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Ruby00 02-06-2001 04:22 PM

Female Kappa
 
I really don't know how to address this topic, but I was wondering have a female ever tried pledge or who was inderested in Kappa Alpha Psi? How far did she make it, would you recommend it? Why or why not? Also, do you know of any female that tried to join a fraternity?

Thank You-God Bless

Bobby Earl 02-06-2001 05:31 PM

What the #$@%&! http://www.greekchat.com/forums/ubb/confused.gif ...

You said that you really didn't know how to address this topic. Let me give you some warm advice for the future.

DON'T ADDRESS IT AGAIN!

I will try to give you a sensible answer, O.K.


HELL NO! http://www.greekchat.com/forums/ubb/mad.gif

Are you in a sorority? If so, can a man pledge your sorority? What kind of question is that? Were you directing that to women?
KAPPA ALPHA PSI is a fraternity of MEN http://www.greekchat.com/forums/ubb/cool.gif not women.
Sororities are for WOMEN not men.
POINT BLANK! NO EXCEPTIONS!

I am really trying to figure out what medication you are on that caused you to WONDER about this topic. You must be on some Cheech and Chong http://www.greekchat.com/forums/ubb/eek.gif sh*!.





ManndingoNUPE 02-06-2001 06:23 PM

I am sitting here laughing my azz off at this one. Now I have heard some crazy stuff before, but never nothing like this.

Let me add another Hell No to what my frat brother already said.


MN

Funk doktor spock 02-06-2001 11:21 PM

As a member of Kappa Alpha Psi, I will tell you no in a gentleman like manner. There are several wonderful organization that kater to the needs, hopes and aspirations of women. Please so not ask such questions like this again....go ask zeta phi beta sigma ...they take all kommers! LOL

Yo!

Professor 02-07-2001 03:56 PM

LOL LOL LOL - go ask . . . never mind

Quote:

Originally posted by Funk doktor spock:
As a member of Kappa Alpha Psi, I will tell you no in a gentleman like manner. There are several wonderful organization that kater to the needs, hopes and aspirations of women. Please so not ask such questions like this again....go ask zeta phi beta sigma ...they take all kommers! LOL

Yo!



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Who Dream Broadly, and Who Work Steadfastly."

novella000 02-07-2001 06:27 PM

Quote:

Originally posted by Ruby00:
I really don't know how to address this topic, but I was wondering have a female ever tried pledge or who was inderested in Kappa Alpha Psi? How far did she make it, would you recommend it? Why or why not? Also, do you know of any female that tried to join a fraternity?

Thank You-God Bless

Alllriighty then!!!!

LMAO!!!

Quote:

Origianlly posted by Bobby Earl:
What the #$@%&! ...
You said that you really didn't know how to address this topic. Let me give you some warm advice for the future.
DON'T ADDRESS IT AGAIN!
I will try to give you a sensible answer, O.K.?
HELL NO!
Are you in a sorority? If so, can a man pledge your sorority? What kind of question is that? Were you directing that to women?
KAPPA ALPHA PSI is a fraternity of MEN not women.
Sororities are for WOMEN not men.
POINT BLANK! NO EXCEPTIONS!
I am really trying to figure out what medication you are on that caused you to WONDER about this topic. You must be on some Cheech and Chong sh*!.
Bobby Earl, you have got me over here at work LMAO!!

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"No matter how worthy, admirable or fiercely desired the goal may be, it takes commitment and action to make it a reality."

PrettyKitty 02-07-2001 09:30 PM

Quote:

Originally posted by Funk doktor spock:
As a member of Kappa Alpha Psi, I will tell you no in a gentleman like manner. There are several wonderful organization that kater to the needs, hopes and aspirations of women. Please so not ask such questions like this again....go ask zeta phi beta sigma ...they take all kommers! LOL

Yo!


