I can't believe he said this
 

So I've been hooking up with "Jason" since August. He made it clear within the first week that we slept together that he was attracted to me physically, but he didn't really feel a spark as far as relationship goes. I'm quiet and he's loud and outgoing. But we continued to have sex on and off for the past 5 months. Well, I haven't seen him all month b/c he's been back in his hometown for vacation. We ended up talking to each other today, I go over to his apartment, and we hookup. After the whole thing we were talking about work and stuff and he ask me if I ever babysit indiviually (I work for a daycare and church nursery). I said yeah, since I do babysit a whole lot. He then says "well, i've been seeing this new girl and she has a 3 yr old son, so when we go out we might need someone to babysit for him"!!! :eek: I just can't believe he said it. How awkward would that be???? The girl he f*cks babysitting so he can take the kids mom out on a date.

Ummmm, ditch him?!

PWUAHAHAHAHAHAHAHAHAHHAHAAHHAAHHHAHAAHAHh

Oh my god. That is just too funny. Are you going to continue to sleep with him? I mean, if you do then this dude truly is my hero. No, honestly he is.

you took the words write out of my mouth. I swear I was going to write that he was my hero also . . l

Well, I would say a definite "No" to that BUT I've said I'm not sleeping with him anymore a few times but I end up giving in. What can I say, A girl gets needy sometimes!! I dunno though, after this I doubt I'll go back.

How does this fit into your other story?

http://greekchat.com/gcforums/showth...threadid=60443

ITs like a TV show where you miss a few episodes ;)

I am so confused. Last time we left you, you were going to church to meet this boy Caleb that you wanted to sleep with.

But when you went to the bar that night you had a psychotic break down and didn't go home with Caleb, instead you went home with Random boy.

Was Random boy Jason?

Or were you sleeping with Jason while trying to seduce Caleb but some how ended in bed with Random Boy?

I need an episode review damit! :p

Untangle these plot points for us :)

OH, you have enough partners that you can't begrudge Jason having another one can you? That hardly seems fair.

See why I never post in the relationship forum? :)

ah yes James, I was wondering how long it would be before someone put my entire story together.

No, Jason was not random boy. I've known Jason since August. RAndom boy I only met one night in december and don't remember his name. Jason found out about Random boy the day after it happened and wanted me to come over so I did and we hooked up. I honestly think Jason was turned on by the fact I slept with someone else.

I hadn't planned on giving up Jason until Caleb and I at least went on a date. Jason knows about Caleb. Caleb has no clue about jason (and i don't plan on telling him).

Trust me, Jason has his share of women. (and I've only had one other partner (random boy) while I was with Jason).

Need anymore explanation??? Or have I covered it all :)

So what, you're just using him as a piece of ass, then?

That being said, especially when you're talking about being needy, you shouldn't go :eek: when he uses you for the same purpose.

I would say stop messing with him. He's an idiot for asking you in that way and in that situation (right after you hooked up). If he wanted to tell you about the other girl, he could have just been upfront about and not ask in such a stupid way. So do you want to be with someone that stupid?

And do you want to mess with someone that is starting a new relationship? That would just be messed up for the other girl.

I'm sure there are other guys out there that are better (in bed) than him :)

Word.

And guys? If this guy was truly hero-worthy, he wouldn't have let it slip that he was shtupping two girls (or more?) at the same time. Then he could have still gotten some from both of them. As it is, he seems kinda dumb.

Although I guess if you really need a babysitter . . .

OKAY?! I was going to ask you (1) where was your brain; (2) whether the "D" was good enough for you to totally lose ALL of your self respect and (3) in case you didn't hear it the first time, where was your brain?

nah dude. you read me wrong. I said that this dude is my hero if CUGreekGirl will continue to sleep with him. Which most likely she will do. Right CUGreekGirl?

No no no.

In Boy-Culture, the only thing cooler than the sweetheart-player, who has a bunch of girls on the string, is the cold-player that can treat his birds with utter indifference and manages to keep them even when telling it like it is.

On a side note, wouldn't it be neat if everytime he went out with the other girl he was paying her for babysitting?

So everytime he was with her she was gettin' some, and everytime he was with her rival she was gettin' paid.

Thats kind of a cool deal.

Nope, nope, nope. I had a LONG talk with myself and even wrote a letter to myself about what an ass this guy is and I'm making myself read it anytime i get tempted to go over to his apt., plus the sex isn't even all that great to begin with, i've definitely had better.

oh... FYI, he's not sleeping with the other girl YET. They are still just in the "talking" phase. They have yet to go out on a real date.

