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WCUgirl 09-08-2005 09:46 AM

Do You Consider Yourself Greek?
 
This question is for TBS members, too. :)

My undergraduate chapter was very adamant that Kappa Kappa Psi is NOT Greek. Even though they wore letters and had a ritual, they were not Greek.

I think it's just that they didn't want to be associated with what they perceived as "Greek life." Well, I don't really know why, but that's the only thing I can come up with.

What about your chapters?

blkwebman1919 09-19-2005 02:49 PM

I consider myself Greek, as do the Brothers I do know. Just try to tell us otherwise!!! :mad:

Not to speak for the ladies, but I would imagine that most think the same way...

We used to have this dispute with some (not all) Divine 9 members (back in the day) about our "Greekness" (or "Greekdom" if you will) and it usually stemmed from a "narrow-minded" view of what Greekdom actually encompasses. Suffice it to say, we won... :D

In this case, AXiD670, I think you hit the proverbial "nail on the head". The frats and sorors drawing the line between the "191946 fam" and the rest of the campus Greeks are very likely trying to distance themselves from the negative perceptions of Greek life (on their campus).

I think it depends on the "Greek culture" of the campus you were made in... ;)

It's as simple as this. We are a Greek-Lettered Organization, therefore, we are Greek (as much as any other Greek-Lettered Organization). ;)

Measi 10-03-2005 03:49 PM

I consider both organizations Greek. I also consider them as an alternative viewpoint to the traditional Greek Council organizations.

Empress0105 10-12-2005 04:26 PM

Yup I sure do!

LIL'JUICEY 11-04-2005 05:22 PM

mos definitely!

AmatoryMusic 10-20-2006 12:45 AM

diferent chapters
 
every chapter is different. we consider ourselves greek compared within ourselves, but outside of KKPsi, we aren't greek, but no other organization seems to hold the fact that we aren't "truly" greek against us.

but up the road about ten minutes is Grambling, and they are about as "greek" as they come.

PrettyBoy 10-20-2006 01:33 AM

At my chapter social greeks consider KK Psi and TBS greek just not social greeks.

SIGMAtivity 11-03-2006 12:28 AM

KK Psi and TBS are GREEK.
 
If you have letters, a ritual, a charter, a pledge class, etc. .... there is simply no other way around the fact that you are Greek.

Nevertheless, there are different classifications of Greeks that people like to place KK Psi and TBS in but I still say that they are definitely Greek.

Social Fraternities and Sororities say that we are not greek because we are selected by other standards... like 1. exceptional service rendered to the band and it's program. 2. consistently excellent musicianship 3. outstanding band leadership and the like. These qualities being the basis of membership give the socials the impetus to place us in the "honorary" category.

On the campus where I marticulated, KK Psi and TBS were a phenomenon and a force to be reckoned with. People had to recognize and repect us. All of the leaders on the campus passed through the hallowed corridors of the Music Department to take place in Band Practice. After practice was over and the business of the band was handled, you could not find an organization who could socialize on the level of KKPsi and TBS.

Personally, I think that the designation of "social" versus "honorary" amounts to little when you observe the behavior of the organizations out in the "world" of the college campus in which they exist.

CentennialRoc 02-25-2007 09:23 PM

I think it depends on the chapter from my experience black members are more apted to be considered Truly greek due to thier initiation process where as their white counter parts dont care to much. I personally dont think they are greek they are the equavilent of Beta Beta Beta the biology club thet are there to serve band and band alone.Most dont do any service outside of that and thier membership is supposed to be honorary from my understanding.

blkwebman1919 02-26-2007 11:59 PM

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Originally Posted by CentennialRoc (Post 1403537)
I think it depends on the chapter from my experience black members are more apted to be considered Truly greek due to thier initiation process where as their white counter parts dont care to much. I personally dont think they are greek they are the equavilent of Beta Beta Beta the biology club thet are there to serve band and band alone.Most dont do any service outside of that and thier membership is supposed to be honorary from my understanding.

