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What is it about DST...?
This question is geared towards those of you who are interested in becoming members of our Illustrious Sisterhood.
Recognizing that all 4 sororities of the Divine Nine are committed to service to the black community in some way or another, and that all are characterized by black sisterhood, why is it that you are SPECIFICALLY interested in Delta Sigma Theta? I only ask because I think it is crucial that you can answer the question: "Why NOT Alpha Kappa Alpha, Zeta Phi Beta, or Sigma Gamma Rho?", just as confidently, thoroughly, and intelligently as you answer the question:, "Why Delta?" In other words, what sets Delta apart for you? As you think about your response, focus on these organizations on a national, comprehensive level. Don't focus on stereotypes and superficial (i.e. petty and irrelevant) factors such as the way certain members look or act in a certain chapter of an organization. And please, no bashing! For those of you who are SERIOUSLY considering membership, this is a question you should be able to answer with ease. Any difficulty answering it may mean you have a tad bit more researching and soul-searching to do. I'm so curious to hear what you have to say. Share with me! Nuttin' but luv, the411 ------------------ Delta Sigma Theta Sorority, Inc. Pi Kappa, SP97 #3 of QUINTESSENCE |
For me personally, although my mother is a member of Delta Sigma Theta, I took it upon myself to ask her advice on what she thought I should do. She told me to reasearch all of the sororities and then decided for myself. That's what I did.
One of the things that caught my attention was the major programs of the Five Point Thrust. Delta Sigma Theta reaches out to make sure that people are aware of the political issues around us especially supporting Census 2000. Along with that the chapter on my campus are promoting Health awareness by posting up facts on diseases and also the political aspect by having voter registration drives. Delta Sigma Theta notonly community service they show by example and encourage others to take part also. Other organizations do this as well, but Delta community service programs, are programs that reach out and touch people in every shape form and fashion. Delta has continually throughout history been dedicated to their program and passes the ball own down through every person that becomes a member. It took sometime for me to arrive at the real reason why I wanted to pursue membership in Delta Sigma Theta, and after sitting back and taking all of the other aspects out of it ( such as parties, colors, how many members are on campus, what my friends want to be.), I read the book and researched and found that Delta was the only sorority I wanted to be a part of. I hope this answered your question the 411. |
This is the same question that my son's father asked me a couple of nights ago. He said that he doesn't see me as a person who would want to join a sorority but as a person who would want to start my own.
My reponse: I always thought that I wanted to be a member of DST but I didn't know for sure(100%) until I began to research all 4 sororities. Delta stood out from the rest and I began to do more research on Delta. In my opinion, none of the other founders could come close to possessing the zeal and compassion for achieving and helping others that your 22 Founders had. They took the initiative to make a differece in their lives and their community. They did not give up no matter what adversity they were faced with. They were STRONG CHRISTIAN women. They were leaders. From reading about them I could see that they were truly genuine. As I think about the women of DST that I have crossed paths with I see the same characteristics in these women that your founders exemplified. The women of DST always reach out to the community in every positive aspect that you could think of. The women of DST not only educate our Black community about different issues but they also take the next step to implement programs to make sure that our people continue to receive education on these issues. I am a hard working, strong, christian, Black women and I feel that I exemplify some of the same characteristics that your Beloved 22 Founders did. I am always willing to lend a helping hand. I know that I don't have to be a member of DST to help others and to make a difference in my community. To see the positive impact that the women of DST have in a community; to see the strong christian morals that these women have; to see the zeal and determination that these women have to make a difference in their lives and the lives of others is truly breath taking. The women of Delta Sigma Theta are truly remarkable and if it is God's will I will one day become a member of this illustrious sisterhood. [This message has been edited by MD2BE (edited October 11, 2000).] |
OK, I'll put myself out there...
First of all: For me it has to do with identification. I am (1) a separated mother of 2, (2) a full time IT contracts administrator, (3) a full time student (seeking undergrad membership), (4) 34 years old (you're never to old), (5) active in my community, which is community service AND raising healthy and respectful children. Second, In the course of a day, my Delta role models do more than that and do it well...When I was younger (18), I used to hear that it was 'hard to be a Delta'...16 years later and I'm finally starting to get a clue about what that meant! Third, while I can appreciate that the other NPHC sororities are also committed to service, Delta Sigma Theta Sorority, Inc. best exemplifies the goals that I've set for myself and the committment that I've made to my community. I am definitely from the school of thought that if you're not part of the solution, then you're part of the problem. My observation is that Delta does not pay lip service to ANYONE. I have seen these ladies out there DOING what others merely suggest. If you are like-minded, who wouldn't want to fellowship and serve with Delta? That's it. I hope no one was offended by my post in any way. I'm at work so please excuse the typos! [This message has been edited by Rhonique66 (edited October 04, 2000).] |
Delta Sigma Theta Sorority, Inc. inspires me personally and politically.
Four of the most influential women in my life are members. They are brilliant, dynamic, and community-oriented. These women are daily inspirations for me. I met each at different points in life. They are from different backgrounds. The fact that each woman individually chose Delta (and Delta chose them) was striking. I simply wanted to be like them, you know, the "if I was half the woman you are" adage. So, I began to research Delta, and participate in activities. When I learned about Delta's political awareness and involvement, I was excited. From Delta Day at the Capitol to Voter Registration Drives to Voter Information Seminars, Delta is doing what I want to do: educating, activating, and making a substantive difference. The American Political environment is what I study, specifically, elections, participation, and policy. I hope that my academic contributions can assist in further awareness and activity among the African-American community. Delta Sigma Theta Sorority, Inc. has been at the forefront of significant struggles- suffrage for women, civil rights for African-Americans, better health throughout the African Diaspora. I want to be a part of a group that is committed improvement on all levels. ------------------ @~~^~~~~ The most beautiful thing in the world is, precisely, the conjunction of learning and inspiration. -- Wanda Landowska |
I have done my research on all 4 black sororities as well and I must admit that Delta Sigma Theta stood out to me as the most dynamic and instrumental sorority. I feel that Delta women are world changers. Wherever there are problems and issues that need to be dealt with, Delta is there. They are there concerning the Mumia Case, concerning legislation in government, concerning helping the elderly, concerning people in Africa, concerning disadvantaged young children, and much more. And what is most outstanding is that they have been like this from the very beginning of their founding. They have never been afraid to take risks and to have their voices heard in society, whether it was the Suffrage March, Civil Rights Movement, etc. For all of these reasons, and many more, I believe that DST is the right sorority for me. And with a lot of luck and blessings, maybe one day I will be a Delta.
