Confessions...
 

Is there something weighing heavy on your heart?

Something you need to get off of your chest?

Perhaps there's a secret you've been hiding from someone...

Well, here is the place to air that dirty laundry of yours!

It doesn't have to be something serious, just something that folks may not know about you.

It's time to let it GO!


I'll start as an example:

Sometimes when Mr. Perfect (my boyfriend) is having a conversation with me, I will COMPLETELY zone out and start thinking of this that aren't related to what he's talking about. But I'll make sure to add some "Uh-huh's", "Right's", "Absolutely's", and "Yeah's" in there so he believes that I'm paying attention.

I love him dearly, but my mind wanders at times LOL!

:p


So now that you've got the idea, come on in and let it out! Don't leave me hangin'!

I wont leave you hanging. I've been dating my boyfriend for two months now... And it wont be lasting that much longer... But, anyway... I told this new guy that I didn't have a boyfriend at all... Now, I'm not dating the new guy, and don't intend to... at least not while I still have a boyfriend...

Hospitality
 

I can not stand my husbands 2 bestfriends and I used to hate when they came over our house! I've never told him this and I try my best not to show it because I know how much they mean to him. I just try to remind myself that I don't have to like them nor entertain them but I can't help to feel like tiny roaches are crawling under my skin whenever I would walk into the house and see them sitting there. They never did anything to me but let's just say I've grown to like their wives and have caught them with their privates in the zipper more than once (tryin' to holla at my girlfriends without knowing they knew me). Besides, as much as I have Sorors running in and out of my house for various functions I felt the least I could do was grin and bear it when those 2 buttheads were at my house :rolleyes:. Now that we are in Germany I don't have to see them for awhile and when I see their numbers on the caller ID I just holla for my husband to pick up the phone :D.

Whew, that felt good getting off my chest!

Whoa!!

:eek:

newpsalmistgirl and MightyQuinn have made my lil confession sound lame compared to theirs LOL!!

@ newpsalmistgirl, keep us updated when you give your bf the ole heave-ho LOL! Poor guy doesn't know it's coming...

:( :confused: :p

HILARIOUS!!!

:D

Too bad it took you going to a whole 'nother CONTINENT to get away from them for a bit LMBO!

That's the spirit!

This is definitely cyber-therapy!

I have come to the conclusion I am not a happy person without money. At first I thought this made me vain and shallow, but I realize now its just part of who I am. ;)
Does it make me vain and shallow? No, it just means while so me people need companionship, or attetntion, or romance I need to have some money in my wallet. I tried to change who I am, but I have worked it out. :D

Well my father is a dentist & I didn't want to follow in his footsteps until my junior year in college. I've taken the Dental Admissions Test studying halfheartedly, done my science courses without putting in much effort and I KNOW that I can do better. I just don't want to. I work in my father's dental practice & tell everyone I want to be a dentist b/c I thought I did. But it came to me after prayer & true self observation.... I don't want to be a dentist. I really want to do law. I don't know the first thing about what kind of law, but I feel as if this is what I'm meant to be. My mind is always playing devil's advocate, I'm a stickler for doing things right & lawfully. I can argue a point supurbly & I don't like to speak until I have all of my facts in order.
As a matter of fact my father always said he thought I would be a lawyer. I'm waiting for the right moment to tell everyone "nevermind".:(

I'm with you MightyQuinn, I don't like my husband's friend Tony. Tony I don't like you. I hate to see your Montero pull up. Stay at home with your fifty million children that look exactly like you. I know he knows I don't like him. I've also seen him talk to other women but he doesn't know I see his dirt....and his wife just had a baby.

Paradise... What God has for you is yours, so even though you don't know exactly what type of law you want to practice, you don't need to, "Jesus will work it out"... Telling everyone wont be half as hard as you think... I'll surely pray for you, but you are blessed to have found out your heart. Oftentimes we feel that we need to do whats "best" or what "makes the most sense," but do whats in your heart, and you'll never have regrets! :D

LMBO @ Afrochic and MightyQuinn...

