He hasn't called - what's the deal?
 

So I met this guy at the bar - he seemed like a nice guy, I mean, he spoke to me haltingly, but only when the other people at his table weren't looking. On the way out, he got my phone number - he called me about 2:30am, and we hung out for a little bit. well, one thing led to another, and we smashed. well, he left before i woke up at 8am for church, but he text messaged me to say he'd call me sometime. It's been a whole day, and he hasn't called - should I be worried? Also, how can I find out his name? His friends were at the bar again last night, or at least I thought they were the guys he was with - they said they didn't know him though. I'm stumped. GC, help!

Go back to the bar tonight and stay all night until you see him again. If he doesn't come in, hire a private investigator. Hopefully with a good description, the PI will be able to find him and then you can come back and let us know that you're practically engaged! I can't wait!!

OMG you need to call the cops because your future boyfriend is MIA!

Maybe he died. You should just go back to the bar and get with his friends!

Must resist.....
 

I can't help it....resisting...resisting....

"Maybe he is not that into you"

No no no he really loves you just keep calling!

OH WAIT YES if he called you, you have his phone number. DUH. You should still go sit at the bar tonight, but before then, call him. Pretend you're someone else so you can see if he mentions this hot girl he met last night and is really into and stuff. Like, pretend you're an old friend. If you don't get anything good, call again! Pretend you're the pizza delivery person looking for his house! Then pretend he ordered a cab and say "Hey, your cab's here!" Maybe if you do this often enough, you'll find out some super exciting info. about him, like where he lives! Then you can drive by his place!!!

Maybe he is intimidated by your hotness.

As a guy, I would say it's best when the girl calls every day. You may want to try calling twice a day. Also, next time you see him, follow him home.

I totally agree. Even if he goes home with another girl, you should follow him. OH and make sure you call at least once an hour or he might forget about you. MAKE SURE YOU DO THIS even in the middle of the night. Sure, it interrupts your sleep schedule, but it's worth it.

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What is the deal?

[quote]well, one thing led to another, and we smashed. well, he left before i woke up at 8am for church[/qoute]

...Haha!

Re: He hasn't called - what's the deal?
 

Also, you may be having an identity crisis. Look into this.

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how is finding the messiah an identity crisis?

-RC
--HI CONNIEBAMA

So I just tried to call, like you guys have told me to, and I got voicemail. So I left him a message telling him he needs to meet me at the bar tonight. *fingers crossed* that he'll show!!!

You should probably call him again right before you leave work. I mean, his voicemail could have accidentally gotten deleted or something. You gotta play it safe.

Awww! GC Jesus freaks: helping lead heathens to God since 2001.

Me next, me next!

Who are we mocking in this thread again?

So I sat at the bar the entire night and he didn't show. But at least my favorite bartender hooked me up with lots of beer.

Come on people. At least when making people really uncomfortable about posting what they should be posting, where they should be posting it . . . give a credit to that person.

ETA: its only fair.

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HAHAHA I love you. :)


And I agree with whoever said to hire a PI. Cashmoney knows one that can get you all kinds of info with only the person's cell number! (Which is slightly terrifying, but only if you're the stalkee not the stalker) It will be an $800 VERY well spent. :D ;)

DON'T GIVE UP HOPE!!

Maybe he had the night wrong. Go back to that bar everynight and keep calling! You are MEANT to be with him. GO FOR IT!!!

I would invite him to church with you and tell him you converted just for him.

Don't waste time calling him...........

Just text message him. I know my phone has a resend feature. All you have to do is type it once and resend it every hour. Be sure it's on the hour though.

Oh, and you better call your cell service provider and make sure you have the max text message package. They add up FAST.

Re: Must resist.....
 

OMG OMG....You beat me to it!!!!!! ROFL

Have a few dozen of your sorority sisters call him, and ask him why he hasn't called. Guys appreciate the attention!

I'll call him! PM me his number!

Sent!

Get his address and I'll send him a subscription to Boobs Magazine.

I think we should all email him using our fake intraweb identities.
(What's that? you say you don't have a fake intraweb identity??);)

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Hey man, it works. When you have a stalker who you don't know anything about other than the lies she/he told you....you start getting worried. My crazy ass played her at her own game. After I got all her personal info , SS number-credit score-real name-address & medical records, I made copies of it all and mailed it to her and told her not to fuck with me again or I'd fuck her life up worse than Michael Jackson's.

Havent heard a word since. :D

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Thats a little psycho dude.

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Yea, well, calling me up crying saying she just stabbed herself because I wont talk to her and then telling me she'd call up to my office and start harassing my secretaries is a little more pyscho than what I did. I had to freak her out a little more than what she freaked me out. I won't let someone fuck with me, especially after telling me she was 3 different people and that she had a blood disorder and she'd be dead by the time she'd be 35yrs old. I might be a little crazy, but it only happens when someone else is freaking me out. I guess thats how it is when you have a do or die mentality. :rolleyes: That and I'm not going to let some bitch freak me out.......women are weaker than men. There's no reason to get worried about a woman. Some of them play a game and you just have to beat them at it. It's all about competetion, buddy. You oughtta know all about that. ;)

Wow.

Some of the girls on here are really ruthless.

Nah......we're just easily amused.:D

I don't get it. Am I missing something?