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I guess the thing that really made me want to be a part of this sorority is the history of service. I didn't realize how indepth the history was until I read "In Search Of Sisterhood." I hold a bachelors in history and am a strong believer that your history and knowing it forms your life, especially African-Americans. So, I guess you could say that I am a history buff and all of the historical events that formed my life and opinions, a Delta was there (ie..Sufferage Movement, Little Rock Nine etc).
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I hear you all loud and clear. You seem to know what attracts you to Delta, but why would Delta be attracted you? In other words, make sure that you have something to offer. http://www.greekchat.com/forums/ubb/smile.gif
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I shared with my soror the411 via e-mail that I liked this post. About a month ago I was going to share my reasons for seeking Delta but got so wrapped up in school work, but what better opportunity...
In high school, I was in everything except being a cheerleader (was a little on the chunky side) http://www.greekchat.com/forums/ubb/smile.gif and so being a student leader gave me a chance to get to know many of my teachers and others on a more personal level. I begin to realize that there was something about the majority of my female teachers that I grew to love and that was they were heavily involved in the community and I later found out that they were members of some big organization called Delta Sigma Theta. Like the411, when I was a senior I was awarded a scholarship, the Glenda Hardin Scholarship for $500. But unlike my soror, the local collegiate chapter at then Memphis State University, Epsilon Kappa Chapter, gave me the scholarship. I was thrilled. I had to write an essay, go through a panel interview, and I had to show where I was involved in public service. I didn't know any of those Deltas that interviewed me so, though I left the interview confident, I was still nervous because I thought it was "who you know". When I got the letter dated April 27, 1987 that they were proud to inform me that I had been selected as one of two recipients...I cried. I knew that that $500 would pay half of my tuition or pay for books because I came from a family of 6 siblings, 3 mentally handicapped brothers, and only one other was in college...and I knew I had to rely on grants and scholarships. Ya'll I still have that letter...I'm looking at it right now. The Deltas held a special place in my HEART then and still today. Their giving hearts benefited me greatly. My mother knows that and she is graduating Dec. 16 from that same school whose Delta chapter gave her daughter $500 over 12 years ago. My mother recently shared that she wants to pledge Delta. It would have been awesome if she did it through Epsilon Kappa but she's 51 and said she would rather wait...LOL...I told her to got for it. http://www.greekchat.com/forums/ubb/smile.gif It just wasn't there for me as an undergraduate student, but I don't regret it for one moment that I went through an alumnae chapter April 29, 1999. Anyway, that's part of my story and my testimony because there are a number of reasons why I sought Delta. I can honestly say the going to parties and wanting to "belong" wasn't one of them. ------------------ Director #2 LMAC Spr 99 [This message has been edited by DirectorDST99 (edited October 06, 2000).] |
Ladies, your comments have been so wonderful that I'm almost in tears just reading them! I am so glad that our Sisterhood has touched your lives in the ways that it has!
I know I'm already a member, but I'll share one of my MANY reasons for choosing Delta... I've wanted to be a Delta since 5th grade because my music teacher (and favorite teacher at the time), Ms. Regan, was a Delta, and so was another teacher I loved, Mrs. Straughter. My aunt was also a proud Delta Diva. Of course, at that age, I had no idea what a sorority was-- I just knew that if I wanted to be like Ms. Regan or Mrs. Straughter or my aunt, I had to be a Delta. It wasn't until I was in 9th ('90-'91) grade that I really saw the fruit of DST's labor. My family was always VERY poor; in 1991 we were selected to receive a house to be built by Habitat for Humanity. Although many, many organizations and companies (including AKA and Zeta) contributed financially to the project, only a few groups actually helped with the construction. When the land was cleared and the foundation was laid, the women of many DST chapters, locally and statewide, came down religiously EVERY weekend (and sometimes during the week) to help with the building. It was SO beautiful to see these women-- all in the same Delta family, but oftentimes not knowing each other until they met at the construction site--dressed in their sorority 'nalia, just hammerin' away or painting or laying bricks or whatever the job-of-the-day entailed!!! They were the only female organization to do hard labor on the project! When the house was built, they even stuck around to help with landscaping, and they donated a number of household items and furniture pieces. The women came in different shapes and sizes and skin colors and personalities, but even as a high school freshman, I could see that they had one thing in common-- their love for helping those in need. The unity was amazing-- even the ones who'd just met acted like they had been friends for life. Best of all, the Deltas NEVER belittled my family or made us feel like a charity case, even though we were. Other groups talked down to us, assuming that because we were poor we were also ignorant. But the Deltas would actually talk to us and get to know us. When they found out I was an honor student, they immediately and enthusiastically informed me of the different scholarship opportunities they provided, and invited me to participate in Delteens and the National Business & Professional Women's (NBPW) youth club (the latter in which I did join). Many of the Deltas kept in contact with me through the local alumnae chapter, and when I was a senior, DST awarded me with a renewable $1,000 scholarship. After all that love and compassion, how could I not want to be a part of Delta Sigma Theta?!?!?! And, I can honestly say that my impression was unaltered when I went to