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I have a question that has something to do with Alpha Kappa Alpha
I'm a high school senior and I have a friend who wants to pledge AKA. There's nothing wrong with that, but the problem I have with her is that she has an AKA layout on her myspace page. I personally find that offensive, mainly because I want to go greek when I get to college and would find it disrespectful for someone to represent my sorority when they are not a member. I told her that if someone found and reported it that she could get blacklisted, but she still has the layout on her page. Should I report her? I didn't at first, because I figured she was like many of the other girls at my school who want to pledge AKA who doesn't know anything about the sorority except the colors, but I told her, so I know she knows. One of my other friends already reported her to the website, but I want to know what you think I should do.
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What's the link to the page?
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No one cares?? I'm very surprised
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Don't get it twisted. What's the link to the page?
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$10 says its secretly her page. dont we all convienently have a "friend" when ish goes down?
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I took it down, because I don't feel right posting her page on an open site like this. IF you want to see it, you'll have to send me a message. (Note: I do understand that myspace is probably a bigger site than this, but she decided to put it up there)
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hey, your friend put a myspace page up representing something she shouldnt be.
you posting the link isnt any different than me typing in "LiNiqueLi's friend's Myspace page" in Google and getting the link. greekchat is public. myspace is public. what is done in the dark comes to light, but if what she is doing is already in the light, youre no better or worse by hiding it cause she put it out there. so, WHY TAKE IT DOWN? i guess we really dont need to see the page to answer your question. i dont think you need to report her, per se, but if shes your friend like that (and that is always questionable since everyone is friends with everyone because of myspace/facebook) then tell her what you told us. if she cant take the heat, get out her kitchen and let an actual AKA catch up with her. i mean if youre telling complete strangers (meaning us) about her, chances are a LOT of other myspace users have seen her page. she'll meet her match. she's probably not the only one doing that mess and she wont be the last. like i said, she'll get caught up by the wrong AKA and get e-hemmed up. now if you want an AKA member to respond, you can sit and wait on it... but thats my 22 cents. |
What's her name?
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it would be one thing if her page was listed as private, or you needed a password to get to it, or whatever, but since you didnt indicate it, she's wide open to be seen. and while those letters are copyright protected, your friend's page isn't so even legally she leaves herself (and her page) to be put out there en masse. Quote:
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If you KNOW some diehard AKAs, why not report it to them?
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Happy Valentines Day, AKA.
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If these girls are really in high school this is silly, I know that plenty of people in high school are confused about proper protocol in regards to a sorority and someone else in highschool thier age telling them its not right isn't probably who they are going to listen to, she has been warned and if the case be the people who need to know her will make it clear they already know. I almost hope this is a prank/troll becuase I would hate for someones my space page in highschool jack up something in college.
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I just hate to see poor girls this close to college having a problem like this preceding them. They should learn to take advise. But then again, this is the internet and some folks feel like their actions won't catch up with them. |
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LiNiqueLi - It seems that you have a lot of people that you could talk to. I would say take it to her mom, but maybe she's not ready to tell her mom she wants to be an AKA. Is it that big of a secret for your friend? I hope she doesn't think so considering that she's put her desires on the World Wide Web for any and everybody to see. You've tried to help your friend. You can continue to try to get her to see the light, but it might be akin to banging your head on a wall. If she won't listen, make sure you're still on the right road to joining one of our illustrious sisterhoods. BTW, you should show her this thread also.... |
LiNi-Tell Erica Joseph (aka Lil Erica) that AKA's love it when interests show us how they would look if they were members. I suggest that she sends a letter to the chapter that she is 100% certain that she will definitely become a member of when she graduates from Lake Charles Boston this year. Tell her to make sure she directs the sorors to this myspace page. It would not only give her future sorors an idea of how computer savy she is, but it will give them a preview of what a great soror she will surely someday be. Hope this helps :D
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