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amanda6035 02-16-2007 12:30 PM

this girls parents should be shot.....
 
http://www.theinsideronline.com/celeb/5358/

How do you let your 6 year old child weigh 400 pounds??????

Drolefille 02-16-2007 12:41 PM

yeah, the HOW of that is completely baffling me. That is child abuse.

DSTCHAOS 02-16-2007 12:46 PM

That's the little girl I posted about in that childhood weight surgery thread on here.

amanda6035 02-16-2007 12:48 PM

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Originally Posted by DSTCHAOS (Post 1399657)
That's the little girl I posted about in that childhood weight surgery thread on here.

oh...sorry. i didnt know there was another thread already....

DSTCHAOS 02-16-2007 12:54 PM

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Originally Posted by amanda6035 (Post 1399658)
oh...sorry. i didnt know there was another thread already....

The other thread wasn't about her. She was just an aside. Your thread is fine. :)

RU OX Alum 02-16-2007 01:08 PM

yeah that is horrible that is child abuse

RoyalEmpress33 02-16-2007 05:47 PM

If I'm not mistaken, I believe I saw this little girl on Maury not too long ago. She looks so familiar to me. But yes, the parents should be shot. That's just ridiculous. 400 lbs at that age? Adults shouldn't even weigh that much.:(

Jill1228 02-16-2007 05:48 PM

Seriously, WTF is wrong with this kids parents?

blueangel 02-16-2007 07:04 PM

Here's the video:

http://www.flicklife.com/view_video....fbe55ebb2b64ba

Before blaming the parents, I wonder if she has a medical condition such as Prader Willi Syndrome?

aephi alum 02-16-2007 07:23 PM

What were her parents feeding her - buckets of lard and bags of sugar??

James 02-16-2007 07:47 PM

It doesn't seem so. When I read the show summaries they haven't said anything about thats.

They just actually hospitalized the girl and didn't say anything about that. And its an obvious thing to test for.

I think its just an extreme example of really bad parenting.

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Originally Posted by blueangel (Post 1399866)
Here's the video:

http://www.flicklife.com/view_video....fbe55ebb2b64ba

Before blaming the parents, I wonder if she has a medical condition such as Prader Willi Syndrome?


Drolefille 02-16-2007 07:48 PM

Without any other news article to give details, there's no mention of any sort of condition causing her weight problems and no indication that the parents, upon realizing that such a condition existed, did jack crap about it.

Gee Mommy and Daddy, ever think that it shouldn't take a hospital stay (for breathing difficulty!) to tell you your daughter needed help? Or was the fact that she was rolling because she was too fat to walk too subtle for you.

AKA_Monet 02-16-2007 09:29 PM

She could have an aleptinemia, because Prader Willi's often hoard food anywhere they can get it... Whereas, I imagine it would be tough for her to get around being 400 lbs, approximately 7-12 years old and rolling around. Maybe she just rolled fast...

Drolefille 02-17-2007 01:10 AM

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Originally Posted by AKA_Monet (Post 1399906)
She could have an aleptinemia, because Prader Willi's often hoard food anywhere they can get it... Whereas, I imagine it would be tough for her to get around being 400 lbs, approximately 7-12 years old and rolling around. Maybe she just rolled fast...

I have a disturbing mental image of a 400lb roller chasing down someone holding the box of cookies or something.

Phigirl04 02-17-2007 03:55 PM

I can't believe these parents let it get so bad and that no one stepped in before the child got to 400lbs. These parents should not be allowed to have children. I just can't imagine letting this happen if I had a child.

James 02-17-2007 04:20 PM

I was starting to wonder whether the parents were doing it for attention.

I understand that the child was 200 pounds at 5 years old, but then after all that media attention the parents fed the child so much food it put another 200 pounds on in 2 years.

Thats like deliberate over feeding.

Maybe the mother, consciously or unconsciouly, enjoyed the notoriety of being "someone." Media attention can be seductive. And everyone in America seems to want their 15 seconds.

Aren't there mothers that deblierately make their kids sick for attention?




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Originally Posted by Phigirl04 (Post 1400081)
I can't believe these parents let it get so bad and that no one stepped in before the child got to 400lbs. These parents should not be allowed to have children. I just can't imagine letting this happen if I had a child.