college. The Delta's programs (the collegiate and alumnae chapters included) were always purposeful, meaningful, and relevant. While I have much respect for the other 3 sororities, I had never seen the kind of consistency and involvement in public service that I'd seen with Delta. Delta's passion for community service seemed almost like an instrinsic spell that the members couldn't shake, even if they wanted to! That has always been the kind of person I am-- an altrusitic person whose life revolves around helping others. When I miss an opportunity to do something good for someone or to make a positive difference in someone's life, I literally feel empty inside, sick, even. There is no way I could have been a part of any other organization-- I am perfectly matched for Delta Sigma Theta!!! Well, that's my story and I'm stickin' to it! Please keep your testimonies rollin' in-- they are simply beautiful! Nuttin' but luv! the411 ------------------ Delta Sigma Theta Sorority, Inc. Pi Kappa, SP97 #3 of QUINTESSENCE |
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this is Skegeegirl (it's been a long time, I know). I changed my name because I changed schools. My reasons for having interest in DST is because of the ongoing service that I see this remarkable group of women performing. I see a group of women not bound by blood, but who share a strong sisterhood like no other I have ever seen. These women are the movers and the shakers, a distinct group of women that have touched and will continue to touch many lives. When I was a senior in HS (wow! a entire year ago), I was awarded a $1,000 scholarship by the Cleveland Alumnae Chapter. I had to write a essay as with any other scholarship and I had an interview. This interview was like no other that I have ever experienced and I will never forget it. I sat in the middle of a circle of DST women who were sitting at a roundtable. Each member asked me questions about my accomplishments and public service. Talk about NERVOUS. So, I got my acceptance/congratulatory letter and I was so happy. And since that day I have stayed in contact with the Cleveland Alumnae Chapter by giving them updates on my progress. I come from a single parent home. I had no idea how my Mom was going to pay for my education and I am truly blessed. Only one person from our school could recieve this award and I was chosen. DST has a ongoing committment to community service, scholarship, character, and leadership which inspired me and touched my life. I am very involved in my community and although it is hard and I sometimes don't sleep at night juggling academics and activities ,it is something that I have to do. Life is about helping those in need and never forgeting where you come from. Whatever you give to people will come back to you through blessings from God. Well, those are my reasons. They are similar to those of the other interests. It's just something about DST that touches the lives of everyone it encounters. ( I apologize for being brief, but I have procrastinated so long and I have a newspaper article that has to be on the Editor's desk by 9 am) |
Director, I actually expected much more responses than this. The ones posted are very good and enlightening, but considering all the interest in this forum, it's suprising how few prospectives have shared their testimonies.
Hint, Hint. the411 ------------------ Delta Sigma Theta Sorority, Inc. Pi Kappa, SP97 #3 of QUINTESSENCE |
My interest in Delta Sigma Theta Sorority, Inc was sparked at a young age when I found out that my grandmother was a member (she is now deceased). Fascinated by this fact, I too wanted to become a member. While in highschool I came in contact with members of all the BGLO's and it was not until my last two years of highschool that I began to question why I was interested in Delta Sigma Theta. After doing some research I found myself still interested because of their continued commitment toward community service and issues affecting the African-American community both locally and nationally. Through my research and personal contact with members of the sorority, I saw that they weren't just volunteering to say that they participated in community service, but that they have a true genuine interest in helping others in their community and human welfare. I have always felt priveliged to be able to obtain higher education and have so many opportunities that others don't get, I feel that it is my duty to extend my hand to help others to achieve their goals. Delta Sigma Theta exemplifies this. Delta Sigma Theta's involvement in education, in politics, in economics, internationally, and with physical and mental health, shows that they don't just follow the crowd, but instead pave a path for others to follow.
***the411:Sorry I haven't been in contact, school among other things have beening keeping me busy.*** ------------------ I can do all things through God who strengthens me! [This message has been edited by quietstorm (edited October 11, 2000).] |
I hear you loud and clear, soror the411. I noticed that myself.
Perhaps others don't really know why they want Delta so badly and by reading this thread, it has placed something on their hearts - to find out truly why they want DELTA and what they have to offer her. ------------------ Director #2 LMAC Spr 99 |
DirectorDST99 asked the question Why would Delta Be Attracted to you?
I feel that Delta would be attracted to me because I am a hard working person that practices community service all the time, I work very dilligently to keep up and raise my GPA, I am a nice friendly person, and I do what I can to help others. I am involved in a tutorial program to tutor underprivaliged kids, as well a the local chapter of NSBE, and NAACP, and I also volunteer to help out around my dorm. I hope this has provided some insight to what kind of person that I am and why I feel that Delta would be attracted to me. ------------------ All of our dreams can come true- if we have the courage to pursue them. |
First of all I would like to thank all of you for your prayers and encouragement through my ordeal. I have temporarily returned to work. I will be leaving permanetly at the end of this month. Some of you may be wondering why I posted my thanks here. Well let me tell you it is because it eludes one of my many reasons for wanting to be a member of Delta Sigma Theta.
