Sexual Fantasies men and women . .. .
 

I don't know if you have ever discussed fanatsies with your SO before . . .

But I have had past GF's bring it up and they'll ask what my fantasies are and I have to wrack my brains.

I don't think I, and most men, really have fantasies per se . . . I mean we think about sex .. . a lot . . but not in terms of elaborate scenarios like women seem to.

Women have descriptions of scenes, people, props, like little playlets.

So finally I saw Bill Maher comment on this. He said our fantassies just don't mix.

Your fantasies bore us. Our fantasies disgust you.

Because you rarely see a female fantasy playlet where the Handsome PRince runs across a field of green with floating butterflies to the tune of some romantic song and the ejaculates all over her breasts and face.

What can I say, just a difference in the genders :p

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You might be surprised; sometimes women like to get dirty too! ;)

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I had the best mental picture of this until the ejaculating on face part....... oh well :rolleyes:


I think thats soo true though. Most guys have to really dig up for ideas, and most of them are kinda not what girls fantasy's are.

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I would understand why women are repulsed by ejaculate on there faces, except that they happily put other types of gook on there face, and happily keep it on for hours on end.

Yeah the conversation for me goes like this:

"so do you have any fantasies?"
"ummm...I'd kinda like to have sex tonight..."

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Makeup will never seem the same...

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I wasn't thinking about makeup. I was thinking about stuff like this:

http://www.head2toes.co.uk/acatalog/face-pack-01.jpg

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Yes, I think a lot of women are repulsed. Ugh I am.

So what is it about this that guys like???

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I've never found that appealing. I think that some guys might like to sexually mark their territory. This is really popular in Japan, where they have bukake films.

the politically correct term is " skeet skeet"

Don't generalize - lots of us girls have dirty fantasies. I'm not totally against a little "skeet skeet" and handcuffs...

I like tramp-o-lines...

bwahahah....

I've never found skeet skeet to be disgusting. Maybe I'm weird.

^ WEIRD!

just kidding, lol :p ;)

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it's hot b/c:

1.) i'm ejaculating. that's defined succinctly as "A Good Thing."

2.) it's something a little gauche, a little taboo - always A Good Thing.

3.) it's a pretty hot visual - remember, guys are decidedly more visual when it comes to sexual arousal/turn-ons

4.) you hate it, which makes me want to do it more (sex also has a brain-stem, primal component)

5.) it's something out of the ordinary - i know where it's 'supposed' to go, and i like that too, but variety is the spice of life.




Does that help? Now, sororitygirl2 and i have some business to tend to in the pantry, peace on out

"Don't generalize - lots of us girls have dirty fantasies. I'm not totally against a little "skeet skeet" and handcuffs..."

Not trying to generalize. I also have fantasies as well. I'm also not against a little "skeet skeet". For whatever reason I just don't like it on my face.

Thanks KSig RC, your post did help. My bf makes a little more sense. LOL.

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:) :) :)

I am always the last to know about things! No clue about "skeet skeet"...... no clue what that meant.
I also didn't know what the shocker was. Guys kept doing the hand gesture as a joke to me and I had no clue what it was. I DID IT RIGHT BACK TO THEM! LOL ........GOD I'm an idiot! :rolleyes:

Shocker... ha! :)

Shocker... ha! :)

I recommend you try it!

now THAT is fantastic . . . almost as cool as actually doing the shocker (like caviar and fine wine, it doesn't fit everyone's taste, but can be exquisite for a select few)

When in doubt, never return a hand signal. Words to live by.

Guys, help me understand this...

If a guy ejaculates on a girls face won't he:

1) Definately not want to kiss her until she's showered or atleast washed her face off

2) Never look at her the same way again cause he can only see her with his junk on her

:confused:

Adding on to that thought, do guys want to do this with 'random' hookups or their significant other? Just asking cause I really don't think a boyfriend could look at his girlfriend the same way after such an act. Perhaps I'm just crazy. However, I can understand wanting to ejaculate into her mouth, since it's so similar to oral sex.

Back to the question, I don't have lovey-dovey sexual fantasies. I like risky places and I like to get a little porn star-like sometimes. You have to keep your man interested in you, so what's wrong with dressing up in sexy nurse outfits every now and then?! ;)

Guys want girls that are ladies in public and whores in the bed room.

1) Of course. Why would you ask that?? If the guy is OK with it, he should be shot because icing a girl's face is normal but making out with a girl drizzled in it means you're a freak. Those guys probably kiss girls after getting blowjobs.

2) You look at her the same way. Sometimes it might be good to have a mistress for this reason. But whatever. You do it to both girls you just met and girlfriends. Girls you just met are more about slapping her over a couch and giving her the old 1, 2.

-Rudey
--By 1,2 I mean sex a la doggy.

Ah, it's so pleasing to see that schizophrenia is so attractive! :rolleyes:

So is it a double standard?

Or do guys repulsed too when a girl kisses them after hes gone down on her?

I personally have no problem kissing a guy after he's gone down on me.

Why would we get repulsed? The grossness isn't something you'd be giving us. I do find it weird if that happens but hey who am I to disappoint.

-Rudey

I think you are picking the wrong disorder.

ha ha my hubby and his friends in college did the shocker thing all the time. For the longest time I was like huh? I think I am a bit dense when it comes to the sexual terms of things. I dont keep up on the shop talk per say lol... I did laugh when I knew what they were talking about and then when they did those gestures to people who had no clue.

I dont think all girls fantasies are running in a field and all that crap lol. I just dont think all girls have the fantasy of a guys junk all over there boobs. Not that it hasnt happened. I think a lot of girls are open to things. I do agree though guys and girls fantasies are completely diff.

For me it depends on the mood. Some days I want it fast and rough, sometimes I like it slow and passionate, and sometimes I dont want to mess with the foreplay, while other times I cant get enough of it. I just think its the mood. I know I try to accomodate my hubby the best I can.

Only thing I am not into is the whole 3 some thing. I dont share and never will. So I am def not up for that one. I dont think I could be married and be ok with that. Too many feelings involved with that.

I think its a good thing if a guy is open to doing things a girl wants as long as she is open to doing things he wants too.

And chefs in the kitchen. I dated a girl who was amazing in bed, but not exactly monogimous. Also, she liked to use food in bed, but was not a good cook. So, instead of having the ideal whore in bed, lady in the streets, and chef in the kitchen, I had a whore in the streets, lady in the kitchen, and chef in bed.

Now, now Russ. Beggars can't be choosers.

That was below the belt.:p

Sorry :(

I will give you 20 gentleman points for saying she was "not exactly monogamous" rather than "a dirty slut". Way to go! :)

Don't worry about it. So, where are you a chef? ;)

A lady never tells. ;)

Nothing wrong with the "old 1,2" in a relationship either though... sometimes you just want to f**k, and when that's what you want, it's the best! ;)

Im not to clear on what the shocker is, can some one explain?

This link explains about it in detail you shall wish you hadn't come across: http://www.rotten.com/library/langua...inger/shocker/

There're even T-shirts of it. http://www.tshirthell.com/ etc.