Was young...Made a huge mistake...
 

First let me say that I want to pledge grad chapter of Delta Sigma Theta Sorority, Inc. However, my family and a few friends/collegues EVEN MY HUSBAND, think that I am already a member! I attended a HBCU and stopped attending at the age of 19...when I came home I told everyone about a year later, I had pledged. Met Deltas, went to parties, dated Ques, wore para, even met a Delta from the school I suppose to had pledged at and because I had "fronted and met other Deltas and 'talked'", she challenged me and I passed! We became friends, met other Deltas, and I work at a school now (i'm 26) and the Deltas here know "of me" being a sister and do the call when they see me, etc. I have now received my undergrad and really want to become a Delta. There are grad chapters here but I am afraid someone may recognize me and be like "huh!:eek: " So I was thinking about trying to in a city that has a grad chapter close to me other than my hometown. I have stopped "talking" Delta and I no longer have any para (took off keychain, car tag, etc.) and really want to be one FOR REAL. I guess my whole point of coming here is this.... what would you do if you recognized someone who claimed to have already been a sister years ago, sportin' 2004 as their pledge year or wanting to "pledge" PERIOD. I dont know....:confused:

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Honestly I would cuss you out and make sure EVERYONE knew your story AND YOUR NAME.

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It's great that you've matured, and realized your mistake. However, you've got to realize there will be a penalty for your actions.

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DITTO!!!! DITTO!!!!


:mad: :mad: :mad: :mad: :mad: :mad: :mad:

I hope PerpAlert is not reading this post:D

Wait a minute.... I just re-read your original post......

YOUR HUSBAND doesn't know?????


Sweetie, you've got bigger issues than trying to be a Delta, you've got issues with telling the truth, and when he finds out you're going to have trust issues.:rolleyes:

What you do in the dark will surely come out in the light. And with this stunt of exploiting yourself on the internet is one sure way because the internet is not as safe as you think. So hopefully you are ready for the consequences.

I have learned how to tell the truth at this point. When asked something about Delta i simply say "i don't want to discuss that" or if a Delta does a call i simply smile or say how are you, etc.

I really understand your madness, as I have spoke about "perps" before and know the seriousness behind such ways. It has been 6 plus years and I am fed up with lying about it.

I don't expect sympathy. I guess I was looking for a "kind word" :rolleyes: I know that is crazy!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!

Y'all take care and be blessed!

:( You have a problem-for real. You need help. Especially since you are lying to your family. Was being Greek that important?

:rolleyes: :rolleyes: :rolleyes: :rolleyes: :rolleyes: :rolleyes:

yeah, it was crazy to expect a kind word.

and what kind of response is "i don't want to discuss that?" be honest and tell people that you are NOT one of MY sorors!

if one of MY sorors acknowledges you as a soror, why smile and say hi? again, i say, be honest and tell THE TRUTH!!!!

perping really and truely bothers me more than i can express. i guess it's because i knew i wanted to be a soror at about the age of 9 and it was another twelve years before i became one. i came to college in 1998 and my want for Delta increased and i wasn't initiated until 2002. i went to college in a totally different city and i could have told people back home that i had pledged, but i didn't. why? because i respected Delta so much that i wanted to come by it honestly.

so you can go on somewhere with that "i don't expect sympathy...i was looking for a kind word," cuz that mess aint flying. and trust and believe that my words were a whole helluva lot kinda than i wanted them to be

All I can say is WOW!!

HOLLA SOROR!!! :D

WTF did you expect from us? Did you think we were going to call the National officers and INSIST that they initiate you under the FULL OF ISHT CLAUSE?!!?! Did you think we were going to say we still love you anyway, PseudoSoror?

Someone pass me a order of HELL NAW with a large glass of Negro Please with no ice.


You got away with it for a little bit but trust and believe if we knew EXACTLY where you were, your cover would be blown to smithereens.


I cannot stand PERPS!!! and PERPS who hate other PERPS is a freaking oxymoron.

This is such TRASH.


GARBAGE.
GARBAGE.
GARBAGE.