When I requested prayers and responses following the robbery at work, I received nothing but positive feedback. It is this type of feedback that simply reaffirms my desire to be a lady of DST. I am not going to lie and say that I have had nothing but positive experiences with members of DST because that is not true. However, I can say that with every experience, when all was said and done I walked away a person changed for the better. I believe that this is a stronger incentive for me then any program could ever be. I have had knowledge of DSt since elementary school. All of my best, and favorite teachers were Deltas. Our principle was a Delta. When I enrolled in college, the first organization ON THE ENTIRE CAMPUS that I saw doing something positive were the Deltas. The first step show that I saw with Deltas in it really impressed me. The ladies stressed that they would not be doing anything vulgar, cursing, or downing anther sorority or fraternity because it was..to sum it up.. beneath them and not the type of behavior that should be displayed. That really impressed me. There was a show at school where Deltas were stepping and one of them fell down. Everyone was laughing at her but she got back up and finished the show with her head held up high as if nothing ever happened. That impressed me. From there I began my research. By this time I was at another school. I spent HOURS in the computer lab looking at web sites. I attended just about every function that the chapter at my school held or participated in. I talked to the members after the functions and found out alot of information . I was still hungry. I wanted to see these ladies in action. I watched them around campus. I saw the way they carried themselves. I was impressed. All the while I researched other organizations but none had the same effect on me. Finally, I gathered the nerve to purchase "In Search of Sisterhood" following the advice of the chapters vice-president. The first time I tried to read it, I was bored to tears. I put it down. Some of you may be a little taken back by my statement but it's the truth. Later on I did decide to try it again. Not only did I read it but I took notes. The history of the organization really impressed me. It takes guts to walk away from the familiar despite oposition into the unkonwn in search of something greater. Throughout the book I saw how Delta has always been an organzation in the forefront of whatever social movement was going on. She will not take no for an answer. She never makes excuses she makes a change. I attended an open house at my old school, met some past chapter members and even a chapter founder. They all stood up and spoke about what Delta meant to them. By the time everyone had finished, I was in tears. I was moved. From that day on I molded myself to being the kind of woman that I thought an aspiring member of DST should be. I chagned what I did, who I hung around, and where I went. Volunteering was nothing new to me. I had been doing that since highschool, so I continued as usual. The examples of womanhood, sisterhood, responsiblity, accountability for ones actions, determination, courage, and many many more things were what did and still inspires be to be a member. Right now I feel that though I have come a long way. I have the most solid g.p.a. I have ever have I do less but more meaningful service. I treat others as I want to be treated. I try to help other when I can. I try to be a person that leads by example not hides behind words. However, I still have some growing to do. I only hope that when I finally feel that I am ready and my opprotunity presents itself that I am ready. ------------------ MAKE A DIFFERENCE..NOT AN EXCUSE |
That's what I was thinking, too. Hopefully it really got some people to thinking!
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There isn't a legacy of Deltas in my family, so in a sense, I had to start from scratch, researching the history and foundings of Delta Sigma Theta. I remember from what I read from the411's posting and she said that if the reason does not come to you with ease, there may still be some soul searching and research that you will have to do. I read these posting about 3 days ago and I thought that I was able then to answer, but I knew that I wasn't ready, but now I am ready to answer with ease.
To be honest, when I first saw a step show, the ladies of Delta Sigma Theta looked so beautiful. When they were stepping, they were not like other organizations that made fun of other organizations, they were on that stage stepping to show the audience what they can do and what they stand for which is unity. From that show, I became very interested in joining. But I started to realize, that it is not all about stepping, wearing the letters and colors, or doing the calls, secret hand shakes, etc. There is more to Delta than meets the eye. What really attracted me to Delta is the major role that they play in the community. Delta has earned the respect of the community on a local and national basis as an organization that is committed to service. Through the Five Point Thrust Program, Delta reaches out to the community on social, health and political issues that plagues today's society. Throughout the history of Delta's existence, they have been dedicated to their programs and uplifting the African American community. I would love to be a part of that history and continue the service to the community. Another aspect of Delta that really attracted me were the women that makes up Delta. A good frien told me that you should not join a sorority for what it can do for you, but what you can do for it. Throughout my research, I found that all of its members throughout the decades exemplified the traits that their founders possessed. They all wanted to service the community to make it a better place and also, they are all successful black women. Entrepreneurs, politicians, singers, writers, teachers, and leaders in the community are what makes up Delta Sigma Theta. From all this and the positive feedback that Delta gets back from the community, I now know that Delta is the only sorority that I would want to be a part of. |
I am a new member to a forum such as this but when I saw the topic I felt I have to respond.
My interest in Delta Sigma Theta Sorority, Incorporated started when I was a young girl. My sister(who is not a member of Delta Sigma Theta Sorority Inc) would go to college and tell me of all of the things these ladies would do on her campus and in her community. At that time I did not even know what a sorority did and who they did it for. As I grew older I began to notice their impact in my community and on me. I can remember in school when there was not a year that passed from seventh grade to graduation that I did not have a teacher who was also a member of your sorority. I feel as though they had a hand in making me the person I am today. Till this day I still keep in contact with them and I still love them with all of my heart. I never thought that I had women in my family who were apart of Delta Sigma Theta, but when I came home for a break I found out that some of those very people who would take care of me when I was younger and even now that I am older,those who nurtured me and made sure that I had every thing I needed are also members of Delta Sigma Theta sorority Inc. Aside from that I started doing research of all the sororities and I found that Delta Sigma Theta's history blew me away. Literally after I read the book I was speechless on the subject for days. I never knew how much hard work was put in to start and maintain this sorority. I never could imagine the trials and tribulations of Delta Sigma Theta. I spent many months of prayer and I came to the conclusion that a sorority who embraces it past and plans for its future, who is DEDICATED to the community, and who does not settle is the sorority that I pray to one day become apart of. Sorry the post was so long, I just wanted you to know what was in my heart. |
