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kddani 02-11-2006 03:29 PM

People who seek out hazers on the internet
 
Discussion/poll time:

What are your views on individuals who constantly search for pictures (on webshots and other websites that host photos) on the internet that could possibly depict hazing of some sort?

Do you think a group should be accused of hazing based on a photograph, when the context is not known and the accuser was not present at the time?

Do you think people that patrol such websites looking for pictures should enjoy anonymity on discussion boards (such as GC), even though they willingly interview with newspapers and let their names show in print?

Do you think that people who frequently and publicly do this accusing are a germain topic of discussion among greeks?

valkyrie 02-11-2006 03:32 PM

If your name appears in a newspaper, you are not entitled to have it removed if a portion of that article is posted on GC.

Rudey 02-11-2006 03:33 PM

Danielle, please don't harass others. I lub you!

Did you create this thread to see if you can get another group of people to back you up? Baby you don't need them...you got me!

-Rudey

kdonline 02-11-2006 04:09 PM

I think there are a couple different topics here.

First is, trolling the 'net to look at hazing pictures. Do I think it's right? Well, I think hazing is wrong. And yes, I think it should be reported.

But if someone wants to spend his time trolling young girls' (and boys') online photo albums...well, that's HIS time, not mine.

(Personally, I do not think that people should share personal photos with the general public - that's why there are passworded sites!)

Secondly is the anonymity. If a person is identified in a news article - and gave their permission - then, what's the difference if his name is posted on a newspaper's site vs. being posted here? I think "public figure" comes into play...?

Now, if the person DID NOT give the paper permission to use his name, then that's another legal issue.

Why WOULDN'T a name that was posted in a news article be posted here? Heck, I've posted many articles from newspapers that named people's names... what's the difference from being named on one public site vs another?

AchtungBaby80 02-11-2006 04:32 PM

Quote:

Originally posted by valkyrie
If your name appears in a newspaper, you are not entitled to have it removed if a portion of that article is posted on GC.
I agree.

I also think that there are better uses of our time and better ways to combat hazing than surfing the internet looking for 'evidence' of hazing in places that we don't really have anything to do with.

kdonline 02-11-2006 05:00 PM

Quote:

Originally posted by AchtungBaby80
I agree.

I also think that there are better uses of our time and better ways to combat hazing than surfing the internet looking for 'evidence' of hazing in places that we don't really have anything to do with.


Not that I want to start something with you, AchtungBaby... but who are YOU to tell ME how I can spend MY time?

If I choose to ignore my real life responsibilities, spend all my time surfing the web, looking at pictures of people I don't know, then why the heck do YOU care?


:confused:

PM_Mama00 02-11-2006 05:09 PM

Things in pictures should NOT be taken out of context.. unless it's totally obvious what is going on. I have a lot of crazy and funny pictures with my sisters that, sure, if Mr. Online Predator saw them he might think they were hazing pictures. Sometimes people are just having fun.

AlphaPhiBubbles 02-11-2006 05:10 PM

Quote:

Originally posted by kdonline
Not that I want to start something with you, AchtungBaby... but who are YOU to tell ME how I can spend MY time?

If I choose to ignore my real life responsibilities, spend all my time surfing the web, looking at pictures of people I don't know, then why the heck do YOU care?


:confused:

why do YOU care if she cares? we could do this all day.

PM_Mama00 02-11-2006 05:12 PM

Quote:

Originally posted by AlphaPhiBubbles
why do YOU care if she cares? we could do this all day.
And why do YOU care if SHE cares? :p

Jen 02-11-2006 06:17 PM

Quote:

Originally posted by valkyrie
If your name appears in a newspaper, you are not entitled to have it removed if a portion of that article is posted on GC.
Yes, if someone is SO CONCERNED about their name being mentioned on GC then they should shut the $&*)#@ up and not talk to reporters.

Jen 02-11-2006 06:32 PM

And to answer the original questions:

What are your views on individuals who constantly search for pictures (on webshots and other websites that host photos) on the internet that could possibly depict hazing of some sort?

- I think it sounds pretty unstable. It's one thing if it's something you're involved in yourself - a group or place you frequent etc. But to go trolling around the internet looking for things that have nothing to do with you...well, that's really shady and pretty darn creepy.

It sounds a little bit too much like online predators for my liking.

Do you think a group should be accused of hazing based on a photograph, when the context is not known and the accuser was not present at the time?

- No, I don't. I can look through my photo albums and see pictures that make one thing look like another. I would never think to public out someone b/c of a photo that had nothing to do with me, ESPECIALLY if I had never talked to the people involved in the story to get their version of things. It could be completely misconstrued and you could be ruining people's lives over misunderstanding what you see. For someone to do that makes me think they secretly want attention for themselves and care nothing about the actual issue of hazing.

Do you think people that patrol such websites looking for pictures should enjoy anonymity on discussion boards (such as GC), even though they willingly interview with newspapers and let their names show in print?

- NO WAY. That is absolutely, positively ridiculous. If your name appears in print you already gave up the right to be anonymous. You can't have your cake and eat it too - you either play Mr/Ms Crusader for Justice Even When It's Not My Business and deal with what comes with that, or you stop doing what gets your name in the public domain in the first place.

