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James 05-15-2004 01:50 PM

20 year old sentenced to ten days probation for sex
 
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10-Day Probation Sentence For Sex With 12-Year-Old Angers Victim's Mom
POSTED: 12:29 PM EDT May 14, 2004


SANFORD, Fla. -- A man who pleaded guilty to having sex with a 12-year-old received a penalty much lighter than usual -- 10 days of sex-offender probation -- angering the girl's mother.

Mark Vansandt, 22, of Longwood also was sentenced to four years of conventional probation on an unrelated cocaine charge.

Vansandt pleaded guilty in October to having sex with the girl at his home in August 2002.

Under state sentencing guidelines, Vansandt faced a combined prison sentence of eight to 20 years in the sex and cocaine cases.

But state law allows judges to sharply reduce the penalty against young offenders, and that's what Circuit Judge O.H. Eaton Jr. did Monday.

Eaton said Vansandt "is not a pedophile. He's not a rapist. He's not a violent sex offender," but was an extremely immature man. Vansandt was 20 when he had sex with the girl.

The victim's mother called the sentence "a joke."

"I believe he should spend some time in prison," she said. Her name is being withheld to protect her daughter's identity. "I'm really shocked that the judge is sending out this message to other young men that it's OK to have sex with a 12-year-old, and he'll give you a little slap on the wrist."

Florida Department of Corrections spokesman Sterling Ivey said he'd never heard of a defendant being placed on sex-offender probation for just 10 days.

A defendant placed on sex-offender probation has fewer freedoms than someone on conventional probation. He gets more visits from his probation officer, he must get counseling, he must keep a driving log and he cannot leave home between 10 p.m. and 6 a.m.

Vansandt's attorney, F. Wesley "Buck" Blankner Jr., said the judge was trying to both follow the law and be fair to Vansandt. He called his client "a decent guy."

Despite the short sentence, Vansandt will be permanently identified as a sex offender on the Florida Department of Law Enforcement's Web site.

swissmiss04 05-15-2004 02:06 PM

Yeah, decent guy. :rolleyes:

PlymouthDZ 05-15-2004 03:34 PM

:mad: :mad: :mad: :mad:

yeah.. I bet he's a decent guy :rolleyes:

he should be in therapy and jail for a long time.. sex with a girl about 10 years his younger.. that's not immature that's a sex offender. Uhg.. stories like this make me SO MAD.

James 05-15-2004 03:39 PM

Why? He was convicted, and he pled guilty.

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Originally posted by PlymouthDZ
:mad: :mad: :mad: :mad:

yeah.. I bet he's a decent guy :rolleyes:

he should be in therapy and jail for a long time.. sex with a girl about 10 years his younger.. that's not immature that's a sex offender. Uhg.. stories like this make me SO MAD.


swissmiss04 05-15-2004 03:41 PM

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Originally posted by James
Why? He was convicted, and he pled guilty.
I think the problem is more w/ the fact he was sentenced for a far shorter time than he should be.

PlymouthDZ 05-15-2004 03:52 PM

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Originally posted by James
Why? He was convicted, and he pled guilty.
Yeah, he pled guilty, but still.. that doesn't make it any better..
And it does have to do with the time sentenced. 10days?! That's rediculous. My friend was sentenced for more than that for a lesser crime.

I don't think our country takes sex offenders as serious as they should be. This guy had sex with a 12 year old when he was 20 years old. That's a sex offender (take it or leave it, he is). Who's to say he doesn't do this again to another girl? (Even if she was consenting)

Not only that.. sex offenders aren't kept track of in a sufficient way anyways (in most states).

I just don't agree with the sentence.. more so, he should be in therapy than jail.

James 05-15-2004 04:22 PM

Sex offender legislation was originally intended for predator pedophiles, and by pedophiles we mean pre-pubescents.

ITs been drastically expanded in scope to cover all types of other sexual related crimes.

This girl's mom was on Fox news last night as well as the lawyer for the defense. The girl was consenting and was even angry with her mother for pressing charges.

The reason why the leniency happened was that the girl was considered mature beyond her years. A Court counselor testified to that effect.

So the judge was stuck with a problem. The legislature originally intended such laws to apply to sexual predators and child rapists even though the laws have been applied more widely in various states.

The judge solved the problem by using his discretion in the sentencing. The kid is found guilty but is not put away for years in prison.

Wouldit really have served society to have this guy put away for 4-20 years for having consensual sex with a girl that was already sexually promiscious?

Keep in mind that he will be a registered sex offender for the rest of his life: Good luck getting a job or being accepted to a college.


Quote:

Originally posted by PlymouthDZ
Yeah, he pled guilty, but still.. that doesn't make it any better..
And it does have to do with the time sentenced. 10days?! That's rediculous. My friend was sentenced for more than that for a lesser crime.