For me I can't say that I had an initial interest in Delta Sigma Theta because of a relative's involvement in the organization or in Greek life in general. I am the first college graduate in my family and I'm 26. But my mom did have a lot of friends and co-workers who are members of both Delta Sigma Theta and AKA . The Delta women would always leave good impressions on me every time we saw one another. They were always very professional, kind and caring women. I was impressed. My first year of college I saw about 50 women, in some sort of coming out show (to this day I still don't know what the purpose of this event was, anywho), all members of Delta Sigma Theta Sorority. I guess we can say it was a mixture of the impression left on me by my moms friends and the mass of women all representing DST on campus that sparked my interest. I did some research after this amazing event, about 4-5 years worth. I knew my grades weren't good enough to join a sorority so I didn't rush it…if it is meant to be it will be. As the years went by and my grades approved I've met members of many different organizations, but still I was always most impressed by the professionalism exemplified by the women of Delta Sigma Theta. So I still wait.. but I still do my research. I know that I would be even more of an asset now to DST than I could have been during my undergrad years. Delta appeals to me because of the strong goals she has set for herself in her 5 point programmatic thrust. If I've learned nothing, I've learned the importance of planning and goals! I am also impressed with Delta’s, Dr. Betty Shabazz Delta Academy. As a junior/high school student I didn't have the opportunity, or the resources, to join an organization such as Delta Academy. The Alumnae members in my community have a Delta Academy and it is inspiring to see these women from all over the world come to my community (where I was born and raised) and do work with the kids here. It has been the exposure I have gotten from seeing the members of Delta Sigma Theta working in my community that has assured me that my choosing to pursue interest in DST is the right decision.. Plus my mom tells me so and I trust her judgement
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Old, but new. Well I know that im late, but better late than never. When I was in high school, there was this organization called the LADIES OF DELTA. The founder was an active member of DST. I didn’t know what I delta was or what a sorority was, all I knew was that they were the bomb when it came to the step shows. So I figured that I wanted to step, so I wanted to join the group. But at the time, I felt that pledging and putting yourself through all that just to join a group was dumb. I decided to go on with it anyways because I just wanted to see what it was about. While going on with this process, I found out what sisterhood was really about. This organization wasn’t just about stepping, but also about helping the community and giving and learning to truly "care" for your sister. So as time progressed, I did some research on DST, and the more research I did, the more appealing it became to me. Here you have a group of ladies, not only dedicated to their organization, but also dedicated to their sisters and to their community. These ladies were not only leaders of today, but they will be the leaders of our future. When you are young, community service and other activities are "for the birds". But when you learn and understand why you are doing it and whom you are doing it for, it really means something, and DST really means something to me. Unfortunately I was not able to join Ladies of Delta because it conflicted with basketball and other activities I was doing at the time, but I truly know what a REAL woman is. She is a DST.
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Well lets see.
In 1st grade I was sitting at my desk when my favorite teacher walked by with a red shirt on. Well being the curious child I was, I asked her why she had a shirt on that said AEO.*sorry ladies but I was young* She pulled me to the side and said this is not an A E or an O. When you get a little bit older, I will express to you the letters and meaning on this shirt. Well as time grew on,(3rd) my teacher and her friends ,who also had the same kind of strange symbols with them at all times, came into the classroom and sai that they needed people to help them in a homeless project. Well I raised my hand. I didn't care what type of project it was because these ladies and my teacher were ALWAYS WILLING TO HELP ANYONE. When students didn't understand their work, they were willing to stay after school off the clock to help in any form or fashion. When students didn't have a ride home, they took people home and never made a complaint. The only time I had ever seen these ladies mad was when another teacher did that strange noise that they always do when they saw each other. Well anyway I went with these ladies and we stayed at a homeless sheltor all day feeding people, taking up money outside and other things. Once again I was touched how wonderful and caring these ladies were. They have ALWAYS ALWAYS lended a helping hand, no matter what it was. They were never to busy to smile and say have a nice day,hug you when you were feeling down, or just listen to a childs problem. Right then I knew that no matter what those strange letters said on their shirt one day I wanted to be apart of that. As I approached my sixth grade year, I was still helping these ladies in anyway. I would often go by their house where we would bake cookies for a bake sell where they would donate the money to a children's hospital. Finally, the day came when it was just I and my teacher. Mrs Z i asked her, what does those letters mean that you treasure so much. And why do you always where them whenever we go. Monique(and I quote) Those letters mean more to me more than you'll ever know. They represent courage, strength, honesty, and commentment. They mean that I took a vow to honor and always serve man kind. That is what those letters mean. I will always speak my mind, never pass judgement on someone but to know that I am only human, therefore I to make mistakes. This is why I wear those letters on my shirt. I am not going to tell you what those letters mean, you are old enough now to go out and do some research. and when you find out the meaning of these words, be sure to tell me and my friends. Well ladies, thats just what I did. And I can say proudly that in the 7th grade, I reported to my teacher and her friends that I know what the meaning of everthing she said to me. There was only one explanation Delta Sigma Theta Sorority, Inc. My teacher looked at me and said, you are correct. I have never felt so proud in my life. This is why i want to be a member of DST. I know that I can offer my services and undying loyalty. Sorry its so long but everytime I think about my teacher and our friends, I get happy because if it wasn't for her, I would Not be the Person I am today. Bye |
Lawd, not the AEO! I still hear that today, mostly from men. ROFL!!
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When I first went to college, I had no clue of what a sorority was really about. My only knowledge had come from what I had seen on TV. Then, after I decided I was interested in joining a sorority, I researched what I could find from websites, magazines articles, newspaper articles,etc. Then I saw a website about DST. I had heard about DST from some of the other DST hopefuls.
After I began to look at individual sites, it was suggested that prospectives read the book "In Search of Sisterhood." After I read that book and made it a point to look at the websites for more information like notable DST's and national programs. I was impressed by things like DST's role in helping the Black Community and the 5 point thrust. I was convinced that if I ever joined a sorority, it would have to be DST. Like one of the posts mentioned before, I also have been blessed to have known some very outgoing,active, kind and caring women for years and never knew the importance of those three letters or the elephants on their shirts. Now, after reading as much as I possibly can about DST, I see why they chose DST and why DST is the largest BGLO in the world. |
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I am new to the forum and after reading all of these replies, I decided I wanted to share my reasons for wanted to become a part of such an illustrious organization of women. I grew up in a predominately white town, where all of the black people didn't do anything with their lives. Even though i didn't know it then we were poor, my mother did an excellent job of providing for my brothers and sisters and I ( nine altogether). So the only successful black people I was meeting were my older brothers and sisters. I had no idea what a sorority was, I had never even heard of them. Until my 11th grade year one of my older sisters became a Delta. That year she invited me to come visit her, and spend some time with her, that was my first encounter with the dynamic ladies of Delta Sigma Theta Sorority Inc. I spent a week at her school. I saw all of the work they did around their school and community, how they were in every aspect of campus life, the grades they recieved, and lastly how professional they were. When seeing all of these proud black women together, my interest for Delta soared and it still is. I have researched all of the 4 sororities but my heart stays with Delta. Well there you have it. Peace the Royal One |
My decision for wanting to be a member of Delta Sigma Theta Sorority, Inc. was one which I put a lot of thought into. I have decided to pursue your organization because it is the only one that I could see myself supporting for the rest of my life.