I wasn't going to reply to this post, but I must say dear brother you need to watch your self with such ignorant comments in regards to my organiZation and Phi Beta Sigma. When either organiZation begins to do what you suggest, hell will be freeZing over. There was no need for your uncalled for jab. It's a good thing there are a lot more mature Kappas out there who don't carry themselves as such. A wise Nupe once told me that there is no need to put others down if your stuff/organiZation is da bomb because you'll be sparkling high above the rest beyond any negativity...


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Bobby Earl 02-07-2001 09:41 PM

Quote:

Originally posted by PrettyKitty:

A wise Nupe once told me that there is no need to put others down if your stuff/organiZation is da bomb because you'll be sparkling high above the rest beyond any negativity...


You are right, Pretty Kitty. Those are wise words....

One Luv



NUPE4LIFE 02-08-2001 01:19 AM

ROTFLMAO!!! Who in the hell is this chick? I will refrain from the civility I display in the other forums. This is the NUPE room! Why in the world would a woman want to be apart of a frat? Have you seriously lost your mind? Were you dropped on your head as a baby? I don't apologize for the harshness in my tone. Cause if a male ask the ladies of AKA,DST,ZPB, and SGRHO about men joining there organizations I'm sure he'd be treated the same way. Never will there ever be, nor has there ever been a woman pledging Kappa Alpha Psi. Get it? I'm not gonna delete this post, cause I'm gonna leave it up for all to see just how stupid you are. I'm still laughing at this one.


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SPR 97
XI LAMBDA

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Funk doktor spock 02-08-2001 01:40 AM

Dear Pretty Kitty,

Since you are not a Nupe....Relax...it is none of your business about what we say in this room...U stressed out?... You Kan peep game if you want... Go to your own room. All jabs are in fun...we all have them in our chants...like you never dissed an AKA in a chant...stop frontin... Get a life. If you Kan't take the heat, stay away from the Diamond...this is for fun...however, in reference to the idea of somebody asking a silly question about the best Fraternity in the History of this universe(Yo!)....they will get 10% dissed...like it or not...say what you want...if some guy asked about pledging Zeta Phi Beta(Yes I did use Kaps)...he would be dissed...don't front...keep it real....if you got thin skin...get a Koat!...I have no reason to be mad...when I wake ....I'm ...Young ....Black ....Educated(M.A.)....and a Kappa Man!

NUPE4LIFE 02-08-2001 10:38 AM

Okay, as moderator of this forum I will not have the negativity that has already been displayed here. My brother funk doctor, I do feel that your comments were out of line. I haven't seen you much around here, but please keep in mind that we try to stay positive in here.

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KAPPA ALPHA PSI FRATERNITY, INC.
SPR 97
XI LAMBDA

Chi_ZETABBW 02-08-2001 12:36 PM

Quote:

Originally posted by Funk doktor spock:
Dear Pretty Kitty,

Since you are not a Nupe....Relax...it is none of your business about what we say in this room...U stressed out?... You Kan peep game if you want... Go to your own room. All jabs are in fun...we all have them in our chants...like you never dissed an AKA in a chant...stop frontin... Get a life. If you Kan't take the heat, stay away from the Diamond...this is for fun...however, in reference to the idea of somebody asking a silly question about the best Fraternity in the History of this universe(Yo!)....they will get 10% dissed...like it or not...say what you want...if some guy asked about pledging Zeta Phi Beta(Yes I did use Kaps)...he would be dissed...don't front...keep it real....if you got thin skin...get a Koat!...I have no reason to be mad...when I wake ....I'm ...Young ....Black ....Educated(M.A.)....and a Kappa Man!

Funk Doktor:
My soror and I have a right to visit any forum we choose. You disrespecting my organization was not called for, and was totally out of line. We respect the Divine Nine, and would not post such negative remarks about another group.
This is not a stepshow!
To the moderator, thanks for speaking up, although my soror beat you to it.
Sometimes we must police the "ADULTS" posting
when they get out of order.