AND we don't hookup when I know he has another girl. I don't want to be "that girl" who is sleeping with another girls boyfriend.

Well i'm glad you reasoned with yourself and decided that this guy is not worth the hassle.

Now it's time to reason with yourself and come to the conclusion that a guy who has a booty call and a girl with a 3 year old are probably not in the talking phase...

Can I just say OMFG? If you know you are needy, get some balls (not his, apparently they are quite firmly attached right now and my are they large) and tell him to go f himself.

Until you realize you are worth more than that you will continue to do the same types of things over and over.

Girls get horny? See and everyone in college thought I was crazy for suggesting this hypothesis. While we are on the subject, does the late night sorority spanish fly party still go on??

Hmmph, well it sounds like you're gonna say one thing and do another. I know girls like you and I guess it's easy to fall for a "comfortable" situation. Just remember, you are hooking up with a guy who is talking about other women while with ya. Your sex life can't be this pathetic... maybe invest in a vibrator ;)


RUgreek

RUgreek
 

I get home drunk& I read this& it makes me laugh. Mainly b/c you stated the obvious [her sex life can't be that bad] but b/c also you told a girl to get an inanimate object [vibrator] to pleasure herself with.

-Mark

I have to agree with AOII_LB93

Also, again, why blab your very personal life all over the internet? You'd think you'd have learned from the last thread

Hey yall, I'll effing admit that battery operated BFs are effing awesome.

What?

I can't speak from experience, but anything's gotta be better than a jackass like this.

and for comments like this, is why i love sandy... too funny...

hehehe no kidding!!!

the coolest thing about the battery operated boyfriends is that they don't ask you stupid questions like "Could you babysit the son of the girl I'm seeing?"

Hush Dani, its entertaining ;)

I dunno....there's times where a girl gets needy but I would hope they wouldn't be so desperate that they'd stoop to sleeping with a guy who admits that you're just his &%$# buddy and asks you to babysit his girlfriend's kid.

There's a cool invention called 'The Rabbit' and it works wonders for those times when you're in need.

i can't believe i'm going to say this here, but i completely agree.

Is that thing real? I saw it mention on a sex in the city episode . . . didn't one of the girls develop an addiction?

yes, it's real.

Please respect yourself more than to give it up to some slobbering college boy who won't give you the time of day when he's sober. You know you are so much better than that and deserving of someone who truly cares for you.

I agree-- if you're in the mood-- invest in a B.O.B.-- and hold out for the guy who will actually give you the time of day.

Just some advice--- you might want to keep stories like these between your real friends-- not the virtual strangers of a message board. But some additional advice-- take a look in the mirror and learn to respect your body and your mind.

Interestingly enough . . . I can completely believe he said this.

I know, so can I.

I pray that you're at least using about 5 forms of protection, or else you'll likely end up on the next episode of Maury.

That's pretty funny. I'd say go ahead and babysit. Make sure to let the mom know you (and lots of pther girls) sleep with the boy. Charge him an arm and a leg, and then go find yourself a polite fuck-buddy-- or take Caleb on a date with your extra cash.

ROFL~

This is actually not a bad idea :p

CUGreekgirl:

I've seen your two threads and the Social Worker in me is encouraging you to seriously consider seeking some professional help. Even if I wasn't a SW I think your posts speak volumes and you need to go beyond a message board to get the help you need to deal with your relationship issues. Good luck and I encourage you to stay away from the guys for awhile and learn about yourself and why you are choosing the types of guys you are choosing.

hey hey hey . .

We are not talking about sexual encounters where the guy blows a load on her back, steals money from her purse and slips out a window while she is sleeping.

These are just normal encounters that have a twist because we are seeing them on a message board.

I am not saying she may not have issues of depression/anxiety or something else, but thats not readily aparent from these posts.

Lets lighten up a little.

Also, there is nothing wrong with posting this stuff on a message board. It may be easier for many people to vent to strangers than friends. However, posting this stuff does invite satirical a commentary which I am sure she was prepared for.

Hey wait a minute, I thought we were all here to act as the morality police and rip apart anyone who doesn't behave exactly as we would in the same situation?

To be fair, sex is evil, and discussion of it must be swatted down with impunity. Either way, i don't get the outrage here - i'm completely sure that I know this guy, and in fact I might be this guy. Whoops. Also, when I go out, sometimes I'm looking for this girl, too. Weird.

you're looking for a babysitter?

It was you, wasn't it?

Anyway, I think the problem has to do more with the baby-sitting than the "non-meaningful sex" part. I think it's pretty common knowledge that if you're having sex with more than one person, you don't ask them to interact. Unless, you know, it's a threesome.