I have known a few people to join a BGLO for the wrong reason and eventually become inactive http://www.greekchat.com/forums/ubb/frown.gif This is something that I would never do and it was for this reason that I extensively researched Delta Sigma Theta, Alpha Kappa Alpha, Zeta Phi Beta, and Sigma Gamma Rho Sorority. As an aspiring attorney and potential politician, your organization's involvement in politics from it's very beginning (Women's Suffrage March), to the Civil Rights Movement (numerous members on U.S. President's Task Forces), to the present (Delta Day's in D.C.) is most appealing. Of Course, one cannot mention politics and law without making note of volunteerinsm- another way to give back to the community. Volunteering has been a hobby of mine since high school and I find it to be most rewarding. On my campus it brings a wide variety of people together and in a way,when we're helping others,the group of us are helping ourselves In addition to your organization's past, the future appears even brighter with the growth of African American women (esp. Deltas) heading higher education insitituions, corporate offices, and world politics http://www.greekchat.com/forums/ubb/biggrin.gif Yes...it is quite true that there is greatness in all of the "Divine Nine", but for this "one", Delta Sigma Theta Sorority, Inc. would provide the best opportunity for me to give to my community http://www.greekchat.com/forums/ubb/tongue.gif http://www.greekchat.com/forums/ubb/frown.gifI know it's a tad corney, but you get me...right?) ------------------ "Education is your passport to the future, for tomorrow belongs to the people who prepare for it today." -- El-Hajj Malik El-Shabazz |
What has set DST apart from all others? For me it has to be the very simple fact that the Deltas in my area have made themselves very visible to me in my community. They introduced themselves as FRIENDS before they introduced me to the organization and it's history. Of course I had always noticed their letters and the distinct colors of the sorority, but not until much later in high school and early in college did I begin to realize that there was more to DST. I'm not a legacy, and many of my friends are not even interested in sorority life, but just through sheer observation, contact and conversation with Delta women in the past, has placed the desire of becoming a member in my heart.
peace, protection, love, and light always from the CHI! ~*Kyna*~ |
Talk about not having the nerve to post a reply to this one.... I don't know how I am going to get this done, but done it must be.
I entered college already having decided what I wanted to be. The decision was made once I realized who I had around me. In high school I was surrounded by Delta Women. There were women of other sororities there but none took the same kind of interest and none were able to get me to be the best me that I could be except them. Also in my senior year of high school, I was invited to the senior girls reception held by the alumni chapter... that was an experience that rendered me spellbound. To see the other women in my community that were members of your sorority - women that I knew and had seen make an impact. I knew then that I wanted to become a member of this sorority. It may not work as a good reason for some, but those ladies meant a lot to me... and still do. |
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Okay, I have been watching this topic for months and I haven't posted on the matter yet; I always feel that I don't have the time to write a book on WHY I WANT TO BE DELTA!! or I'm usually in a public place and I don't want to cry while I'm sitting in my school's computer lab (yes, when I think about why I want this so bad, I tear up). This post could NEVER do justice to my reasons for desiring Delta, but here goes!
My freshman year in high school I was on a step team. We were so good, that we were invited to attend the national competetion "STOMP" where we performed for the competeting teams. We spent time with some of the sororities. Some were snotty and even voiced there dislike for the other sororities. But the ones who sparked my interest were the ones who wore that red and white (I was ingnorant to whole sorority thing, so I did not know the real colors) (and not because they won the step competition; that did not amase me, hell I can step too!!). When I returned home from LA, I went on about my business. That summer, I was at Bible Study and I saw this woman who I thought was real cool; she was really down to earth and she and I had had several conversations about life in general. Guess what...she had on a hat with the DST symbols on it. So I told her that I was interested in that sorority. She and I got closer and she enventualy invited me to be a Del-Teen with her Alumnae chapter. She taught me so much. I always say that what ever my mamma did not tell me, Jackie told me and more. Knowing her has shaped the way I deal with people, the way I serve and why I serve my community. The programs that the Del-Teen program provided showed me how Deltas handle their business and why it is important to do just that. One time when we were in a meeting, some of the Del-Teens brought up how the Archenetts (sp) (a Zeta auxillary group) were always having parties, and they wanted to know how come we could not have any parties. Boy, did we GET IT!! The Educational Developement Committee sponsors told us that we are not here for that. If you want to party, you can go else where!! We are here to SERVE, learn, and grow as young women. Shoot...I knew that I had something to contribute to this organization one day in my future. I continued to be active in the program throughout my high school career. I researched all the organizations (while in highschool, and I did not use the internet!!) I had read "In Search of Sisterhood" twice by the time I graduated. Anything I could get my hands on about DST, I sucked it up. The first thing I fell in love with was the way that this sorority began. WOW!! They wanted to give more; that struck something within me. There I was, about 14 years young and I was involed in my community. I felt like I could relate to her principles; I was comfortable. All I knew was that what ever I did in my life, I was going to make a difference in the lives of people; and that is what the founders of DST wanted to do and did. I love that they took a stand from the inception of the organization and they marched against all adversity. As I compared Delta to the other 3, I noticed that the executives don't have the fancy titles; that also sets the organization apart for me because it shows that the title is not important, its the job that is done (at least thats how I take it) Its a small factor, but it contributes to my overall out look on DST. I loved that so many women had come together based on the principles to better themselves and their community, particularly Black women. I was/am in LOVE. These are just some of my reasons; I'm trying to keep this short (ha, ha, ha) http://www.greekchat.com/forums/ubb/rolleyes.gif Knowing what I knew about DST, and having Jackie as a role model (and the perfect Delta in my eyes), I knew that I had to be one of those women. I knew that I had to be a Delta because I needed to touch the lives of others and belonging to such a group would present many more avenues for me to do that. I knew that I wanted to contribute to this wonderful organization and just let Delta Sigma Theta sorority, Inc use me; I wanted/want to be a vessel. Now that I am in college, I have the opportunity to pursue membership into the organization that I have dreamed, drooled, and desired for. I STILL can't sleep, can't think about anything else (when I got Delta on the brain), barley eat (I ain't missin' no meals); I'm passionate about making a difference, thus I'm passionate about Delta. I love people, I want to be around people, and I want to help people...mostly my people. I get butterflies in my stomach when I think about how I can contribute to the growth of the organzation on any level. Sometimes I stay awake for hours (4 hours at a time is the record) thinking about DST, jotting down ideas and things of that sort. Its overwelming. Sometimes I think I want this too much; whats wrong with me. A seed has been planted and its fruit about to burst through the dirt; I just can't contain it...its like FIRE!! Y'all this is real; can a get an AMEN!! I gotta go before I start runnin' I'm out! Dee |
dee_style, that WAS a tear jerker!
