The perfect guy/girl...
 

What is your idea of the "perfect" (bear in mind this is relative) member of the opposite sex?
For me.... in no particular order...

1.) I like guys that are taller than me (but not towering over me)
2.) Politically Active (but not extreemist... Have an idea of what is going on and generally cares)
3.) Knows what he wants out of life and is making progress towards getting there
4.) Strong family
5.) Athletic (to survive in my family you HAVE to like hockey)

Its been my experience that there isnt a perfect girl. Women havent evolved enough to become perfect. There's the ideal women, she's a dream that every guy chases for at least part of our lives. I've come to realize that there are two types of females out there....you have the ones who are really hot but usually are bitchy or else they have major issues (mentally), and then you have the average good looking girl whos not really anything to brag about physically but they're usually the coolest chicks out there and all your friends and family get along with her. Its kind of like dessert. The perfect dessert would be a chocolate chip, toll house cookie, freshly baked and then topped with either cool whip or creamcheese cake frosting. But you know what, you never see that shit in the grocery store. The same applies to females, you won't never find a perfect one.



But, if I had to pick an ideal women she'd be;

Tall- 5'10 or taller
slim-120 lbs or smaller
a DG or ZTA
big titties (hopefully real, but fakes would do)
good breath
nice teeth
laid back persona
freak in the bed (hopefully one that could break me off)
air headed acting
a woman that would do anything for me

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Andy Irons. Surfing champion of the world. Blonde. Rich. Handsome. Tall. Seen there in the red.

If Andy's not available, I'll gladly take his younger brother Bruce...the one in yellow.

The Irons brothers are PERFECT.

I have qualities that I think make men attractive, but what I really think it comes down to is chemistry- the ellusive quality that no one has by them self, but only with other people. Personal chemistry, sexual chemistry-- those are the things that make a relationship special. Although if I could pick anyone, I would pick someone:
1- attractive who cares about their appearance and health
2- smart and ambitious.
3- with a similar childhood upbringing
4- funny.
5- taller than 5'9" (my height in most shoes)
6- who has goals in their life similar to mine.

My perfect guy would have to have these traits:

1. Either blond hair or dark hair with light eyes
2. Tall 6'1 and up--I like to wear heels
3. Ambitious
4. Potential to be a good father
5. Wants kids
6. Respectful
7. Doesn't look down on me
8. Has something he really enjoys doing
9. Adores me
10. Doesn't let the door slam on girls, EVEN GIRLS HE DOESN'T FIND ATTRACTIVE
11. My family has to like him
12. Listens to me
13. Notices things that I like
14. Can have an intelligent conversation

Ok I better quit before this turns into a novel

Ahahahahahahahaha.

Is it possible for them to be fake and inflatable?

my perfect guy, who i think doesnt exist.

-atleast 6 feet tall (he's gotta be taller than me and in heels i come to about 5'9")
-gentleman who still believes in chivalry
-tan (im a compulsive tanner)
-can hold an intelligent conversation/up to date with current events
-likes to debate, not necessarily argue
-either southern or italian.. and if he isnt southern, hes moving further south with me!
-nice teeth
-slim but muscular
-athletic
-has to get along with my family
-not really hairy, hahaha
-adventerous
-SELF CONFIDENCE.. i hate insecurity and jealousy!

1. Treats women with respect.
2. CLASSY
3. Outgoing
4. Good social skills
5. Intelligent - but not nerdy
6. Good cooks
7. Comes from good family background
8. Has a nice job
9. Not too short
10. Not too tall
11. Politically moderate
12. Believes in God - but not toooo religious
13. Openminded - but not so open-minded his brains fall out.
14. Likes travel
15. Likes a variety of music
16. Silky curly hair
17. Loves birds
18. Dresses nice
19. Not too much of a man ho
20. Has a nice car
21. Not too aggressive
22. Not too wimpy
23. GOOD WITH MONEY
24. Into sports - but not TOO into sports
25. Enjoys partying
26. Enjoys working out and physical activities
27. Good conversationalist
28. Good in bed - but not too freaky - no donky punches! :o
29. Adventurous
30. Social drinker
31. In touch with his feminine side
32. MENTALLY STABLE - AND HIS FAMILY TOO!
33. Not prejudice and doesn't believe in retarded stereotypes
34. Humble
35.......errrrr I can't think of anymore right now.


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1. Must be my intellectual equal
2. Ambitious
3. Tall (I'm 5'8" and I like to wear stilettos)
4. Liberal and interested in politics
5. Kind-hearted and caring
6. Catholic
7. Social (I like to go out without having to babysit a boy)
8. I prefer dark hair and skin

Luckily, Mr. ADqtPiMel fulfills most of these...he's Native American, a liberal political science major who's studying for the LSAT, tall, and a friendly, social guy...now we just need to fulfill the Catholic requirement.

- Liberal/progressive/radical...cannot and will not date a conservative republican or a born-again. This means that they have to be OK with my views on abortion and on homosexual marriage. Bigots need not apply.

- Has to be into punk rock/hardcore. I can't stand dating guys with crappy tastes in music. Most of all I hate those boys who act like they grew up on a ranch but wouldn't know the business end of a horse from a hole in the ground.

- I HATE pretty boys. If a guy takes longer than I do to get ready for something, then he's too high maintainence. I don't really give a shit what he shows up in, just as long as he's not naked. Nor do I see the point in spending buckets of money on clothing and then complaining about not having any money.

- I can't date a rich guy. I can't do it. I can't do the whole country-club WASP scene. I'm a blue collar girl, and I always will be. I don't claim to be "classy" (which is a word that gets thrown around a lot nowadays). I'm not "classy", I'm just me. I don't want to ride in a Porshe, a Ford will do just fine.