Are you even for real? It's a hard a road to greekdom and you come in here telling these ladies who I am SURE worked HARD for their letters that you basically STOLE them and then think you deserve a kind word???? Though not a Delta, as I sistergreek I'm mad!!!!

This gets me thinking. When I graduate law school I should start a whole new theory of intellectual property litigation...YOU STOLE MY LETTERS!!!! I betcha I could do it..bump that I know I can!


:mad: TRASH :mad:


CT4..can I post this ish in the AW TO THE HELL NAW! thread?

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You just gave me a new phrase.
I have GOT to use this one. :D

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That is why I LOVE YA! CTF...Reckin' the PERPS! Check Please!

I wonder if this is the same lady our other Soror found out was lying about being a member. The fraud worked at her job and lived in the same apartment complex even drove a car wit a Delta license plate. Then when questioned claimed to be her front because she didn't know any better. I hope it is because I just don't wanna imagine ANOTHER grown woman lying about being a Delta. You know this is all I gotta say about that..............
*bowin head*
Dear LORD I come to you now as your humble servant........................................... ..............

Yall I remixed this from Barbershop2. You know the scene where Eddie is getting ready to go get something to eat and everybody starts yelling out orders and he replies, "That'll be 3 orders of Hell Naw, 2 sides of Negro Please and 1 Go Ask Yo Mama." :o

I am sure there are others who are perping harder than this one right here.

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In the words of Fred Sanford........U BIG DUMMYYYYYY....LOL :D.. WTH WAS U THINKING ABOUT COMING ON HERE WITH THAT
COCK-KU-MAMMY-SHYT.......THIS IS 2 UNREAL..... WERE U DRUNK WHEN U WROTE THIS .. ARE EVEN HIGH FOR THAT MATTER..U HAVE SOME NERVES:rolleyes: :confused: I'M REALLY WAITING ON U TO SAY SIKE!!!...

Wow. You perped, knew it wasn't right, and now you want to be a Delta. I'm not NPHC, but I think the trade-off with perping for so long is losing the chance to EVER be a real Delta. Hope you enjoyed it ..... :mad:

You lied and gained the trust of alot of women. That should be on your mind right now. Not how to be a "real Delta". You need to come clean to them....

I am not a member of any org but I do have a comment.
 

What y'all should have did was befriended the girl, pretended to be sympathetic. Tell her, "Girl, pm. me so that we can discuss this privately." Got the pertinent information and handled the business;) .

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Yeah, but alas, I have a severe allergy to jail so a verbal assault is all I am capable of at this time. Besides they are so much fun. :D

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LOL.... I'm just reading this thread.......CT4 YOU ARE A FOOL..I am ROTFLMBAO:D :D

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That wasn't quite the business I was referring to:) . But maybe....

Wow, I haven't heard anything this wild in a long time. :eek: :mad: As usual CT4, you have me CTHU.

wow.
like my students would say, (and i would say along with them)

OD!

like some1 mentioned earlier, dont worry about becoming a "real Delta," because it seems like that ship has sailed, according to the members here.

you need to become a "real yellowflower" because in living your Delta lie, you been living your life a lie. get yourself together! come clean to your husband, first and foremost. last thing i wanna see is another black marriage broken b/c of lies.

you wanted Delta too bad. but if was really down with it, you wouldve respected the founders and members who put themselves into everything that is and represents Delta, your family and friends who probably wont respect you as much for lying about who you are, and most of all, you wouldve respectd yourself and been about the talk you was talkin.

but you knew this already...
no sympathy for yoo!

not a member but dang thats messed up
 

Ooooh wait 'til the others come back from the convention!

***In my best Bernie Mac Voice "Its gon be trouble, trouble":eek: :eek:

*sigh* It's sad but true, yellowflower. These women worked hard to earn their letters and it is exceedingly offensive when someone pretends to be in a greek organization without having put forth the genuine effort. I dont know if you can come clean with this because although I wouldnt be as passionately angry as some of the ladies on this thread (no offense, ladies, you're completely justified) I dont think I would welcome you into my sorority with open arms had you pretended to be a PiPhi w/o ever earning the letters. These women know the inner significance of their organization and love it dearly. You can't possibly know how that feels being on the outside :rolleyes:

I can't believe this one! I've heard of perping but this is to the extreme! How can you look at yourself in the mirror! You better be glad that you don't live down south because there would be no way you could have gotten away with it! This is almost as bad as the supposed Soror I worked with who told me she was active in our chapter-later I found out she was not active and about to have her membership revoked! Don't people think that they will eventually be found out!