I really appreciate your thoughful, heartfelt response. For those of us who have been members for a while--be it 1 year or 50--your message creates a little nostalgia in our hearts about the days of our pursuits. Thank you for sharing. I enjoyed reading thoughts and experiences much like the ones I had when I was a teenager! May God Bless You In Your Endeavors to Join the Sisterhood! the411 ------------------ Delta Sigma Theta Sorority, Inc. Pi Kappa, SP97 #3 of QUINTESSENCE [This message has been edited by the411 (edited April 20, 2001).] |
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My efforts have not gone unoticed around campus and hopefully my day will come soon! Thank you, and like I said thats not all of my reasons. Shoot, that was a long post; I hope nobody asks me why in person cause they are gonna be there for a while!! DEE |
i don't know why i waited so long to post my sentiments, but, here goes...
i have an aunt and three cousins who are members of delta sigma theta. when i was about nine and,not really knowing what delta was, or a sorority for that matter, i just assumed that i was going to be one so i could be like my kinfolks. i guess you could say the seed was planted. when i got about thirteen or fourteen, i would watch the annual stepshow, "stomp," on television and the deltas always seemed to win. so i thought, "yeah, i want to be a delta because they step the best." my first year of high school, i had a history teacher who was a member of aka. she was fair skinned with long hair, so some of the girls in my class were like "that's why she's an aka and that's why i want to be one. since you're dark (but i had long hair) you should be a delta." i was like "i want to be one anyway." my senior year, i was on the newspaper staff. it was close to graduation time so i wrote an article about black greeks. i had an older sister in college who told me a little about them, but, i got on the internet and did some research. that was the first time i had ever heard of alpha phi alpha, zeta phi beta sigma, and sigma gamma rho (i can't recall iota phi theta. this was 1998, so maybe i had, but i'm not sure). even after doing brief research, my mind didn't change. the summer before i started college, i visited my sister in summer school (she went to the college i now attend) and met one of her friends who was an alpha. i said "when i get up here, i'm going to be a delta." and he laughed! he first told me not to tell anyone else that and then asked me why. all i could say was "cuz.." http://www.greekchat.com/forums/ubb/rolleyes.gif i came back later that summer for freshman orientation. all of the organizations were representing but, the only ones who actually came up to me and said hello and asked my name was none other than delta sigma theta. i left thinking "man, they are real cool. now i really want to be one." when i got to school, i started hearing all this "do your research" and what not. i was thinking, "why, i know what i want to do." but then i realized i didn't know why i wanted to do it. i was lucky enough to befriend a member who shared her experience with me and it just touched me so much. i also figured that i couldn't find out much from the internet and, because i didn't have my own computer, i didn't want to look up the other sororities in the computer lab either. so i observed. this isn't meant to down any other organization, but, i wasn't impressed. i gave it my first semester to see who did what and what i could find out about who. although my campus has all four sororites (actually, we have the entire d9), the only sororities making moves were delta and aka. but it seemed as if they were moving in opposite directions. it just strengthed my desire even more. ya'll, that seed planted some 10 years ago was finally getting some light and nourishment. after reading "in search of sisterhood," attending numerous functions sponsored by delta sigma theta, meeting dynamic women who are undeniably proud of their organization, and praying "Lord, if it's for me, send me a sign." and countless hours of soul-searching, i can confidently say that i think delta sigma theta would be a wonderful asset to my life and i would be one to the organization. i want to be affiliated with educated ladies who may have differing personalities, but the common goal of bettering, not just the campus, not just the state, not just the black community, but the world. like someone mentioned earlier, the five-point program is AWESOME! i want to be affiliated with women striving to promote awareness of and assist in areas of economics, politics (which has always been a passion of mine), health, education (another passion of mine), and international relations. and i want to assist these ladies, on a personal level, in making an indeliable mark on the lives of so many. i have been carrying around these feelings for some time now, waiting for my time. the passion about, respect for and desire to be a member of this sorority is so great, that sometimes it is hard to contain it. i find myself, as another mentioned, thinking about it all the time. my mother has said that she will be glad when i become a member so i can quit talking about it. ya'll, she just don't know. she and my sister thought i was silly the way i talked about it so much. but guess what, i got my sister thinking about going grad chapter! i've used many words in this post, but i can never seem to find the exact words to express just how much i want to be a member of this sorority... ------------------ I hope life isn't a big joke, because I don't get it. 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dee_style 1 your post was wonderful. I am a member of Alpha Kappa Alpha Sorority, Inc. and feel truly blessed when I can make the sort of impression on sisterfriends as your DST role model has made on you...and, I try to do that every day. Keep up the good work Ladies of DST. I'm surrounded by you guys during my family reunions (I'm only one of about two AKA's in my family), but I got mad love for ya!
