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nfinit 01-26-2005 01:17 PM

Marrying a member of Kappa Alpha Psi Fraternity
 
I will soon be marrying a member of Kappa Alpha Psi Fraternity. To give the wedding an extra special meaning for him, I would like to include unique "rituals" in the wedding ceremony and/or reception. Please help with ideas if you have participated, veiwed, or know of any ideas that I may be able to use. Thanks for the help.

1savvydiva 01-26-2005 01:41 PM

*crickets*

AKA2D '91 01-26-2005 02:16 PM

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Originally posted by 1savvydiva
*crickets*
tee hee hee! N4L was here this morning (and DID NOT speak :rolleyes: )


What does your soon to be hubby say about this? his line brothers? his other fraternity brothers you know?

Good luck and Congratulations! :D

1savvydiva 01-26-2005 02:27 PM

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Originally posted by AKA2D '91

What does your soon to be hubby say about this? his line brothers?

:insertlightbulbsmilieHERE:

:p

Jill1228 01-26-2005 03:55 PM

Hey hon! Congrats on your upcoming wedding, but fishing for ritual ideas on ANY GLO will get you NO FRIGGIN WHERE on GC. Talk to him about what he wants to include. Since you are getting married I am sure you met some of his brothers...talk to them about what they could plan for them

Good luck

ladygreek 01-26-2005 04:33 PM

Now ladies, in all fairness she did post this in the Kappa forum, so she is seeking their advice. :p

Senusret I 01-26-2005 06:56 PM

I kind of assumed she meant "rituals" synonymously with "traditions."

Either way, good luck!

Kloud9 01-26-2005 09:48 PM

Re: Marrying a member of Kappa Alpha Psi Fraternity
 
Quote:

Originally posted by nfinit
I will soon be marrying a member of Kappa Alpha Psi Fraternity. To give the wedding an extra special meaning for him, I would like to include unique "rituals" in the wedding ceremony and/or reception. Please help with ideas if you have participated, veiwed, or know of any ideas that I may be able to use. Thanks for the help.
Uhhh...------>

Kloud9 01-26-2005 09:49 PM

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Originally posted by ladygreek
Now ladies, in all fairness she did post this in the Kappa forum, so she is seeking their advice. :p
;) :D ------>

GangsterOfLove 03-21-2005 07:41 PM

Re: Marrying a member of Kappa Alpha Psi Fraternity
 
Quote:

Originally posted by nfinit
I will soon be marrying a member of Kappa Alpha Psi Fraternity. To give the wedding an extra special meaning for him, I would like to include unique "rituals" in the wedding ceremony and/or reception. Please help with ideas if you have participated, veiwed, or know of any ideas that I may be able to use. Thanks for the help.
I suggest you find some members of Omega Psi Phi and ask them to put on a tribute step show for the Nupes at the reception. I'm sure they'll appreciate it. :D

starang21 03-21-2005 08:11 PM

Re: Re: Marrying a member of Kappa Alpha Psi Fraternity
 
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Originally posted by GangsterOfLove
I suggest you find some members of Omega Psi Phi and ask them to put on a tribute step show for the Nupes at the reception. I'm sure they'll appreciate it. :D

what the hell is wrong with you???

ladygreek 03-21-2005 10:24 PM

Re: Re: Re: Marrying a member of Kappa Alpha Psi Fraternity
 
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Originally posted by starang21
what the hell is wrong with you???
It's called KAZO withdrawal. LOL.

Soror Gangster, stop typing , push away from the keyboard, take a deep breath, and recite the Meditation to yourself. You trying to get that girl killed!

PrettyGirl03 03-22-2005 12:46 AM

How about incorporating some spiritual "rituals" in there and call it a day? You becoming his wife is extra-special enough...or it should be.

ladygreek 03-22-2005 01:39 AM

You all do know that the originator of the thread registered in January, made 2 posts and hasn't been seen since. So most likely all of your wonderful suggestions will go unnoticed. :D

BadDST_Chic1913 03-22-2005 12:18 PM

Re: Re: Marrying a member of Kappa Alpha Psi Fraternity
 
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Originally posted by GangsterOfLove
I suggest you find some members of Omega Psi Phi and ask them to put on a tribute step show for the Nupes at the reception. I'm sure they'll appreciate it. :D
Wait...I think it would be a better idea for the her to ask the sigmas to get their canes and come do an exhibition at the wedding. Surely, as a nupe, he'll appreciate nice can work.