I don't think our country takes sex offenders as serious as they should be. This guy had sex with a 12 year old when he was 20 years old. That's a sex offender (take it or leave it, he is). Who's to say he doesn't do this again to another girl? (Even if she was consenting)

Not only that.. sex offenders aren't kept track of in a sufficient way anyways (in most states).

I just don't agree with the sentence.. more so, he should be in therapy than jail.


swissmiss04 05-15-2004 04:34 PM

Quote:

Originally posted by James
Sex offender legislation was originally intended for predator pedophiles, and by pedophiles we mean pre-pubescents.

ITs been drastically expanded in scope to cover all types of other sexual related crimes.

This girl's mom was on Fox news last night as well as the lawyer for the defense. The girl was consenting and was even angry with her mother for pressing charges.

The reason why the leniency happened was that the girl was considered mature beyond her years. A Court counselor testified to that effect.


Keep in mind that he will be a registered sex offender for the rest of his life: Good luck getting a job or being accepted to a college.

So what???!!!! She's 12. TWELVE YEARS OLD. Not old enough to consent, legally speaking. I was mature at 12, but that doesn't mean I could have consented to sex then. This reminds me of the thread about the girl in England that got an abortion. What the hell is a 12 year old doing having sex anyways! Ugh.
Besides, her sexual history is inadmissable in a trial. And I don't give a sh*t if this guy has trouble getting a job or getting into college. He should have thought of that before he screwed around w/ a middle-schooler.

James 05-15-2004 05:38 PM

Well yes, he is guilty. We are arguing the sentence. Would it have been better to put him away for a decade or so in jail?

The kids sexual history wasn't a factor in proving the guy guilt. He pled guilty. The girl's sexual history and maturity was a factor in setencing him because they provided the unique details to his situation.

You guys are awful black and white about stuff. IT must be a comfort to view the world so simply.




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Originally posted by swissmiss04
So what???!!!! She's 12. TWELVE YEARS OLD. Not old enough to consent, legally speaking. I was mature at 12, but that doesn't mean I could have consented to sex then. This reminds me of the thread about the girl in England that got an abortion. What the hell is a 12 year old doing having sex anyways! Ugh.
Besides, her sexual history is inadmissable in a trial. And I don't give a sh*t if this guy has trouble getting a job or getting into college. He should have thought of that before he screwed around w/ a middle-schooler.


Unregistered- 05-15-2004 05:59 PM

First of all, a 20 year old having sex with a 12 year old is just plain wrong. No doubt about it.

But before some of y'all paint a picture of wholesomeness for this 12 year old, it is possible for 12 year old girls to act like hoez and trashy sluts who WANT to have sex.

I agree with James. I don't care if you're 12, 14, or 17. He shouldn't be thrown in jail if the girl's a slut to begin with.

PhiPsiRuss 05-15-2004 06:07 PM

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Originally posted by OohTeenyWahine
He shouldn't be thrown in jail if the girl's a slut to begin with.
Two wrongs don't make a right. Its wrong to rape a prostitute, and its wrong to engage in consensual sex with a slutty 12 year old.

Part of me would like to see this guy castrated, but he should at least go to jail for far longer than 10 days. Besides, we all know that fellow inmates are kind to criminals who commit crimes against children.:rolleyes:

norcalchick 05-15-2004 06:50 PM

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Originally posted by OohTeenyWahine
First of all, a 20 year old having sex with a 12 year old is just plain wrong. No doubt about it.

But before some of y'all paint a picture of wholesomeness for this 12 year old, it is possible for 12 year old girls to act like hoez and trashy sluts who WANT to have sex.

I agree with James. I don't care if you're 12, 14, or 17. He shouldn't be thrown in jail if the girl's a slut to begin with.

did the guy know she was 12??

also, if you've seen the movie "thirteen" you can see what some teenagers are like nowadays... *shaking head* :(

Unregistered- 05-15-2004 06:57 PM

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Originally posted by norcalchick
did the guy know she was 12??

also, if you've seen the movie "thirteen" you can see what some teenagers are like nowadays... *shaking head* :(

Exactly...that's what I was just thinking of.

For the record, I don't think it's okay for an adult to have sex with a child that young, but a few days' probation isn't enough. Letting him rot in jail for years and years and years is unfair...especially if it was consensual.

Age of consent in Hawaii is 14, I believe. My 13 year old niece has friends her age who are EXTREMELY ACTIVE :eek: -- so it's no surprise that it's easy for 12 year olds to go off ho-in around.

AlethiaSi 05-15-2004 08:27 PM

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Originally posted by OohTeenyWahine
Exactly...that's what I was just thinking of.