Do you think that people who frequently and publicly do this accusing are a germain topic of discussion among greeks?

- Yes, I do.

James 02-11-2006 06:58 PM

We are talking about Hoosier I suppose.

I think Hoosier is making the point that GLOs get gleefully hammered by Colleges for the same things they overlook in their sports teams and clubs.

So hoosier seems to want to make it personal to those administrators by exposing what the college is overlooking.

On the surface that may seem cool, but can have a lot of unintended consequences. The students or organizations can be disciplined, disbanded, or embarrassed.

And its not going to make colleges lay off GLOs its just going to create more victims that are being brought to sacrifice on the altar of political correctness.

Also, it just seems petty . . . to me.

Its like if my chapter got busted for partying so I went out of my way to get the remaining chapters busted.

And its also a violation of the Guy Code "ratting."
The Guy Code is pretty clear that you don't involve yourself uninvited in someone else's business unless . . .unless . . . actually I don't think there is a guideline, its decided on a case by case basis.

And the Guy Code is even stricter when it comes to interfering with other people's fun. You just don't do it.

This all being said: If its something he wants to do, obviously its his time to spend as he wishes.

valkyrie 02-11-2006 07:01 PM

Quote:

Originally posted by ariesrising
- No, I don't. I can look through my photo albums and see pictures that make one thing look like another. I would never think to public out someone b/c of a photo that had nothing to do with me, ESPECIALLY if I had never talked to the people involved in the story to get their version of things. It could be completely misconstrued and you could be ruining people's lives over misunderstanding what you see. For someone to do that makes me think they secretly want attention for themselves and care nothing about the actual issue of hazing.

Truth. I'd think that if one were very concerned about hazing, one would find a more constructive way to deal with it. ASSUMING that pictures found on the internet depict hazing is making quite a leap.

valkyrie 02-11-2006 07:03 PM

Quote:

Originally posted by James
And its also a violation of the Guy Code "ratting."
The Guy Code is pretty clear that you don't involve yourself uninvited in someone else's business unless . . .unless . . . actually I don't think there is a guideline, its decided on a case by case basis.

Is it also a violation of the guy code to go running to the moderators when somebody posts a news article in a thread you started on a website because said article includes your name, when you willingly exposed yourself to coverage in said newspaper by emailing pictures you found on the internet to university administrators?

Unregistered- 02-11-2006 07:12 PM

Quote:

Originally posted by valkyrie
Is it also a violation of the guy code to go running to the moderators when somebody posts a news article in a thread you started on a website because said article includes your name, when you willingly exposed yourself to coverage in said newspaper by emailing pictures you found on the internet to university administrators?
Correction.

He goes running to *A* MODERATOR. Singular. Not plural. :p

Rudey 02-11-2006 07:12 PM

Quite a few people on this chatsite have their names out there. Are people just going to just start posting all those details now? I mean since all anonymity is gone.

And John already decided that hoosier's name should not be posted. He is the administrator. Was there something left up to discussion?

You guys can put him on ignore. Why don't you?

-Rudey

kdonline 02-11-2006 07:19 PM

Quote:

Originally posted by AlphaPhiBubbles
why do YOU care if she cares? we could do this all day.
I wouldn't care, if I liked and wanted the attention.

But we're not really talking about ME here, in case you didn't get it.

James 02-11-2006 07:23 PM

I think she is just teasing . . .

Quote:

Originally posted by kdonline
I wouldn't care, if I liked and wanted the attention.

But we're not really talking about ME here, in case you didn't get it.


Rudey 02-11-2006 07:23 PM

I guess the new question is:

What do you think of moderators that break the rules that the administrator of this website lays out and then harass other users?

-Rudey
--Anyone?

DeltAlum 02-11-2006 07:23 PM

The administrator of this board has said that it is his feeling that if someone asks that his/her name not be used, it shouldn't be used.

That is the case in this situation.

If I find a post naming someones name whom I know has asked not to be indentified in this forum, I will delete either the name or the entire post.

If John changes his mind, I will change my practice.

WCUgirl 02-11-2006 08:19 PM

Re: People who seek out hazers on the internet
 
Quote:

Originally posted by kddani
Do you think a group should be accused of hazing based on a photograph, when the context is not known and the accuser was not present at the time?

NO. This happened recently to a group I know of. An under-aged drinker had posted pictures of herself doing shots, drinking, etc. that were taken BEFORE she pledged her sorority. In another area of her webshots album, she posted pictures from her current (at that time, anyways) pledge period. "Someone" assumed the drinking photos were from the same period, so they turned notified Greek Life that this girl was being hazed based on these photos. The sorority in question got in loads of trouble, not knowing why. When it was finally revealed they were in trouble over these webshots photos, the girl came forward and was able to prove that the pics were taken more than a year prior to her pledging.

It was a big hoopla over nothing.

kddani 02-11-2006 08:24 PM

This thread contains a very recent example of someone falsely accusing people of hazing: http://www.greekchat.com/gcforums/sh...threadid=74844

Unregistered- 02-11-2006 08:26 PM

Quote:

Originally posted by Rudey
I guess the new question is:

What do you think of moderators that break the rules that the administrator of this website lays out and then harass other users?

