Yall, I need some support
 

There is nothing that you can do. You made your decision and you have to live with it. If Zeta was in your heart all along why didn't you pursue her? This is why I tell people all the time be sure about your decision because there is no going back. *smh*

Re: Yall, I need some support
 

Ms. ShamikaT,

I have seen that many people have read this and have not responded, but I wanted to say something.

You made the adult decision to become a member of an organization, knowing that you had a greater interest in another. So accept the consequences that have came as a result. You can't expect the members of your organization, who may have a love for yall's organization, to understand your "love" for another. The foundation of yall's bond is the organization, and you must have made it clear to them that you wish you had pursued another.

Accept responsibility of your actions and realize the effect it is having on you and those around. Only a woman can make the decision to commit herself to something for life, and you have done that. So now all you can do is deal with it as a woman. You live and you learn.

The next time you have a strong desire to do something, you will know the repercussions of "settling for less". Maybe this will give you more motivation to remain focused on what you really want.

:eek: :eek: you can not be serious:confused:
WOW:eek:

You deserve to be a MATURE WOMEN and take care of your Responsibility!

You are where you are and since you have matured as you say it's time to make the best of your situation.

This can't be serious....
Is it: play a joke on GC day?
I am waiting for a post that says "SIKE" any minute now....

SIKE :p


Shamika,

Oh well. You can always support Zeta events and endeavors but as an XYZ, lol.

'Hole Up Screw!

Nobody and I repeat nobody owes you anything! What do you mean you "deserve forgiveness and support". Yea anybody can forgive you, because Jesus forgives but that does not change any of the consequences you will have to endure.

Forgiveness does not mean you are not going to be held accountable.

How can you expect anyone to "support" your change of mind and you could not even "support" yourself.

I think you need to really take a minute, sit back, and THINK about what you did, how you did it, and who you did with. Right now you are too emotional and obviously not thinking straight, since you think your actions don't deserve a reaction. All this could have been avoided had you been proactive in your pursuit of the organization that you had "in your heart".

okay you are forgiven....what do you think is going to happen now? you can't possibly think you can become a Zeta now.....

i'm with the person who said this must be a joke.....okay you got us, i'm laughing, LOL :rolleyes:

RIGHT!

NEXT!

NO, these kinds of thingd DO NO HAPPEN ALL THE TIME and whoever lead you to believe that lead you WRONG! Stop playing! You wanted one org, but settled for another org because their members were attractive:confused: what kinda bullisht are you on:rolleyes:

BLUPIZZAZZ is that you:confused:

I'm sorry but you'll have to explain to me what being Christian has to do with this. Did you expect us to welcome you with open arms when you pursued interest somewhere else instead of where you CLAIM your heart is? It doesn't work like that. You made a decision that CAN'T be undone and now you have to live with it.

ROFLMAO!!! I am over here in tears.

No one is really being stank. Did you think the Zetas were going to roll out the blue carpet, call their National Officers and demand a special Shamika Day Initiation? ROFLMAO

Suck up the fact that instead of following your heart, you settled for something else. Support Zeta but you are an XYZ.

I got some Negro Please on ice in the fridge cuz it's getting hot in here.

Can I have some CT4? LOL

This statement further lets me know you need to sit down and do some reflecting. Just because you are not getting the reactions you wanted, does not mean anyone is being stank with you. If you pay attention, there have been posts from many who represent different organizations. Take heed and know that it will be reactions like this in the real world as well.

Don't get beside yourself and start showing your tail on the net if you KNOW you would not react the same face to face.

Oh yea one mo' thang, you be happy that you are a Chrisitian and that you now don't have a place in hell.

Absolutely!!

I am starting the grill up and pretty soon the Hell Naw burgers will be ready as well.

Drinks and burgers for all!!! :D

And since this is a Zeta affair, we'll have BLUE Kool Aid, lol.

I'm glad that you have matured as a person but what exactly do you want encouragement for? You can't change organizations. :confused:

CT4, can you make mine Hell naw turkey burger? Trying to stay off the red meat. LOL :D

Encouragement for what? To officially change your name? I don't understand. This is not even something you need to be thinking about. It just can't be done, and it's been said to you a few times. I'm sorry you did what you did but you need to deal with that now.

Oh hell no they didn't! And yall say that I'm out of place?

Don't get beside yourself and start showing your tail on the net if you KNOW you would not react the same face to face.

Oh yea one mo' thang, you be happy that you are a Chrisitian and that you now don't have a place in hell.

Hammmmmmmmmmmmercy! You all are beginning to test me. I think will have that ice cold Negro Please and BLUE kool-aid, because I best to cool down.

Ooooooook so we'll get you a glass of Christlike Black Woman. :confused: :confused:



She wasn't even invited to the party


Intense, turkey meat will be provided as well.

Sorors and SistaGreeks this is definitely beginning to be waste of time. Shamika we've all told you the truth about your situation but instead of heeding that you want to catch an attitude. You're not where you want to be but we are where we want to be. KIM :rolleyes:

:eek::eek: :eek: :eek: :eek: :eek: :eek: :eek:
Maybe you should go find a midday Bible study real fast.

Uh, can I get a turkey burger?

And if you were shallow enough to be swayed by mere appearances, then THAT IS SOLEY ON YOU. You should have looked at little deeper. You made your choice, now deal with it.

*shrug*

And I'd say that to your face..

and i'm *dead* at treblk's response.. lol

You are officially done.

WOW!! :eek:

Noonday prayer will begin in my church in 10 minutes. I won't be there, but maybe I can call one of the church mothers - have her send up some timbers.

Sistahgreeks, y'all are soooo funny! Thanks for the laughs.

CT fo' I'll take one o' dem burger, if'n you don't mind. With cheddar cheese, please. Mayo, mustard, ketchup and pickles. Thanks. Just send mine to Florida, since I wasn't invited to the porty.

thinking the same thing, LOL

This is some bull.

Who is supposed to be blupizzazz? A different pain in the a$$?

what are you doing. I mean really. what are you doing.

:rolleyes: :rolleyes: stop play, you know who you are:rolleyes:

nope the same pain in the a$$ just different name :cool:

Maybe it's bluriver. ;)