PiKA2001 02-17-2007 10:17 PM

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Originally Posted by James (Post 1400087)
I was starting to wonder whether the parents were doing it for attention.

I understand that the child was 200 pounds at 5 years old, but then after all that media attention the parents fed the child so much food it put another 200 pounds on in 2 years.

Thats like deliberate over feeding.

Maybe the mother, consciously or unconsciouly, enjoyed the notoriety of being "someone." Media attention can be seductive. And everyone in America seems to want their 15 seconds.

Aren't there mothers that deblierately make their kids sick for attention?

How can someone get that heavy just by a disease alone, without a tumor being involved? I mean, some major over-eating has to be going on. I think the only reason why the parents still have custody of this girl is the fact that this is a rare case. I though protective services take kids away from parents in circumstances that can be hazardous to them. They are slowly killing this kid.

blueangel 02-18-2007 12:21 AM

With Prader Willi Syndrome, the child has a reduced need for calories. The really cruel part of the disease is not only do fewer calories make them fat, but they also have a flaw in the hypothalamus which make them constantly hungry. They never feel full. They have a continuous need to eat.

No appetite suppresant has been found effective in this disease. They have to be kept on an extremely low calorie diet just to stay at a normal weight.. and parents have sometimes resorted to having to lock the cabinets and refrigerators.

Drolefille 02-18-2007 02:02 AM

The girl can't get to the cupboards... she couldn't walk. There's no excuse.

blueangel 02-18-2007 02:27 AM

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Originally Posted by Drolefille (Post 1400216)
The girl can't get to the cupboards... she couldn't walk. There's no excuse.

Did you not read the part of how people with this disease must be kept on an extremely low calorie diet just to stay at a normal weight? And did you not read the part about how people with this disease can not turn off the hunger pains?

We do not know if this is what this child has, but if it is.. the blame shouldn't go to the parents.

CutiePie2000 02-18-2007 02:36 AM

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Originally Posted by James (Post 1400087)
Aren't there mothers that deblierately make their kids sick for attention?

Munchausen is what you're thinking of.

James 02-18-2007 02:47 AM

The girl has been in the hospital Blueangel, and has responded to a forced diet. We would have ehard if she had this disease.

If we on Greekchat can think of it, the doctors are not going to overlook it.

James 02-18-2007 02:48 AM

For those not familiar with PWS.


http://www.thearc.org/faqs/pwsynd.html


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What is Prader-Willi syndrome (PWS)?

PWS is a complex genetic disorder that includes short stature, mental retardation or learning disabilities, incomplete sexual development, characteristic behavior problems, low muscle tone, and an involuntary urge to eat constantly, which, coupled with a reduced need for calories, leads to obesity.

Does the eating problem associated with PWS begin at birth?

No, newborns with PWS are typically described as "floppy" and are unable to suck well enough to get sufficient nutrients -- due to the low muscle tone (hypotonia). Often they must be fed through a tube for several months after birth, until muscle control improves. Sometime in the following years, usually by preschool age, children with PWS develop an increased interest in food and quickly gain excessive weight if calories are not restricted.

Why do people who have PWS eat so much?

People with PWS have a flaw in the part of their brain (the hypothalamus) that determines hunger and satiety (fullness). These people never feel full enough, so they have a continuous urge to eat. To compound this problem, people with PWS need considerably fewer calories than normal to maintain an appropriate weight. The obesity that results is the major cause of illness and death in this disorder. As in the general population, obesity in PWS can cause high blood pressure, respiratory difficulties, diabetes and other problems.

Can anything be done to control the eating?

Unfortunately, no appetite suppressant has worked consistently for people with PWS. Most must be on an extremely low-calorie diet all their lives and must have their environment designed so that they have very limited access to food. For example, many families have to lock the kitchen or the cabinets and refrigerator.

it possible for people with PWS to lead normal lives?

People with PWS can accomplish many of the things their "normal" peers do -- attend school, enjoy community activities, get jobs, and even move away from home. However, they need a lot of help. School children with PWS are likely to need special education and related services, such as speech and occupational therapy. In community, work and residential settings, adolescents and adults often need special assistance to learn and carry out responsibilities and to get along with others. In all settings, people with PWS need around-the-clock food supervision. As adults, most affected individuals do best in a special group home for people with PWS, where food access can be restricted without interfering with those who do not need such restriction. Although in the past many died in adolescence or young adulthood, it is thought that prevention of obesity will allow a person with PWS to live a normal lifespan.