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Wow, this is a lovely question. This is a question that I have asked myself and am ready to answer.
In high school, one of the most important women was my high school assistant principal, who encourage and helped me through Senior Year and guided me through college decisons and told me about her college years. It is because of her that I knew of the exsistance of soroity's, however until I came to college, I never knew what they were about or what they stood for. My freshman year of college, I had the pleasure of meeting and knowing a woman of Delta Sigma Theta Soroity. Just the presence of her alone command the respect of everyone where ever she went and whatever she did recieved the attention of of everyone there. From the few blackgreeks that we had on campus this lady truly exeplified what it meant to be an African American woman reprenting an historically black soroity. Proud, respectful, and strong...just to name a few of her qualities. Because of her I decided to do research, however I did not limit my research to Delta Sigma Theta but it was not long before I realize exactly what it is about DST... It is the commitment to the community, the strong bond of sisterhood, and the high reguard of excellence that drew me to Delta Sigma Theta. Just from the book In Search of Sisterhood, my passion about DST began to grow and continues. Finding out new things everyday about the orgaization helps me to shape simple passion for the organization into complete and ultimate love. With this, I called home to my assistant principal telling her what I had learn and explaining to her why I would like to be a member of DST. To my surprise, she told me that she is a member of Delta Sigma Theta Soroity Inc. I was happy and suprised, however my amazement did not last long for she embodied the qualities that I saw in the woman of DST that I had met on campus. She was strong, independent, respectful, and proud for she also was A woman of DST. To be apart of such wonderful women.....wow!! ------------------ *Amor es una cosa esplendida* [This message has been edited by hopefulpassion (edited April 23, 2001).] |
Sisterfriends, THANKS for sharing your journey's with us! http://www.greekchat.com/forums/ubb/smile.gif
When I entered college in 1985, I was the FIRST in my close family to attend college so not only did I not know a great deal about college but hardly anything about Greek Life. As it would turn out, at the pre-Freshman weekend that my college hosts every year, my guide was an Alpha whose girlfriend was a Delta. During that weekend, I found that members of these two orgs were the most active in campus life and the most down to earth. To this day, these two orgs are the most active on campus http://www.greekchat.com/forums/ubb/cool.gif I was also lucky to be assigned a mentor for my freshman year who was also a Delta. These were the women to whom I connected and felt comfortable. I was honored with an invitation to membership my sophomore year along with my (then) roomate and another good friend from my class. http://www.greekchat.com/forums/ubb/biggrin.gif Funny thing is that when I visited back home, I learned that most of the together sisters I knew from high school also pledged Delta! I also learned that many of the together sisters in the city were sorors (i.e. superintendent of schools, a popular consumer reports journalist, the only Black female on the superior court, etc). Delta women are everywhere doing everything! http://www.greekchat.com/forums/ubb/cool.gif Sisterfriends, I wish you success on your journey to DeltaLand. Sorors, I LOVE YOU! OOOOOOOOOOO-OOOP!!! ------------------ MCCOYRED Mu Psi '86 BaltCo Alumnae Dynamic...Salient...Temperate...Since 1913 |
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It is my dream to be a part of you
To be a part of your future, your goals, your dreams. Oh what is it that I have to do I’m willing to do anything- by any means. All of my friends love you so much Because their lives, you have touched. You’re not like the rest; you’re different from the group And this is why to you I will always remain true. I stand for what you stand for, and you stand for what I… I just can’t let something like you pass me by. I will keep working until you finally see That I am you, and you are me. Now I know that you can play hard to get But the harder the tribulations, the more you are worth it. You never had anything handed to you on a silver spoon You worked for what you believed in, and I will to. So now all I can do is hope that the day comes When we emerge and become one! 21 |
Hello...I have been reading the posts on this message board for sometime but I have never posted....when I came across this topic I figured this would be the perfect time...
Whenever I set goals in my life, I always strive for the best. In MY opinion Delta Sigma Theta Sorority, Inc. is THE BEST organization for me. My reasoning is not based on the influence of anyone else, but it is based on deep soul searching and prayer. I was first exposed to this organizaation in my 8th grade year in school when my history teacher got me involved in Teen Lift. This was my first exposure to any type of greek organization. As a naive child, I was mesmerized and all I knew was I wanted to be just like all of these women. However, as I got older I was exposed to other organizations and I was like, well what in the world am I supposed to do now... So I started doing research and what I learned was all of the organizations were founded on strong principles and all of the organations strive for the upliftment of the Black community. I then looked to myself and asked myself what organization I could see myself decdicated to for the rest of my life and the conclusion I came to was Delta. Delta is something that I know I want deep down in my heart. I don't know if there are any words that express how passionately feel about this oragnization. Coming to college and seeing the activities of the organization served to make the desire that much stronger. The Deltas at my school are always having some type of program that serves to uplift, enlighten and unite the student body, which I think I very important at a predominantly white school. Now don't get me wrong, I don't care if I was at a school where the Delta's didn't ever have a program or if the only activities they threw were parties (though I doubt that ever occurs) I would still want to be a member in hopes that I could be an instrument of improvement for the organization. But because the Deltas are so active and visible, it makes the desire to belong that much stronger. In speaking with members of your organization about my interest, I was asked if I could never wear the letters or tell anyone that I was a memeber of Delta Sigma Theta, would I still want to be a member? And my answer was yes. I don't care if I could never wear the letters, the colors, throw up the sign, do the call, step, or anything else like that because I would know in my heart that I am a part of the GREATEST sisterhood in the world and that I am making a difference through my organization and that is all that matters. ***SORRY THIS IS SO LONG*** |
Great question!! Sisterfriends, what would your answer be...???
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