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Underage drinker gang raped after leaving LXA-Chatt.
Report Outlines Alleged Gang Rape At UTC
posted November 1, 2005 The 18-year-old female bringing allegations of gang rape against seven UTC football players said she was carried into Boling Apartments "due to her intoxicated state." UTC on Monday released the full report in the case. It says the young woman gave the report on Sunday afternoon, Oct. 23, of the incident that occurred early Friday morning, Oct. 21. She said it happened between 2:30 and 4:30 in the morning at Room 202 of Boling Apartments. She said that on Thursday night and early Friday morning, she attended a party with friends at the Lambda Chi Fraternity and consumed bottled alcoholic beverages. She said that between 1:30 and 2 a.m., a large group of UTC football players came inside to join the party. She said that during the course of the party, she became separated from her friends. The party began to break up around 2:30 to 3 a.m. She said that as the party was breaking up, Terrence Thomas told her he would take her home. She said Adam Daigler drove both of them back to Boling Apartments and he left. She said Thomas carried her up to his apartment and took her to his bedroom, where he said she could sleep. She said he laid her on the bed and took off all of her clothes. She said she noticed that Thomas also took off his clothes and was standing beside the bed having sex with her while she lay sideways on the bed. She said he stopped a short time later, then he had a conversation with some other males who were standing inside his bedroom watching. She said she then "became very scared and defensive as the other 7-10 males present in Room 202 began taking turns having sex with her." She said she was able to get off the bed and make it to the restroom, "fending off males trying to enter the restroom." She said she then tried to go back to the bedroom to retrieve her clothing, but was forced into the common area "where the 7-10 males once again forced sexual acts upon her including unwanted and forced oral sex." She said she began hitting the males in an attempt to get them to stop and recalls hitting Thomas repeatedly during the encounter. She said she possibly hit another male as well. She said one of the males hit her, but she does not recall who it was. She said she then was taken back into Thomas' bedroom, where he and others performed unwanted sexual acts on her again. She said afterwards, Thomas threw her clothes at her, telling her to put them on. She said she was then driven to UTC Place and left there. |
This is an awful story and God forbid it being true for this poor girl. But does anyone else read anything odd into it? Like was she given GHB or something? Perhaps it is just the way the author wrote it, but it sounds odd. That's just me anyway....
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By the way, I'm not intending to downplay the seriousness of any rape report, but how does a woman get oral sex forced on her? |
If everything here is true and upfront, it is written very strangely. Strange enough to cause some doubts perhaps.
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This is written strangely and if its true - poor girl. :( |
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I think the question still remains-she could just not open her mouth or at least bite down in defense! But, having never been in such a situation, I can imagine that if the threat was large enough, a woman would comply with the demand. And I'd say 7 men is a large enough threat! |
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Things happen in rape cases that are really unimaginable to most of us (and I hope that they stay that way). |
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Here is an example of what happened: Poor girl who got raped: No, you jerk! I won't perform oral sex on you. Man who wants oral sex: PUNCHES Man 1: PUNCHES Man 2: KICKS Man 3: HOLDS ARMS Man 4: HOLDS LEGS Man 5: PUNCHES Man 6: GRABS HEAD Man 7: Says "DO IT BITCH!" |
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It's a lot harder to fend off vaginal sex if someone (or lots of someones) is holding you down. I've never be *raped* in that sense but I've definitely had sex attempted to be forced on me with significant violence involved. I just didn't do it even though I got beat down. You always have a choice. I'll tell you this, I KNOW that a man by himself would have to kill me before I'd allow anything like that to happen. But, if it's a group of men, I could only fight my hardest and hope I get away. Unfortunately, in her case, she wasn't in complete control of her faculties with the alcohol in her system. |
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I cannot believe that rather than having compassion for this poor violated woman, y'all are saying she didn't do enough. |
Very oddly written...
But, if the school and the police treat football players there like they do here nothing will happen to them. |
I think the lack of compassion might come from the way the article was written, and how every accusation starts "She says..." in a new paragraph. That is really weird. Also, how could she have taken off all her clothes herself, and not noticed that the other guy did too, and then oh ok there are all these others guys in there too. How do you not notice that? Unless, GHB was involved... but I'm not too knowledgeable on that topic.
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You can be drunk enough to be slipping in and out of consciousness and not fully aware or observant of your surroundings.
Out of control drunk, naked and surrounded by men who are much bigger and stronger than you, terrified, possibly for your life... Some of you are being very judgmental about how people react in a situation like this. How horrifying for this young woman. I hope she is able to recover. Dee |
Hoosier can you please link to the original story so we can see who actually writes this bad. If this is true, I hope this girl gets the counseling she needs and those involved are punished.
In a majority of rape situations, refusing to comply further increases the violence and the amount of time the victim is with her attacker(s). Sometimes it does lead to death. If it were that easy to just say no and walk away untouched don't you think she would have? |
If you are very drunk and/or drugged, it's highly possible that it would take you a while to notice a guy having sex with you. There have been one or two instances where I was very drunk and kissing a guy, and god, I would have had no clue had he tried to pull anything else. I was barely conscious!
Large amounts of alcohol or drugs would also affect your thought process on how to react . But, as GP is pointing out, if you're in a room with 10 football players, I don't think it's the best idea ever to bite. You guys are just spitting out variations on the Italian "It's not rape if you're wearing pants" rule and that's ridiculous. |
As I read the story, he carried her to his room, laid her on his bed and he took her clothes off. After that, she "noticed" that he had taken off his clothes and was having sex with her. It doesn't say that she resisted in any way, which makes you think of possible drug involvement. Or, it could even have been consensual up to that point. In fact, there is no mention in the article of her putting up any defense until the other seven or so men got involved.