ZetaAce 02-08-2001 12:52 PM

Howdy,

Please let Nupe4Life take care of moderating this board. As a moderator it's up to his discretion as to what is and is not appropriate on the KAPsi board. He has done a good job so far and can take care of anything he feels is inappropriate.

Unfortunately, negative remarks are posted on every board. Just cut the moderators a little bit of slack, when getting to them. We can't browse the boards all day!

ZetaAce

Ideal08 02-08-2001 02:16 PM

DISCLAIMER: I am LMAO over here, as well.

BUT, I will play the devil's advocate here. I wonder if the young lady was asking this question to lead into another convo about gender discrimination in our orgs. It's just like girls trying out for high school football. Or like the little girl who was on Oprah some years back because she wanted to join the Boy Scouts instead of the Girl Scouts (This led to a law suit, go figure). So maybe that's the reason for the silly (seemingly, to us, obviously not to Ruby00) question.

And I am STILL LMAO. http://www.greekchat.com/forums/ubb/biggrin.gif

novella000 02-08-2001 03:02 PM

Ideal08, I feel ya'... http://www.greekchat.com/forums/ubb/smile.gif
That's actually a pretty good topic for discussion... gender discrimination and the like...
But if that is so (and Ruby, you are the only one who can answer this for me), why didn't she just post the topic as such -- asking an unloaded & more-educated question??? But, seriously no offense to you Ruby... (Although I did shake my head while I read).
It's all making me smile http://www.greekchat.com/forums/ubb/smile.gif... or rather laugh... http://www.greekchat.com/forums/ubb/biggrin.gif
Everytime I have opened this topic... I have to re-read Bobby Earl's post... Still LMAO!!!

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"No matter how worthy, admirable or fiercely desired the goal may be, it takes commitment and action to make it a reality."

PrettyKitty 02-08-2001 04:32 PM

Quote:

Originally posted by Funk doktor spock:
Dear Pretty Kitty,

Since you are not a Nupe....Relax...it is none of your business about what we say in this room...U stressed out?... You Kan peep game if you want... Go to your own room. All jabs are in fun...we all have them in our chants...like you never dissed an AKA in a chant...stop frontin... Get a life. If you Kan't take the heat, stay away from the Diamond...this is for fun...however, in reference to the idea of somebody asking a silly question about the best Fraternity in the History of this universe(Yo!)....they will get 10% dissed...like it or not...say what you want...if some guy asked about pledging Zeta Phi Beta(Yes I did use Kaps)...he would be dissed...don't front...keep it real....if you got thin skin...get a Koat!...I have no reason to be mad...when I wake ....I'm ...Young ....Black ....Educated(M.A.)....and a Kappa Man!


Since you are new to GreekChat, being that this is your 2nd post, I would advise you to choose your words wisely. Any and everyone can read and post to any board on here. Just because this board says Kappa Alpha Psi doesn't mean someone else can not reply to it. If you want a private Nupe Only Forum, I would suggest you go to Nupes.Com.
As for me having a thick skin, that has nothing to do with your disrespectful comment. I could care less what you do behind closed doors, but when you are in on open public forum, such as this, be respectful of other greeks...cause you never know who is reading...
Jabs and unnecessary commentary have no place on here, as I have seen that the moderator of this board, much like the moderator of the Zeta board, keeps it positive.
Nupe4Life, might I suggest that you excercise your power of deletion...

And as for the silly question asked by the Ruby...some things need no response...

Until we chat again.....

Peace


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PrettyKitty 02-08-2001 04:37 PM

ZetaAce...which page are u holding up in that book? LOL

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MIDWESTDIVA 02-08-2001 06:07 PM

Thank you Bobby Earl for providing my laugh for the day! http://www.greekchat.com/forums/ubb/biggrin.gif Pure comedy! http://www.greekchat.com/forums/ubb/tongue.gif

Bobby Earl 02-08-2001 06:35 PM

Thanks MIDWESTDIVA,
Hey, being the jovial NUPE that I am, it was my pleasure.
But I can't take full credit on this one.
You should thank Ruby00, also. Without her help http://www.greekchat.com/forums/ubb/rolleyes.gif , none of this could truly be possible.