Does early diagnosis help?

Early diagnosis of Prader-Willi syndrome gives parents an opportunity to manage their child's diet and avoid obesity and its related problems from the start. Since infants and young children with PWS typically have developmental delays in all areas, diagnosis may facilitate a family's access to critical early intervention services and help identify areas of need or risk. Diagnosis also makes it possible for families to get information and support from professionals and other families who are dealing with the syndrome.


James 02-18-2007 03:02 AM

Thank you. :)

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Originally Posted by CutiePie2000 (Post 1400225)
Munchausen is what you're thinking of.


PiKA2001 02-18-2007 05:07 AM

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Originally Posted by blueangel (Post 1400223)
Did you not read the part of how people with this disease must be kept on an extremely low calorie diet just to stay at a normal weight? And did you not read the part about how people with this disease can not turn off the hunger pains?

We do not know if this is what this child has, but if it is.. the blame shouldn't go to the parents.

She 5 years old. She cant exactly roll in the kitchen and make herself an omlette and a few dozen hot pockets whenever she pleases. Her parents are the ones who make her meals - therefore the blame SHOULD be on them.

Drolefille 02-18-2007 11:12 AM

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Originally Posted by James (Post 1400231)
Thank you. :)

Munchausen by proxy actually. One is making yourself sick and sympathetic, the other is doing it to your kid.

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She 5 years old. She cant exactly roll in the kitchen and make herself an omlette and a few dozen hot pockets whenever she pleases. Her parents are the ones who make her meals - therefore the blame SHOULD be on them.
Exactly. If the parents keep feeding her because she's hungry they should be smart enough to take her to the doctor, syndrome/disease or not. She probably couldn't get INTO the cupboards or pantry much less make anything.

Jimmy Choo 02-18-2007 12:47 PM

What I'm really shocked by is that this has gone on for this long! Didn't a red flag go off at any of this child's checkups with her doctor?

blueangel 02-18-2007 02:29 PM

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Originally Posted by PiKA2001 (Post 1400240)
She 5 years old. She cant exactly roll in the kitchen and make herself an omlette and a few dozen hot pockets whenever she pleases. Her parents are the ones who make her meals - therefore the blame SHOULD be on them.

HOWEVER-- With PW Syndrome, a child must be put on an EXTREMELY limited low calorie diet. Feeding her normally will make a child obese.

Have you ever skipped a few meals and felt what it's like to have hunger pains? To have such a need to eat that it's painful? That's what people with PW feel like all the time.

Now, imagine you have a child with PW who is in pain all the time because she always feels like she's being starved. Then add to that -- that you must only feed her a few hundred calories a day. Do you realize how difficult that can be for a parent?

If the parents are just over feeding her, and nothing is medically wrong with the child.. then yes, I agree.. that is abuse. However, if she has PW or another disorder, then I wouldn't be so quick to put blame on the parents.

Drolefille 02-18-2007 02:58 PM

If she has a disorder, the parents STILL let her get this heavy. You'd think they'd have put her on a reduce calorie diet before now. But no, gotta give their little rolling angel as much as she wants. Letting your child get that heavy without intervention, disorder or no, is the parents fault.

Placing blame on a disorder is just one more instance of people failing to take responsibility for themselves and, in this case, their children. It's not like she was slightly overweight. She ROLLED. A doctor would have picked up on it before she needed admittance to a hospital, if they'd actually gone and seen one.

CutiePie2000 02-18-2007 03:25 PM

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Originally Posted by Drolefille (Post 1400272)
Munchausen by proxy actually. One is making yourself sick and sympathetic, the other is doing it to your kid.

Yes, that's right. I just went on Wikipedia and dug a lil' deeper. :)

James 02-18-2007 03:25 PM

Blueangel. Stop Stop Stop.

You are seeking to redefine the argument on the basis of an unproven/unsuggested presuppositon. You have not shown that there is even the smallest chance this kid has PW syndrome.

Nor have you made any reference to the myriad other symptoms that a PW-child would be blatantly manifesting all her life.

You persist in defending these parents for no discernible reason. Do they pay you? :)

Also, if the child had a medical problem, the parents would be even more at fault for not treating the child properly.

If they have just overfed an otherwise healthy kid . . that makes them simply stupid.