PerfectVerse... I'll keep you posted... check in with me at the end of the week!;)

Daaaaaaaaaaaaaaang!
 

Dang Afrochic- you just put his name out there :D! Trust me when I tell you I am by far the moral police but I wish if they were going to be dogs they wouldn't have let me get so close to their wives (they truly are wonderful sisters and far too good for those two). My husband's take on them cheating is he just stays away from it because he too likes their wives but he says it's none of our business (which is so true). The sad part about it is I think one of their wives suspects something is going on with her husband because she rarely comes around anymore and my husband says she is not as warm and welcoming to him as she used to be. I just hope she doesn't think we're secretly setting him up with other women because we are far too grown for that. My husband says he's always been like that and she knew that when they got married so he hopes she doesn't think it all began when they became friends.

@Wonderful 1908

Girl ain't nothing wrong with financial prosperity -- I'm sure it's not the only thing that brings you happiness.

what to do....
 

My problem is simple yet complex... I've found someone i can spend the rest of my life with... BUT before this person came along i was on the road of finding that with another young lady. That young lady was playing hard to get and was soon forgotten but has resurfaced as of recent and wants another chance. I know that since i'm with one i cant just up and go with the other but old feelings die hard. I know what to do but then i dont know what to do...

My first post in a while...
 

To RC.... I really, REALLY don't like S. I think that she is a raging b*atch and has entirely too much control for a woman who is not even your SO. The fact that you allow her to behave that way and still have you as a friend confuses me to no end.

It makes me feel so happy to actually see someone else say this because I am the same way. For the longest time I would pray to God that he would help me control my spending then all of a sudden one day I came to the conclusion that I should just start praying for more income. Well, I have found a wonderful, easy part-time job that pays me really well in addition to my full-time job and i'm able to have the things I want when I want them. I hate being without money. To see me with and without it is like night and day. When I have it i'm content but without it i'm morbidly depressed. Happy shopping!

I've been having the r.u.n.s since 3 am.

I "borrowed" some more money from my cash register. And, don't yall trip. It was only thirty dollas, and I will pay that mess back. I'm not above of asking for some more allowance from pops.

LAWD, I have not had sex in a year. I done regained my virginity since I became a Christian, and I'm 'bout to relose it. I am also stuggling with masturbation. All before I get out of bed in the morning. All at work (when no one's there). All in the showers. All at stoplights (when there's no cars next me). All before I go to sleep at night. Yall pray for me. :(

You cant be serious?

About which one?

Call me sheltered... call me naive... call me what u like but i didnt know women did that type of thing all like that. to masterbate is what i'm referring to....

Naw girl. It ain't like that everyday, but some days I just CAN'T resist the temptation. It's like the mo masturbation I delay, the more I will masturbate when I do give in to temptation.

1. I'm a male 2. Ok that i can understand... HOWEVER why do guys get such a hard time about doing that and ladies, from your confession, are just as on it?

It don't bother me. Masturbation is considered as sexual immorality by most Christians, but if you have a tingle it is better to relieve it without sexin' it up. Just don't beat off in inappropiate places. Like if you were a cook, a make-up artist, or dentist...and had problems masturbating at work, that would be nasty NASTY!

LMAO... wow... alright i can dig that... its always intriguing to find a woman with a "comfort level" like yours... :D

[slight hijack] Hi, brother. Just a quick tip---if you ever want to get an idea of the kind of person you're posting to, click on the "search" button located at the bottom of the person's post.

Message boards have internet trolls, established posters with multiple monikers and complete idiots. The "search" button may assist you in determining who is who. [/end hijack]

Whateva heffa. :rolleyes:

Don't be beatin' around the bush. I KNOW that YOU were talkin' about ME.