When I first read this thread http://www.greekchat.com/forums/ubb/eek.gif , I was thinking like that Robot from Lost in Space:

"Danger! http://www.greekchat.com/forums/ubb/mad.gif Danger Will Robinson! http://www.greekchat.com/forums/ubb/mad.gif Danger!"

Inquisitive 02-08-2001 08:26 PM

[QUOTE]Originally posted by Bobby Earl:

Hey, being the jovial NUPE that I am, it was my pleasure.
But I can't take full credit on this one.
You should thank Ruby00, also. Without her help http://www.greekchat.com/forums/ubb/rolleyes.gif , none of this could truly be possible.


ROTF http://www.greekchat.com/forums/ubb/biggrin.gif



novella000 02-09-2001 01:45 AM

Tsk, tsk, tsk... http://www.greekchat.com/forums/ubb/frown.gif
All of this over --
Quote:

Originally posted by Ruby00:
...I was wondering have a female ever tried pledge or who was inderested in Kappa Alpha Psi? How far did she make it, would you recommend it? Why or why not? Also, do you know of any female that tried to join a fraternity?....
It's gon' be aiight y'all... LOL
Stay cool http://www.greekchat.com/forums/ubb/cool.gif

I am still tripping of of Bobby Earl though... Man you are a trip and a 1/2!!!!! http://www.greekchat.com/forums/ubb/biggrin.gif

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"No matter how worthy, admirable or fiercely desired the goal may be, it takes commitment and action to make it a reality."

Tre 02-09-2001 09:51 AM

Bobby Earl, you are one of a kind. But it's funny, we have not heard from Ruby since she originally posted the question, that is, unless she has emailed one of you privately.

What's up with that?

TreRHO

Quote:

Originally posted by Bobby Earl:
Thanks MIDWESTDIVA,
Hey, being the jovial NUPE that I am, it was my pleasure.
But I can't take full credit on this one.
You should thank Ruby00, also. Without her help http://www.greekchat.com/forums/ubb/rolleyes.gif , none of this could truly be possible.

When I first read this thread http://www.greekchat.com/forums/ubb/eek.gif , I was thinking like that Robot from Lost in Space:

"Danger! http://www.greekchat.com/forums/ubb/mad.gif Danger Will Robinson! http://www.greekchat.com/forums/ubb/mad.gif Danger!"


Finer Woman10-A-91 02-09-2001 12:15 PM

Granted our right to vote was slapped in the face in the 2000 election, but to come across such blatant ignorance amongst what is thought to be our talented tenth? College educated? Achievement seeking? fds, you have committed an act of cowardice and indiscretion. I won't expect an expression of humility and regret for your disrespect of my dear organiZation ZETA PHI BETA SORORITY, INCORPORATED. Its clear in your post, you don't think before you speak.

Moderator Nupe4Life, good looking out on keeping it real.

My uncle was a very well respected Kappa in DC. (Eddie Lovette, Esq.- R.I.P)He would turn over in his grave reading such nonsense. funk doktor...whoever you are, you need to re-evaluate. Young one, its not about you. Its about us. And you make US look very bad.

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[This message has been edited by Finer Woman10-A-91 (edited February 09, 2001).]

novella000 02-09-2001 12:36 PM

Quote:

Originally posted by Bobby Earl:
You should thank Ruby00, also. Without her help http://www.greekchat.com/forums/ubb/rolleyes.gif , none of this could truly be possible.

When I first read this thread http://www.greekchat.com/forums/ubb/eek.gif , I was thinking like that Robot from Lost in Space:

"Danger! http://www.greekchat.com/forums/ubb/mad.gif Danger Will Robinson! http://www.greekchat.com/forums/ubb/mad.gif Danger!"