<----here to help. :)

GangsterOfLove 03-22-2005 04:55 PM

Re: Re: Re: Marrying a member of Kappa Alpha Psi Fraternity
 
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Originally posted by BadDST_Chic1913
Wait...I think it would be a better idea for the her to ask the sigmas to get their canes and come do an exhibition at the wedding. Surely, as a nupe, he'll appreciate nice can work.

<----here to help. :)

Good idea, girl!!!

GangsterOfLove 03-22-2005 04:56 PM

Re: Re: Re: Re: Marrying a member of Kappa Alpha Psi Fraternity
 
Quote:

Originally posted by ladygreek
It's called KAZO withdrawal. LOL.

Soror Gangster, stop typing , push away from the keyboard, take a deep breath, and recite the Meditation to yourself. You trying to get that girl killed!

:D

BadDST_Chic1913 03-23-2005 09:34 AM

I thought it was too. :D

TxNupe4 03-23-2005 11:47 AM

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sup

ladylarinda16 04-10-2005 10:26 PM

It seems that everyone is assuming she is trying to include some "secret" members only stuff in the ceremony. Maybe she worded it wrong. I don't think it is fair to jump on her like that. Some people write things before they can think of the proper word they want to use. Maybe this is what she did. At least, I hope that is what has happened here.

laidbackfella 04-10-2005 11:01 PM

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Originally posted by ladylarinda16
It seems that everyone is assuming she is trying to include some "secret" members only stuff in the ceremony. Maybe she worded it wrong. I don't think it is fair to jump on her like that. Some people write things before they can think of the proper word they want to use. Maybe this is what she did. At least, I hope that is what has happened here.
You are totally out of your lane right now.

Who are you, by the way?

ladylarinda16 04-10-2005 11:16 PM

What? Are you jumping on me now? I just stated my opinion. Why do I have to be "totally out of my lane right now?" You don't even know me. And I don't know you. True, I may have gotten in late on this, but I have read all the replies to this young lady and I think people just jumped on her. As I said, she may have just worded her question wrong? Do you always think before you speak? We all say things without thinking it through sometimes. We are all human and make mistakes. That is all I am basically saying. By the way, my name is Larinda. Is that all you wanted to know? Forgive my tone, but I sensed a tone in your reply to my post. It is as if I had no business putting my nose where it did not belong.:(

ladygreek 04-11-2005 12:09 AM

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Originally posted by ladylarinda16
What? Are you jumping on me now? I just stated my opinion. Why do I have to be "totally out of my lane right now?" You don't even know me. And I don't know you. True, I may have gotten in late on this, but I have read all the replies to this young lady and I think people just jumped on her. As I said, she may have just worded her question wrong? Do you always think before you speak? We all say things without thinking it through sometimes. We are all human and make mistakes. That is all I am basically saying. By the way, my name is Larinda. Is that all you wanted to know? Forgive my tone, but I sensed a tone in your reply to my post. It is as if I had no business putting my nose where it did not belong.:(
It isn't that (your last sentence.) It is that this thread died a while ago and the original poster hasn't been back. So you coming on here jumping on those of us who responded was uncalled for. Are you nfinit by any chance?

ETA: In addition you posted as a SF on a particular org's board. Yet some members of that org were among the posters that you generally chastized. Do you think that was wise?

laidbackfella 04-11-2005 01:07 AM

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Originally posted by ladygreek
It isn't that (your last sentence.) It is that this thread died a while ago and the original poster hasn't been back. So you coming on here jumping on those of us who responded was uncalled for. Are you nfiniti by any chance?
Co-sign with ladygreek

And most of us in this thread are partially familiar with one another via the net and some real life.

So resurrecting this thread in the manner you did by jumpin on folks is like pullin your car into traffic without looking both ways.

Which is why you were out of your lane.

ladygreek 04-11-2005 01:58 AM

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Originally posted by laidbackfella
Co-sign with ladygreek

And most of us in this thread are partially familiar with one another via the net and some real life.


