Time of Abstinence
 

How long have you gone without sex? I think women are better at waiting for sex than men. I can wait easily a couple of months, my friend waited for about two years, but my guy friends get booty calls all the time cuz they cant "live" without doing it once a while.

Let's see... it's been over 2 years. I know that for sure. (Is it sad I still know the date?)

Honestly, it's not that I can't get any, I just don't want any. (It's the Depo. I swear it flatlines your libido.)

I think after I rushed into it all with my first (and last), I am waiting for the next right guy. And if it's my future husband, so be it.

It will be 3 years this August...

Same as every thing as above, damn depo and saving myself.

But I know who I am going to sleep with next, but he knows not before we are married. So I guess I am going to marry my high school sweet heart.

Re: Time of Abstinence
 

After I started having sex, 2 weeks would be the longest I've went without it. And that was because I was in the hospital. Question though...you mean just intercourse or would oral sex be included? My 2 weeks would include intercourse and oral.

I go without all the time.......

My life sucks.

8 or 9 months once. Currently? who knows how long the break will be. I'm not the kind of person who can jump into physical intimacy w/o there being something more.

Too freakin' long.

Still got the v-card and I've got to say it's harder for guys to keep than girls. If you decide to remain virgins you're pure, innocent, and good girls. If a guy stays a virgin he's a loser, incompetent, or gay.

I can control my hornyness, so I can go without sex for about 3 years. And as far as the men go, I still haven't seen one male poster say he's been over a month without sex or can go over a month with out it. Men are truely dogs and that's why they are the most likely persons to cheat. On the real, I find it pretty funny that they get upset when they see how much we like the movie "Waiting To "Ex-HELL"" considering the fact that they fail to realize how much hell that they put us through. Shit it's hard enough for the female gender in other countries where the men have way more freedom than we do. :rolleyes:

Imperial1

23 years.

And darn proud of it.


Ronso, I completely agree with you. Its a double standard. But girls are sometimes thought of as prude as well.

21 years.

I totally agree. I hate being labeled as a prude. I am just waiting for the right guy. I also don't want to be pregnant right now or catch STD's or something worse.

Trust me, the only thing penniccillin wont kill is HIV/AIDS or HPV. Anything else you can get rid of.

Almost 21 years

I dont keep track of how long I go without sex- too long to keep track.

I swear Ortho-TriCyclen does the same damn thing. I'm not even talking about sex, either. I stopped even wanting to make out.

maybe that's how they prevent you from getting pregnant?

Try a loser dosage pill.

lol, i'm hoping you meant "lower"

though losers might help too ;)

Just over a year... and it wasn't easy. I often found myself wishing I was the type of girl who could have meaningless sex just because it had been so long.

When it happened again, we rarely left the bed for the first few days!

Still saving it for that special someone...

Maybe so, but I don't want to wake up one morning to find out I have one. Its one gift I don't want to recieve.

To top it off, according to my schools campus health center 33% of the student body had contracted gonorrhea.

Penniccillin and other antibiotics work to kill bacteria born illnesses but viral-illnesses such as... chickenpox, mono or other herpes-symplex family viruses, HIV/AIDS, influenza, etc- aren't really affected by antibiotics.

Anti-viral/retroviral treatments are fun things. Valtrex to treat shingles- fun fun! $5 per pill if you don't have insurance.

well kudos to you:D

Guys go through just as much drought as girls. Its just not cool to admit it.

I think a key difference though is that guys will not generally turn down offers like girls will.

Also, guys tend not to be as patricular about where they are getting it. I have seen some of my guy friends cheat on their really attractive girlfriends with MUCH less attractive girls just because they were immediately available.

I've decided to stop having sex until marriage.

That's just impressive.

Its a small school (about 4000 students), in the middle of nowhere Maryland. I guess there's not much else to do except pass it on...

DawnDZ,

Where are you located? I'm in Maryland ~ I think I know where you are talking about, but not 100% sure. You can PM me if you don't want to disclose the location on the board!


And to answer the question, about 6 months. What can I say, I like sex! ;)

the school i went to supposedly had a pretty high percentage as well.

You need to add Herpes and Hepatitis B to that list.

i don't know what it is about men that they think they can't not wait to have sex again. i waited until i was 25, and although it wasn't always fun, i wasn't dying. my boyfried was on business for a month and i could wait the month, he couldn't. go figure.