ROTFL!!! Thanks Ruby!

http://www.greekchat.com/forums/ubb/biggrin.gif


MaguireTheHustler 02-09-2001 06:11 PM

Might I suggest that ya'll stop trying to tell Nupe4Life how to moderate his board!!! I understand that everyone is supposed to be respectful of each others organzations in here but ya'll are overreacting. Go moderate your own boards and LET A REAL MAN THROUGH. GET YOUR STUFF OFF THE ROAD CAUSE KAPPA AIN'T YOU.

Kappa Alpha Psi
Nu Iota Spr. 97

Rain Man 02-09-2001 06:23 PM

Quote:

Originally posted by Ruby00:
I really don't know how to address this topic, but I was wondering have a female ever tried pledge or who was inderested in Kappa Alpha Psi? How far did she make it, would you recommend it? Why or why not? Also, do you know of any female that tried to join a fraternity?

Thank You-God Bless

ALLLLLLLLLLLLLLLLLLLLLLLLLLLRIGHTYTHENNNNNNNN

*Rain Man imitating the infamous Ace Ventura Zenlike meditation sound as taken from Ace Ventura 2: When Nature Calls.*


Bobby Earl 02-09-2001 06:43 PM

Quote:

Originally posted by MaguireTheHustler:
Might I suggest that ya'll stop trying to tell Nupe4Life how to moderate his board!!! I understand that everyone is supposed to be respectful of each others organzations in here but ya'll are overreacting. Go moderate your own boards and LET A REAL MAN THROUGH. GET YOUR STUFF OFF THE ROAD CAUSE KAPPA AIN'T YOU.

Kappa Alpha Psi
Nu Iota Spr. 97

Uh Oh http://www.greekchat.com/forums/ubb/eek.gif Armageddon!

Nupe4Life,
I am a little unfamiliar with how things are done in these FORUMS. There may be nothing to worry about, but I thought I should bring this to your attention. There is a situation at hand that is a matter of national security. Let's say there is a belligerent http://www.greekchat.com/forums/ubb/mad.gif, ANAL http://www.greekchat.com/forums/ubb/mad.gif, destructive http://www.greekchat.com/forums/ubb/mad.gif, and 3-time convicted felon http://www.greekchat.com/forums/ubb/mad.gif who has been released from prison after serving hard time. If they attempt to once again become a member of society, aren't they suppose to let CIVILIZED people know about their prior records, even while entering a Chat Room?

If so, let me be the first to warn you about your sandz, Maguire the Hustler.

He has issues...
He is a damn good brother http://www.greekchat.com/forums/ubb/biggrin.gif.
But, he has issues, none the less...

There goes the neighborhood! http://www.greekchat.com/forums/ubb/eek.gif




[This message has been edited by Bobby Earl (edited February 09, 2001).]

MIDWESTDIVA 02-09-2001 10:02 PM

This thread has been on my mind all day. http://www.greekchat.com/forums/ubb/smile.gif

And it just keeps getting better. http://www.greekchat.com/forums/ubb/tongue.gif

Still ROFLMAO! http://www.greekchat.com/forums/ubb/biggrin.gif

novella000 02-12-2001 12:19 PM

Quote:

Originally posted by Bobby Earl:
Uh Oh http://www.greekchat.com/forums/ubb/eek.gif Armageddon!

Nupe4Life,
I am a little unfamiliar with how things are done in these FORUMS. There may be nothing to worry about, but I thought I should bring this to your attention. There is a situation at hand that is a matter of national security. Let's say there is a belligerent http://www.greekchat.com/forums/ubb/mad.gif, ANAL http://www.greekchat.com/forums/ubb/mad.gif, destructive http://www.greekchat.com/forums/ubb/mad.gif, and 3-time convicted felon http://www.greekchat.com/forums/ubb/mad.gif who has been released from prison after serving hard time. If they attempt to once again become a member of society, aren't they suppose to let CIVILIZED people know about their prior records, even while entering a Chat Room?

If so, let me be the first to warn you about your sandz, Maguire the Hustler.

