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starryeyed 05-12-2005 03:28 PM

We have CONTACT!
 
Ladies and Gentlemen,

I am excited to say that of the three groups I have decided to contact regarding AI one has responded. Someone from the local alumnae group is supposedly going to contact me any day now. Please keep your fingers crossed for me! Thanks to all those who have helped me so far!

tinydancer 05-12-2005 03:48 PM

That's good news. Please keep us posted!:)

SmartBlondeGPhB 05-12-2005 10:50 PM

Sounds good!

blueangel 05-13-2005 05:24 AM

Good luck and strap in for a wild ride!

LouisaMay 05-14-2005 08:54 AM

That's exciting!! All of my fingers are crossed for you.:D

starryeyed 05-15-2005 12:36 AM

Thanks ladies. Ya'll have been so supportive!

The B Girl 05-15-2005 08:59 PM

Congratulations to you! Please keep us posted on your progress. :)

trojangal 05-16-2005 07:03 PM

Good luck! Hope things go well!

:D

starryeyed 05-16-2005 08:14 PM

Well I still haven't heard anything else, but I am still hoping. Of the three groups I have choosen to look in to I have a definite favorite, and I haven't heard anything from them yet. I've got my fingers crossed.

ASUADPi 05-17-2005 06:13 PM

Good luck on your AI. I am keeping my fingers crossed for you.

starryeyed 05-18-2005 01:36 PM

Another group got in touch with me! I am so excited because I received A LOT of information from them, and I think they are more open to alumnae initiates than some of the other groups. They are going to put me in contact with their local chapter.

LouisaMay 05-24-2005 03:23 PM

That's great news! I'm glad that you are feeling so positive :)

Good for you!

LM

FloridaTish 05-24-2005 07:51 PM

Good to hear that things are looking up! Be sure to keep us posted! :)

starryeyed 05-24-2005 07:54 PM

Yep! I am trying to stay positive! I haven't heard much else, but I REALLY want to be a part of a sisterhood of great women! *fingers still crossed*

starryeyed 06-19-2005 12:06 AM

I have been invited to 2 events by 2 different groups. Unfortunately I couldn't go to group XYZ's event because my grandfather had surgery & almost died & I had to go out of state to see him.

The other event isn't til August.

I'm still hoping to hear from my Dream group though!

trojangal 06-19-2005 02:09 AM

Glad to hear that you have been invited to meet the ladies of some groups.

Have fun, and take your time getting to know the groups.

I'm sorry to hear about your grandfather. I hope he's doing better.

starryeyed 06-19-2005 03:47 PM

My grandad is doing a little better. My dad doesn't think he'll pull through, but my mom who is a nurse says she thinks he'll be just fine. I appreciate the concern.

I don't think group XYZ is going to invite me to another event because I let them know ahead of time my situation, and nobody ever responded. They probably think I was just blowing them off, but I don't care. Family is the most important thing right now.

pinkyphimu 06-19-2005 09:25 PM

i certainly hope that xyz doesn't take that as a "blow off." hopefully, they are just giving you some space knowing that you have family matters to attend to. I am glad your grandfather is doing better. keep us posted on him...and your ai pursuit!

starryeyed 06-20-2005 06:56 PM

The president of XYZ alumnae association wrote me an email. She says I'll be invited to their next event. I'm glad they didn't just write me off.

FloridaTish 06-21-2005 10:06 AM

I am glad to hear that you heard back from XYZ asking you to join them on their next outing. I know how hard it can be...I am playing the waiting game myself. Hopefully I should hear whether or not my application was approved by the Headquarters any day now. The collegiate chapter president and the Alumnae group president signed off with their approval, so now I wait!

Best of luck to you on your AI journey!

-FloridaTish

lake 06-21-2005 11:48 PM

Quote:

Originally posted by starryeyed
The president of XYZ alumnae association wrote me an email. She says I'll be invited to their next event. I'm glad they didn't just write me off.
I was pretty sure they hadn't written you off, especially since you informed them what was going on.

I found the Tri Delta alumnae I had contact with to be very gracious and willing to help in any way they could. Those kinds of qualities are what make them wonderful Greeks in the first place, as well as dedicated alumnae. Those same qualities hold true for the other women's organizations and is what has allowed all of us to continually grow in membership for over 150 years now!

SFHopefull! 06-22-2005 01:45 AM

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blueangel 06-26-2005 06:05 PM

The best piece of advice I can give you is to try not read in to things. (I know, easier said than done!) It will drive you CRAZY!

It's very normal to get a flurry of interest from an organization, and then hear nothing, only to hear from them again, and then nothing... and on and on.

I went through it for three years myself. Remember... the women you're dealing with have jobs and or families. Sometimes life happens.. and they get busy with other things.

Hang in there, think positive, and when there has been too long a "lull" be proactive, and drop your contacts a nice note to let them know you're still very interested.

Good luck!

starryeyed 06-26-2005 06:52 PM

BlueAngel,

What great advice! I DO get so caught up in my excitement that I tend to read into things too much. I am trying to simmer down some these days. Thanks for the encouragement!

trojangal 06-28-2005 07:46 AM

So happy to hear about the email. Keep us posted!


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