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KAY10 09-23-2006 02:30 AM

Worst blind date.
 
I did a search on this, and I didn't see anything on it. Unless I overlooked it. But anyway what's the worst blind date you've been on? No offense to the big girls on this site, but I was set up on a blind date with a girl in XYZ sorority who was fatter that Aretha Franklin on Thanksgiving day. That was our 1st and last date.

Buttonz 09-23-2006 03:17 AM

Someone who used to post here on a regular basis set me up with a guy that she went to high school with.

What a jerk. He made such a fuss about meeting me at the Starbucks that was more convient for me to get to, didn't offer to buy me my coffee or anything else, and was just a very odd conversasion. He said he had to leave, so I said good night and went to the bathroom...when I came out he was flirting with two chicks that were theree, and hardly looked at me. After, he had the nerve to IM me and tell me that I was to fat for him. :rolleyes:


KAY10 09-23-2006 03:34 AM

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Originally Posted by Buttonz (Post 1326099)
Someone who used to post here on a regular basis set me up with a guy that she went to high school with.

What a jerk. He made such a fuss about meeting me at the Starbucks that was more convient for me to get to, didn't offer to buy me my coffee or anything else, and was just a very odd conversasion. He said he had to leave, so I said good night and went to the bathroom...when I came out he was flirting with two chicks that were theree, and hardly looked at me. After, he had the nerve to IM me and tell me that I was to fat for him. :rolleyes:


Wow. Now that's wrong.

Buttonz 09-23-2006 03:41 AM

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Originally Posted by KAY10 (Post 1326103)
Wow. Now that's wrong.

Tell me about it...to make it worse, it was my first date since my ex....

I've been on a blind date that one of my sisters set me up with that we had nothing to talk about except our HS and the teachers....let's just say...boring...

KAY10 09-23-2006 03:54 AM

That can make things discouraging since it was your 1st date since your ex.

LOL. That's too funny. I wouldn't go on a blind date again though. It's like a box of chocolates you never know what you're gonna get. (Forrest Gump) LOL. Actaully that statement is true when you know who you're dating. LOL

DominoTheta 09-23-2006 04:40 AM

I personally think there are some very beautiful big girls. My mother is a big woman. It breaks my heart to see the bumper sticker "No Fat Chicks."

Buttonz 09-23-2006 10:10 AM

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Originally Posted by KAY10 (Post 1326108)
That can make things discouraging since it was your 1st date since your ex.

LOL. That's too funny. I wouldn't go on a blind date again though. It's like a box of chocolates you never know what you're gonna get. (Forrest Gump) LOL. Actaully that statement is true when you know who you're dating. LOL

Extremely discouraging to say the least.

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Originally Posted by DominoTheta (Post 1326112)
I personally think there are some very beautiful big girls. My mother is a big woman. It breaks my heart to see the bumper sticker "No Fat Chicks."



There really are...the sad thing is, I'm not that big and was still told that :(

BetteDavisEyes 09-23-2006 11:22 AM

I went on a blind date to a prom when I was a sophomore with a guy that my cousin swore up and down was a real sweetheart but his girlfriend dumped one week before the prom. I went with him and he was a perfect gentleman. We had a really good time and then he asked me if I wanted to go to the after party with all his friends. I said yes b/c I knew my cousin was going too so I felt o.k. Once we got there, he underwent a complete personality change. He told me that since all the bedrooms and bathrooms were being used by some of the other couples at the house, we'd have to have sex in one of the closets. :eek: I just stared at him in shock and told him that I was a virgin and did NOT do that kind of thing. He looked at me and then told me to "get your own ride and go the fuck home" if I didn't put out. :rolleyes: I found my cousin talking with a group of friends, told her what happened, and she very nicely went up to him and threw her beer in his face. :D Her date and her then took me home & apologized for making me go out with the creep. They didn't know he was a real asshole. He must have hid it well.

AlphaFrog 09-23-2006 12:55 PM

I went out with a guy that looked/dressed EXACTLY like Zach Morris from Saved by the Bell...loafers, acid washed jeans, goofy sweater, poufy blonde hair. Problem? It was 1999. The SBTB look was about 10 years over.

JonInKC 09-23-2006 01:14 PM

I went out once with this girl and her friend thought it would be funny to just randomly throw a glass of water on me for no reason. That pretty much brought the date to a sudden end. Someone thought that maybe her friend liked me and was flirting. If so, what a stupid way to get someone's attention. I never talked to that girl or her friend (neither one anything special) again.

KAY10 09-24-2006 04:28 AM

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Originally Posted by DominoTheta (Post 1326112)
I personally think there are some very beautiful big girls. My mother is a big woman. It breaks my heart to see the bumper sticker "No Fat Chicks."

I agree. There are some very pretty bigger women. I'm just not attracted to the extra weight, plus its not healthy for the heart.

KAY10 09-24-2006 04:30 AM

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Originally Posted by Buttonz (Post 1326143)
Extremely discouraging to say the least.