Don't get caught up in semantics. "Honorary" in the context of my org denotes the fact that it is an HONOR to serve. This isn't honorary as in a "honorary doctorate", or as in a honor society. Don't get it twisted. No one walks into my org. And as for our white chapters, there are many who would disagree with your statement that they are not greek or "don't care too much".

As for your personal opinion, you are entitled to it. Just remember that your "understanding" of my org derives from your limited experience of it (I assume the chapter on your campus?). Generalization is never a good thing; we are a national organization and no one chapter defines us.

We are a Greek-Lettered Organization. That makes us Greek. No one wrote the book or holds the U.S. patent on what defines Greekdom.

That's my $19.19. :cool:

AChiOhSnap 02-28-2007 02:48 PM

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Originally Posted by AXiD670 (Post 1405270)
I don't understand...the black and white members are going through the same initiation process. Are you saying the white members value initiation less than the black members do? Please elaborate.

Sorry to crash but I noticed a definite difference between my alma mater's mostly-white chapter of KKPsi and a mostly-black chapter of KKPsi at a neighboring college.

My school's chapter functioned more as an honor society for band (e.g. no real "pledge" process in the way you think of a social fraternity pledge process, no calls or hand signs, the only social events were generally fundraisers, no jackets/bags/paraphernalia -- the only KKPsi stuff I ever saw was a hoodie and a car sticker) while the other college's chapter seemed far more "cohesive" in the way you might think of an NPHC or NIC fraternity... they had pledge classes/lines, calls, hand signs, handshakes, they threw social parties, etc. Now whether or not you want to differentiate between the two being "Greek" is a whole separate issue, but I think those differences are what Centennial was getting at.

ISUKiteFlyer 06-16-2007 07:28 PM

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Originally Posted by AChiOhSnap (Post 1405281)
My school's chapter functioned more as an honor society for band (e.g. no real "pledge" process in the way you think of a social fraternity pledge process, no calls or hand signs, the only social events were generally fundraisers, no jackets/bags/paraphernalia -- the only KKPsi stuff I ever saw was a hoodie and a car sticker) while the other college's chapter seemed far more "cohesive" in the way you might think of an NPHC or NIC fraternity... they had pledge classes/lines, calls, hand signs, handshakes, they threw social parties, etc. Now whether or not you want to differentiate between the two being "Greek" is a whole separate issue, but I think those differences are what Centennial was getting at.


It totally depends on the campus, and what the members want to make of the group. We had socials, "unofficial" functions, and there were more than a few conversations figuring out how to "secure a house" for our chapter. (I don't think HQ officially does this.) We have lineages, I got to see many lines branch as we went from 20-some to 60-some members in two years, which was cool. (That put us as larger than maybe 50% the social fraternities on campus.) We have shirts, bumper stickers, lavalieres, and other paraphernalia. Everyone wore their KKY or TBS bar on their MB uniform. Each NM class does a service project, which each class picks for themselves, which needs to be completed before initiation. Were were more cohesive than once-a-week meetings plus service functions... maybe something to do with the majority of members being from the marching band? :D I wouldn't know how it would compare to NPHC or NIC, but it was tighter than other groups on campus I had been a part of.

And as far as whether or not the chapter thinks of themselves as Greek :) I saw they got shirts after I graduated that had:
..........r
Band G^eek
(pardon the ....s needed for spacing...)

ISUKiteFlyer 06-16-2007 07:37 PM

I think you could use a similar argument with /any/ GLO member, as to whether they are a "real" greek... that is, how has becoming a member impacted their daily life? We have ideals set before us, and membership qualifications, but overall, aren't we all reaching to better ourselves through the whole thing? I know I'm preaching to the choir, here :) but saying a service greek is lesser than a social greek misses the crux - it depends on how the individual is or isn't growing. I've seen both extremes on both sides of the fence.