IF the article is anywhere close to accurate, this is a very strange situation that leaves more questions than answers. One thing is for sure, there's no way a woman (or a man, for that matter) is going to fight off seven football players. That's movie stuff. The other thing for sure is that a serious crime was committed. I don't think this one could be swept under the carpet by the university or athletic department. Unless there's something really bizarre that we just don't know. I can't even imagine what that might be. ETA that I got a phone call in the middle of writing this and several posts were made which make this kind of redundant. Sorry. |
This situation (if it, in fact, occurred) is CLEARLY rape and each of the players should not only be expelled from school but should also be prosecuted.
My complaint with this report is that it paints an unbelievable scene. And, my comments about oral sex were a side observation. Maybe she could have been forced to perform oral sex. PEOPLE MUST STOP DRINKING THEMSELVES INTO A STUPOR. It's foolish and dangerous because people will take advantage of you. You can't control others but you can control yourself. So, while her drunkeness certainly DID NOT warrant or invite rape, if she had been smarter about her drinking choices, we wouldn't be reading a report like this. |
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Didn't anyone else get this information?? It couldn't have just been me. |
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I've got my bottle of Triple Black. It's in my hand. It never leaves my hand. I go out to the dance floor because I am suddenly overwhelmed with the urge to shake it like a saltshaker. While I am dancing, my Triple Black is in my hand. This is a fraternity basement. It is not well lit with ample room to dance. My body is being brushed against by at least 4 other people at all times. While I bend over to the front and touch the toes, I bump into sketchy Joe Runningback. He slips a clear, colorless, pill into my bottle in a naonsecond. How do I know this? |
I googled gang rape UTC and found a few articles.
http://www.newschannel9.com/engine.p...ormat=%M+%e,%Y http://www.chattanoogan.com/articles/article_74901.asp http://www.chattanoogan.com/articles/article_75089.asp Jeni, when I was in college and even before, I knew not to accept drinks from strangers and not to leave my drink alone. I went to a party, got my own drink, and held on to it while I talked to a guy. When I turned my head for a second or two, the guy poured some clear liquid in my drink. Luckily, I saw it out of the corner of my eye, got rid of the drink, and got away from him. I wasn't drunk or even close to it. I turned my head because his friend distracted me. I think he poured alcohol in my drink, not a drug. At the time I didn't really appreciate what could have happened to me. I never thought it could be anything other than alcohol. I just thought that he was a jerk and I had better get away from him. It is possible for someone to tamper with your drink. |
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It might be that the person who wrote the article, decided to write in a manner that would cast doubt on the girl and her allegations.
I don't think we should be criticizing the young lady. Yes she did perhaps not make the wisest decisions. But I to have made some decisions that were equally bad (in some cases worst). When I was young I put myself in some shady situations, and I was lucky... Being drunk is not an invitation to be raped or otherwise taken advantage of. It is considered rape in NC to have sex with a person while they are drunk... We talked about it in my Health education class. You can not consent to sex if you are not semi concious or passed out. Lets not blame the alledged victim... we make people aware of how to be safer... but you know you are never truely safe. |
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As someone who was always a responsible drinker and the "mom" or the group watching out for everyone else, it's hard to feel sorry for someone who drinks themself into a stupor and needs to be "carried" anywhere. I'm not saying I didn't do anything in my younger years that could have gotten me into trouble, but as a Phi (pledge/new member) we were taught to be extra careful, even though we trusted the guys. I'm also not saying that she deserved to be raped or taken advantage of, but, unless she was drugged, this incident could have been prevented if maybe she had been educated well enough about drinking too much or if her friends had watched out for her. We always had an unwritten rule: You watch out for the people you drove with. Or in regular campuses where you walk everywhere, watch out for the people you went with. |
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When I pledged we had a CDC (chapter Development Co-ordinator) who stress the importance of the watching over your sisters and who you came with to all of us new members.
I was in a colony had usurped a local... and all of the older girls also stressed this to us. I just think it is important to realized that the girl is a victim. |
i'm a little appalled (okay... a lot) after reading the responses in this thread. a lot of people had some ugly things to say about forced oral sex and how SHE should have been more careful.
please read and reread this thread as many times as neccessary until people realize what has been said. many people deal with rape differently (during AND after) and they are no less of a rape victim for that. and blaming alcohol serves one REALLY GOOD purpose - helping people maintain their just world view... sorry for my soapbox - - marissa |
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On the oral sex topic, that was a side conversation and was basically irrelevant to the report itself. Those comments asked how is oral sex forced on someone. ETA: You know what? No, let me get on my soapbox. I, as much as anyone else posting here, want to run and give that girl as much love and care and understanding as she needs while she works through this experience. I do not blame her for the actions imposed on her. However, we MUST educate our young people to these dangers and make every attempt to make them understand the world as it is. No one here can say that if she hadn't been at the party in the first place this wouldn't have happened. That is not a religious-based assessment in the least. It's plain and simple truth. As I've already said in here, IF you're going to party and have fun, KNOW how the world is and protect yourself. I quoted a comment from one of the links posted earlier where the girl said she bemoaned the fact that the students hadn't been properly warned. That is EVERYONE's fault. |
I am horrified over some of the responses in this thread.
And people, keep in mind that hoosier doesn't ever post links to his articles, and doesn't always pick the most well-written ones, at that. It's an interesting dichotmy between this thread, where so many people are saying the girl didn't do enough to protect herself, and the other thread where we've been discussing 3rd party vendors and alcohol policies. |
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