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http://www.cnn.com/2006/US/05/10/gra....ap/index.html
Ridiculous. A group of first and second grade boys are accused of "sexually assaulting" an 8 year-old girl. Assault, perhaps. Sexual assault by 7 and 8 year olds? |
Umm, yeah. If they're pulling her pants down or lifting her skirt or something, and not leaving her alone, that would be a sexual assault. There's a difference between playing and pursuing someone in a mean-spirited way.
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Well there is a a difference between sexual assault that should be treated as a legal matter and what these boys appear to have done.
The girl is unharmed, is it really a good idea to embroil these kids in the legal system? Whatever happened to the parents just whooping their asses? Maybe we should make the kids have to register as sex offenders? |
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yeah, normally I'm the last to be in favor of these kinds of suits, but when it says that a group of TWELVE boys was huddled over her and she was on the ground, that's a little different than the 5 year old who got suspended for kissing or two kids chasing each other around the playground.
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Honestly, I think there are two key issues: 1 - Whether the attack was sexualized (note that here, I don't think it would necessarily have to entail something like digital penetration, but that would certainly qualify - even if it were 'group teasing' about girls having 'mommy parts' and attempting to pull down pants, that's probably enough) . . . if it's just boys assailing a girl, that's not enough, there has to be some tacit acknowledgement of the crime as sexualized . . . remember, these are pre-pubescent children. 2 - Determining the extent to which the girl experienced trauma . . . by this, I don't doubt it was traumatic and that she'll require support, but we don't really know the full extent - even the article notes that they don't know the 'emotional scars' that will be inflicted. None of us are really qualified to speak on that, especially considering point #1. As far as listing the children as sex offenders, I find it hard to accept unless we're willing to assign them similarly 'adult' penalties (such as juvenile detention for multiple years (prob until 18 for most), strenuous rehabilitative counseling, the full 9) for such a crime. I realize that at 7 and 8 these kids are old enough to know (rudimentary) right from wrong, but this is well below the cutoff for treatment as an adult in any other facet of law - is it the fact that this is a (potential) sex crime that makes our responses more visceral or vehement? |
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Touching certainly can constitute sexual assault. Between 7 and 14 kids may be able to be held liable for their actions. Without knowing the facts I can't say more, but I do think there's no reason to think there isn't a chance she wasn't sexually assualted. |
Some people see the statue of David as sexual because of a naked penis. I think they are C-R-A-Z-Y. Some people might also think this is sexual when it occured between 2 parties that I highly doubt can even perform sexually let alone get pleasure from it.
Although I did lose my virginity to a supermodel at age 7 I don't most guys are studs like me. -Rudey --S-T-U-D-S |
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LOL - dude you have to be in the middle of exams, because that sentence is brutal (although I agree with your point, as I think I laid out) . . . |
All good points. My skepticism lies within the article. Nothing has been reported (in the article) that falls under sexual assault.
Little boys huddled over a little girl could mean a variety of things: sexual assault, physical assault, playing a game, huddling over the little girl to see why she is on the ground. |
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There wasn't a whole lot of information in the article; it would be interesting to hear more about what happened, rather than the fact that they were just standing in a circle around the girl.
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That said, the website of the Missouri General Assembly has Missouri statutes, and according to it, Missouri Revised Statute 566-040 says "A person commits the crime of sexual assault if he has sexual intercourse with another person knowing that he does so without that person's consent." The entire chapter on sexual offenses can be seen here -- I'm not seeing anything that would make mere touching constitute sexual assault in Missouri, but admittedly I may not be looking in the right places. |
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*goes back to bed* |
Here is the article from the St. Louis Post-Dispatch. Some of the details here were reported on my local news in Baltimore. My assertions that the attack was sexual was based on the tv story not the CNN article.
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My local news reported that the girl's statement was that they were trying to pull off her underwear and were trying to "poke her with their privates." The report was clear that this was not just a gang of kids that happened to be boys picking on another kid that happened to be a girl. Our children are being exposed to more and more sexual content at younger and younger ages. Children replicate and repeat what they see and hear. I have friends who are elementary school teachers who have been sexually propositioned by third, second and even first graders. Believe it or not, it happens. :( :mad: |
Kimmie1913 - thanks for the additional info.
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As for the colloquial use of the term, I think you're right, but the press was also using it, which I think creates potential problems down the road, if no where else but public perception and understanding. I mean, look how quickly this thread went to the list of sexual offenders. |
Aren't kids hitting puberty at younger ages than ever before?
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After working in child/adolescent psych for 13 years, and adding on my experiences as the parent of a 10 year old boy:
1) I would hope that the boys who were involved (and also the girl, more obviously) would receive psychiatric treatment rather than end up in a criminal system. I've met and talked to thousands of kids who were sexually abused and 99% of those who inflicted sexual assault/molestation/abuse (whatever term you prefer) had been sexually abused by an adult in some form. That's how they learned it. I've been out of the field for 6 years and our society has become even more sexualized since that time, so that percentage may have gone down some, because some kids are probably exposed to more, even if they weren't sexually assaulted themselves. My point is, at that age, it's more likely to be a psychological issue than a criminal issue. AND, even if it is a criminal issue, at that age, most kids can be turned around. Unless they are a budding sociopath, but even that can be evaluated and determined by a good psychiatrist and/or therapist. 2) My son, even at age 6, when in the shower, giggled when accidentally stimulated and said things like "that tickles and feels really funny" and things like that. It's pretty typical for 4 year old boys to "discover" themselves and they're often caught touching those private parts. They don't have the exact same reaction, obviously, as a teenager, but the nerves are there and it registers as pleasure. 3) If they've seen it done (porn, movies, internet, whatever) or had it done to them, they may still try to do it, even they aren't physiologically capable of it. |
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