For the record, I don't think it's okay for an adult to have sex with a child that young, but a few days' probation isn't enough. Letting him rot in jail for years and years and years is unfair...especially if it was consensual.

Age of consent in Hawaii is 14, I believe. My 13 year old niece has friends her age who are EXTREMELY ACTIVE :eek: -- so it's no surprise that it's easy for 12 year olds to go off ho-in around.

yes- i definately agree with OTW- it is hard to balance here between right and wrong- teenagers these days are starting to drink- have sex- do drugs- etc wayy too early- i thought doing those things at 16 was bad... now its at 10, 11, 12... its crazy- and one has to walk a fine line- yes i think what he did was bad- but the judge made his decision- he obviously did what he beleived was fair.... thats the beauty of the justice system

James 05-16-2004 07:36 PM

But Russ, individual situations have to be considered, especially with laws that are supposed to regulate purely social relationships.

Its ok for OTW to have sex with a hot 16 year old, but not with a hot 15 year old the day before he turns 16.

Without a little more scrutiny and the consideration of mitigating factors you have laws that are being enforced in ways that the legislatures did not intend and that defy common sense.

Remember the case where the 18 year old was arrested and charged with statutory rape for having consensual sex with his 15 year old girlfriend that he was going to marry?

We need to stop tossing people in jail for many years just because we gasp in Politically Correct horror.


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Originally posted by PhiPsiRuss
Two wrongs don't make a right. Its wrong to rape a prostitute, and its wrong to engage in consensual sex with a slutty 12 year old.

Part of me would like to see this guy castrated, but he should at least go to jail for far longer than 10 days. Besides, we all know that fellow inmates are kind to criminals who commit crimes against children.:rolleyes:


PhiPsiRuss 05-17-2004 08:54 PM

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Originally posted by James
But Russ, individual situations have to be considered, especially with laws that are supposed to regulate purely social relationships.
She was 12. There is working around that. As for her potential sexual history, I thought that its difficult to get that admitted into court as evidence.

swissmiss04 05-17-2004 09:16 PM

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Originally posted by PhiPsiRuss
She was 12. There is working around that. As for her potential sexual history, I thought that its difficult to get that admitted into court as evidence.
Yep. The law says that no matter the circumstances, a 12 year old can not consent to sex. Nonconsensual sex is either classified as assualt, rape, or molestation, depending on the circumstances.
I'm not saying "castrate the bastard and keep his nuts in a jar" but I am saying that 10 days is too much a light slap on the wrist. Any 20 year old that would have sex w/ a 12 year old has issues. I'd much rather see court mandated therapy for him.
And it usually is (and should be) hard to admit the victim/plantiff's sexual history in court. It shouldn't matter if the victim was the girl next door or a prostitute, rape is rape and should be prosecuted.

abaici 05-17-2004 09:51 PM

I work with this age-group. Yes, their hormones are raging (that's nothing new). However, it is just wrong for an adult to have sex with a child. A 12 year old is still in elementary school. WRONG!!!
Just because they are physically prepared to have sex, does not mean they are mentally ready. I'm sorry, a 12 year old girl (I don't care HOW mature she is) is not capable of dealing with the consequences associated with having sex.

Yes, something's are Black and White. This is one of them.

James 05-17-2004 09:56 PM

We aren't arguing that something was wrong. We are arguing with the sentence. I think getting the shit kicked out of him might have been a lot more educational than probation or even incarceration.

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Originally posted by abaici
I work with this age-group. Yes, their hormones are raging (that's nothing new). However, it is just wrong for an adult to have sex with a child. A 12 year old is still in elementary school. WRONG!!!
Just because they are physically prepared to have sex, does not mean they are mentally ready. I'm sorry, a 12 year old girl (I don't care HOW mature she is) is not capable of dealing with the consequences associated with having sex.

Yes, something's are Black and White. This is one of them.


Munchkin03 05-17-2004 10:27 PM

Quote:

Originally posted by James
We aren't arguing that something was wrong. We are arguing with the sentence. I think getting the shit kicked out of him might have been a lot more educational than probation or even incarceration.
I think the fact that he is a registered sex offender, which will follow him around for the rest of his life--he will not even be able to move into an area without his future neighbors' knowlegde, is a very reasonable punishment.

Had the girl been a little older, you could use the argument that it wasn't completely black and white. A 15 year old he had been dating for a while, who was about to turn 16--yes, I would be a little wary of giving him any major punishment. But, this was a 12 year old. Wrong wrong wrong.

aurora_borealis 05-17-2004 10:28 PM

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Originally posted by swissmiss04
Yep. The law says that no matter the circumstances, a 12 year old can not consent to sex. Nonconsensual sex is either classified as assualt, rape, or molestation, depending on the circumstances.
I'm not saying "castrate the bastard and keep his nuts in a jar" but I am saying that 10 days is too much a light slap on the wrist. Any 20 year old that would have sex w/ a 12 year old has issues. I'd much rather see court mandated therapy for him.
And it usually is (and should be) hard to admit the victim/plantiff's sexual history in court. It shouldn't matter if the victim was the girl next door or a prostitute, rape is rape and should be prosecuted.

