Are black guys really better in bed?
 

I'm new to this site, so I know this sounds crazy, but I'm curious. Some of my sorority and I went to a step show for the 1st time, and some of the sexual things the fraternities were doing made me wonder if black guys are really great in bed like the myth says. I've only dated white guys, so I'm really curious. Has anyone been with a black guy and other races also? Is there a difference? I mean the whole thing about them being larger.

find out for yourself and get hands on experience. sounds like you want to anyway....

LMAO!!!!!!!!

This could be an interesting thread........On Oprah a while back there was an episode abot sex and the questions that people want answered but were afraid to ask......the size thing was one of them....Cosmo did a poll and the results said that the myth was true from poll results.....of course polls can be manipulated and there are always going to be exceptions in both directions....I agree with W&B though...you should just give it a try for yourself.....but be careful, you know the old cliche....LMAO again......

Basically.

OYGBYNGB!!!;) :p

That is such an inappropriate question to ask of anyone. Boy some need lessons in tact and social graces. And you just joined to ask such a tacky question? WTF? :rolleyes:

I guess you gotta try them all before coming to a scientific conclusion :rolleyes: So stop asking and get busy because you have your work cut out for you! :rolleyes:

Where I used to work, someone WHO CAME TO DROP OFF THEIR KID asked me that (like I would know the answer). My reply to him:
"dunno, why don't you ask your wife!" :D

BWHAHAHAHA!
Good one.

This has got to be a fake thread. I can't imagine what sorority would have someone like you as a member.

O.
M.
G.

"That's all I got to say 'bout dat." (Forrest Gump).

A slightly unrelated question.

Is it just me? Are large penises sometimes intimidating? When I watch porn, sometimes I think "OUCH!!!" Don't let me get started on dildoes, I've seen some dildoes the size of my forearm. Well, I guess it's not a big deal if your poon hole is wide/deep as a vase's.

Does anyone else finds this offensive as I do?

Like doesn't these comments violate the GC TOS?

I have never found utter discussion of porn and smut like this on GC, but maybe folks want to go there nowadays...

I'm not really offended by her question. As popular as this topic is, I think it's only natural to be a little curious.

Now I'm curious. I wonder if my husband would object to my doing some field research... ;) :p :cool: :D

As far as I'm concerned, size is less important than technique.

I don't get whats so offensive....I assume most on here are adults....as long as the language stays out of the gutter whats the problem....two of my best friends are married white females and we've had this discussion more then once....damn if this is bad you guys wouldn't make it five minutes at my gang's girls night out.....lol...;)

Or in my office!!! We have some raunchy discussions.

Show me where it violates the ToS. Does it bother you that we're talking about PENISES AND VAGINAS? I mean, that's fine to say that you're not comfortable with this type of discussion, but don't cry "ToS VIOLATION!" when it clearly isn't.

She's curious and I'm sure others might be too. No harm in that.

Personally, I'd rather have a lengthy discussion about this than have threads that contain pics of James' Barbie dolls...or one where Tom Earp manages to piss off everybody.

I'm sure Shinerbock and Macallan would LOVE to share their thoughts on the subject...

It's all fun and games until someone gets their panties in a ruffle because racial stereotypes were flabberghastedly perpetuated.

I find it stupid and ghetto trashy ignorant more than anything else. This discussion is moot.

And if anything, Cheerfulgreek, I as an African American highly educated woman, say go get yourself some big big Mandingo dick fast so you can get over your fetish so as to let us true and real sistahs have a wonderful time in the 'hood workin' it...

Has anyone here ever read Penthouse Letters et al?
BRN, several year ago I met a few people who worked at
Penthouse's Law Firm and they swore that the only thing ever done to those letters was editorial clean up/touch up.

I have the first ten volumes. :)

Good stuff.

True, very true. Great sex ed tool.

But more to the point of this thread, there have been many letters in there covering this topic. All sizes, shapes, types and colors et al:eek: :o :)

Also, one should pick up Anne Rice's three volume "Sleeping Beauty".
Not a kids story book.

AKA, I have no thoughts on the subject. I have no clue how black guys are in bed. In fact, I'm not even sure black people sleep. Ignorance, I suppose.

I don't find this thread offensive, I just think it's something that she should have kept to herself. I think this is really the wrong chat line for this topic.

I don't know. Are all white girls clueless airheads who are set on living out some dated Mandingo fantasy?

That's why I asked the group of posters if the original post was "offensive" and it turned very ugly...

I dunno, I just have an aversion to reducing African American men into body parts to be sold off like slaves at an auction...

But some folks just don't care nor are enlightened and choose to remain inane.

Yup. That's what it sounds like to me too. I don't know what would drive her to post this. That's why I said she should have kept this topic to herself.

Wow. :(

Yes. And painful. :eek: :o lol

LOL. I'm pretty sure ALL of them (at least the ones that you the almighty have deemed worthy to be called a sorority) have people like her as members. :rolleyes:

Someone actually POSTED this question? Wow.

I soo agree! We are not some scientific experiement that needs to be tested to prove if the theory is accurate. I am tired of people reducing African-Americans to statistics, objects of amusement, and sexual fantasies. It happened with Black Women in slavery and now this whole myth about black men. Yes Black Men make AMAZING lovers, because it is more than just penetration (get a black dildo if thats all you want), it is a deep connection and a bond. When I make love to my husband he completes me thats what makes him an amazing lover. Not his penis size or his stamina. That comes along with the package. I'm tired of these women only wanting black men for sex but refuse to deal with the emotions and pain that they bare.

Sorry for the rant but the OP is ridiculous!!:mad:

Shiner':
BON, I have been told some stories about Sororities, from women, that made my chapter very close to saint-like.

And having spent some summers on campus, I found out just what the girls got in their mail every month.

I don't see how this is offensive! I asked a simple question. Ya know, it's not like I'm going to sleep with a black guy, I just wanted to know if the myth was true!! I find some back men attractive and I don't see anything wrong with wanting to meet men from other races.

I'm new to this site and I've seen really sexual and offensive postings from the same people that find this thread offensive. GIVE ME A BREAK!!!!

You should post the links here.

Great idea!! How do I do that?:D

Man I feel you kiddo - I wonder if those black guys are better (on average, or maybe in the aggregate) at basketball than I am? JUST WONDERING!

-RC
--Look up the word 'myth' for the love of God . . . plus, even better, you can determine whether or not this is a myth through the wonder of Google, and a small knowledge of human sexuality studies

LMAO

This is the only statement on the thread that I've found to be offensive. I can't see how the original question could compare to your statements.

Sorry "sistah", I don't have any kind of thoughts on this subject.

How was that offensive?:confused:

As much as I rolled my eyes at the original poster's comment, I thought that AKA_Monet's comment was just as bad.

As for why:
a) the implication that this is some fixation that white girls have
b) the implication that the OP just wanted to act on said fixation
c) the implication that white girls liking black guys is a fetish
d) the implication that only black women - "real and true sistahs" should date black men

Btw, I get what "Mandingo" is supposed to mean, but I've never ever heard this term before.

However misguided, this isn't exactly an uncommon question. It shouldn't be treated as a sign of an unhealthy fixation.