-Rudey
--Anyone?

And another question:

What do you think of the users that break the rules that the administrator of this website lays out and then harass other moderators?

Anyone? Pookies?

Tom Earp 02-11-2006 08:37 PM

Seek,Target, Kill!:(

Rudey 02-11-2006 10:41 PM

Quote:

Originally posted by OTW
And another question:

What do you think of the users that break the rules that the administrator of this website lays out and then harass other moderators?

Anyone? Pookies?

Are you referring to yourself? I think you should be banned.

-Rudey
--Must be hard to keep sweating me while pretending you have me on ignore.

Rudey 02-11-2006 10:47 PM

Quote:

Originally posted by kddani
This thread contains a very recent example of someone falsely accusing people of hazing: http://www.greekchat.com/gcforums/sh...threadid=74844
How was it false?

Again you have the option of putting Hoosier on ignore.

You chose not to.

You also did not choose to PM Hoosier but to repeatedly harass him on the website in public.

I only want to be kind to you and have you be kind to others. Is that too much to ask for?

-Rudey
--You can be great!

Unregistered- 02-11-2006 10:50 PM

Quote:

Originally posted by Rudey
Are you referring to yourself? I think you should be banned.

-Rudey
--Must be hard to keep sweating me while pretending you have me on ignore.

It was only fair to ask that question. But if you're going to talk about mods harassing users and users harassing mods, then I don't think this is the appropriate thread for it.

And for the record, I haven't had you on ignore for a while now.

But too bad no one really cares what you think. :)

Have a great weekend you sexy beast you.

Unregistered- 02-11-2006 10:59 PM

I highly doubt it's appropriate to shit talk about your girlfriend like that, Bobby.

Anyway, I'm done.

Have fun shit talking about me, though! I'm especially enjoying the lies you're attempting to spread about me. I'm shocked that you couldn't be any more creative! :)

Continue to poke fun at me amongst yourselves....:D

Jen 02-11-2006 11:05 PM

I think Rudey is in love with OTW :D

Rudey 02-11-2006 11:07 PM

Quote:

Originally posted by ariesrising
I think Rudey is in love with OTW :D
Are you on drugs? At least be funny...just a little.

-Rudey

Jen 02-11-2006 11:15 PM

If it's not love, then it's definitely obsession.

Rudey 02-11-2006 11:20 PM

Quote:

Originally posted by ariesrising
If it's not love, then it's definitely obsession.
Take an English lesson before you start defining anything.

-Rudey
--By the way I don't believe we've ever spoken, so what's with your sudden interest in me?

WCUgirl 02-11-2006 11:28 PM

Quote:

Originally posted by BobbyTheDon
Exactly.
I missed the post. What'd it say? :(

-AXiD670
--Stupid shopping at the mall makes me miss everything.

Lindz928 02-11-2006 11:36 PM

My question: Is it possible to delete threads when they are very blatantly aimed at "attacking" (for lack of a better word) one certain poster and add nothing to the gc community?

WCUgirl 02-11-2006 11:37 PM

Quote:

Originally posted by Lindz928
My question: Is it possible to delete threads when they are very blatantly aimed at "attacking" (for lack of a better word) one certain poster and add nothing to the gc community?
Apparently. ;)

Lindz928 02-11-2006 11:38 PM

Quote:

Originally posted by AXiD670
Apparently. ;)
I was thinking that this one should be deleted.

BobbyTheDon 02-11-2006 11:57 PM

Quote:

Originally posted by OTW
I highly doubt it's appropriate to shit talk about your girlfriend like that, Bobby.

Anyway, I'm done.

Have fun shit talking about me, though! I'm especially enjoying the lies you're attempting to spread about me. I'm shocked that you couldn't be any more creative! :)

Continue to poke fun at me amongst yourselves....:D


so OTW can violate any rule she wants, she cusses and attacks other posters. yet when people give it back to her, their post gets deleted.


Good job moderators.


SUch pure BS.


Oh but wait, OTW is such a huge deal. So nevermind. She can go hang out with the former 4th member of Hansen since she knew him before he was a member of Hansen.

DeltAlum 02-11-2006 11:57 PM

Quote:

Originally posted by Lindz928
My question: Is it possible to delete threads when they are very blatantly aimed at "attacking" (for lack of a better word) one certain poster and add nothing to the gc community?
Yes. If a moderator in the particular forum agrees that it is an attack on a specific person or people. That's assuming I understand your question correctly.

Rudey 02-12-2006 12:01 AM

Quote:

Originally posted by DeltAlum
Yes. If a moderator in the particular forum agrees that it is an attack on a specific person or people. That's assuming I understand your question correctly.
You don't think this entire thread should be deleted? What purpose does it really serve?

-Rudey

DeltAlum 02-12-2006 12:04 AM

I think the original question of the thread is legitimate.

I will continue to delete posts that make unsubstantiated comments about alcoholism or mental illness or those that imply the same.


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