Where do you get hit on the most?
 

Which places you are more likely to be approached?

Bars?
Clubs?
Stores?
Malls?
Church?
Sporting events?
Parties?
Bowling alleys?
Weddings?
On the road?
School?
Work?

Bars
in my car/ on the road
walking down the street
at work (as a waitress lol)

It depends who it is, lol. I like to get hit on at bars, sporting events, work, parties, and at school. I tend to be dressed the best at those places and I'm into men and women who hang around those locations. Too many weirdos out on the road, at malls, bowling alleys, churches, and clubs.

ETA: There are also a LOT of weirdos at "Adult Stores". lol

I usually get hit on by middle-aged homeless men when I'm walking around Philly or New York. :rolleyes::(

Bouncers and bartenders love me, which is relatively useful.

It's not so much where as when and by who. Guranteed if I feel like crap and there's a creepy middle aged foreign guy in the area, he'll be hitting on me! I don't get it and it freaks me out! :(

Has anyone else gotten hit on while driving? I don't know why, but this has happened to me several times where a guy will wave and try to give me his number.

Example-- this happened this week:

I was driving home on the tollroad on Sunday and found myself going through the Sun Pass lane. In front of me was a pickup truck and two guys in the back who smiled and waved at me. One of them looked down and then he held up a cardboard sign with a phone number!

LOL. I laughed and blew them a kiss--- my exit was right after the toll.

I can't really say I'd date someone who hangs out in the back of a pickup... but seeing as I'm single these days maybe I should give them a chance. :p

At least you haven't been solicited while driving. One night, I was at a stop light and the guy in the car next to me made the "roll your window down" motion. I thought maybe he needed directions, so I rolled my window down. Then he yelled out "I'll give you five bucks for a blowjob". :eek: :rolleyes:

No buddy flirts with me anymore... I guess I give off that "taken vibe" or I am ugly now...

They're just intimidated by your hotness!

It always seems to happen in the car, usually at a stop light, or when I'm driving the guy or guys will speed up and drive beside me.:rolleyes: At the light is when they'll try to get my phone number.

I don't hang out at clubs or bars, and I never get hit on at work, maybe because most of the customers that come to my job are women with their pets.

I just started this new job and I'm not so sure about my boss though. He keeps asking me to go to lunch with him. He's older and married so I doubt that he's up to anything. I haven't gone to lunch with him, I just thought it was weird, because I work with other women, and he's been asking me, and not them.

Anywhere with a large population of Hispanics.

They think they're clever shounting things in Spanish, and are shocked when this blonde haired, blue eyed American turns around and says "Cállate Pendejo".

lol all the spanish guys in the kitchen at work call me Margarita and are always asking if I have a boyfriend or what I'm doing later or they are just... staring at my boobs... lol

I live right on the outskirts of a fairly rough area of yonkers, outside the city and driving in my car, I get called a beautiful "snowflake" more often then I'd like to admit...... lol

Ok, I have a question. Who first said that? We've been throwing that term around for years and I think it's time to give credit where credit is due!!! ;)

I can't remember which one, but it was a PNM a long time ago that claimed she didn't get a bid because all of the sororities were intimidated by her hotness.

Wal-mart. dont ask.

The usual spots, clubs, bars, greek events. I got hit one about a year ago walking down the street during my lunch hour. Picture this, downtown scurring about to find food and I get to the corner to cross the street. As I'm waiting for the light, I notice to my left a small semi with the driver looking at me and smiling, then waving. I thought he was waving at someone else or making a delivery so I didn't respond. The light changed and I walked to the other side and noticed as I was walking, the truck was keeping up with me (yes I said keeping up, I walk fast:)). So I looked over and the guy waved at me and motioned for me to come over. Do you know this fool stopped in the middle of traffic to get my number?:eek::p As stupid as that was for him to do, I was actually quite flattered. No, didn't give him the number but we had a quick chat and then the pushed on.:cool:


I don't mind as long as the guy is really single. I've been getting hit on recently by married men (yuck). The ego boost is great and any girl who says otherwise is a liar. I like it when I'm on my lunch break downtown and the guy is with his co-workers and he tries not to be obvious about it but I see him trying to sneak a look...:cool:

Haha. Same here. And I know enough Spanish to get by and have the same experience as you. They're always shocked that this light haired, light eyed girl knows exactly what they're saying. I give them a dirty look and say, "You're disgusting" or something to that effect.

I also seem to get hit on at gas stations. I'm sure I'm looking incredibly sexy as I'm trying to wipe off the gas that spilled on my hands.

Depends. Of course, I enjoyed it more back when I was single :) but even then some guys were absolutely gross about it. Cat-calling at a gas station or saying something inappropriate won't get you anywhere. Oh, and when guys stare at me without any gestures like a smile, it just creeps me out - I'm not sure if the guy finds me attractive or if he's staring at me like a serial killer who just found his prey.

