The kind of girl you'd want to marry??
 

In your opinion is there a difference between the kind of girl you would like to marry and girls that you just want to mess around with?????

Here is why I'm asking..... my x wants to get stuff out of his "system" and is going out with different girls... I got advice from this really nice lady who told me that we still loved each other and these girls mean nothing to him. She also said that I'm the type of girl that he and others look for to marry, because I don't have a bad reputation...blah, blah, blah. I love my x a lot, but I'm not going to sit and wait for him, so we'll see what happens. Ok, enough about me...

But, do you guys really look at girls and think that she is the wife type/not the wife type?

Definitly.

I know what kind of girl I'll marry, and I know what kind of girl I won't marry. I think I may have met like 3 girls that would fall into the 'marrying' type, and all the other girls I've met on campus would fall in to the 'no way in hell'-but I would still have some fun with them.

He's getting stuff out of his system? Is that seriously the best thing he could think of to say?

Ok, I'm not a man-hater, I promise, but it sounds to me, that this guy is NOT the type of guy YOU should marry.

I would only marry a Chi O. ;)

Guys say you're the kind of girl they'd want to marry when they're just not into you. It's an excuse, and a pretty lame one at that.

LOL.

Agreed.

That said, there are definitely "the kind of boys I'd marry" and "the kind of boys I'd just mess around with" -- but if I'm breaking up with the former to screw around with the latter, I'm still light years away from being mature enough to get married. I assume the same would be true for guys. I think it's kind of a lame excuse. It's the thing guys say when they want to screw around with other girls and make sure you stay at home having no fun of your own.

the marrying kind is a euphemism for bisexual and gorgeous, with a massive dowry a la 1492.



also the dude just wanted to do the sex with other girls. whoops, you took it too seriously.

Excuse me, considering we're at the same campus, those 3 girls better be alpha phi's! j/k :p

Re: The kind of girl you'd want to marry??
 

Sorry, but the nice old lady may have different values and is just saying this stuff to make you feel better. I don't want to upset you, but this ex of yours is going out with them for a reason and only he knows if it's means anything is him.

"...we want a lady in the street but a freak in the bed to say Yeah (yeah)..."

Seriously, we want the best of both worlds, someone to entertain us inside and outside of the bedroom.

Well said. And RUGreek is on the money about the old lady you talked to -- and why are you letting other people tell you what to do with your relationship, anyway?

Oh hell yeah. You tell girls they are different, you use words like special, you tell them you've never met someone who makes you feel like this...

but in all reality, she's just another stupid girl and you won't be marrying her ass.

-Rudey
--hahahahaha she'll grow old and be lonely and be used goods hahahahha

Thats some funny shit.

This is funny because I love when guys think that every girl they meet wants to marry them. There are so many guys I will date for various reasons (hotness being one of them) but would never consider taking home to the parents. These are always inevitably the guys who think you are "the one". I won't be marrying their asses either.
And...Mr. Rudey, used goods isn't attractive on our end either...if your package resembles a warning picture from a sex ed video we will not be thrilled...:p

lol

;)

A couple of years ago, I found a great book that explains all of this. It's called What Men Want. It was written by 3 young professional guys (a doctor, a lawyer, and an accountant). According to this book, when a guy meets a girl, he can immediately determine if she is a "good for now" girl or "wife material". This book is a great way to see how a man REALLY thinks, this is stuff that he WON'T tell you (examples are 1) with sex, men still believe in the double standard, and 2) women have more power over men than they know).

SOME women have more power over men than they know, not all. ;)

That's true...kind of like when you agreed to be my slave for a week :p

Daaaaamn, you must be able to do something right. :p

I know, I've been told that my milkshake brings all the boys to the yard :p But it really only works with the hot ones, so YOU must be doing something right...;)

Eh, not ALL men believe in the double standard, thankfully.

My ex-fiance pulled the same thing on me...except he had a specific person he wanted to sleep with: MY BEST FRIEND!!! I should have known then, but it took me a couple of months to realize that if he was interested in pursuing something with other girls, then he wasn't ready for anything with me. Good luck, and I hope your situation turns out better than mine did. (Although not marrying him was the best decision I ever made!)