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Buttonz 11-08-2006 03:06 PM

Dual Memberships
 
Do NPHC's do background checks to make sure that the girls who are joining don't hold membership in an NPC?
I just found out that one of my sisters joined an NPHC through Facebook. She has pictures up of her with her new sisters, everything.

AChiOhSnap 11-08-2006 03:08 PM

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Originally Posted by Buttonz (Post 1353881)
Do NPHC's do background checks to make sure that the girls who are joining don't hold membership in an NPC?
I just found out that one of my sisters joined an NPHC through Facebook. She has pictures up of her with her new sisters, everything.

Jeez...is she at your school?

tunatartare 11-08-2006 03:09 PM

Does she have SDT mentioned anywhere in her facebook profile?

Buttonz 11-08-2006 03:15 PM

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Originally Posted by AChiOhSnap (Post 1353882)
Jeez...is she at your school?

I joined SDT at the school that I started out in, and she was one of my chapter sisters.

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Originally Posted by KLPDaisy (Post 1353883)
Does she have SDT mentioned anywhere in her facebook profile?

She used to....not anymore....

MTSUGURL 11-08-2006 03:20 PM

I could be way off base, but I don't think that it's against rules for members to hold membership in NPC and NPHC orgs... Could be comepletely wrong and I probably am.

Drolefille 11-08-2006 03:22 PM

Not technically but it tends to be frowned upon, particularly within the NPHC groups. This doesn't mean it never happens or is universally frowned upon or anything though. The question would be, was she honest about her affiliation with SDT? And that is an issue for her and her sisters/sorors. (Of course this is a message board so it's never our business anyway;))

Buttonz 11-08-2006 03:26 PM

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Originally Posted by Drolefille (Post 1353890)
Not technically but it tends to be frowned upon, particularly within the NPHC groups. This doesn't mean it never happens or is universally frowned upon or anything though. The question would be, was she honest about her affiliation with SDT? And that is an issue for her and her sisters/sorors. (Of course this is a message board so it's never our business anyway;))

I know her, and I doubt she was..

AChiOhSnap 11-08-2006 03:31 PM

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Originally Posted by Buttonz (Post 1353894)
I know her, and I doubt she was..

Even if her NPHC org doesn't care, you could still inform SDT nationals of her dishonesty, I'd be pissed if I were you.

Drolefille 11-08-2006 03:37 PM

I don't know about SDT, but there's not really rules about it on the NPC side...

KSUViolet06 11-08-2006 03:37 PM

Paging an NPHC sorority member.

Question, did this women officially end her membership at any point with SDT?

tunatartare 11-08-2006 03:39 PM

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Originally Posted by AChiOhSnap (Post 1353897)
Even if her NPHC org doesn't care, you could still inform SDT nationals of her dishonesty, I'd be pissed if I were you.

Do you think she really cares? The girl has pictures of her in NPHC letters, stepping, etc. for all of the world including her SDT sisters to see. If she really cared, she would've been more, ahem, discreet about it.

Buttonz 11-08-2006 03:41 PM

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Originally Posted by KSUViolet06 (Post 1353904)
Paging an NPHC sorority member.

Question, did this women officially end her membership at any point with SDT?

As far as I am aware, when my chapter was closed, she went alum, as the option was given, and taken by all the sisters who was active at that time. I am going to try to double check that one, but that is as far as I know.

AChiOhSnap 11-08-2006 03:42 PM

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Originally Posted by KLPDaisy (Post 1353907)
Do you think she really cares? The girl has pictures of her in NPHC letters, stepping, etc. for all of the world including her SDT sisters to see. If she really cared, she would've been more, ahem, discreet about it.

That's a good point, but if it were possible, I would hope that nationals would do SOMETHING about it (if she were still officially a member) just for the interest of my org and the idea of a lifetime member and all that.

I understand she probably wouldn't care either way though.

ms_gwyn 11-08-2006 03:50 PM

Not completely sure, but I do believe it has been mentioned on GC that at least 1 NPHC sorority does not allow dual membership.

Drolefille 11-08-2006 04:05 PM

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Originally Posted by AChiOhSnap (Post 1353911)
That's a good point, but if it were possible, I would hope that nationals would do SOMETHING about it (if she were still officially a member) just for the interest of my org and the idea of a lifetime member and all that.

I understand she probably wouldn't care either way though.