Going up to a girl and introducing yourself without focusing on her boobs or legs will probably get you somewhere! Screaming at her from across the bar and motioning for her to come over to you (yes, I've had this happen) will usually get the girl to turn right back around.

At least I'm not the only one..lol!!

making notes. going to wal-mart after work. LOL.

i remember when my fiance and i first started dating...we went to walmart and while we were in the produce section, he picks up and starts squeezing all these peppers and melons...it became quite, umm, erotic! so next time you are in there, look for the sexy man taking his time with the cantalopes and hit on HIM!!!

I get hit on at Wal-Mart and I always look like :mad:. I don't know if I give off a "hey shourt guy" vibe or what:confused:

i love it when guys say "oh of course you looked kinda jacked in wal-mart, but i knew you would look great once you cleaned up" like im a crack head or something lol!

And of course they have on some jacked up t-shirt and shorts...lol....

I get hit on the most when I'm at work, which is pretty sketchy b/c I work in an inpatient psych unit at the hospital. And lately it seems like I'm getting hit on by an equal amount of both men and women, which is new for me...:confused:

:eek: Dayummmm. Ummm, be careful.

I usually get hit on when I'm out. Sometimes just walking around downtown at lunch.. once I was walking through this buildings atrium to the outdoor seating and this guy who was waiting for the elevator didn't get on the elevator, but asked me for my number, when I didn't think that my BF would like that he told me that he must not be THAT great of a guy because I didn't have a ring. :rolleyes: :confused: :eek:

If he had left it alone after I said that it would've just been a nice ego boost ya know whatever.. but when I tell you I have a BF or that I'm not interested, please let it go... being super pushy really isn't attractive to me.

At bars, mostly. Which is why I've been avoiding them lately. :)

Other random places where men can interact with me.... restaurants, grocery store, the mall, the library was probably the most odd... he was cute, but I was taken. :D

is that why i don't ever see you around anymore? :D


OMGZ are we the same person?? my average cat-caller is middle-aged, without home, or generally sketchy as f*ck. and I get hit on my a lot of old west Indian/African men. i mean, it makes for a decent discount if i'm buying, say, knockoff handbags or bootleg DVDs, but not exactly what i have in mind for a casual Friday nite date.

i used to get hit on white corporate types when i was in school - you know, they'd do the whole "buy you a drink from across the bar" and then slip you their card on the way out. most were bold enough to insist, not ask, when we were going out.

Those of you in Atlanta probably know what I'm talking about --- there's this shopping center off Howell Mill, where they just put in that "fancy" Walmart, and at that Kroger and all the fast food places around there are full of the strangest characters who are always making off-the-wall passes.

I got hit on by a rather forward crazy lady while I was in Canada last month....too bad she was high....

Ha! Yeah....between my "toys" and some assless thong for gay men I won at Pridefest, I've been busy busy!

Near Atlantic Station? I haven't been over there but I have been to Atlantic Station. Friday nights there are crazy. If you ever need a self-esteem booster, go to Atlantic Station on a Friday night. The guys are always willing to tell you exactly what they think of your body and what they want to do it. :rolleyes:

Weirdest place I was hit on - mandatory parenting classes for the newly-divorced. (!!!!) Let's see - I just went thorugh a divorce - pretty much the LAST thing I wanted was ANY MAN IN THE WORLD. Especially one who was 1.) just divorced and 2.) had children. It was straaaannnnge. And my lawyer says it happens more often than you'd think.

I was hit on this morning while I was putting gas in my car. I was a little weirded out by it, seeing as I am 8 months pregnant.

I remember something that happened to me in 2000. I was 18 and with my first car. I was a really innocent girl who never really experienced being hit on. One day, I was at the gas station putting gas in the car. This man walks up to me really close (maybe just a few feet away) and starts telling me things that he wants to do with me. I am so scared and just want to get out of there. I keep telling him that I am not interested. Finally I just stop the gas and leave. Looking back, I should have sprayed him with the gas pump. :rolleyes:

This thread is hilarious!
 

hm, let's see...definitely at bars and parties. and in barcelona! anywhere in spain, really, but barcelona takes the cake. literally as soon as my friends and i stepped out of the bus, these (old!) guys came up to us and offered us their arm. and they'll just loiter everywhere and shout things at you, anything they know in English, including "One, two, three!" :P

like someone else said before though, it's really more about who's hitting on me - which is unfortunate that i'm so vain because even the good-looking ones can be pervy too, hahaha. but i definitely get really freaked out at any men who are way older than me, icky-looking, or obviously have yellow fever (i'm asian, in case you can't tell from my name) - you know, those idiots who say things like, "konichiwa, chinese princess"
:eek:

i hate that! (not that i'm asian, but all of my female asian friends - hell, even my gaysian friends - HATE it.)

I think I get hit on while I am driving (or walking to class by people driving). When is it acceptable for guys to stop traffic in order to get someone phone number?!?! The only time this is acceptable is if they guy is REALLY cute and tall.....otherwise I wish the cops would just cart them off for being a nusiance (sp):p!