There really are...the sad thing is, I'm not that big and was still told that :(

Hey, that dude you went out with probably had some issues and wanted to throw some insecurities on you. Misery likes company.

KAY10 09-24-2006 04:32 AM

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Originally Posted by AlphaFrog (Post 1326174)
I went out with a guy that looked/dressed EXACTLY like Zach Morris from Saved by the Bell...loafers, acid washed jeans, goofy sweater, poufy blonde hair. Problem? It was 1999. The SBTB look was about 10 years over.

LOL.

sisterzip 10-09-2006 12:25 PM

When My friend was dating her Ex they decided to hook me up with one of his coworkers "Dave".
Dave wanted to take me out to dinner witch I accpeted. The restuarant he took me to was this buffet. It was one of the cheep greasy ones, not a good one. We got up to the register and it turned out he was only paying for himself. Personaly I think if you are not paying for someone you should discuss where you are going. I didn't want to be picky thought so I gave him a chance. Turns out I might as well have sat by myself. This guy had the peronality of a wall. All he talked about was this boat party he went to over the summer. When I talked about my self he seamed un interested or would change the convo back to the stupid party.
Never again will I let my friend's (ex)Bf set me up.

#3 Tsunami 10-09-2006 01:22 PM

I hollared at this little short sexy caramel thing at a Kappa Party a few years back. I won't expose names and identities. Anyway, she was in my area going to school and lived out of state. Over the summer she went home and I was talking to her on the phone and we had plans to go out when she got back...
But, in the meantime I saw this bad ass brown sugar on blackplanet. We talked for about a week or two on yahoo messenger and made plans to go out. I go to pick her up at her apartment and she was everything I expected. Sexy as hell!!!. But when she hollars to her roomate in the backround, guess who comes up to the door.
Short sexy caramel!!!!
:eek:

KSigkid 10-11-2006 07:35 AM

Girl had horrible breath and ate off my plate at dinner; I don't think I talked to the friend who set up the blind date for a couple of weeks.

RU OX Alum 10-11-2006 11:05 PM

i had a blind once.....she kept bumping into things and then hit me with her cane. :(

whiteandblack 10-11-2006 11:17 PM

^^^ so you had a LITERAL blind date. HA!

KAY10 10-14-2006 03:19 AM

Quote:

Originally Posted by sisterzip (Post 1335940)
When My friend was dating her Ex they decided to hook me up with one of his coworkers "Dave".
Dave wanted to take me out to dinner witch I accpeted. The restuarant he took me to was this buffet. It was one of the cheep greasy ones, not a good one. We got up to the register and it turned out he was only paying for himself. Personaly I think if you are not paying for someone you should discuss where you are going. I didn't want to be picky thought so I gave him a chance. Turns out I might as well have sat by myself. This guy had the peronality of a wall. All he talked about was this boat party he went to over the summer. When I talked about my self he seamed un interested or would change the convo back to the stupid party.
Never again will I let my friend's (ex)Bf set me up.

He paid for himself? Now that's jacked beyond belief. LOL

KAY10 10-14-2006 03:20 AM

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Originally Posted by #3 Tsunami (Post 1335980)
I hollared at this little short sexy caramel thing at a Kappa Party a few years back. I won't expose names and identities. Anyway, she was in my area going to school and lived out of state. Over the summer she went home and I was talking to her on the phone and we had plans to go out when she got back...
But, in the meantime I saw this bad ass brown sugar on blackplanet. We talked for about a week or two on yahoo messenger and made plans to go out. I go to pick her up at her apartment and she was everything I expected. Sexy as hell!!!. But when she hollars to her roomate in the backround, guess who comes up to the door.
Short sexy caramel!!!!
:eek:

Daaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaamn!!!!!!!! What did you do when that happend?

PrettyBoy 10-14-2006 05:09 AM

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Originally Posted by jessXIca (Post 1339015)
why? any guy who'd put that on his car is a total jackass and no loss to anyone whatsoever. i like when assholes clearly identify themselves.

Yeah, I agree. That's wrong.

whiteandblack 10-14-2006 06:34 PM

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Originally Posted by jessXIca (Post 1339015)
why? any guy who'd put that on his car is a total jackass and no loss to anyone whatsoever. i like when assholes clearly identify themselves.


thank you.

tunatartare 11-03-2006 11:15 AM

Bump

I got set up with a guy once who had just moved to the town where my school was. He came to pick me up, and it turned out that there was a chapter of his fraternity at my school. He decided that he needed to meet his brothers and see what their house was like. I was a freshman and had no clue how to get to the house. So the entire date basically consisted of us driving around Poughkeepsie in circles late at night getting lost so that he could meet the guys. Needless to say, there was no second date.

Buttonz 11-18-2006 02:58 AM

The date I just came home from. Went out for desert and had a great time, but no spark....and he couldn't take the hint after even after I said it straight out.

PrettyBoy 11-18-2006 03:13 AM

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Originally Posted by Buttonz (Post 1359505)
The date I just came home from. Went out for desert and had a great time, but no spark....and he couldn't take the hint after even after I said it straight out.