If SDT doesn't have a rule against it (only within the NPC does the NPC have such a rule) then I don't know why it's a bad thing from SDT's standpoint. If it was Gamma Sigma Sigma instead would that be different?

Buttonz 11-08-2006 04:11 PM

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Originally Posted by Drolefille (Post 1353928)
If SDT doesn't have a rule against it (only within the NPC does the NPC have such a rule) then I don't know why it's a bad thing from SDT's standpoint. If it was Gamma Sigma Sigma instead would that be different?

If she joined a service org, I wouldn't have a problem with it. But another social org I do. I also doubt she was honest about her affiliation with SDT.

Drolefille 11-08-2006 04:16 PM

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Originally Posted by Buttonz (Post 1353938)
If she joined a service org, I wouldn't have a problem with it. But another social org I do. I also doubt she was honest about her affiliation with SDT.

I guess I just don't see an issue with it. It's like my mom joining P.E.O.
Would you feel the same if it was Beta Sigma Phi? (Pi?)

Although if she lied about SDT, not cool.

ΑΓΔSquirrelGirl 11-08-2006 04:28 PM

I don't know if it's against the rules, but I would notify national. To me, once you're initiated to a sorority you're supposed to be totally loyal. If you transfer and you don't have a chapter to affiliate with, then you should just join a service organization or honor society or something to occupy your time, but not divide loyalties, ya know?

ms_gwyn 11-08-2006 04:44 PM

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Originally Posted by Drolefille (Post 1353945)
I guess I just don't see an issue with it. It's like my mom joining P.E.O.
Would you feel the same if it was Beta Sigma Phi? (Pi?)


NPHC are not service organizations per se....they are social organization there are heavily involved with community/service projects.

It is highly insulting to me (and I am not even a NPHC member) to liken the NPHC organizations to Beta Sigma Phi and PEO or the like. I am not saying anything bad against Beta Sigma Phi or PEO, because they serve a purpose, just like each and every social organization (be it Greek letter or no) that we mostly discuss here on GC.

The reason I say the above is that you can hold dual membership (considered not a conflict of membership or frowned upon) to be a member of NPC/NPHC organization and a member of GSS, BSP, PEO, etc....

Buttonz 11-08-2006 04:49 PM

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Originally Posted by ms_gwyn (Post 1353981)
NPHC are not service organizations per se....they are social organization there are heavily involved with community/service projects.

It is highly insulting to me (and I am not even a NPHC member) to liken the NPHC organizations to Beta Sigma Phi and PEO or the like. I am not saying anything bad against Beta Sigma Phi or PEO, because they serve a purpose, just like each and every social organization (be it Greek letter or no) that we mostly discuss here on GC.

The reason I say the above is that you can hold dual membership (considered not a conflict of membership or frowned upon) to be a member of NPC/NPHC organization and a member of GSS, BSP, PEO, etc....

Thank you. Not only do I feel the same way, I have looked into both BSP and OPhiA for myself, as they are two different things.

Buttonz 11-08-2006 04:51 PM

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Originally Posted by ΑΓΔSquirrelGirl (Post 1353962)
I don't know if it's against the rules, but I would notify national. To me, once you're initiated to a sorority you're supposed to be totally loyal. If you transfer and you don't have a chapter to affiliate with, then you should just join a service organization or honor society or something to occupy your time, but not divide loyalties, ya know?

She never transfered. Our chapter was closed, and then..well it was done the semester that our chapter was closed (we were closed the first week or so of the semester) she went ahead and joined XYZ. I am pretty sure it's a city wide chapter, as the school doesn't have XYZ, so she could have gotten away without mentioning she was an SDT.

Drolefille 11-08-2006 05:06 PM

I'm not really comparing NPHC to other groups, just saying that she is probably as active in SDT as many other alums and that her NPHC membership probably doesn't infringe on that.

ΑΓΔSquirrelGirl 11-08-2006 05:06 PM

Personally I think that's pretty bad. I'm an Alpha Gam, and even if we lost our chapter I wouldn't attempt to become something else.

Senusret I 11-08-2006 05:16 PM

I say put the hussy on blast.

33girl 11-08-2006 05:28 PM

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Originally Posted by Senusret I (Post 1354017)
I say put the hussy on blast.

I like this idea a lot.

