Hate on b!tches thread
 

I'm so tired of b!tches....sneaky and manipulative ones are the worst. :mad: :mad: :mad: :mad: :mad:



And there are still women out there that wonder why men use them for sex.

Bitches do suck, but remember, so do assholes.

And we're not all bitches, I swear! :)

Not all...there are some females out there that are like a guy enough to where they are cool. Oddly enough, they're the ones that never seem to be able to find a man. Sometimes I just dont see why some things in this world are the way they are. You treat a girl nice and after awhile for some reason they start to think they rule everything just because they have the pussy. Its so funny, you treat women like shit and you always have the upper hand or everything is usually balanced. The minute a girl realizes she has you...everything goes down hill.



*I'm so ready to go on a phuck spree* :mad: :mad: :mad:

I think I'm too nice for my own good sometimes..I never understood how bitchy women were able to hold onto a man, but a nice woman couldn't. :confused:

Amen brotha!

it works. i swear by it.

i know all about this too. fell for a guy that was dating a girl i didnt know about. not only did he play me but she was so mean. he wanted out but he couldnt be man enough to get out. sucks how girls like that get all the good guys and turn them bad.

Give her an std and teach her a lesson.

-Rudey

No way dude..that sounds JUST like the relationship I just got out of! Except, he only wanted out when he was caught and then he made his girlfriend write the email that "our friendship" was over. It was definately beyond "friendship" though, he was definately cheating on both of us.

She deserves more than one for the shit she's pulled.

there there honey. breathe and relax. smiley will make it all go away:)

What happened??? What did she do?

Long Story. Lets just say she did some really fucked up shit and I didnt even realize it until people from "outside the box" let me know how bad things really were, my parents included. According to her mother I'm good for nothing other than giving her a nice house and a nice lifestyle. Its a combination of things she's did to me/said to me/expected of me along with her mentality changing to that of her mother's. Her mother is a selfish bitch, told her she was a mistake and that she feels like she missed out on everything in life because miss cashmoney was born.....her mother is married to a man she's not in love with and the list goes on and on. And so since it's her mother she's begining to take on her mentality....as well as all her faults. Seriously, the woman has major issues. For example, I'm the bad guy because I didnt come and help her family remodel their house before they moved into it. I'm also the bad guy becuse I don't offer to help her mother clean her house when I'm visiting. I'm also the bad guy because I'm supposedly stealing her daughter. I'm also the bad guy because I havent made the initial effort to kiss her mother's ass and sort of apologize for not being her little bitch...despite the fact that I havent done anything wrong. What it all boils down to is, her mother doesnt like me because I remind her of miss cashmoney's father to a point to where it's scary....and since her mother feels like she's had such a shitty life and a shitty marriage, I'm therefore not good enough for her daughter other than for money and now miss cashmoney is starting to buy into her mother's own bullshit. So what happens? Miss cashmoney starts to see how far she can have me wrapped around her finger and how much power she has over me in a sense. She puposely tries to make me go back on something I'm standing firm on just to see if she can get me do what she wants....no matter how firm I am about something. And whats worse is that she admits to it and tells me thats what she was trying to do, which is like a double slap in the face. She tells me that I dont do enough to help her family.....despite the fact that I've already gone in to business with one of her uncles to help get the exporting business offf the ground.

What I've realized is....her mother is basically telling her to wear the pants in the relationship or else its going to be a living hell. And thats exactly what she's been trying to do for the past 2 weeks. It got to the point where she told me this is how its going to be and that I needed to change and be like this.....and that if I loved her enough I would do all of it along with all the bullshit with her mother....it was too much. All my friends and family were in shock when I told them whats been going on. Everyone says that shit isnt normal and that it sounded like i was marrying into the mafia. Its all fucked up and now I'm out of a 2 kt diamond ring. I just couldnt handle going into a family where I know the mother will never accept me. I hate the fact that I can stand right there in front of her mother and be talking to her and she has this big smile on her face and is always nice to me...but then behind my back she does nothing but talk shit about me. Everyone else in her family adores me except her mother. Literally, I've done nothing wrong to her...she's the first girl I've been totally right with and never cheated on.

Believe me, there's so much more to this story but I dont have the time nor do I want to get in my personal life very much on a public message board.....am I hurting? Very much so. Can I do anything about it? No. I told her I want nothing to do with her until she changes...she comes back with "You're the one that needs to do the changing." When she said that, I knew there was no hope. The way I look at it...she fucked up big time. She doesnt realize it now...but very soon she will.

I'm really sorry. Relationships are really hard. Couples have to come to mutual understandings and make compromises and not let their families dictate their relationship. Maybe couple or pre-marital counseling might help you both resolve these issues together.

I'm PMing you.

The way I see it, if you need counseling before you're married...there's no way shit is going to work.

I've been feeling like Collin Farrel in the movie "the recruit" while I beat the crap out of the punching bag at the gym. Smiley needs to send me a pm cheering me up.