He has issues...
He is a damn good brother http://www.greekchat.com/forums/ubb/biggrin.gif.
But, he has issues, none the less...

There goes the neighborhood! http://www.greekchat.com/forums/ubb/eek.gif

[This message has been edited by Bobby Earl (edited February 09, 2001).]

Bobby Earl strikes...
http://www.greekchat.com/forums/ubb/biggrin.gif ...and yet again, I am ROTFLMAO!!!



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Ruby00 02-12-2001 11:42 PM

I'm sorry if I disrespeced any greek organization in any way, I just wanted to know if any females could do it. Truly, I have question some other greeks about it. Some told me it's impossiable, some told me to go for it, but if I do make it far, I'm going to catch hell. I think that's all I have to say.
Thank you all for your responses both positive and negative.

God Bless

Asia2000 02-13-2001 12:44 AM

I am glad Ruby posted again. When I first read this post, it seemed so far fetched that it had to be someone who was ignorant (and I DO NOT mean that negatively or disrespectfully) about how this whole thing works. Remember, some of us are so innundated with Greek Life that we forget there are people who have ABSOLUTELY NO idea what this whole world is about (I was there once too). My girl doesn't even understand what a sorority is -- the world is so far away from her. I am actually curious to read what the whole story is behind this post.

Inquisitive 02-13-2001 12:47 AM

Quote:

Originally posted by Ruby00:
I'm sorry if I disrespeced any greek organization in any way, I just wanted to know if any females could do it. Truly, I have question some other greeks about it. Some told me it's impossiable, some told me to go for it, but if I do make it far, I'm going to catch hell. I think that's all I have to say.
Thank you all for your responses both positive and negative.


God Bless

Ruby00,
I'm just curious as to what intrigues you so much about this MALE organization and why you would consider even the mere thought of joining.


AKA2D '91 02-13-2001 02:24 AM

Quote:

Originally posted by Ruby00:
Truly, I have question some other greeks about it. some told me to go for it,

Truly you have got to be kidding, right?
They ACTUALLY suggested that you "go for it"... http://www.greekchat.com/forums/ubb/eek.gif

ROTFLMAKAAO!


Funk doktor spock 02-13-2001 03:39 AM

Quote:

Originally posted by Finer Woman10-A-91:
Granted our right to vote was slapped in the face in the 2000 election, but to come across such blatant ignorance amongst what is thought to be our talented tenth? College educated? Achievement seeking? fds, you have committed an act of cowardice and indiscretion. I won't expect an expression of humility and regret for your disrespect of my dear organiZation ZETA PHI BETA SORORITY, INCORPORATED. Its clear in your post, you don't think before you speak.

Moderator Nupe4Life, good looking out on keeping it real.

My uncle was a very well respected Kappa in DC. (Eddie Lovette, Esq.- R.I.P)He would turn over in his grave reading such nonsense. funk doktor...whoever you are, you need to re-evaluate. Young one, its not about you. Its about us. And you make US look very bad.


I Kan give a good flying F*#k about your ugly ass....You Kan take that broke down jalopie shit (Finer Woman10-A-91, yeah right! more like fat ass, busted beak crow...I heard about you...:eek http://www.greekchat.com/forums/ubb/smile.gifand flush it down the drain...Respond if you want to I really don't care...they can erase this if the want to ...but let me put it like this ....Your ass it way to tight...it is obvious your REAL line name was goof troop http://www.greekchat.com/forums/ubb/eek.gif...not every person in your kamp is a misfit...I have met some hella Kool Zeta's...much luv!...i guess you have spent your whole life trying to be somethig bigger that what you really are...coward?...Bith please...Quit bull shitting on the parade and go wipe your batty ass...this started out as a blast on a individual who had a silly question in reference to Kappa Alpha Psi...not you or any other crows who want to jump in...Kall it what ya want...basikly whatever with you and any body else who is down with that silly shit your stressing...since you want to take things to heart here ya go...choke! reply if you want...I will not be reading your post!