Right, which is why she missed the fact that we were joking because no Kappas came on to answer the original question. She doesn't know these D9 boards, yet, thus does she know that we visit each other's board, get along, and tease each other. But if someone not in our orgs comes on here and denigrates any of us we will defend each other.

abaici 04-11-2005 02:41 AM

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Originally posted by ladygreek
But if someone not in our orgs comes on here and denigrates any of us we will defend each other.
Like the little dysfunctional family we are. :)

AKA2D '91 04-11-2005 09:06 AM

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ETA: In addition you posted as a SF on a particular org's board. Yet some members of that org was among the posters that you generally chastized. Do you think that was wise? [/B]

HA!

I'm sure she didn't think about that while she was thinking about nfinit's tone etc. LOL

laidbackfella 04-11-2005 10:28 AM

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Originally posted by ladygreek
Right, which is why she missed the fact that we were joking because no Kappas came on to answer the original question. She doesn't know these D9 boards, yet, thus does she know that we visit each other's board, get along, and tease each other. But if someone not in our orgs comes on here and denigrates any of us we will defend each other.
But here's what really stuck out to me.

Over in the SGRho forum this person is off topic "bloggin" in a discussion of the AURORA magazine.

http://greekchat.com/gcforums/showth...481#post995481

BlueReign 04-11-2005 12:52 PM

That was so funny, I have to think before I respond. Since I usually try to "think" before I "speak"> Ha! Ha! :) :)

This chick is an educator in Maryland, huh???:rolleyes:

ladylarinda16 04-11-2005 02:41 PM

:mad: Is that an insult? "This chick is an educator in Maryland?" WTF??!!! It is so very easy to insult people on the internet, isn't it? Yes, I am an educator. I work with the HIV/AIDS population. I also speak to young people. Anything else? It does not look good when you insult people like that. How would you like it if someone called into question what you did for a living? I don't think you would like it one bit. Would you? Think about that!::rolleyes:

laidbackfella 04-11-2005 03:01 PM

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Originally posted by ladylarinda16
How would you like it if someone called into question what you did for a living?
Actually that's not what is being called into question.

bobbyearl93 04-11-2005 04:14 PM

Quote:

Originally posted by nfinit
I will soon be marrying a member of Kappa Alpha Psi Fraternity. To give the wedding an extra special meaning for him, I would like to include unique "rituals" in the wedding ceremony and/or reception. Please help with ideas if you have participated, veiwed, or know of any ideas that I may be able to use. Thanks for the help.

Quote:

Originally posted by ladylarinda16
It seems that everyone is assuming she is trying to include some "secret" members only stuff in the ceremony. Maybe she worded it wrong.
Your love has got me in a KOLD sweat.
So kold so kold so kold so kold sweeeeeaaaat...

Obviously, the new trend is to talk about things that have NOTHING to do with the thread. I thought I would keep it going.

Oh yeah, doesn't the word "RITUAL" imply "secret member's only stuff"? If it does, then why in the Hell would you ask the question if you are not a secret member? Then again, I am not a Maryland educator, HIV/AIDS population worker, or a "young people" speaker, so I could be wrong.

BlueReign 04-11-2005 04:18 PM

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Originally posted by laidbackfella
Actually that's not what is being called into question.
Good looking out, laidback.

I have nothing further to say. LOL!!

ladygreek 04-11-2005 09:06 PM

Or maybe she is a 16 year old posing as an educator from MD. :confused:

BlueReign 04-11-2005 11:30 PM

Yes, I think so too Lady Greek. I didn't answer the PM she sent me like I would address an adult.

To Ms. Larinda: BTW, I am an educator in Maryland, also. No one was questioning what you do for a living and I couldn't care less if you called me out on what I do for a living. :rolleyes:

WE ALL are questioning what you have posted, where you have posted, and how you have posted!!! ETC.

Read through these pages of Greek Chat and EDUCATE yourself about the tone of this forum and different rules on different organization's forums, particularly the Alpha Kappa Alpha forum since you introduced yourself there as a sisterfriend.

RedefinedDiva 04-12-2005 12:47 AM

The things people say on GC! As Martin said in "You So Crazy," Craaaaazy....DERANGED! This person is almost as comical as the wannabe Alpha/Kappa (aspirant4now).


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