LOL. What did you tell him? What did he say that made you think he didn't get the hint? Also were you physically attracted to him? I'm being nosey?:p

PrettyBoy 11-18-2006 03:22 AM

My friend's wife tried setting me up with her friend last week. I was very skeptical at 1st. I don't like blind dates, but any way I decided to do it. When I got there she was really attractive but was totally not my type. I'm glad it was a double date instead. She asked me for my number when I got ready to go. That really put me on the spot. She told me she just wanted US to go out next time. I ended up giving her my number.:( I didn't just want to say no to her. She called the next day:eek: . I didn't call her back yet. I should have followed my 1st instinct.

Buttonz 11-18-2006 03:38 AM

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Originally Posted by PrettyBoy (Post 1359506)
LOL. What did you tell him? What did he say that made you think he didn't get the hint? Also were you physically attracted to him? I'm being nosey?:p

I told him that there was no spark and he was like "I felt one, could it be just cus you were in pain and had a long day?" ummm no...and he still kept on asking to see me again! :eek: :eek:

And no, I am not physically attracted to him, far from it....

PrettyBoy 11-18-2006 04:02 AM

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Originally Posted by Buttonz (Post 1359508)
I told him that there was no spark and he was like "I felt one, could it be just cus you were in pain and had a long day?" ummm no...and he still kept on asking to see me again! :eek: :eek:

And no, I am not physically attracted to him, far from it....

LOL. That's the worse feeling when going on blind dates. They build up some excitement at 1st. Then you start wondering what this person looks like? How is their personality? Are they attractive, or are they o.k.? or are they just tore up from the floor up? Then when you finally get to the place where you agreed to meet and you see this person approach you and if they are unattractive, you say to yourself "I wish I could just go back home right now." LOL.:p

Buttonz 11-18-2006 03:19 PM

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Originally Posted by PrettyBoy (Post 1359511)
LOL. That's the worse feeling when going on blind dates. They build up some excitement at 1st. Then you start wondering what this person looks like? How is their personality? Are they attractive, or are they o.k.? or are they just tore up from the floor up? Then when you finally get to the place where you agreed to meet and you see this person approach you and if they are unattractive, you say to yourself "I wish I could just go back home right now." LOL.:p

Well, he picked me up...and he looks better in his pics then he does in real life, but the looks weren't the reason why there wasn't a spark

AlexMack 11-18-2006 09:26 PM

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Originally Posted by RU OX Alum (Post 1337510)
i had a blind once.....she kept bumping into things and then hit me with her cane. :(

And I just cried from laughing so hard.

teena 11-18-2006 11:35 PM

This happened a long, long, long time ago in a galaxy far, far away.
In my younger, less enlightened days, my standards for a mate were-lets just say different. My friends set me up with this guy who was new to town. He was a really big deal because he had a nice ride and money. He was realively young and had his own business. Anyway, I meet him and instantly I know he and I will not work (there is a saying that says that a woman knows if she is going to sleep with you in the first 10 seconds of meeting you- this is very true). We had no chemisty and he love to talk. I could take a nap and wake up and he would still be talking. Talking about utter nonsense. AN-TY-HOW I knew it was time to end the party when I tuned back into the conversation to hear him saying "when I was my uncle in another life, I remember going to XYZ. Yeah, my momma told me that I used to be my uncle. She could tell by my eyes." I was like :eek:
Is this dude on crack? Some secrets you keep until the wedding night. Belief in psycho-foolishness can be one of those secrets.

I havent been on a blind date since.

AlexMack 11-19-2006 11:37 AM

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Originally Posted by teena (Post 1359818)
This happened a long, long, long time ago in a galaxy far, far away.
In my younger, less enlightened days, my standards for a mate were-lets just say different. My friends set me up with this guy who was new to town. He was a really big deal because he had a nice ride and money. He was realively young and had his own business. Anyway, I meet him and instantly I know he and I will not work (there is a saying that says that a woman knows if she is going to sleep with you in the first 10 seconds of meeting you- this is very true). We had no chemisty and he love to talk. I could take a nap and wake up and he would still be talking. Talking about utter nonsense. AN-TY-HOW I knew it was time to end the party when I tuned back into the conversation to hear him saying "when I was my uncle in another life, I remember going to XYZ. Yeah, my momma told me that I used to be my uncle. She could tell by my eyes." I was like :eek:
Is this dude on crack? Some secrets you keep until the wedding night. Belief in psycho-foolishness can be one of those secrets.

I havent been on a blind date since.

Trust me, that's a secret you should find out on the first date. He's the kind of guy you DON'T want to marry. Consider yourself lucky.

PrettyBoy 11-23-2006 01:25 AM

Quote:

Originally Posted by Buttonz (Post 1359642)
Well, he picked me up...and he looks better in his pics then he does in real life, but the looks weren't the reason why there wasn't a spark

What was the reason for there being no sparks? How did you get a picture of him?


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