Ohio, feel free to search my posts and you will find out the kind of fine, christlike, ambitious, kind, thoughtful, intelligent, snarky, witty, laid-back, wonderful, strong, petite, feminine, and HUMBLE young woman that I am.

ladylike, on the other hand...Just do a search and yo mouth would drop at some of the things she posted. Sista IS ghettooooooo! Peep her post about that time she went to Red Lobster just to eat them cheddar garlic bisuits and drink some water. Now you know that's messed up, because those things are FREE. She didn't even have the courtesy to leave a tip. :rolleyes:

ROTFLMBO @ Afrochic!!! This reminds me that I have to be careful when reading the boards while I'm at work!

AMEN AMEN, Wondeful! They say money can't buy happiness, but it can buy the items that make me happy! When I have a roof over my head, food in my fridge, clothes on my back, and gas in my car I'm ELATED!


Paradise, please follow your heart and listen to what God has told you to do! He wants you to be happy, your family will want you to be happy, and all your sorors and sisterfriends on GC want you to be happy as well!!


OhioCentaur

The fact that the other woman played hard to get and essentially played with your heart should tell you that she isn’t the one for you. She obviously isn’t considering your feelings by running out of your life and then coming back whenever it’s convenient for her. Stick with the woman you’re with!



Shamika, how are you gonna say that you “borrowed” some MORE money, which means you’ve done it before, but say you’re a Christian in the next? LOL! It’s understandable to back-slide a lil cause we’re human and we make mistakes, but come on!

And I’m not even gonna comment on the masturbating part….

:eek:

I'm afraid of becoming like my maternal grandmother. I share 1/4 of her genes and she was a big influence in my early childhood. But, my mom is NOTHING like her, and she shares half of her genes, lol. Maybe the same will happen to me, that I will turn out to be nothing like her.

My confession....
 

OHIO Centaur might be the one
 

Shamika,

I think OhioCentaur is feeling your Christian Vibe. I know he isnt a Kappa.....but he is greek. He might be THE ONE.

Check up on it:D

Re: OHIO Centaur might be the one
 

Ummm.... i'm gonna take a wild guess and say teena you've been out the game a LONG time. Did i catch her vibe... yea... was i feeling it... not in the least... dont get me wrong a lady who is about hers and isnt ashamed to call it like it is has to be acknowledged however... theres something sexy about leaving things to the imagination... alittle help here and there is cool but putting it ALL out there for the world to see... ehh not my thing.

Re: Re: OHIO Centaur might be the one
 

Whateva nicca. :o

THERE'S a WHOLE lot to be left on yo imagination about me! I just said that I struggled with masturbation and where the masturbation took place. Nuffin' else. I didn't go into detail how I masturbated, what I masturbated with, if I came or not, if I looked a porn while masturbating, if I just thought of some naked guy while masturbating, what time of the month I masturbate the most. I ain't mentioned none of that mess, cuz I do understand that that WOULD be TMI.

Nicca, don't even get me started on my past sex life. I wasn't always a virgin, ya know. You don't know how many niccas I slept with, gone down on, how many gone down on me, if we did missionary or not, if we did doggy style or not, if I were on top not, who made me come, which nicca only lasted only 36 seconds, what we did for fourplay, if we did it in my pops bedroom (or bathroom) or not, if we used condoms or not, and last but not least DO not assume that all of them were niccas! Shiiiiiiii some of the white boys and latinos had game too. :eek:

Re: Re: Re: OHIO Centaur might be the one
 

You know what? if you wasnt faking your stuff i'd be almost turned on in a kinda bored since. I never claimed to know all there was to know about you, but from what i gather your posts are all in good fun. I made the mistake of taking you serious and that was the wrong approach. IF you were truly like the way you claim you'd be just like one of my homies for real. lol.... I'm sure your prolly a bad chick... cold from head to toe with everything any man would want goin on for ya HOWEVER... if i was truly interested i wouldtn want to know all of that... frankly i wouldnt care... as long as you tested clean and carried yourself in a way that was acceptable then it would be all good.