If they have failed to treat an underlying medical condition . . . that makes them stupid and malicious.

To change the situation a bit, if the child had some bacterial infection that made her fat, and required life long medication, I doubt you would be sympathetic to the parents if they didn't give her the medication because the child complained and she had uncomfortable side effects.

Oh, and hasn't the child lost a lot of weight? From restricting her calories?



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Originally Posted by blueangel (Post 1400320)
HOWEVER-- With PW Syndrome, a child must be put on an EXTREMELY limited low calorie diet. Feeding her normally will make a child obese.

Have you ever skipped a few meals and felt what it's like to have hunger pains? To have such a need to eat that it's painful? That's what people with PW feel like all the time.

Now, imagine you have a child with PW who is in pain all the time because she always feels like she's being starved. Then add to that -- that you must only feed her a few hundred calories a day. Do you realize how difficult that can be for a parent?

If the parents are just over feeding her, and nothing is medically wrong with the child.. then yes, I agree.. that is abuse. However, if she has PW or another disorder, then I wouldn't be so quick to put blame on the parents.


Kevlar281 02-18-2007 03:43 PM

Anyone find it funny that there is an M&M's banner ad?

Drolefille 02-18-2007 04:01 PM

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Originally Posted by CutiePie2000 (Post 1400330)
Yes, that's right. I just went on Wikipedia and dug a lil' deeper. :)

Yeah, I'm not sure if remember more from my abnormal psych class or an episode of Law & Order: SVU. :p Now, if the parents just wanted money and fame and it wasn't a psychological issue wanting sympathy and attention (there's a distinct difference) that's just plain malingering. It's like shaving your kids head, and making her sick just for the cancer donations instead of for people saying "oh it's got to be so difficult being you, how can I help you"

That was the L&O episode but I think she turned out to just be a shitty mom and not a psych patient :D

blueangel 02-18-2007 05:59 PM

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Originally Posted by Drolefille (Post 1400325)
If she has a disorder, the parents STILL let her get this heavy. You'd think they'd have put her on a reduce calorie diet before now. But no, gotta give their little rolling angel as much as she wants. Letting your child get that heavy without intervention, disorder or no, is the parents fault.

Placing blame on a disorder is just one more instance of people failing to take responsibility for themselves and, in this case, their children. It's not like she was slightly overweight. She ROLLED. A doctor would have picked up on it before she needed admittance to a hospital, if they'd actually gone and seen one.

I think the reason I have more sympathy for parents of children suffering from this disorder (and we don't even know if she has it-- but assuming she does) is because I had a child with it in one of my judo classes. I had a "project smile" class for children and adults with mental and physical challenges.

One of the girls had this disorder, and she was very obese. Her parents put her in my class hoping the physical exercise would help. We talked at length about her problem, and her mother was in tears explaining to me about how difficult it was to withhold food from her daughter who was in constant physical distress. Picture feeling like you haven't eaten for three days.. and picture what it would feel like 24 hours a day. THAT's what these kids feel like all the time.

Drolefille 02-18-2007 06:09 PM

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Originally Posted by blueangel (Post 1400389)
I think the reason I have more sympathy for parents of children suffering from this disorder (and we don't even know if she has it-- but assuming she does) is because I had a child with it in one of my judo classes. I had a "project smile" class for children and adults with mental and physical challenges.

One of the girls had this disorder, and she was very obese. Her parents put her in my class hoping the physical exercise would help. We talked at length about her problem, and her mother was in tears explaining to me about how difficult it was to withhold food from her daughter who was in constant physical distress. Picture feeling like you haven't eaten for three days.. and picture what it would feel like 24 hours a day. THAT's what these kids feel like all the time.

That's understandable, but that mother was trying. This child's parents had to have been neglegent in some way. I have sympathy for people who suffer from disorders, but not for people who recklessly endanger their child. Even if she has the disorder, her parents were clearly not trying as her weight dropped very quickly upon hospitalization.

blueangel 02-18-2007 06:33 PM

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Originally Posted by Drolefille (Post 1400392)
That's understandable, but that mother was trying. This child's parents had to have been neglegent in some way. I have sympathy for people who suffer from disorders, but not for people who recklessly endanger their child. Even if she has the disorder, her parents were clearly not trying as her weight dropped very quickly upon hospitalization.

OK, I see your point.

