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moe.ron 04-06-2004 12:34 PM

Prostitution - Yea or Nay?
 
(1) Have you ever hired a prostitute
(2) If so, why?
(3) If not, why not?
(4) If you were thinking about it, would you hire more then one?

honeychile 04-06-2004 12:56 PM

No to all of your questions. I know three former prostitutes. Two were literally sold to pimps when they were 14-15, and the other one's "boyfriend" forced her into it. All three are now married to men who know of their pasts - men for whom I have tremendous respect.

Can't say that I could EVER see prostitution as a victimless crime!

PhiPsiRuss 04-06-2004 01:01 PM

Re: Prostitution - Yea or Nay?
 
Quote:

Originally posted by moe.ron
(1) Have you ever hired a prostitute
(2) If so, why?
(3) If not, why not?
(4) If you were thinking about it, would you hire more then one?

1) No
2) N/A
3) Seems slimy, and don't really have the need. However, I would like to get married one day, and marriage is probably a form of prostitution.
4) Why not

And it is a victemless crime when performed by a consenting adult. That some will force someone to do anything, should not negate an adult's right to choose that behavior.

honeychile 04-06-2004 01:10 PM

Re: Re: Prostitution - Yea or Nay?
 
Quote:

Originally posted by PhiPsiRuss
1) No
2) N/A
3) Seems slimy, and don't really have the need. However, I would like to get married one day, and marriage is probably a form of prostitution.
4) Why not

And it is a victemless crime when performed by a consenting adult. That some will force someone to do anything, should not negate an adult's right to choose that behavior.

By your responses, you admit that you do not know any prostitutes. One hundred percent of those I do know were not consenting parties to prostitution. How do you know how many adults truly consent to selling their bodies?

decadence 04-06-2004 01:11 PM

Quote:

Originally posted by moe.ron:
(1) Have you ever hired a prostitute
(2) If so, why?
(3) If not, why not?
(4) If you were thinking about it, would you hire more then one?
1) No
2) N/A
3) Assuming a) I was not with/could not be with anyone else and b) wanted something other than solo sex - I'd end up feeling like I could only get sex if I paid for it if I did that (be bad for my esteem). I don't think it's a good option for people who want to learn more about sex either; they'd probably be better off looking at sexual surrogacy rather than assisted masturbation with a prostitute.
4) IF I was? I suppose?.

PhiPsiRuss 04-06-2004 01:15 PM

Re: Re: Re: Prostitution - Yea or Nay?
 
Quote:

Originally posted by honeychile
By your responses, you admit that you do not know any prostitutes. One hundred percent of those I do know were not consenting parties to prostitution. How do you know how many adults truly consent to selling their bodies?
100% of a sampling of 3? That hardly makes anyone an expert. There is a difference between forced behavior, and consensual behavior. You are correlating all prostitution to forced behavior. In those cases where this happens, it should be illegal. In those cases where a woman wants to make $5,000/week turning tricks, I'd rather that it be legal, regulated, and taxed.

Rudey 04-06-2004 01:46 PM

Re: Prostitution - Yea or Nay?
 
Quote:

Originally posted by moe.ron
(1) Have you ever hired a prostitute
(2) If so, why?
(3) If not, why not?
(4) If you were thinking about it, would you hire more then one?

Yes to all. And I love them. I met AXJules when she was being rented out by a leper in Calcutta for 1 rupee. She was so charming, I forgot about her torrid past.

-Rudey

sigtau305 04-06-2004 03:08 PM

Re: Prostitution - Yea or Nay?
 
Quote:

Originally posted by moe.ron
(1) Have you ever hired a prostitute
(2) If so, why?
(3) If not, why not?
(4) If you were thinking about it, would you hire more then one?

1.) no
2.) n/a
3.) not that desperate
4.) No.

James 04-06-2004 09:45 PM

Re: Prostitution - Yea or Nay?
 
1. No.
2. N/A
3. The opportunity hasn't conveniently presented itself.
4. Yuppers

I have met several prostitutes . . . I am not sure how exploited they were, they made a lot of money.





Quote:

Originally posted by moe.ron
(1) Have you ever hired a prostitute
(2) If so, why?
(3) If not, why not?
(4) If you were thinking about it, would you hire more then one?


preciousjeni 04-06-2004 11:25 PM

Quote:

Originally posted by honeychile
No to all of your questions. I know three former prostitutes. Two were literally sold to pimps when they were 14-15, and the other one's "boyfriend" forced her into it. All three are now married to men who know of their pasts - men for whom I have tremendous respect.