WTF!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!
 

*****SIRENS SIRENS SIRENS**********

***Perpalert responds to the emergency call****

WHAT THE HAYLE WERE YOU THINKIN FOOL!?!?!

Have No Fear Delta Ladies, the perp alert is on it. Give me 48hrs and I will know where this heifa lives, what school she graduated from and her name.

Ooh-ha-ha-ha-ha;)

*Exits dramatically*

*smh* at all of it....:eek:

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What I'm curious about is how you get your information - do tell!

My My...such a predicament!

I was gone for a while, but now I'm back again!! I see that I've missed a few things. I see Perp Alert is on the job...lol!!! Wow, her husband & family don't know that she's a perp??!! That's heavy!!! And the whole "kind word" thing??? I'm sorry sweetie.... but you will find no comfort here:mad: :mad: !!!!

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LOL>>>>>> Okay, now I gotta put my little cents in. Let me start of by clarifying FIRST AND FOREMOST, that I'm not a part of any greek organization, although I do have aspirations. Now, with that being said, I move on to the grillin.......

I have to say to 'yellowflower'--what a shame, what a shame. I mean, how could you even think of doing anything like that? I have hung around Deltas and others, but never, eva played like I was one of them. I have too much respect for Delta, or any other greek org. for that matter, to disrespect like that!! You really should be a 'shimmy-shame' of yo' self. :rolleyes:

Coming back from National and seeing all of my lovely, dynamic Sorors and coming back to read this? I am through!

This comment has me completely flabbergasted. You have spoke about "perps" before and know the seriousness? That can't even be true. You can't have known the seriousness without taking a look at yourself and stopping your behavior.

This broad is overboard. She won't tell her husband the truth. No she won't. She'll most likely continue to front and lie and tell him, and the fam, that she got in trouble doing "other" activities in MY sorority. Something to make her look hard. Ugh!!!

I don't understand how you can perp for 6 years and now when MY sorors holla, you say "hello" when you been hollin' for six years. And then you want support in seeking MY sisterhood so that you can go back to "being out"(because that's what your ass has been doing from what I can tell)? That makes no sense.

You are just sorry!

I can't even believe this itsh! Damn I wish you were in L.A. Dayum, dayum, dayum!!!!!

A big part of me wants to cuss you out, but that won't solve anything. What I am going to do is pray for you! Because it is obvious that you have bigger problems than trying to be MY SOROR. There are people who lie all the time about little things. But to keep up a lie for over 6 years is just unreal! To me, you aren't sorry about a dayum thing because you went out and bought shirts, hats, license plates and whatever else to aid in your lying. You looked women in the face and lied without hesitation. I won't even start on whatever MEMBERS ONLY information you have found out. :mad:


But even as I think about that, I still feel worse for your husband because Lord knows what else you are lying about. :rolleyes:

Why couldn't you just wait? If you were meant to be a Delta, it would have happened eventually. You had to lie instead, and now the shyt is hitting the fan. Its not worth it to live a lie, especially with your husband. I've been waiting for about 6 yrs. and will continue to do so cause lying ain't worth it!

wheeeeeeeew-weeee!

be glad you aint no man doin this to a frat. Hell would have gotcha! but seriously, after i went to my interest meeting, about a few days later a bruh that wasn't there that i knew personally came upto me talking to me about my intentions. And now that i have crossed, i meet new bruhs that already know what ive done and who ive done it with as far as my org. in short greeks talk and it is only a matter of time before they find out what is going on. straighten things out with your hubby and dont put all your worth in becoming a delta or even greek for that matter b/c these past 6years may have scarred your greek future for life.

Sorry I came here...
 

Ive heard your comments...know your hurt... however, it is for me to be Delta and I WILL! I will be back, as a Delta....

Peace to you all!