WenD08 11-08-2006 05:31 PM

for AKA, a woman cannot try for membership if she is/was a member of an NPC/NPHC sorority or a another sorority similar in scope. a former member of an NPC sorority tried to join ours. she was honest that she was a former member and we honestly turned her down:p
as for doing background checks, no, we don't. however, if someone tries to get around this and is caught, it's not pretty.
i do believe other NPHC sororities are the same as us.
i swear that Facebook will trip up a bunch of folks:rolleyes:...i wonder what org. this woman is in...:confused:

jubilance1922 11-08-2006 05:40 PM

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Originally Posted by WenD08 (Post 1354028)
for AKA, a woman cannot try for membership if she is/was a member of an NPC/NPHC sorority or a another sorority similar in scope. a former member of an NPC sorority tried to join ours. she was honest that she was a former member and we honestly turned her down:p
as for doing background checks, no, we don't. however, if someone tries to get around this and is caught, it's not pretty.
i do believe other NPHC sororities are the same as us.
i swear that Facebook will trip up a bunch of folks:rolleyes:...i wonder what org. this woman is in...:confused:


Sigma Gamma Rho has the same policy. And I'm curious as to what organization this young lady joined as well.

Senusret I 11-08-2006 05:44 PM

Buttonz, it would be un-panhellenic if you didn't tell us which org the hussy joined.

33girl 11-08-2006 05:51 PM

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Originally Posted by Senusret I (Post 1354041)
Buttonz, it would be un-panhellenic if you didn't tell us which org the hussy joined.

I bet it has a Greek letter ending in "A." :p

KSUViolet06 11-08-2006 05:56 PM

Inquiring minds want to know. It obviously bothers you. If you put her on blast, it would no longer be an issue since I'm guessing she'd be promptly expelled (since I'm sure the NPHC women on GC are well connected). :)

Senusret I 11-08-2006 05:56 PM

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Originally Posted by 33girl (Post 1354045)
I bet it has a Greek letter ending in "A." :p

Oh you're just so damned smart, aren't you? LOLOL

mccoyred 11-08-2006 06:21 PM

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Originally Posted by jubilance1922 (Post 1354038)
Sigma Gamma Rho has the same policy. And I'm curious as to what organization this young lady joined as well.

Ditto for DST.

Buttonz 11-08-2006 09:36 PM

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Originally Posted by Drolefille (Post 1353998)
I'm not really comparing NPHC to other groups, just saying that she is probably as active in SDT as many other alums and that her NPHC membership probably doesn't infringe on that.

Not only is she not active in SDT, she has removed all references to SDT, which was still up there after the chapter was closed.

CrimsonTide4 11-08-2006 09:52 PM

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Originally Posted by Senusret I (Post 1354017)
I say put the hussy on blast.

I agree. And like tell us what NPHC org she joined. :)

ladygreek 11-08-2006 10:01 PM

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Originally Posted by Buttonz (Post 1353881)
I just found out that one of my sisters joined an NPHC through Facebook.

How do you join anything through Facebook?

Senusret I 11-08-2006 10:02 PM

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Originally Posted by ladygreek (Post 1354220)
How do you join anything through Facebook?

She found out, through Facebook. :)

ladygreek 11-08-2006 10:02 PM

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Originally Posted by CrimsonTide4 (Post 1354209)
I agree. And like tell us what NPHC org she joined. :)

Or just tell us what colors they were wearing. :D

ShamikaT 11-08-2006 10:08 PM

Yall need to stop frontin'. Yall don't get mad when a black woman marries a white man, divorces him, and then marries a black man. In fact, some would be happy that a sista came to her senses! Same thang with this.

GDIfly 11-08-2006 10:13 PM

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Originally Posted by ShamikaT (Post 1354230)
Yall need to stop frontin'. Yall don't get mad when a black woman marries a white man, divorces him, and then marries a black man. In fact, some would be happy that a sista came to her senses! Same thang with this.

I call nonsense post on you.

CrimsonTide4 11-08-2006 10:14 PM

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Originally Posted by ladygreek (Post 1354224)
Or just tell us what colors they were wearing. :D

Good point. Or how many fingers she was holding up in her pictures. ;)

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Originally Posted by ShamikaT (Post 1354230)
Yall need to stop frontin'. Yall don't get mad when a black woman marries a white man, divorces him, and then marries a black man. In fact, some would be happy that a sista came to her senses! Same thang with this.

ShamikaT, so creative with your comparisons. Yet. . .


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