I just finished a semester long course on Abnormal Psychology of Children and Adolescents, and the last section was on abuse...so please be patient with me.

Perhaps the girl (and other teens and preteens that are using drugs, drinking and having sex so early) should get therapy too. There are reasons these kids are behaving this way. This isn't accurate for all situations, but MANY young girls/teens that act out like this, are doing so as a result of abuse/neglect/assault. Maybe she has had multiple partners but she is still a victim at 12, and blaming the victim isn't right, she needs help.

Also I know there have been media campaigns to educate young men 18-25 about the dangers of sleeping with underagers and statutory rape. He is the legal adult and should have checked her ID, talked with her parent, something, to protect himself from being a registered sex offender the rest of his life.

When it comes to a legal adult, and a preteen, even if she wanted to, and had done it before, it is a power relationship and is always wrong. 10 days is not nearly enough time, when there are other men put away for eyars, for being with someone a year younger. A 12 year old, that is just disgusting.

starang21 05-17-2004 10:50 PM

wow.....this is ridiculous, this guy gets 20 days...and marcus dixon gets 15 years. what the hell is going on? talk about SEVERE injustice.

James 05-17-2004 10:59 PM

I agree. Its part of the feminization of America that we react Viscerally vs. logically.

OMG, look what he DID! He should be KILLED!

Quote:

Originally posted by starang21
wow.....this is ridiculous, this guy gets 20 days...and marcus dixon gets 15 years. what the hell is going on? talk about SEVERE injustice.

starang21 05-17-2004 11:02 PM

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Originally posted by James
I agree. Its part of the feminization of America that we react Viscerally vs. logically.

OMG, look what he DID! He should be KILLED!

nah, not really...because i think that marcus dixon is a victim of injustice.

abaici 05-17-2004 11:19 PM

As the thread turns...

Starang...As the great sage of our day JLo said, "Ain't it Funny"
http://www.click-smilies.de/sammlung...smiley-034.gif

@ James

I believe in working within our judicial system. Therefore, a good ole fashioned ass whopping would not be in order. He deserves to be punished to the fullest extent of the law. 10 days was a slap on the wrist.

starang21 05-17-2004 11:24 PM

Quote:

Originally posted by abaici
As the thread turns...

Starang...As the great sage of our day JLo said, "Ain't it Funny"
http://www.click-smilies.de/sammlung...smiley-034.gif

@ James

I believe in working within our judicial system. Therefore, a good ole fashioned ass whopping would not be in order. He deserves to be punished to the fullest extent of the law. 10 days was a slap on the wrist.

ain't it, though. talk about perspective here. which is worse, 12 vs. 20, or 15 and 18? because if you're thinking the former.....the sentencing differential has to be the most ridiculous thing i've ever seen. talk about taking a young, promising man's dream away.

James 05-18-2004 04:18 PM

A boy was given sentenced to 8 years in prison becaue his girlfriend was 4 years and 10 days younger than him. 18 and 14 respectively.

4 years is the cut off time. So that 10 day difference did him in. They were in a normal consensual relationship but the parents didn't like him, because the daughter refused to stop seeing him, the pressed charges thinking it would scare him away, not realizing that once the law took over it would be very serious.

The parents even stood up in court and said they never intended this.

The sentencing judge tried to give him 4 years instead of 8, saying 8 was cruel and unusual punishment, but the prosecutor appealed wanting the full sentence carried out.

I guess that would satisfy some of the responders on this thread.

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Originally posted by starang21
ain't it, though. talk about perspective here. which is worse, 12 vs. 20, or 15 and 18? because if you're thinking the former.....the sentencing differential has to be the most ridiculous thing i've ever seen. talk about taking a young, promising man's dream away.

PhiPsiRuss 05-18-2004 08:13 PM

Quote:

Originally posted by abaici
Yeah, 10 days was a slap on the wrist.
10 days isn't a jail sentence. Its about how much time I need in bed after a wicked bad hangover.

starang21 05-18-2004 08:16 PM

Quote:

Originally posted by PhiPsiRuss
10 days isn't a jail sentence. Its about how much time I need in bed after a wicked bad hangover.
damn, 10 days huh? whatchu drinking on?

PhiPsiRuss 05-18-2004 08:40 PM

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Originally posted by starang21
damn, 10 days huh? whatchu drinking on?
Tequila and Jagermeister drunk to near alcohol poisening can do just that.;)


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