AKA_Monet 02-19-2007 03:34 PM

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Originally Posted by PiKA2001 (Post 1400166)
How can someone get that heavy just by a disease alone, without a tumor being involved? I mean, some major over-eating has to be going on. I think the only reason why the parents still have custody of this girl is the fact that this is a rare case. I though protective services take kids away from parents in circumstances that can be hazardous to them. They are slowly killing this kid.

We have genetically modified rats and mice that become obese when fed a normal 4% fat rodent chow diet.

They are call the OLEFT rats and the Ob/Ob mice.

For the mice they do not make this protein called Leptin. So they eat uncontrollably even during times of sleep. The leptin is made from fat tissue and is sent up to the arcuate nucleus of the brain to tell these animals they have reached satiety.

I think the OLEFT rats have similar problems.

This issue in this girl may also be glandular, either thyroid or adreals. I forget the disease names but there may be similarities with Graves.

But without the path report, there is no way to go down with the differentials.

And it is true a kid may not be able to cook for himself or herself, so they are consuming large amounts of carbohydrates, monosacchrides possibly with starches. There would be more muscle mass if it was all protein. And as always, with carbs there's fats. So if her parents were neglectful, this kid would have to eating nutrient-poor foods abundantly like candy, sodas, fruit loops, breads, etc. unrestrained for 2 years.

Most babies that gain weight at 2 years old are automatically put on caloric restrictive diet. Now, whether the parents adhere to the PCP's recommendations is a different story.

Drolefille 02-19-2007 04:08 PM

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Originally Posted by AKA_Monet (Post 1400779)
We have genetically modified rats and mice that become obese when fed a normal 4% fat rodent chow diet.

They are call the OLEFT rats and the Ob/Ob mice.

For the mice they do not make this protein called Leptin. So they eat uncontrollably even during times of sleep. The leptin is made from fat tissue and is sent up to the arcuate nucleus of the brain to tell these animals they have reached satiety.

I think the OLEFT rats have similar problems.

This issue in this girl may also be glandular, either thyroid or adreals. I forget the disease names but there may be similarities with Graves.

But without the path report, there is no way to go down with the differentials.

And it is true a kid may not be able to cook for himself or herself, so they are consuming large amounts of carbohydrates, monosacchrides possibly with starches. There would be more muscle mass if it was all protein. And as always, with carbs there's fats. So if her parents were neglectful, this kid would have to eating nutrient-poor foods abundantly like candy, sodas, fruit loops, breads, etc. unrestrained for 2 years.

Most babies that gain weight at 2 years old are automatically put on caloric restrictive diet. Now, whether the parents adhere to the PCP's recommendations is a different story.

AKA Monet the big issue is that the kid couldn't actually walk herself to the kitchen, and unless her parents put the food under the counter instead of above she probably couldn't reach it.

I still can't get past the fact that she ROLLED everywhere.

AKA_Monet 02-19-2007 04:28 PM

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Originally Posted by Drolefille (Post 1400796)
AKA Monet the big issue is that the kid couldn't actually walk herself to the kitchen, and unless her parents put the food under the counter instead of above she probably couldn't reach it.

I still can't get past the fact that she ROLLED everywhere.

Well, she could have used the toys that didn't break to scoot herself around, then roll over to open the door to gain access to poor food choices.

Since there is a picture of her sitting up, it is possible that she could stand. Then tumble around till she had to roll.

From what I remember speaking to one of the foremost experts on PWS, is that they have mild mental retardation. But I could be wrong.

It did not seem like this young girl had the characteristics of mental retardation from the pictures. Which means, she vocalized and cried at stimuli. Meaning her parents just kept feeding her to "shut her up" because they couldn't stand the whining or the crying...

Those early cues from parents are key in child rearing. If a baby does not receive proper parental cues, their neural development is impaired. This process occurs from day 0...

Feeding behavior is intimately linked to that.

Since I have prove my words:

Dr. Terry Miller, pediatrician. Health Disparities Conference at Legislative Day at the State Capitol. Olympia, WA Public Health Service.

Drolefille 02-19-2007 04:39 PM

There's been no indication that the child isn't otherwise "normal" develpmentally speaking. It just seems like horrendous parenting.

Although the image of the girl standing and then... tumbling until she reaches food is rather amusing. It wouldn't be too hard to move food out of the way of a six year old who can't climb into things.


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