminded of that, or the rest of us are going to be dealing with their helpless offspring for a mighty long time. |
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Besides that, if anyone doubts the chapter's overall outstanding quality, all they have to do is read the AOPiBamaMom thread and get set straight. Remember the one right after rush about how much her daughter loves the chapter? http://www.greekchat.com/gcforums/sh...ad.php?t=89619 |
Pi Phi has 144 Actives, 79 NM for a Chapter total of 223!
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It takes more time and thought but you can make your point without making it at the expense of others, unless your point is to snap on someone; although I am either the pot or the kettle here because I have been guilty of the instant reply that was unnecessarily snide. |
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I have tried to be patient and ignore the helimoms, but seriously, helimoming your daughter's FRIEND, asking for info that could easily be gained by your daughter?? Come on. Yes, the daughter is probably a new member, and it is probably intimidating...but it's a life-learning experience that I think today's youth are not getting. If mommy comes in and takes us out of every uncomfortable situation, we'll never learn how to deal with it. I did ETA and apologize for the harsh words, but no matter how you say it, my opinion still stands. |
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Everything I've heard about Bama's rush this year has been positive...that's why I ask you again, AOPMOM---what was your question? But if it's going to piss people off, don't do it.
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WOW I had not checked this thread in a while and was stunned by the unkind comments directed to me. I was simply inquiring about a Spring Rush at UA. No, my daughter did not ask me to come onto this site and find out. She merely asked me if I had ever heard of there being one. So, just for fun I thought that I would come here and ask. I was stunned by your response. FYI my daughter is doing just fine at Bama. She understands that going to college is more than just getting a degree its about learning life lessons that will prepare you for the "Real World." (without mommy and daddy). With regard to your surly comment about turning in my Tri Delta pledge pin, I obviously used the wrong sentence structure. I AM a Tri Delta and I WAS at the University of Georgia. I know that you don't care about this but these first posts that I have made on this site will be my last. You have given me the impression that this is not a friendly site for information. |
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Just sayin'. |
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