will joining a fraternity help me get more girls?
 

i just completed my freshman year in college. i enjoyed it, but i felt like something was missing. i made good grades and made a lot of friends, but i did not do too well in the girl department. i noticed that a lot of fraternity guys have no trouble picking up women, even if they are ugly. i'm considering to go to rush next semester. my boys say this is a dumb reason to join a fraternity. i think it is because they are just hating.

Your boys are right.

its good that you would like to go thru rush. But just to try to get girls. Fraternities aren't just about girls and parties. There is more to it then that. However, it is a good way to improve your social skills.

Eh, let him be. It would make for an interesting rush thread. And if all else fails there's always eharmony.com.

Speak for yourself. Nothing is sexier than BO. Except maybe a mullet and BO.

Judging by the initial post, this guy would do better at FrattyHarmony.com

see, we're azn, and they don't like it when I hit on white girls. most of the azn fraternity guys have no problem scoring with white chix. i think that's the reason why they don't want me to join a fraternity.

Fratty boys have no problems getting girls. He wouldn't fit in.

hAv3 u TrI3D m33TiNg SoM3 Cut3 aZn GrLs?

Jess, yea, I can picture the look on your face right about now.

Wow. ShamikaT...meet your soulmate.

It's amazing I was able to keep my salad down just now. But doesn't ShamikaT only go for black guys? Namely Nupe4Life and Rainman.

Yeah, but your soulmate doesn't have to be your Boyfriend. If this guy was claiming to be a black female, I would swear it was ShamikaT's alterego....

Maybe if you learned how to spell ASIANit would help.

Hey do you like Russian girls? Because for $39.95 +S&H you could have a mail-order bride of your very own.

Maybe he can meet a girl on GC. Hey SOPI_Jawbreaker, feel like doing any charity work? ;)

i smell very good and am very OCD about my hygiene. in fact i shave my undearm hair to help prevent the funk. it isn't that. i think i'm a desirable guy; i work out, dance good, can rap, and my dad has money. i do have an affinity with white girls, but i don't think they are comfortable around me.

It's a good thing the person who shares the office with me is out today so he doesn't get to see me laughing like a hyena.

Now if only that OCD would carry over to the SHIFT key and Spell check buttons.

Clearly, your Honda isn't suped-up enough. And you're probably not wearing enough fake bling bling from Chinatown. Also try going for baggy clothes like this http://www.geocities.com/asian_pride1981/Azn.jpg
And when you talk to girls, don't have a normal conversation with them or anything. Just go up to random white girls and go "Yo, baby, whazzup?"

He's too busy shaving his armpits to spell check.

See, I knew you'd help him out. After 4 years of Bronx Science, you'd think that I'd have something to add, but you've pretty much covered the bases.

azn girls are cool too. but the white guys take all of the cute ones, just like they take all of the cute white girls. :mad:

WTF??? How did my name get dragged into this converstaion? When have I ever been mean to you? :( Please let me know, and I promise I'll never do it again.

then i can't type as fast.

i don't think so. being a little urban is cool, but if you're too urban you'll scare away the white girls. at least the classy ones.

SOPi_Jawbreaker, please check your pms.

You mean you'd actually have to slow down...and maybe THINK about what you're typing??:rolleyes:

Awww, I'm sorry you misunderstood what I was saying. I was kidding too. I probably should have used this smiley :p at the end of my post but I forgot.

ETA: My post was more like a "Oh snap. KLPDaisy got me. Ok, I'm getting her back."

As long as we're all good. Now back to the business at hand, providing dating tips for this idiot. Keep them coming ladies.

I'd recommend rush. You'd have a more diverse group of friends. I think that'd be a plus. Best of luck.

Well...you have your 2 basic hairstyles, mullet and mohawk. Those always attract the white chix. Well, ok, maybe it's just Britney and other fine examples of white trailer trash that works on.

I already told you. There is nothing sexier than a guy with BO and a mullet. Seeing as this guy smells like a bed of roses, he better have a mullet to at least have some sort of redeeming feature.

Yes, but you make the pics of Brit with Matt Lauer look sexy. He wants a nice classy girl. Like maybe Ashlee Simpson.:p :p

I tried to think of someone classier than Ashlee Simpson and I just couldn't. Except maybe Paris Hilton.

You forgot Tara Reid, LiLo, and of course Nicole Richie. KLASSY LADIES.

So I did a Google Image Search for classy, and it never fails to disappoint. Maybe this is what he's looking for. Problem is, she's an azn chix, not a white one.
http://www.sparkleplentycreations.co...oto-classy.jpg

Ok, I know what I've written below isn't very PC, but here's my sorta serious/helpful advice (even though the OP may very possibly be a troll):

With the exception of white girls that have a thing for Asian guys, in most of the white girl/Asian guy couples I've seen, the guy is very very white-washed (like he doesn't have ANY Asian friends at all, doesn't hang out with Asians, doesn't do any of the stereotypical Asian-American things like being nerdy or being a ricer).

The "Azn" thing makes you sound like a ricer. The shaving your armpits makes you sound like a very very very metrosexual Asian (like the stereotype of Asian guys being really baby-faced or kinda feminine-looking). I don't know you. I don't know what you look like. But this is just the vibe you're giving off from a couple of posts.

Anyways, my advice (this advice also pretty much applies to guys of any race that complain that girls don't like nice guys). From the get-go, you have to come across as a masculine, sexual being (like she can imagine herself doing things with you...even if you or her are saving yourselves for marriage, she has to at least be able to imagine having steamy make-out sessions with you). Once a girl sees you as a non-sexual, platonic friend, it's over. You have no chance. Now, the problem is many guys think that coming across as a sexual being means being an asshole or being overly aggressive, when in fact, that kind of behaviour just makes you come across as desperate and unable to get girls. And girls can smell desperation a mile away. The guys that are able to get girls act laid-back. So my advice is when you meet a cute girl, start a very casual relaxed conversation with her. Look into her eyes (but not in a creepy, boring-holes-into-her-head kinda way). Look interested and intigued by her and what she's saying. If the conversation stalls, ask her questions about herself (this advice works for just general conversation-making also...most people's favorite topic to talk about is themselves). Read her body language. If she seems receptive, lean in a litte (I stress, a little...don't get too much into her personal space, that she feels uncomfortable and creeped out). If she's still receptive (hasn't pulled away), gently (almost barely) touch her arm or her back (not in a creepy, lecherous way, but in a soft, affectionate, endearing way). The leaning in a little bit and the gentle, barely there touch will let her categorize you as non-platonic. Don't do anything more for a while. Let her wonder and think about when you're going to kiss her. Let that anticipation build up in her.

All of this is assuming you're able to do these two things:
#1 That you are able to be presentable (well-groomed and well-dressed in a masculine way)
#2 That you are able to gauge whether or not a girl is receptive to you making a move and if not, you don't press on

Yes, but if ALL azn chix were this klassy, he wouldn't be needin' to be afta' the white chix.

Ok, I need to go wash my hands after typing that last sentance. BAD.