Handskillz 03-05-2008 08:57 AM

From an outsider's perspective, Kappa Kappa Psi is a Greek Lettered Organization (apparently) and they are a band fraternity. Who has the right to tell them that they aren't Greek? =\

Lynx 4_12_06 04-03-2008 04:09 PM

I am actually a female in Kappa Kappa Psi because our school doesn't have TBS. But i went to a Psi probate at another school and I was thrown back by how much the school seems to care about Psi. We have Delta Omnicron and Sinfonia at our school as well and it's a fight to try to stay ahead because we are such a new chapter, but I will never allow anyone to try to tell us we are not Greek. Just because we are a SERVICE fraternity and not a SOCIAL fraternity doens't mean anything. We are and forever will be Greek. Amen

WhiteRose1912 08-06-2009 03:22 AM

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Originally Posted by AlphaHeyAlpha (Post 1832640)
you're a group of people in band who wish they were greek but were to scared to rush so wear letters to be cool...

I sincerely hope that you're not actually this ignorant.

MysticCat 08-06-2009 07:01 AM

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Originally Posted by AlphaHeyAlpha (Post 1832640)
you're a group of people in band who wish they were greek but were to scared to rush so wear letters to be cool...

Bumping an old thread just to hurl an insult? Classy. :rolleyes:

Measi 08-06-2009 08:38 AM

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Originally Posted by WhiteRose1912 (Post 1832641)
I sincerely hope that you're not actually this ignorant.

Sadly, I think the answer is yes.

What a fantastic representative of that organization. :rolleyes: Glad I personally know others who aren't. :rolleyes:

33girl 08-06-2009 08:54 AM

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Originally Posted by Croakies n Bows (Post 1832673)
Not to attack kappa kappa psi but just because you have greek letters does not make you greek, it the background, meaning and daily values that the greek letters bring to your organization that makes it greek or not. Honestly i think that Farm House is more greek than a lot of greek letter organizations out there.

Do you have any idea what the background or meaning of KKPsi is?

ComradesTrue 08-06-2009 08:55 AM

Quote:

Originally Posted by AlphaHeyAlpha (Post 1832640)
you're a group of people in band who wish they were greek but were to scared to rush so wear letters to be cool...

Quote:

Originally Posted by MysticCat (Post 1832654)
Bumping an old thread just to hurl an insult? Classy. :rolleyes:

Quote:

Originally Posted by Measi (Post 1832664)
What a fantastic representative of that organization. :rolleyes:

Considering that she has posted not only her name on this site but also her organization and school I think it would be safe to say that she isn't too bright either.

Yes, I too know many wonderful people in this organization. Sorry that you have one boob of a sister!

ETA:
Quote:

Originally Posted by Croakies n Bows (Post 1832673)
Not to attack kappa kappa psi but just because you have greek letters does not make you greek, it the background, meaning and daily values that the greek letters bring to your organization that makes it greek or not. Honestly i think that Farm House is more greek than a lot of greek letter organizations out there.

AHA- isn't your boyfriend a Sigma Pi at Arkansas? Hmmmmmm.

33girl 08-06-2009 08:59 AM

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Originally Posted by Blondie93 (Post 1832676)
Considering that she has posted not only her name on this site but also her organization and school I think it would be safe to say that she isn't too bright either.

Yes, I too know many wonderful people in this organization. Sorry that you have one boob of a sister!

ETA:


AHA- isn't your boyfriend a Sigma Pi at Arkansas. Hmmmmmm.

http://www.headinjurytheater.com/pha...unmask%201.jpg

blkwebman1919 08-06-2009 09:03 AM

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Originally Posted by WhiteRose1912 (Post 1832641)
I sincerely hope that you're not actually this ignorant.

Hope springs eternal.... :D

There's about as much chance of that as the original poster actually replying to this thread...:D:D

Measi 08-06-2009 09:10 AM

Quote:

Originally Posted by Croakies n Bows (Post 1832673)
Not to attack kappa kappa psi but just because you have greek letters does not make you greek, it the background, meaning and daily values that the greek letters bring to your organization that makes it greek or not. Honestly i think that Farm House is more greek than a lot of greek letter organizations out there.

I see - then you're clearly ignorant of how KKY and TBS work, given that both organizations do have the things you list above.

MysticCat 08-06-2009 09:59 AM

Quote:

Originally Posted by Croakies n Bows (Post 1832673)
Not to attack kappa kappa psi but just because you have greek letters does not make you greek, it the background, meaning and daily values that the greek letters bring to your organization that makes it greek or not.

