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sueali 09-11-2005 03:15 AM

UNLV Recruitment cancelled
 
Please pray for our greek community and the UNLV Delta Zeta chapter as they lost a sister today. She had a seizure after a rush party and passed away. Recruitment hasbeen cancelled until further notice.

polarpi 09-11-2005 03:58 AM

My thoughts and prayers go out to the UNLV Delta Zetas, the family of the woman who passed away, all Delta Zetas, and the entire UNLV community during this tragic time.

AGDee 09-11-2005 08:50 AM

How sad :( My thoughts and prayers are with the DZs at UNLV and this young woman's family.

mmcat 09-11-2005 09:07 AM

how terribly sad...
thoughts and prayers to all those involved.

SigK_Bama 09-11-2005 10:52 AM

OMG, how awful. I'll definitely keep all of them in my prayers. :(

honeychile 09-11-2005 11:04 AM

My deepest sympathies for the sisters of Delta Zeta, and all who knew (family and friends) the late sister. Words cannot express the shock and despair I feel - that we all feel - at times like this.

BetteDavisEyes 09-11-2005 11:15 AM

:(

That is terrible. Her family & her sisters are in my thoughts.

Jill1228 09-11-2005 12:21 PM

OMG! I was just in your area at the beginning of last month. Please send my thoughts and condolences to the Delta Zeta chapter and your Panhellenic sisters :(

Buttonz 09-11-2005 01:54 PM

:(

twhrider13 09-11-2005 06:29 PM

How terrible! My sisters and the entire Greek community will be in my thoughts. :(

pinkyphimu 09-11-2005 07:27 PM

oh my!!! my thoughts will be with the members of the chapter and this woman's family. i think it is a wonderful gesture that campus would cancel recruitment.

Taualumna 09-11-2005 07:38 PM

:(

Kasis-anon 09-12-2005 02:24 PM

You have my prayers for this young woman, her family, her sisters and her community.

sueali 09-12-2005 06:28 PM

Just an update. Our recruitment will resume in two weeks, it will be absolutely no frills, with no chants, ceremonies or songs. Delta Zeta felt very strongly about continuing the process of recruitment. We are having a memorial service tonight.

lagirl33 09-12-2005 08:01 PM

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Originally posted by sueali
Just an update. Our recruitment will resume in two weeks, it will be absolutely no frills, with no chants, ceremonies or songs. Delta Zeta felt very strongly about continuing the process of recruitment. We are having a memorial service tonight.
I will hold the members of the chapter, family, and friends in my prayers. I admire Delta Zeta for having the strength to continue with recruitment. What a terrible thing to happen.

Xylochick216 09-15-2005 07:10 AM

Here's a great article about her:

http://www.lahontanvalleynews.com/ar...News/109140017

AXO Alum 09-15-2005 08:31 AM

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Originally posted by Xylochick216
Here's a great article about her:

http://www.lahontanvalleynews.com/ar...News/109140017

Got to love the headline:

Fallon native, 19, dies at UNLV sorority event

Sounds like she (or the sorority) was doing something wrong :rolleyes:

And her poor family - losing both her & her sister in a matter of months? :( How very sad. Thoughts & prayers to all those who knew & loved this woman.

PsychTau2 09-16-2005 09:49 AM

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Originally posted by sueali
Just an update. Our recruitment will resume in two weeks, it will be absolutely no frills, with no chants, ceremonies or songs. Delta Zeta felt very strongly about continuing the process of recruitment. We are having a memorial service tonight.
I really feel for this young lady's sorority sisters and family. What a shock to try to deal with.

I can understand why loud, bouncy songs during the rescheduled recruitment would be a little wierd, but why no ceremonies or quiet songs? I'm definitely not trying to sound disrespectful, but I think I would like to have a recruitment that is somewhat closer to what is normally expected than this extremely no frills version. To me, it would be harder to do recruitment that way (I'm guessing that you're talking about no decorations, no slide shows, nothing but quiet conversation during the events. PLEASE correct me if I'm wrong about that).

I'm just curious as to what the discussion and reasoning was. And of course I'm thinking of this from the point of view of someone who wasn't in DZ's room experiencing all of this firsthand.

PsychTau

33girl 09-16-2005 10:00 AM

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Originally posted by PsychTau2
I can understand why loud, bouncy songs during the rescheduled recruitment would be a little wierd, but why no ceremonies or quiet songs?
Because a lot of the time, pref ceremonies make people cry anyway. In this situation it might put a few people over the edge.

sueali, hugs to DZ especially and the rest of the Greek community - this is a terrible shock.

sueali 09-16-2005 11:05 AM

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Originally posted by 33girl
Because a lot of the time, pref ceremonies make people cry anyway. In this situation it might put a few people over the edge.

sueali, hugs to DZ especially and the rest of the Greek community - this is a terrible shock.

You are correct 33girl - DZ did not feel that they could make it through any type of ceremony, so we jut completely got rid of them. A california DZ chapter is coming down to help them recruit because they have some girls that don't even want to be in any type of recruitment room (both DZ and SK have been moved to a new rooms in a new building) We will never do recruitment in the same building again (we are getting a new student union so we will be moved in to there) The pnm's are concerned (I've heard from Rho Gamma's and people in general)about what their experience will be like if they join DZ, some feel they will have a black cloud over their head. I try to explain to people that although it is unfortunate when a life is lost, it is the time when a greek community and a chapter is closest.

Thanks to everyone for your words and prayers.

honeychile 09-16-2005 11:31 AM

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Originally posted by sueali
I try to explain to people that although it is unfortunate when a life is lost, it is the time when a greek community and a chapter is closest.

Thanks to everyone for your words and prayers.

What a classy way of putting it! When one of our sisters passed away, we told everyone that it's times like that which make you treasure each sister even more.

SigKapQueen 09-10-2006 06:24 PM

unlv will be holding a candle light vigil in honor of delta zeta member Chassey Ako tonight at 7pm. it has been a year since she has passed and the members of the greek and unlv community has a chance to come together and remember a beautiful young lady.

Axid angel 07-11-2007 06:00 AM

i wish i had known this page was here. i was at recruitment when this happened. i still think about chassy ako and what happened all the time, especially around recruitment. my heart still goes out to her family and sisters. this was definetly a tough blow to the unlv greek community.


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