Sorry I had to get Ill Brother Nupe4Life...I will refrain and not post again.
Had to let her have it, I know it may not have been the right thing to do. Forgive my transgressions.

YO!

Ruby00 02-13-2001 12:29 PM

Quote:

Originally posted by AKA2D '91:
Truly you have got to be kidding, right?
They ACTUALLY suggested that you "go for it"... http://www.greekchat.com/forums/ubb/eek.gif

ROTFLMAKAAO!


I kid you not! Even though they told me that they'll probably send me threw hell and back and back again.

Ruby

Ruby00 02-13-2001 12:36 PM

Quote:

Originally posted by Inquisitive:
Ruby00,
I'm just curious as to what intrigues you so much about this MALE organization and why you would consider even the mere thought of joining.


Okay, well most of my family members are members of Delta , Mason, Eastern Star, Kappa Diamond, Kappa, AKA etc. Now, I'm always the one whose different, also a couple of my Kappa friends they always say, "I'm a female kappa." I know they were playing...but those thoughts went to my head. I haven't been really interested in other sorority...okay maybe one! Truly, I'm not a man and far from it...but some of the things that know about Kappa Alpha Psi draws me closer to wanting to be apart of.

DST Love 02-13-2001 12:59 PM

Quote:

Originally posted by Ruby00:
Okay, well most of my family members are members of Delta , Mason, Eastern Star, Kappa Diamond, Kappa, AKA etc. Now, I'm always the one whose different, also a couple of my Kappa friends they always say, "I'm a female kappa." I know they were playing...but those thoughts went to my head. I haven't been really interested in other sorority...okay maybe one! Truly, I'm not a man and far from it...but some of the things that know about Kappa Alpha Psi draws me closer to wanting to be apart of.
I know that I have absolutely no right to speak for Kappa Alpha Psi Fraternity, Inc. and I hope the Kappas here will not be upset with me for saying this, but I personally think it is disrespectful for you to try to enter into their fraternity. If you truly think so highly of them, then you would respect the fact that they have a special BROTHERHOOD and you would just continue to enjoy being around them. If they felt it was time to make it a Brother/Sisterhood, then I'm sure they'd let you and the rest of the world know. Well, that's how I'd feel if a male was trying to enter my beloved SISTERHOOD!!



[This message has been edited by DST Love (edited February 13, 2001).]

Asia2000 02-13-2001 05:33 PM

I'm sorry, but this just seems really off base here. If most of your family are both greek or masons -- what in the world would make you think Kappas ever accept women? I can't believe that the thought came from the Kappas joking around with you like that. I don't know. This just seems too weird. I didn't grow up around Greeks, but I am surrounded by them now -- the answer seems so obvious. What in the world would you do as a female member of Kappa Alpha Psi?? Like, how would you participate in all their activities? Sure, it's one thing to chill with them, but, like, how would you participate in . . . well, you guys get what I am saying. It just wouldn't make sense. I am not fussing. Just trying to make sense of this.

P.S. -- what's with all the hostility towards the Zetas and Sigmas by the Kappas (well, that Kappa)? It's a rhetorical question, really. I am just not used to seeing such open hostility among the Divine 9! Oh well, I guess it's all something I'll never truly understand.

Inquisitive 02-13-2001 07:01 PM

Wanna chill with the Kappas? Join the Diamonds, Krimson Kourts Inc, Kittens, etc. Whatever floats your boat. Oh and I hope everyone's Valentine's Day goes well tomorrow.

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lluvmook98 02-13-2001 09:37 PM

See how we treat each other black folks.

But seriously I hope I don't offend anyone but this is not politically correct.

I think that she might be (or is asking for)one of those lesbians who instead of just being gay also lives as or like a man. She probably wants to know how badly her tail would be beaten IF she ever made line. I am only speculating this because I can't see how any (straight) sister who is secure in her femininity would speculate or be interested in being in a male organization. Being the only woman around a whole lot of men is another topic. http://www.greekchat.com/forums/ubb/wink.gif


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