- Has to be smart.
- Catholic would be nice.
- Respectful of other cultures
- Enjoy being outdoors/getting sweaty/working
- Willing to let me do what I want to do when I want to do it.
- Must be OK with my male friends.
- Must be OK with my sorority sisters
- Must be OK with me not wearing makeup
- Being taller than I am would be nice, but I'm 5'10, it's understandable.
- Absolutely, without a doubt, must respect my choice to not drink/smoke/do drugs/ have sex. This is CRUCIAL. Without this, all bets are off.

The following are in no particular order:

1. Ambitious
2. Tall: Height over 5'10"
3. Dark Hair
4. Into Sports
5. Knows stuff about computers
6. Wants a family someday
7. Smart, not just book smart but has common sense
8. Strong Family Values
9. Athletic
10. Respectful
11. On the same level as me

1. Average to tallish (i.e. 5'8-6'1 or so)

2. Light hair (but not too, too blond) or dark hair and blue eyes.

3. Good dresser, but must like dressing down sometimes too.

4. Neat appearance. No long hair and must shave often.

5. Nice smile

6. At least a bachelor's degree

7. Should be at least a semi-frequent church goer. No Christmas and Easter only types. I am talking going to Sunday services at least once a month.

8. Into sports and other "typically guy stuff", but shouldn't think that it's more important than ME.

9. This means he must be healthy. Slim/athletic body.

10. Hold a decent job and makes a good living. I don't want an artist wannabe that I have to support.

11. Must be willing to do his share of household chores.

12. Family oriented/Good family values

13. Politically slightly right of centre (in Canadian terms, so I guess this means centre/moderate in the US?)

14. Must like Chinese food (and I mean "REAL" Chinese food, not the fast food/mall stuff) and know how to use chopsticks.

15. Social/outgoing, but not too outgoing.

16. MUST LOVE AND RESPECT ME! :)

Wow, some of you ladies have really put a lot (too much) thought into this.

1.I like brunettes...but have only ever dated blondes.

2.Short girls. 5'4" or smaller. I dated a few tall chicks, not taller than me, but I didn't like it.

3.A chick that is nice, not a girl that is catty and makes fun of other girls/guys over petty reasons.

4.Allows me my space.

5.Has a car, so I don't have to drive everywhere.

I'm sure there's more, but I take chicks as they come. Maybe if I were seriously looking for a girlfriend I'd have a longer list.

hmm . . . the perfect guy

a) taller than me, enough so that I can wear heels, so 6'3" or up
b) dark hair and green eyes
c) witty and playful
d) like football
e) be close with his parents and siblings
f) not take himself to seriously
g) from the midwest

One who lives at least 500 miles away so I only have to deal with him when I feel like it and he doesn't interfere with my daily life.

I think its funny that the chicks are all over this. where are the guys? have you no voice? do you just like what you can get? I know you dont agree with cashmoney (though I think do this he's very funny. can't do anything but laugh at such a suggestion)

I think this topic has popped up before . . .. Its interesting that y'all have so many specific details in what you consider to bethe "perfect guy."

The perfect girl. Well obviously I have to find her highly attractive otherwise she wouldn't be a romantic object.

But unlike most of you I am not going to diaqualify someone because they don't meet my height requirement or some other mundane detail like education level or income.

So generally my idea of the perfect girl would be someone that is a proactive participant in the things i like to do.

And most importantly, just by her very existance, she would inspire me to be a better person, both fundamentally and in the skills sets I need to succeed in those aspects of life i want to challenge.

Ok I'll let y'all go back to discussing how important his hair color, height and superficial personality traits are lol. :p

my perfect girl would be sweet, caring, genuine, intelligent, make me laugh, be easy to talk to, honest, make me feel special, make me want to be a better person, someone who i can grow old with, someone who is my lover and a best friend.

Im so happy shes mine right now!!!

My list is WAY too long to include here (I thought about this one day when I was driving tractor for like 14 hours--I was really bored). I'm not concerned with specifics on looks as long as he's attractive in general, the things I'm most concerned over:

1. simialar upbringing--GOTTA BE A FARMBOY
2. he loves me
3. we respect each other

But I definitely agree with the chemistry thing, if that's not there forget about ever getting together.

The really awesome thing about making that list, I discovered I already know that boy, and now I'm working on making him mine

We like to read and spy on these type of threads. I'll take a whack though for entertainment purposes:

(1) 5'5"-5'10" (so that with heels she'll be shorter than me)
(2) Thin (not anorexic)
(3) smart and funny (blondes included)
(4) speaks a foreign language
(5) adventurous, spontaneous, and athletic
(6) sarcastic sense of humor
(7) same religious background
(8) great smile
(9) large knockers
(10) drinks tequila
(11) loves to cook
(12) has money (doesn't have to be a fortune, but it doesn't hurt either)
(13) doesn't need to hear "I love you" all the damn time
(14) and MOST importantly (which is why she doesn't exist...) is Happy and beautiful on the inside.

Of course there are plenty of other boring nitpicking details to throw in here, but that's a short recipe for impossibility already. Something tells me the closest thing that matches my list is a strip club dancer, so who knows :p


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1. at least 5'10
2. Christian
3. funny
4. educated and smart (an education doesn't always mean intelligence!)
5. athletic
6. likes to watch sports
7. older than me (the last bf was 10 years older)
8. Nice family with a similar background
9. nice looking (doesn't have to be Tom Cruise, but he can't look like that guy on the Goonies)
10. wants kids
11. wants to be married
12. a good friend
13. affectionate
14. able to communicate
15. has a good stable job
16. must be absolutely crazy about me
17. loves me
18. can challenge me and help me grow as a person and a Christian.
19. Must be a Republican
20. Can't have a hairy back