Can't say that I could EVER see prostitution as a victimless crime!

I too knew a prostitute who used to live in Detroit. She came to Atlanta to escape and was promised a place at her brother's. When she got here, her brother decided that he didn't want her around, so she kinda got back into what she was doing. When I met her at a party, we talked for a long time...tears were involved and I offered to help her. As far as I know, she's ok now though I haven't talked to her in a long time. She lived with me for a few months until she figured out what to do.

decadence 04-06-2004 11:29 PM

I saw the film 'Monster' recently (Christina Ricci, Charlize Theron). Not ultra related to theme of this thread so just a passing comment.

crystalline 04-07-2004 10:01 PM

Re: Prostitution - Yea or Nay?
 
Quote:

Originally posted by moe.ron
(1) Have you ever hired a prostitute
(2) If so, why?
(3) If not, why not?
(4) If you were thinking about it, would you hire more then one?

1. No
2. n/a
3. Never had the need.
4. Sure. The more the merrier.;)

James 04-07-2004 10:16 PM

I think legalized controlled prostitution is a great idea.

It might be a nice social lubricant.

AXJules 04-07-2004 10:25 PM

Re: Re: Prostitution - Yea or Nay?
 
Quote:

Originally posted by Rudey
Yes to all. And I love them. I met AXJules when she was being rented out by a leper in Calcutta for 1 rupee. She was so charming, I forgot about her torrid past.

-Rudey

Baby I only spoke to you b/c of that kickin' wheelchair you sported.

So to answer the Q:
Prostitution?? IT BRINGS PEOPLE TOGETHER!!!!

Rudey 04-07-2004 10:26 PM

Re: Re: Re: Prostitution - Yea or Nay?
 
Quote:

Originally posted by AXJules
Baby I only spoke to you b/c of that kickin' wheelchair you sported.

So to answer the Q:
Prostitution?? IT BRINGS PEOPLE TOGETHER!!!!

It was a rickshaw and you gave me more than one rupee's worth because you'd never seen a wheel before.

-Rudey

AXJules 04-07-2004 10:28 PM

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Quote:

Originally posted by Rudey
It was a rickshaw and you gave me more than one rupee's worth because you'd never seen a wheel before.

-Rudey

Dude what do you think I needed the money for?? A RICKSHAW OF MY OWN!!

XOMichelle 04-08-2004 04:47 PM

prostitution sucks. It's happened forever and will proabbly continue happening, but it still sucks
-M

PhiPsiRuss 04-08-2004 05:14 PM

Quote:

Originally posted by XOMichelle
prostitution sucks.
$50?

ztabchbum 04-08-2004 06:19 PM

Question to everyone. Would/Do you consider an "Escort" a "Prostitute"? Why or why not?

PhiPsiRuss 04-08-2004 07:01 PM

Quote:

Originally posted by ztabchbum
Question to everyone. Would/Do you consider an "Escort" a "Prostitute"? Why or why not?
An escort, as I believe that profession is normally practiced, is definitely prostitution. The escorts get money, and the clients get sex.

AXJules 04-08-2004 07:12 PM

What's the difference between the two? I always thought of an escort as a prostitute that travelled with the client, and usually involved a lot more money.

PhiPsiRuss 04-08-2004 07:14 PM

Quote:

Originally posted by AXJules
What's the difference between the two? I always thought of an escort as a prostitute that travelled with the client, and usually involved a lot more money.
I think that escorts are just a better class of whores. They don't walk the streets, and don't dress sleazy, and they cost a lot more money.

AXJules 04-08-2004 07:57 PM

See, that's what I thought too.

But if prostitution is illegal, how can there be escort ads all over the Yellow Pages and in the back of local magazines?

PhiPsiRuss 04-08-2004 07:59 PM

Quote:

Originally posted by AXJules
See, that's what I thought too.

But if prostitution is illegal, how can there be escort ads all over the Yellow Pages and in the back of local magazines?

They don't mention the sex in the ads. Its a wink-wink sort of thing.

Most people don't object to escorts, as opposed to streetwalkers, because they don't see them, and their children don't see them.

sigtau305 04-08-2004 08:50 PM

Quote:

Originally posted by ztabchbum
Question to everyone. Would/Do you consider an "Escort" a "Prostitute"? Why or why not?
it's prostitution but in a much higher and Classier way.

preciousjeni 04-08-2004 10:33 PM

Quote:

Originally posted by AXJules
See, that's what I thought too.

