Prayers for Mr Sageofages
 

As I mentioned Monday, he was downsized after 7 years of being with Meredith. Mr. Sageofages' boss called him in about 2pm yesterday and said "we regret to inform you, your position is being eliminated". Basically "Thanks your work was great, but since the conversion is over, Interactive Media is going to do your job. No reflection on you, it is 'just a business decision'." After winning national awards, company awards and bonus after bonus...go figure. He gets 4 months' severance (full benefits) and "outplacement assistance" (which is a joke).

Monday after they dropped their bombshell, he could not stay around because our son had a dr's appt, and he had to get him there. He went into the "office" Tuesday morning to clean out his "cube". Hoping, his boss will let him get some of the personal files and portfolio code he has on his machine at worked copied as well.


I have tried to be as supportive and loving as possible...but he was sandbagging on me, trying to be "Mr Stoic-it-will-be-alright". He was up all night last night with a sick stomach and heavy feeling in his chest. I could not get him to go to the hospital. He wanted to say it was a pulled chest muscle etc. He would at least agree it might be stress angina, as no other signs or symptoms of heart attack. I was scared to death for him last night as he just went through one the two greatest stressers a person can face. He agreed to see the corporate nurse at Meredith before he did the cube cleaning....

Tuesday turned into the worst day of MY personal life, and I know it was close for Mr. SageofAges. He had a what a first blush was a minor heartattack, that turned ugly very fast :( He has had a major MI. The "ambush downsizing" was the straw that broke the camel's back, but this was coming eventually. Thank god the nurse who sent him to the hospital was on her toes. Dr said if this had happened at another time, not in the hospital, I would be a widow.

Mr Sageofages has 4 major blockages on 3 major arteries. His heart stopped twice during the Catherization and he has a pacemaker in right now. His breathing is labored, and he is using a positive pressure external ventilation and may have to be intubated and put on a ventilator :( He is schedule for another angioplasty on Friday. He is basically serious but stable right now.

I have never been so damned scared in my entire life. He is in the CICU at Mercy Medical Center in Des Moines, no phone in the room.

I need prayers, he needs prayers.

Today I was greatly irritated by something I had found out and I let that ruin what could have been a good day.

However, after reading your events of the past few days, I feel like an idiot and very selfish because I can only imagine what you and your family are going through right now.

Definitely sending prayers your way. I pray that things will get better for you and your husband soon.

May you have better days ahead.

My prayers are with you and your husband.

My prayers are with you and your family. :(

That's horrible, I'm so sorry...my prayers are with you, your husband and your family.

Phi Mu love, Pam.

My prayers and best wishes go out to your and your family, Pam.

Lots of prayers and good vibes going to your family. *hugs*

My thoughts are with you.

I'll say a prayer right now --

my thoughts and prayers are with you at this time.

My thoughts and prayers are with you, your husband, and your family.

Been through that. It's really tough. Give him all the support you can, and we'll send positive thoughts your way.

I'm so sorry you are going through all of this. Please know my family will be praying for your family.

Update on Mrs. SoA (from her little)
 

(Copy/pasted from Phi Mu Sisterhood listserv)

Folks, it's going from bad to worse. (Just got off the phone w/ Pam a moment ago, and she's reaching her breaking point.)
The cardiac unit got 2 blockages open, the heart is beating well, but he is in acute respiratory distress. According to Pam he's drowning in his own fluid. Jon is being treated w/ industrial strenght diuretics and prophylactic antibiotics to head off infection (pneumonia, etc). There's only 2 possible outcomes to this - he recovers, or he doesn't.

So if anyone is involved in any prayer chain-type activity at your house of worship, into positive thoughts/energy, etc, now is the time for it. No joke.

--add

My prayers & thoughts are with you & Mr. Sageofages.

Oh man, we just recently went through some stuff like this with my dad, very scary, I will definitely pray for you guys.

Oh, Pam. I'm so sorry you're going through this.

Thoughts and prayers to you, your husband and your family.

dear pam, i am so sorry to hear about your husband. your family will be in our thoughts and prayers.lisa

Oh Pam, my thoughts are with your family! Sending good vibes for a full recovery. Keep us posted, hon!

Pam, my thoughts and prayers are with you, as are those of my church's prayer chain. Hang in there!

I'm so sorry. You're in my prayers!

I am so sorry Pam. I'm praying for a full recovery.

Orate omnes pro eum!

{{{{{}}}} all around.
thoughts and prayers with all involved.

I am so very sorry, Pam. I'll add your family to the prayer list.

Pam -

my prayers and best wishes are with you.

Hugs,
Sheila

I'm sorry about the stuff you all are going through...it seems like bad things come in multiples, don't they? I will be praying for you, but just know that doctors are pretty skilled these days when it comes to heart problems...my stepdad was just hospitalized a couple weeks ago with a blockage in his heart (the symptoms just came out of nowhere) that could've gotten bad really quick had he not called the doctor, but now he's fine and up mowing the yard. I don't know if that will give you any comfort or not, but my thoughts are with you.

I am so sorry!!
My thoughts and prayers are with you and your family!!

Thoughts and prayers are with you, your husband, and your family.

The heavens are being stormed for your husband, Pam, and your family. I was there last year with my mother, so I have an idea of how completely horrible you must feel.

I'll contact the prayer chains I know for Jon.

(((((((((((Pam))))))))))))

10,000 monks in Thailand are sending you loving vibrations. Never forget that.

sending postive thoughts and prayers your way

Hang in there pam Your in my thoughts and prayers and know we are here for you!:)

You and your husband are in my thoughts and prayers. The other posts are right though, medical advances in cardiac care have been amazing in the last 10-15 years. He's where he needs to be and I feel confident that they will have him in good shape again soon.

Dee

Pam, I'm sending you and your husband my thoughts and prayers.

Pam, sending all of my good vibes and very best wishes to you and to Jon. My thoughts are with you.

I'm so sorry :( My thoughts are with you and your family

My thoughts and prayers are with you and your family, Pam.

God Bless....

Zeta Phi 708

Pam, I am so so sorry. I will be praying for you and your whole family. :(