Actually, more and more couples are going to pre-marital counseling. I think it's required in some States. It helps to iron out any issues before marriage to make the relationship more stable. There is no relationship out there that couldn't use a little bit of work. The therapist is there to help resolve differences and teach the couple how to deal with problems constructively. Research has shown that couples who had pre-marital counseling have a much lower divorce rate.

Ever seen how to loose a guy in 10 days? Something like that, right? If I've done nothing wrong...how would that help me? :confused:

she really is a bitch. pre-marital counseling is bullshit in this case. she's obviously got some serious mental issues. pre-marital counseling isnt going to change her mind about things. its going to take some counseling on her part to make her realize she's not her mother and her mother is wrong. i can relate to her with the bad parent thing (it is my dad) because it f's with my thinking a lot. when a parent thinks a certain way you cant help but to wonder if theyre right. but i realized that i was lucky and if i turned into that, i'd lose him. she needs help. cashmoney...help her. if you love her, try to make her see whats going on and how wrong her mother is. if her mother hates her so much then why is she being a kissass and acting like her? to please her.

You basically just described 99.9% of the women in this country.

I'm sorry about your troubles.

But look for the silver lining here, isn't it better that you are realizing this now and are out a diamond ring, rather than end up in a miserable marriage that would probably end in divorce and have you paying out the nose in alimony??

Everyone should just be single anyway.

Yeah!!! :D

I don't want to believe that, but for some reason I'm inclined to side with you. That actually worries me. All that tells me is most of the married men out there are all pussy whipped and they're wives run them. I'm seriously wondering if thats how shit really is in married life. But then you have people like my parents, where the man wears the pants. Like my dad said, either you put her in her place or you leave her. One thing I noticed right off the bat when I began dating her....the women in her family all try/do wear the pants in their marriages.

I've been going to the gym 2 times a day....its helping a bit. But yea, its better to go through this now than 5 yrs and 1 kid later. Its sucks though, I'm still paying that ring off. You have any idea how much a 2 kt diamond ring costs these days? Phucking ridiculous. :mad: :mad: :mad:

I need a booty call.

Yeah they're nice until they go crazy.

Maybe I'm terrible for focusing on this, but why don't you get the ring back?

Booty calls are therapeutic and definitely the way of the cougar.

we still luff you Cash!

Its never "until" its just when they decide to let that crazy side show itself. For some it comes out early, for others (like ex-miss cashmoney) it takes awhile but it was always there.

Thanks! :cool:

Too big of a hassle, rude and it would only give her mother just a another reason to say how bad I am to her in her ear. I can totally just see her mother waiting to see if I ask for it back just so she can say " I told you so."

We're all so cynical today.

Not every woman is a gold digger, not everyone woman is "crazy" (I mean come on...we're all a little crazy, men and women).
Also, no one should be wearing the proverbial pants in the marriage. No one should have an upper hand. A marriage is supposed to be an equal partnership and if anyone goes into a marriage with the thought that they should always be the boss, then of course there are going to be problems and of course it's doomed to fail.

I agree, I came from an egalitarian family. My folks are still together after 24 years. Both have really strong personalities and I doubt they would've stayed together if one "wore the pants".

When I say wearing the pants...i dont mean one person's word is end all be all.....Its just, in my family...my dad makes the money and mom spends it as do the children. So, when there is a decision to be made, dad has the final word. However, thats not to say mom can't convince him at times to change his mind....which she definitely does. Ex-miss-cahmoney on the other hand, wanted her way to be the end all be all to everything and I wasnt raised like that. And frankly, I dont think she was either. Its just her mother has went off the deep end. I told my brother I ought to have her commited to an assylum or go tell the FBI she's been promoting extreme islamic fundalmentalist propoganda publicly in downtown Ft. Lauderdale. :o

Well obviously my view is different on things.

I grew up in a double income house. So any major financial decisions are made by both parents as they are both making the money.

Thats Canada for you.



btw, ever been to the club called Guvernment? I'm going there August 23rd.

Eh? I don't get it. Double income hosueholds aren't just a Canadian thing, nor do I think that it's a Canadian thing to have an equal partnership in marriages.

No, I've never been to the Guvernment, but I have heard of it (there aren't many people in the T Dot who haven't), but it's not my scene.

In the south, in most cases I know of, the one who makes the most money or all the money is usually the one who has a larger say in financial decisions. In the double income households, usually the man has the larger say when it comes to finances. Yet, thats not say the marriage isnt an equal partnership. I know some people in marriages like to think that its an equal thing...but more often than not that isnt the case when it comes to finances. The way I was raised, as were most of my peers, things would go like this: Dad says how much money we can spend while mom decides what we're eating for dinner. Catch what I'm trying to get at? Its equal partnership....just somethings are to left up to a man while others can be left up to a woman.