But if prostitution is illegal, how can there be escort ads all over the Yellow Pages and in the back of local magazines?

Prostitution is not completely illegal in all states! Don't forget!!

James 04-08-2004 10:36 PM

Works pretty well in Nevada it seems . . . don't forget the IRS ran a brother for a number of years.

Quote:

Originally posted by preciousjeni
Prostitution is not completely illegal in all states! Don't forget!!

James 04-08-2004 10:49 PM

There is a cost benefit analysis involved. . .

At first an escort or prostitute is cheaper than a GF/wife in terms of money and time invested.

But over time, the opportunity cost of a prostitute far exceeds the cost for the steady sex offererd by a GF/wife . . .

Although, the mental investment and possible emotional cost through bad drama is much lower with the proffessional sex-giver. . .

Hrmm . . I guess the limiting income is money. Can you afford steady sex with a Pro.

I imagine thats why many young millionaire playboys don't get married. They can afford the proffessional service and take advantage of that.

PhiPsiRuss 04-08-2004 11:01 PM

Quote:

Originally posted by preciousjeni
Prostitution is not completely illegal in all states! Don't forget!!
Right. Its called marriage.:p

ztabchbum 04-09-2004 10:52 AM

Just some more food for thought. Not all escorts provide sex, or anything sexual for that matter. A lot of times it's dinner dates with execs.

decadence 04-09-2004 10:58 AM

The distinction between the terms was also discussed in this thread. :)

James 04-09-2004 04:12 PM

Thats because they didn't pay the extra . or admit to it . . . I know someone that runs an escort service.

Quote:

Originally posted by ztabchbum
Just some more food for thought. Not all escorts provide sex, or anything sexual for that matter. A lot of times it's dinner dates with execs.

Rudey 04-09-2004 04:32 PM

They're all a bunch of two bit whores. come on people.

The reason prostitution is not legalized is not a moral issue. It has to do with what crimes accompany prostitution. With an escort that does outcalls, that crime is often not there or a lot less of a problem so people don't complain to the pigs as much.

-Rudey

crystalline 04-09-2004 05:40 PM

Quote:

Originally posted by AXJules
What's the difference between the two? I always thought of an escort as a prostitute that travelled with the client, and usually involved a lot more money.
With an escort, you are paying for her time and her company. She is under no obligation to sleep with or perform sexual favors for the client. If she likes him, sex may occur, but sex isn't included in the price.

crystalline 04-09-2004 05:41 PM

Quote:

Originally posted by PhiPsiRuss
Right. Its called marriage.:p
:p Good one!

kstar 04-10-2004 12:10 AM

Re: Prostitution - Yea or Nay?
 
Quote:

Originally posted by moe.ron
(1) Have you ever hired a prostitute
(2) If so, why?
(3) If not, why not?
(4) If you were thinking about it, would you hire more then one?

No, I haven't hired a prostitute, because I don't particularly want a criminal record. If it were legal, sure I would hire one. Maybe more than one.

honeychile 04-10-2004 12:23 AM

Quote:

Originally posted by PhiPsiRuss
I think that escorts are just a better class of whores. They don't walk the streets, and don't dress sleazy, and they cost a lot more money.
So what can possibly be classy about renting one's sexual parts to a stranger with enough money?

Come on, people, in real life, prostitution isn't Pretty Woman!!

PhiPsiRuss 04-10-2004 09:41 AM

Quote:

Originally posted by honeychile
So what can possibly be classy about renting one's sexual parts to a stranger with enough money?
Please don't paraphrase me out of context. I didn't write, "classy." I wrote "better class," as in a higher socio-economic standing.

honeychile 04-10-2004 01:02 PM

Quote:

Originally posted by PhiPsiRuss
Please don't paraphrase me out of context. I didn't write, "classy." I wrote "better class," as in a higher socio-economic standing.
Oh, I get it. Like the difference between skanky and disgusting? :rolleyes:

Rudey 04-10-2004 01:10 PM

Quote:

Originally posted by honeychile
Oh, I get it. Like the difference between skanky and disgusting? :rolleyes:
\
LOL There is a difference i'd like to add. I don't date disgusting...but skanky i might be ok with.

-Rudey


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