Wow... Confessions are good for the soul... But, come on now. We aren't all perfect, but (and I can only speak for myself,) when I do things that aren't in line with the beliefs I outwardly claim... I talk about it with God, and only God. But, lets say I need to get it off my chest, in say, a forum... I surely would say it, get it off my chest, and let it go...I don't defend the wrong I do...

This is not meant to be judgemental, but, you are a lady. Regardless of how uninhibited you may be, you are still a lady.

I respect your honesty, and surely don't want you to feel bad, because, after all, this thread is about confessions... But you can confess and keep your self- respect all at the same time.

PerfectVerse and others... I feel you on the money and spending thing... It sure is tough to make good, sound monetary decisions (like saving and investing) when there are so many cute shoes in the world...

Something weighing heavy on my heart:

Hello everyone. I'm new to the GC, but I had to respond to this thread. Here it goes.

My mother has not eaten in two months. She was living with my sister, and after doctors down there couldn't find out what was wrong, I went and got her and brought her up here with me. I got her in a great hospital who's had her for 3 weeks. Almost two weeks ago, they operated to remove what they thought was a blockage on her intestine which was preventing food and water from staying down. The surgeon called me after the surgery and told me that there was no blockage--my mother has cancer again (she had stomach cancer in '03, but they got it and she beat it). This time her stomach cancer is very advanced-stage 4, which is terminal. While she's not going to die tomorrow, she is going to be leaving me soon. Doctors say it's likely she'll '07 come in. She's being fed through a tube, and she's gonna get chemo in an effort to prolong her life. My sister and I are heartbroken, and we've prayed so much, I don't know what else to say to Him. My mother is my best friend. I don't know what I'm gonna do without her. She said she's ready when He's ready for her. She has no regrets, other than the possibility that she won't be around to see her only grandchildren (my 2 sons) grow up. I talk to her and see her everyday, and I've turned my third bedroom into a room for her. My mother took care of me and my children. Now it's my turn to take care of her. Please everyone, pray for my mother, Joyce Gibson Harrison. Thanks for letting me vent.

Here's a BIG cyber-hug for you, luv4 denzel!

***HUG***

You will definitely be in my prayers and in the prayers of your sisterfriends and memberfriends here on the boards. I haven't been on here very long myself but the camraderie and love that is expressed among all the members here is amazing!

Know that your mother loves you, your sister, and your sons dearly. She has been strong for you and your sister as you've grown up, now it's your turn to be strong for her. No matter what happens, let her know how much you love her and appreciate her. You and your relatives should form a support group and gain strength through the love that connects you all.

Treasure every moment with your mother regardless of what may come in the future.

And don't always take the doctor's word as the final word, because it's all in God's hands.

I'll be praying for you and your family tonight.

Be blessed!!

Your mother is in my prayers. :( :( :(

luv4denzel: your mother is in my prayers. If God brought you to it, he will bring you through it. Make sure that you continue to pray to him, and bless him even through your struggles. He knows your heart, He knows what are you going through, and he is there for you. Even though you feel like you don't know what else to say, he hears your heart talking to him. I know that there is not much we can do to help you in this situation, but every prayer I can lift will come the way of you and your family. Be blessed, sisterfriend, and stay strong.

((((((((((luv4denzel))))))))))))))))))))))))))
My mom just passed of Multiple Myeloma in july. We battled her cancer for nearly a year... when we found out she even had it she was in stage 4. She was also my bestfriend. So i understand completely.
You can Pm me if you need to talk...my prayers are with you

Re: Re: OHIO Centaur might be the one
 

:D Dang. It shows?!?!:D I dont think you are supposed to take the things that Shamika T says seriously, at all. I think she posts things for entertainment purposes only.

Re: Re: Re: OHIO Centaur might be the one
 

I wasnt tryin to clown you though... but yea i see now... i guess its cool to have those type when u need a laugh but i thought folks was talkin serious... oh well...

I am so sorry to hear that. I pray for your strength and your family's strenght in this time. God is still in control.

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