You left out whether you wear any shoes other than Sperrys.

Quote:

Originally Posted by Blondie93 (Post 1832676)
Considering that she has posted not only her name on this site but also her organization and school I think it would be safe to say that she isn't too bright either. . . .

AHA- isn't your boyfriend a Sigma Pi at Arkansas? Hmmmmmm.

I had that same thought.

pshsx1 08-06-2009 04:28 PM

I'm going to ignore the abundance of ignorance and post about the actual topic since it's here...

I asked my friend if her sister was in a sorority (which I knew she was) and she was in KKPsi, a law fraternity, and some other honor society. I then said 'that's a lot of Greek' and she got offended. So I guess to her, KKPsi wasn't in anyway a GLO.

But two of my other friends who are in KKPsi both consider themselves Greek.. just in a different way.

/2 cents

MysticCat 08-06-2009 05:02 PM

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Originally Posted by pshsx1 (Post 1832825)
I asked my friend if her sister was in a sorority (which I knew she was) and she was in KKPsi, a law fraternity, and some other honor society. I then said 'that's a lot of Greek' and she got offended. So I guess to her, KKPsi wasn't in anyway a GLO.

But two of my other friends who are in KKPsi both consider themselves Greek.. just in a different way.

/2 cents

I think that's what the OP was getting at -- how some KKPsi members/chapters try to draw a distinction between themselves and "the Greeks" while others do not at all:

Quote:

Originally Posted by WCUgirl (Post 1089025)
My undergraduate chapter was very adamant that Kappa Kappa Psi is NOT Greek. Even though they wore letters and had a ritual, they were not Greek.

I think it's just that they didn't want to be associated with what they perceived as "Greek life." Well, I don't really know why, but that's the only thing I can come up with.

What about your chapters?

It's an interesting campus-by-campus phenomenon, and I've seen it to some extent among all the "music Greeks."

pshsx1 08-06-2009 05:20 PM

I was talking to my friends who are Sinfonians and they feel that KKPsi and TBS are GLOs and Phi Mu Alpha is an honor society. I find it a tad odd that they can't see eye to eye.

ETA: And I also assume they were trying to throw that as an insult as well.

MysticCat 08-06-2009 05:59 PM

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Originally Posted by pshsx1 (Post 1832848)
I was talking to my friends who are Sinfonians and they feel that KKPsi and TBS are GLOs and Phi Mu Alpha is an honor society. I find it a tad odd that they can't see eye to eye.

Of all the things I've heard, I've never heard that approach. It is odd -- especially considering that KKPsi and TBS call themselves an honor fraternity and an honor sorority, while Phi Mu Alpha is very clear that it is a social fraternity.

In my experience, Sinfonian chapters will say that are not "Greek" if the campus culture is such that they don't want to be seen as "Greek" because of negative stereotypes. Otherwise, they'll say they're Greek, but, as you say, in a different way perhaps.

Then, of course, there are the campuses where Phi Mu Alpha is IFC -- there they won't see a difference beyond what would be seen with Farmhouse, Triangle or Alpha Gamma Rho.

ETA: I won't ask what chapter your Sinfonian friends are from, but if they think Phi Mu Alpha is an honor society, their probationary member program was sorely lacking and their FEO completely failed them.

cheerfulgreek 08-06-2009 06:22 PM

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Originally Posted by MysticCat (Post 1832691)
You left out whether you wear any shoes other than Sperrys.

lol

pshsx1 08-07-2009 05:09 PM

Quote:

Originally Posted by MysticCat (Post 1832865)
ETA: I won't ask what chapter your Sinfonian friends are from, but if they think Phi Mu Alpha is an honor society, their probationary member program was sorely lacking and their FEO completely failed them.

Maybe they think it's an honorary social?

I'll just stop there.. no need in just going off of assumptions for the next few posts and causing any trouble.

Lite_Psi 11-29-2009 04:17 AM

well the last time I checked, the letters "k" "k" and "psi" were in the greek alphabet....

LXA SE285 11-29-2009 04:34 PM

Jinkies!


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